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Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 3:34pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ibechris: Thanks. |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Nobody: 3:51pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
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Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 4:04pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky:it's well thanks..pls anyone with a job offer in ph pls am interested , atleast you know what I am seeing without being told |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by StPete: 4:13pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV: I feel real pity for your husband for the kind of wife he married. Running from Pastor to JuJu all because of some trivial issue which u would've been able to mentally sort if u truly graduated with a 2'1. Do you know how many people get rejected on a daily by companies they apply to? Did you really check your attitude to know if you're actually the cause of your sack and not some sad sadistic spiritual notion? Seeking ideas from his mum is also because she's wiser and more knowledgible than you. Either of two things would happen eventually with the way you're going. These pastors and JuJu men are either gonna eat your money and sleep with you, or eventually turn your husband to a pauper. 4 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by eazzzy1(m): 4:16pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Klass99. You believe the mother in-law is really of the marine kingdom? These rent-a-prophet guys will see anything just to extort their victims . They can only see, they can’t break the yoke binding her husband? 8 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 4:23pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV:Do not go! Like why do people like moving from fry pan to fire ? Moimoi my foot! She’d take you to where you’d be offered solutions by the devil and he’d in return add bigger problems to your life. If you are a true Christian, you don’t need running from one church to another. Get down on your knees and cry to God. 4 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 4:27pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
StPete:Pls try not to subject your wife to what am going through cos by your write up I know them mentally sought out, do you know how many times I have talked to him to pls set me up..u can't imagine...I just don't want to argue with you. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 4:28pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Xilsbridalhouse:it's well..thanks 1 Like |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by StPete: 4:31pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV: I'd be very willing to divorce a woman like you who would readily go to a pastor or juju in place of proper logic and reasoning 4 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 4:33pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
StPete: Be married first, and marry someone that won't listen to your talk, then come back let's have this conversation... 3 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by StPete: 4:34pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV: And who says I'm not married with more age in marriage than you? 1 Like |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by LilMissFavvy(f): 4:36pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
The bold caught my attention. Madam, don't follow that friend to Ijebu because whatever you will be told to do there will be fetish, and will have serious consequences on the long run. According to you, your mother inlaw is a marine goddess or so, the source of power at Ijebu will be same as that which your mother inlaw has. You cannot use devil to cast out devil. You are supposed to increase prices of items when requesting money from your husband, so that you can be saving some money. By now you should have been able to set up a business for yourself. For him to buy you phone by himself means your phone is probably tracked and all your calls/messages monitored, so be mindful of the calls you make ahead of whatever plans you have in mind. Either you continue to stay and pray pending when the spell will be broken, or you quit. ellaV: 4 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 4:37pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
StPete:lol...your so single, I came here for solution not arguement, kindly check the next topic...tnxs |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by StPete: 4:37pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV: Lol...nairaland kids...e say I'm so single |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 4:39pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
LilMissFavvy:My weakness is lieing about the price of things,anytime I want to lie once I look at his face I will say the price...I have tried to lie on price of things but I didn't work...why can't he just do the right thing so we be happy..is that too much to ask? 1 Like |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by heniford2: 4:43pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV:if he opens business for you now u will start overiding him insulting him so baba wan manage u if u feel u can't cope file divorce ungrateful house wife |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Kobojunkie: 4:44pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV:Wait a second....don't tell me you seriously want to believe the reason why your husband doesn't value you as an individual is because of a cock-n-bull story fed you by some mog or pastor?. Anyways, you explained that your husband has near no respect for you in the marriage you both agreed to - marriage is a contract/agreement between a man and woman - and you are merely a glorified intimacy gadget, baba mama and housegirl in your union, but desire more. So tell us, what do you intend to do about what is your predicament? Surely, if you truly believe you are worth more, you must have ideas on what you would rather do to change your situation? 1 Like |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 4:45pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
heniford2:by their talk you shall know them ...that why at old age or when they are sick like julius agwu they get a dose of their medicine..smh it takes nothing to be a good human being...change 8 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by LilMissFavvy(f): 4:46pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Increase prices of items, simple as abc. If you have children, that's another route you can be using to collect good money from the selfish* man. Why should you Pity a selfish man who has the money, yet is frustrating* you. ellaV: 7 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Kobojunkie: 4:46pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV:I thought you said the man has frustrated your many efforts at getting and keeping a job so far? So, would he do the exact same even this time?, |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Kobojunkie: 4:47pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Pierocash:SMH.... intensify prayer? LOL.... 1 Like |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Kobojunkie: 4:50pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV:Stop letting people pile on what is their foolishness into what is already your overflowing plate of the very same. No false mog or pastor can save you with lies from what is a terrible situation in marriage. Engage your brain instead abeg! 2 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Kobojunkie: 4:52pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV:Stop lying to yourself thinking you decieve others by doing so. You are not a caged animal and you can as well chose to walk out, move back to live with your parents, get a job and start life anew if you wanted. 1 Like |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by heniford2: 4:52pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV:just like you will dump ur husband and flee to another man claiming you have done enough when his sick if u can't stand it why not divorce him so that another woman can enjoy him also greedy housewife |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 4:53pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:if he sends an email..you ignore simple....there's is prior notice here to what am going through |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Klass99(f): 4:58pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
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Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Kobojunkie: 4:58pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV:Oh, so you are looking for a person who will not only hire you but also carry your drama for head as well? All while you continue to occupy role of sex try, house gal and baby mama for a man who does not acknowledge you as a human being or his partner - that Mrs title sweet you very much, abi? . You never serious at all. “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.” 1 Like |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by AgentGoat: 5:01pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Pierocash: How's the pastor not a serious one? Make he go arrest her husband or make he use magic sermon him? Op no go use pastors complicate your matter |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 5:01pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
heniford2:I pity your wife...your maltreating her,she keeping quite, nature will put you at her mercy and those period she will have her own pound of flesh...pls men,am talking about the irresponsible once,you know yourself,when you have a good loyal woman by your side treat her well,help her grow cos the seed you sow in her today is what you will reap tommorow... 10 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 5:04pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:thank you I got the message |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by heniford2: 5:08pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV:am already married to a white lady self developed lady with Three kids so shut up if he helps u grow now u will still not support him when his down u will institute hate among the kids against ur husband, am glad men are wise enough if u calm ur a super lady why not divorce ur husband and watch how it goes. yeye housewife |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Kobojunkie: 5:09pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV:Don't get me wrong here. I don't advocate divorce for anyone since only the one wearing the shoes knows where it pinches. If after 6 years, you are OK with living in a deluded state consoling yourself with the savory lies fed you by pastors and mogs as explanation for your situation...if that helps you believe the humiliation worth it, then by all means, continue. If you are really ready to see change, then i would expect you be willing to at least abandon the lies and take meaningful risks in assuring change. 2 Likes |
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