₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Oh, so you are looking for a person who will not only hire you but also carry your drama for head as well?

All while you continue to occupy role of sex try, house gal and baby mama for a man who does not acknowledge you as a human being or his partner - that Mrs title sweet you very much, abi? . You never serious at all.

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“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.”

thank you I got the message

heniford2:
just like you will dump ur husband and flee to another man claiming you have done enough when his sick if u can't stand it why not divorce him so that another woman can enjoy him also greedy housewife

I pity your wife...your maltreating her,she keeping quite, nature will put you at her mercy and those period she will have her own pound of flesh...pls men,am talking about the irresponsible once,you know yourself,when you have a good loyal woman by your side treat her well,help her grow cos the seed you sow in her today is what you will reap tommorow...

Kobojunkie:
I thought you said the man has frustrated your many efforts at getting and keeping a job so far? So, would he do the exact same even this time?,

if he sends an email..you ignore simple....there's is prior notice here to what am going through

heniford2:
if he opens business for you now u will start overiding him insulting him so baba wan manage u if u feel u can't cope file divorce ungrateful house wife

by their talk you shall know them ...that why at old age or when they are sick like julius agwu they get a dose of their medicine..smh it takes nothing to be a good human being...change

LilMissFavvy:
The bold caught my attention. Madam, don't follow that friend to Ijebu because whatever you will be told to do there will be fetish, and will have serious consequences on the long run. According to you, your mother inlaw is a marine goddess or so, the source of power at Ijebu will be same as that which your mother inlaw has. You cannot use devil to cast out devil.

You are supposed to increase prices of items when requesting money from your husband, so that you can be saving some money. By now you should have been able to set up a business for yourself. For him to buy you phone by himself means your phone is probably tracked and all your calls/messages monitored, so be mindful of the calls you make ahead of whatever plans you have in mind.

Either you continue to stay and pray pending when the spell will be broken, or you quit.

My weakness is lieing about the price of things,anytime I want to lie once I look at his face I will say the price...I have tried to lie on price of things but I didn't work...why can't he just do the right thing so we be happy..is that too much to ask?

StPete:
And who says I'm not married with more age in marriage than you?

lol...your so single, I came here for solution not arguement, kindly check the next topic...tnxs

StPete:
I'd be very willing to divorce a woman like you who would readily go to a pastor or juju in place of proper logic and reasoning

Be married first, and marry someone that won't listen to your talk, then come back let's have this conversation...

Xilsbridalhouse:
Do not go!


Like why do people like moving from fry pan to fire ? Moimoi my foot! She’d take you to where you’d be offered solutions by the devil and he’d in return add bigger problems to your life. If you are a true Christian, you don’t need running from one church to another. Get down on your knees and cry to God.

it's well..thanks

StPete:
I feel real pity for your husband for the kind of wife he married. Running from Pastor to JuJu all because of some trivial issue which u would've been able to mentally sort if u truly graduated with a 2'1.

Do you know how many people get rejected on a daily by companies they apply to? Did you really check your attitude to know if you're actually the cause of your sack and not some sad sadistic spiritual notion? Seeking ideas from his mum is also because she's wiser and more knowledgible than you.

Either of two things would happen eventually with the way you're going. These pastors and JuJu men are either gonna eat your money and sleep with you, or eventually turn your husband to a pauper.

Pls try not to subject your wife to what am going through cos by your write up I know them mentally sought out, do you know how many times I have talked to him to pls set me up..u can't imagine...I just don't want to argue with you.

InTheCloudySky:
You need a job or source of income for yourself and kids before you can take any decision. I'm sure when you met him at 16 (?), he started controlling your life since then. You and your family probably thought that was a good thing but now you feel caged. If he has always been the way, changing him will be difficult, but you've been married to him long enough now and know him better than anyone else.
Thanks pls if you guys have any job offer for me in port Harcourt pls I am very interested at least you guys have seen what am passing through incase an email comes to you
Seek professional counseling together but if he doesn't want to or doesn't change, you can do what's right for you. But again, you need to get your finances together first. This is why I always tell women to have their own money and not rely on a man's.

it's well thanks..pls anyone with a job offer in ph pls am interested , atleast you know what I am seeing without being told

ibechris:
This kind of story is shameful to hear because if u are my sister,this marriage would be done and dusted honestly.

How do u chose to stay in such a home when it is obvious he has turned u to a slave and nothing more.

Madam,find ur way and live for your children,if anything bad happens to that man,then u will know what it means to be an independent woman.

I am a married man who believed that women should be empowered financially either through business or conventional jobs and I hate to hear stories like this coming from a 2.1 candidates.

Be wise madam.

Thanks.

olusam4:
Pray more dont go to any pastor. Pour ur mind to your maker he will surely rescue u

I have been praying, but it's looking like the more I pray the more he gets worst, a lady Neighbor of mine I told my problems to told me to follow her to ijebu that my case is moi moi... am seriously thinking of going because I have suffered alot

Richy4:

lol

Richy4:
So because your Husband goes to his mother for advise, that's what made her a marine kingdom candidate?

you should be single...this write up is for people that are married and are the responsible type, thank you

Richy4:

<<<If the story is true, then I have issues with the "M" that shows that u are a male except maybe....

