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Courting and/or just dating someone is among the best feeling anyone could have. When the relationship is without flaws, it’s even better. How can you make your relationship as flawless as possible? What are the best ways in maintaining relationships? Read this post

In maintaining relationships, there are two major attributes both parties should express

Both parties need

Communication

To make a relationship flowing and active, both parties should communicate frequently. Find interesting topics so they’d know each other better. Both should make sure their conversations are flowing well and interesting.

Trust

Trust is very important. There’s a saying that if nobody talks about you, you’re nobody. Simply said, what if someone says something untrue about you to your fiancée? How would the case be settled amicably? It can easily be resolved if there’s trust in the relationship. One shouldn’t allow side talks to lead the relationship. If you must, just observe him/her but without suspicion.

These are the two major keys to keep the relationship flowing but there are still many ways

Other ways to maintaining relationships

Be open-minded

If you’ve got something bothering you, perhaps someone’s disturbing you, don’t hesitate to discuss it with your lover. If your lover asks you anything about the past (maybe something you’re not proud of), say nothing but the truth for there lies the relationship.

Be truthful

Continuing the above, it’s important you know that anything that happened to you, and how you express it is what hangs the love in the relationship. For example you’ve once lied about yourself to your lover, he/she loves you that way. If in the future you’re exposed, the love would fall. If this is the case, the best solution is to start afresh.

Tell others about the relationship

This is actually a trick. Am not talking about the problems you face cause it’s better you solve your problems alone. What am saying is that if you guys are dating, tell others. If more people know that you’re dating, you won’t easily break up. The reason is that you’ll feel you have to explain to everyone why you guys broke up one after the other.
Apart from that, when others knows you’re dating, you’ll cuddle and express your love better while at public since you’ve got nothing to hide.

Be lovely and romantic

Calling pet names to each other boosts the happiness within. Kissing and cuddling on the other hand, shows your expression of love towards each other. If both parties know that their love is mutual, the relationship would grow better.

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Pride can mean viewing yourself higher than others. As the opposite of humility being proud implies that you’re viewing others lower than your level. This post would cite what would happen to you when proud and what it leads to. [ 569 more words ]

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There are boys and girls everywhere but not all who claim to have boyfriends or girlfriends are actually in a real relationship. Sometimes, I view the relationship between some people as parasitic meanwhile it should be mutuality. This post would teach how you as a girl, would know who's for just sex or relationship.

Sex or relationship

I focus mainly on how to tell if a guy loves you for sex or really has true love for you. You can know if the relationship would work or it's just for his benefit by the way he first approached you. If a guy just meets you today and starts wooing you, he's just for what you've got. A cool guy who has value for you would have inferiority complex when around you if he hasn't told you his mind. A cool guy allows time to pass before telling you his intentions. A real man would use time to study you if you've got the right attitude before he'll approach you.

With these facts, any guy who just approaches you while walking is just looking at what you've got.

Boy's are generally flirts and would always want new girlfriends. You'll know a real guy if he sticks with you. You'll know he sticks with you when he's jealous when you're around other boys.

You can know if a boy is matured enough to date you with the information above. Now as a warning, please girls, know that it's a relationship and not a job opportunity. Please don't always find ways to collect money from your boyfriends. Allow them use their money to invest on meaningful items and not just creams.

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I've been blogging for a while now, most importantly, I've tried other jobs as well so i I've been able to compare.

This post doesn't fall on the niche i blog about though so let me just share it here(This doesn't mean you should just copy).

Here are a few (of the thousand) advantages of blogging over other jobs

1. Age restriction
We all know that someone can't continue doing all kinds of work when old. Take engineering for instance. How can an old man handle car engines n all n all? Or tailoring. People (younger generation) wouldn't want to patronize this guy cause he's too old and they'll get the impression that he's off-trend. Blogging however is different. Blogging isn't a hard job to do and most people don't even know the owners of websites they visit. So age is an advantage of blogging over many other jobs

2. Limit of creativity
Sorry tailors but i want to use you guys as an example again. Tailoring, as we all know, is a profession that is almost fully reliant on creativity. However, some people are kinda too creative and they may be ridiculed. Examples of these are people who decide to use a color of thread to sew another color or people who put zip In places where it shouldn't be. You see? Even if tailoring is creativity, it's not all the time that it'll call for it. Blogging however, is different. Bloggers all know that 'it's their site, it's their rules'. For website visitors, if you're not comfortable with how a site operates, you've got no option than to leave.

3. Immobility
Blogging is better than almost all professions for this reason. They're able to change locations freely and at will. A school owner and a pastor would be afraid cause they may loose all their members if they change locations. Bloggers can change locations at will and even if they want to change their website, they only need to automatically redirect visitors from the previous website to the new one.

4. Exposure
The world is made up of billions of people. Other professions find it harder to reach a large amount of people but bloggers(no matter what they blog about), get visitors from different countries. Even if they blog about news in Nigeria, they'll still get visitors from around the globe. You see? Bloggers know lots of people and vice versa

5. Passion
Blogging is about passion and what you like. You can't be a painter and paint houses a color just cause you love that color neither can you be a tailor and always sew elastic waistband cause you love them. When you're into other professions, you act in harmony with what your customers want. In blogging however, it's the other way around. It's what you blog about that'll bring people. If you love nature, you'll blog about it and people who love nature would visit your site. That's how it is.

See? Blogging is better than many other professions.

Source: this isn't my niche so i didn't publish it anywhere else but here.

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