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Infidelity. This time I kill for it.

From God or Satan, who cares? Angel or Siren,
Who cares, if you make, — fay with the velvet eyes,
Rhythm, perfume, glimmer; my one and only queen!
The world less hideous, the minutes less leaden?

Sorry Mrs. Chima, I was supposing you were cooking yourself all that cookies you give me.

@Mrs. Chima
In Italy when a woman cooks for a man she gives him a sign of love. .

@Ink
It will not be so soon. You can sleep, no worry  

Not yet married,  and not be married in the next one or two years at least,

And I was just asking somebody to share experiences, but I head to the cookie instead, which was good.

Nope. She's from Benin.

I am a white man, engaged with a black lady and I have a cookie to share with you.
Mrs. Chima gave me some days ago.

I must go back to year 2000.
I was married that time and I falled in love for a colleague of mine.
We were dating, hiddenly for maybe six months or so. Telepathy, Sense of Humor, Good Chemistry, Sex, everything was great, exept that I was married.
She start to ask to break my wedding since the beggining, then when she realised I was not intended to do (I was loving my wife, believe it or not) she broke the relation.
I remember this like yesterday. I was in Morocco to a business trip, and she was not replying to my messages and phone calls.
I called in office asking for her and I have been told she resigned the day before and nobody knew where she was.
No more news from her for 8 years.
One day, years after being separate from my wife I decided to send her an email, just to try. She replied the same day sending me a picture of her wedding. She was so cute in the Spouse Dress! However, the message was clear.
Few months ago she contacted me by email saying she was desperate because the marriage was bad, husband was cheating her and she was breaking the marriage, after less then 2 years or so. We start chatting for two months thenwe decided to see eachother. She separated from the hubby in the meantime, and I was coming out from a bad relation with another woman. So clear land! Finally, no dark stories, just a potential genuine love story!
We decide to see each other (FIRST TIME AFTER 10 years) and I invited her for a dinner, Well the fact was that we remembered the old time and we had fun talking and telling each own life, but chemistry was not the same anymore. Too much water passed under the bridge, we say in Italy.
Now I call her from time to time, but just as friends.
That's is my Missed Story.

I have many scars, under my skin.

Turn me off in a Woman: Uncoerent thinking. Unlogical speak.
Turn me on: Brilliant Mind, Brilliant glance.

Black skin is a plus.

I don't believe in fotogenic people.
A good fotografer is good because before to make a service speaks with the person, and undertand the mud which gives a natural look. Then is able to prepare the atmosphere to make the things looks better.
That's why they are pro and we are not.

Yes. My actual GF looks lightyears better than in pictures.
I always been good to take pictures but I spent hours in photo session without get a picture which is as good as she really is.

EDIT: I am WYSIWYG.

I find some scars exiting. Scars tell stories of life.
Of course with limits, due to common sense. .

I was not meant to be aggressive!
I simply pointed out that I strongly believe we are all faking a little bit in the beggining, trying to make more green the grass.
Personally when I see a woman with lot of makeup, fake b, bs and extra displayed goodies I feel she is on the "pay for sex" side more than on the "I want to marry you" side. . but I am not a teenager anymore.

Unless you are on your teenage I don't really get your point.
Isn't true you put hearrings, a nice dress, some paint on your face to go out? Are you faking that way?
Are you expecting to date the man of your life without make any efforts to look a little attractive?
Are you not faking when you smile and thank you the person who said "you are so beautyful tonite" when you know you don't sleep since 6am and menstrual issue are devasting your stomach and you feel all but beauty?
What is faking? Being nice is faking? You change into a vampire after a month of wedding?
Do you really think we don't know your b.o.o.b.s. will fall at the age of 40?
Do you think we don't know about fake nails and bullsh.ts like this?
The first approach in a relation is visual, unless you stick with internet appointments which will anyway finish with sending pictures before to meet.
So what it means fake?

Edit. What Ms. Potato is saying has nothing to do with faking. She has problems herself.

Much better if she is not! You will not have to face with hurting problems,

Why don't you check who is really infertile? If is you then she can pose the question on the forum.
Seriously why are you assuming she has the problem? Statistically is 50%-50%, so you should check this before.

I did it!
And believe me your toy will work better.

Hi there,
Is it that common that a man, usually friend of one of the parents sustain economically one family?
I ask because is not the first time I heard of this and i have a person close to me who has grown that way.
This is very difficult to understand (for me at least) without considering extra involving on the family relation by this person such as real paternity or something like this. Can you please explain me how this works?

Thank you.