<<< Please kindly Keep his mother out of your matters...That church aspect is just irritating..

well it's true cos he always goes to her for advise instead of me his wife, whatever she says it's what's he will do, so tell me why I should not believe it's true

Richy4:

<<<If the story is true, then I have issues with the "M" that shows that u are a male except maybe....

<<< Please kindly Keep his mother out of your matters...That church aspect is just irritating..

it's an error the user name should tell you it's a female

Pierocash:
Where in Ph,so i can know how to direct you?

send me your no pls pm

MadamVanessa:




I have been there before my dear, I quit it myself even when he pleaded , I still go ahead with the process in the court.

No useless Idiotic nonentity of a man can make lose my sanity.

it's well I started dating him when I was 16, he was jobless then,he is my first love, until I married him at 21, when he got a job,I love him, but I detest his personality..maybe am not strong enough yet but if he doesn't change, the cup will be filled soonest

Pierocash:
are you in Ph?

yes

Iyaebe:
Did he cage you?If no,then you are the one holding yourself back from been productive. This is what you get when you absorb things you won't be able to take in relationships but begin to complain in marriage. I'm sure he treated you same way in your premarriage days but as an independent good woman wey you be,you proved yourself to be a marriage material.Its not too late, grab him by the balls to perform his responsibilities or you go out there to take charge of your life.

it's beyond physical and he was not like this when I was dating him

MadamVanessa:



So if you quite such a stupid marriage, what will happen?

it's easy to say

Pierocash:
then I advise you visit another church like winners, or MFM. That your pastor is not a serious pastor.

If you are in Ph, I can recommend one for you

pls recommend

Pierocash:
intensify your prayer. Seek counselling from your pastor.

I talked to my pastor he was called but never showed up,he told me I was wasting my time

I am married to a man for 6 years who goes about telling anyone whose cares to listen that he is not the marriage type and family guy..we have two kids,he doesn't want to set a business up for me,give me money for upkeep,or give me money to start my Masters...this is someone that has millions as savings and I borrowed 20k from access bank since last year March he can't give me money to pay...I decided to work, 3 months to the work,I was dropped I did my findings,someone came to testify negatively about me to my boss and that was it...I apply for jobs,a contradicting mail will be sent to the company and i won't be calledi,I graduated with 2:1...my husband buys my phone and it's only him that has access to my mail,i asked him if he did that he said no, but I know it's him...as am talking to you know everyone in my area has light since 4 days ago because we use prepaid meter,light has finished, he is not moved that we are in darkness? He traveled for a job since 5 days ago and he don't care,there is so much I want to say but let me not bore you...I feel unproductive and stucked in this marriage, pls what should I do? I went to church and I was told his mum is in the water kingdom and tied him to herself that he only listens to her and whatever I say means nothing, all he does is sleep with me , that's all, if you knew me when I was single , you will be in awe to see me now...what should I do pls?

A news paper advert will be best..lets contribute n make a full page advert on this issues ...what do u think:?

U are one of them. I mean the favoured one by them senators..u don't want us to put sand sand in u people's garri...tarhh..

Harddiskng:
Hya
I can bet you that if you go ahead to protest, the angry politicians that didn't get to put their candidates because of the merit list will join you, and after if peradventure the recruitment is cancelled the will do it underground and deny the recruited anybody which makes it a whole lot easier for them...

i can guarantee you that there were no tracks left uncovered in this recruitment all candidates took tests and interviews, all candidates had the necessary degrees, basically whether stakeholder or not you must have crossed the pass mark...

so we really do not have any proof to say that the recruitment was biased, we are reporting to the same government that wants to hijack the recruitment .. it is well

A word is enough for the wise, there is beauty in patience

Nigeria my Nigeria

I have friends that entered CBN with senatorial backing (Senator). One of them didn't even write test and did not bother to attend interview.

Lo and behold his appointment letter was delivered to his house

Na to cast this DPR package for Channels Television remain. Do not sit down and “hope”.

Big big talk ..

enemaxon:
let me jist you guys something.

This recruitment was proposed to be like CBN i.e call the stakeholders ONLY and take the test and interview for them and employ them.

ONE man A.R. Shakur stood for us to make sure at least the average Nigerian has a fighting chance. it has been a difficult period since the application to date. but that's what you get when you are fighting the due process. since the beginning of the process, he was the only one that had complete knowledge about this recruitment and he is still the only one that does.

all the information (speculations) coming out from here and there are just people guessing...

I can bet you that if you go ahead to protest, the angry politicians that didn't get to put their candidates because of the merit list will join you, and after if peradventure the recruitment is cancelled the will do it underground and deny the recruited anybody which makes it a whole lot easier for them...

i can guarantee you that there were no tracks left uncovered in this recruitment all candidates took tests and interviews, all candidates had the necessary degrees, basically whether stakeholder or not you must have crossed the pass mark...

so we really do not have any proof to say that the recruitment was biased, we are reporting to the same government that wants to hijack the recruitment .. it is well

A word is enough for the wise, there is beauty in patience

kinglover:
Sent

pls send the fire service past question to ellap2010@yahoo.com

Please I NEED FIRE SERVICE past question..a good sermaritan should please forward it to me..ellap2010@yahoo.com

Well I said it..nothing is happening today or this week. It's december no one believed me..keep giving urself high bp

Please my people..don't put ur mind on tommorow talk less of this week...so u won't have high bp...it's December,... no p..we shall see then..