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Suicide is not the answer.

Please lay down and relax. I will listen to you. (*He sat at the desk and took a notes and a pen*).
Please tell me: What is so wrong with pale gents to do not consider any of them good for a relation?

You are my master maham.
I can only learn from you. Now, please go back to the topic and give me your two cent about what I am asking.
Did you ever been in love with pal boy?

Human istinct is the same as in wildlife.
Woman looks for the strongest man who can grant the survival of childrens, which is nowadays the richest one.

Apart from "NOSEX" rule I think she has good points.

So don't let him ask you to choose. When he says "I understand if you leave me" he is just avoiding to take decision.
Ask him to decide and take that before to get too deep.

That is a good reason to divorce and i am sure is a good reason to do not get involved again. Aren't you offering anything better?

Bad situation. Do you know why they broke?
I have been married for 13 years, luckily i have no children which has made separation easy (actually that was the main reason for my divorce).
You can understand that when you live with a person for such a long time is hard to forget everything.
However, the reason they broke was surely important and surely was a difficult decision. Start from this point.
Understand the reason they divorced, and check yourself if you think this reason will be strong enough to keep him far from the ex wife.

He has been honest with you telling the truth. Ask him to be even more honest to understand your point of view.

Thank you mutter.
Please elaborate the "achieve what they aspire", Help me to understand this point.
Simply and directly please.

Maybe you are not gay and neither you are etero. What about being a priest? you believe in God? you feel "the Call"?

Is not a must to marry her.
It is a must to grant the education and health of the baby will born.

@D-Sense
I told you here before that I know africans owning companies or activities here in Italy.
The fact is that we are talking of a small, small, small part of the immigrant population who is coming to Italy with the hope to get a job.
Here are some data I found on internet from statistical institutes:

Number of REGULAR immigrants in Italy (census year 2009): 3.900.000 (population of Italy is 57.000.000)
Total of immigrants from West Africa: 265.000 (Senegal, Nigeria, Ghana)
Mainly immigration in Italy is from Romania, Albania, Morocco.

34% of the total population of immigrants is working as Nurce, or Domestic Assistant. This is mostly done by Romanian and Albanian women.
25% are employed as generic workers in factories, waitress, chamber maids in hotel, cook assistant in restaurant, cleaners, etc.
14% are owners of a company such as plumbers, or building industry or owners of sales shops (Ethnyc import, hairdresser, etc.).
9% are unemployed
the remaining are worker in agriculture.

I am in love too

Heya Mrs,
Well at least I managed to don't give coins,
Not bad for a newby uh?

Well, at least she tried to tell you, on her own way.

I am actually dating the exact person I dreamt of. I even have drawn her years before I met her.
She wants a family I want a family. She is cool, she is hot, she is perfect.

Unfortunatley the context itself is not the ideal since is a distance relation. Nothing is perfect in life,

I personally love tatoos and piercing.
I myself have tatooes and I found very exiting tatoos (big tatoos) on women.

If I love I can live with the fact she has a baby from a previous partner.
I cannot live with lies. What else she didn't told me? What else will she hide in future?
He should not have learnt this thing from gossips. She should have told him about the kid.

Is not only she ought to have told you but also she confessed only after you heard of the baby from outside.
Could she even live with you without telling she had a baby before??
I would not trust her anymore in my life if happened to me.

Uhm, for sure both moving to another country to establish our own business should be seriously considered.
Senegal is one the place I believe I would like to have my activity, but open a resort is far beyond my possibilities,

@Mrs. Chima - Do I Professed to be the only white loving a black woman?
My english should be really bad then.
The picture in your profile is you? If not, it explain your attitude toward "White men professing on Nairaland" very well.
Kisses.

Believe it or not Mrs. Chima I have been there for one week and I have met three girls who said the same thing to me.
One were introduced to me by his cousing whom I have business with.
One I met at the airport and we just chat few minutes then we shared the phone numbers and we keep talking at the phone from time to time.
The other one was dining at the hotel and we just spoke with few drinks. I had no sex with any of them and I just paid few drinks.
Whores were there also, but they were quite direct just ask to sleep with me for money and not talking bout Nigerian men.

edit: Did I misunderstood the term "hoes"?