Thank you eagertoknow ........and no I did not give him the money.......he's a crook......he's all smiles and friendliness when you meet him and you think he's the nicest person in the world.....then when he got you its the opposite......sooner or later he will have to answer in court ......I'm not afraid nor will I give up

February 26th

I forgave but I never can forget.........never ever would trust him again

We used to sing that song when I was a kid in Germany

"Happy Birthday"

I am so sorry about your loss

I registered the business in my name only in the UK (Question Info.com Ltd)...I still have the papers to proof it.....then when I came with my husband the 1st time to Lagos I noticed that he already had a business with the same name at his parents house in Apapa.....clever of him....then I found in his papers a business card with his name and my business printed on it with UK address and phone number of his girlfriend...so they must have planed that together to dupe me.....I just want to get divorced soon and then I can put criminal charges on him....its not easy to get divorce done when having no money but I am getting there

And yes Coogar my husband is a scammer to....you can read my story here on nairaland.....I made the mistake to marry him...when I found out what ascumbag he is it was to late.....he took everything I had.....but now I'm ready to fight back and he knows it.....

I met my husband on the internet....I learned my lesson the hard way....take ur time and check out the person you met very careful...and yeah just like this scammer Nwankwo Odira my husband has differend names to...when i found out it was to late.....on the other hand bad people are everywhere not only in Nigeria

I checked on facebook.....I typed in one of his email addresses.....odiaerospace@yahoo.co.uk....his name is Nwankwo Odira there.....his profile picture is cut off so you can't see his face......I have a similar case posted here on nairaland but mine is my husband who frauded me.....I hope the guy looking for will be caught

You welcome

Try to contact the Nigeria Network of NGos....go to nnngo.org or email them at nnngo@nnngo.org....or try BAOBAB for Woman's Human Rights...they are in Victoria Island Lagos...baobab@baobabwoman.org....mobile 08023330981....sorry I searched for Benin City but could not find anything...I hope this will help

merry Xmas

Thank you poster

What goes around comes around Tyusuffa.Eventually they will get what they deserve.

Thank you Samtoye I so appreciate it. Besides Tyusuffa and a few other people you understand whats going on. Its not that easy to get justice when living in the US but I am getting there slowly. And yes I made a mistake but it can happen to anybody. I just wanted a good husband but he turned out to be the worst coldhearted evil person.

And Tyusuffa thank you for you commend.... . Kobojunkie You say file for banktruptcy and move on. That does not do anything good and it means letting Okoli getting away with that. No way. You cannot discourage me. I'll keep on fighting it .

I guess u the one who is insulting people....if u don't have anything nice to say then say nothing.....u can't hurt me with ur insults...ur the one who has a problem

Thank u poster

Thank you 2Much I will keep on fighting. Nobody can talk me out of this.And once again I am not obsessed with Okoli.I want justice and him in jail.Want to move on in life, being happy and be able to breathe again. If I allow Okoli to get away with this there will be no hope for other people in similar situation. Okoli has family and friends here in the states and he is watching me. If I give up there will be no end to it.

i just explained that to you....I AM NOT OBSESSED~WITH OKOLI NOR DO I WANT HIM BACK.....I already moved on with that long time ago.....I want back what he took from me and its not that easy.

You don't get it kobojunkie don't u?

I can't Kobojunkie. I don't want to stay married to Okoli besides that ive lost everything.I am deep in debt because of him and can't get out of it. I'll keep fighting it till its done. But thank you anyway for ur commend. I appreciate it.

Neliaperez made the commend not u Ifyalways.....im sure Tyussuffa did made error.....he did not mean it

Ifyalways I don't care if it has been 20 years past the issue.As a matter of fact it was 2004 when it started. What is the fact that Okoli has taken everything from me and left me with nothing. Thats why I sold my car and wnet back in 2006 to get Okoli by the EFCC. The EFCC did not do a darn thing about it and I had to return home with no hope. I had no money left for divorce Okoli . Now I am finally being able to do so. It was hard with no jobs here. OKoli is still out there watching me because he knows i wont give up and fight him. I dont care what it takes . I want my life back.And what he took from me.

I think u are the one who has an issue here. I don't care about what color the person is i am marrying or what country they coming from.We are all the same.You are very wrong.

Neliaperez01 please read my story.Its in the family section topic "Please Help".I'm so sorry that You had bad experiences to but we learn from it . I am still fighting my husband who scammed me but it will soon end. He won't escape.

I am in a similar situation. Please don't meet him. He will never change and it will put you in danger.Believe me. I married a scammer and found out to late.

Really? Thanks so much Tyusuffa and everyone else. Now I know justice will be done.And yes no word from Okoli so far.

Thanks Tyusuffa I am always careful. Okoli has many friends out there. Shame to them. And Udoka why did you delete ur post?