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ezemoses:
Hi, Medical people. Please tell me what will the side effects to my fiance be if i force her to do anal sex as she is against the idea but i am liking it

Don't need to worry about her, if it reached to this point of taking her asshol*, she deserved whatever consequences might happen.

ezemoses:
Hi house. I really do not know which section to post this but it also includes matters of the heart as well so maybe this might be the correct section. Apologies if its the wrong one.

Now here is the story

I have this wonderful woman in my life and i love her so much. M planning on spending the rest of my life with her but she is just to uptight sometimes or maybe i am too demanding i do not know. I want us to try anal sex and she refuses and i am really craving for it. M i being selfish? will it harm her? if i force how would she see me? if i break up with her because of this how will she see me? i am confused. I love her and i thought it would be better to try things with her instead of paying a prostitute. Please be honest house. Do ladies allow this or must i go to a prostitute? how do other men handle such situations? This is serous please house i am not looking for unnecessary insults

If she doesn't allow you, you must pay for a prostitute. A men has needs, she has to uderstand this.

kelsidengkucio:
Hi guys,
Just a question to
you men out there.
Is a man still a man if he wants
to have anal sex?
If a guy wants to do anal sex
with a girl .
Does it mean he is gay or have
an inclination? I want men´s
honest opinions. My girlfriend´s
and I were having a discussion
about this and I want to know
what a man honestly feels. Have
you ever had this urge and still
be straight?

You're thinking too much here. I mean if you're having sex with a women then you're straight, period.

Mbo07:
2017 I married a gay pastor who drugged me every night to have anal with me, I never knew untill I realised any night he served me dinner I slept like a dead tree, not up to a month after our marriage. I couldn't hold urine or feace, I was ashamed to tell the same person that left me in that condition. He would always tell me he was tired of having sex with me, but once he served me water or food I'm off.

When I wake up, my anus will be swollen and I felt pain, I felt something was wrong with Me, I was scared to confront him untill the day I was cleaning the house and I saw a pack of sleeping tablets. I text the name to a Facebook friend that works in the pharmacy and what she told me left my heart in my hands bleeding.


I confronted him, but he denied it, he wasn't ready to change. Days later I discovered he was doing this with the gardener's daughter, again I confronted him and he denied it, despite seeing pictures prof on his phone of him and the girl. I left a marriage not up to 3months.



I left because this things happening to me was never what I prayed to God for, and if your God will judge me because I left a sex, gay, predator who hide under the robe of a pastor, then That you God is not My God at all. Because my saviour Jesus Christ saved me from premature death

God did not approved on your decision. You denid him sex

ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

He's looking for a prostitute because what he wants are not available at home. Ask yourself if you're a good wife before condemning his acts.

BIGVAJINA:
Good morning good people of nairaland.
Please there is an issue bothering my friend and I want your advice
My Friend's husband has been sexxing her in the annnus, and she is dying.
She has pleaded with her husband for long but the husband is still adamant

She opened up to me sobbing and confided in me that she intends reporting her husband to her father in law. Please, what do you think? Should she report? And who will be the best person to receive this report?

Please only serious replies

You should advise her to keep doing anal for her husband. He has his sexual needs and a wife have to fullfill that.
Maybe it is painful, but it keeps him busy and satisfied.

GistMore:
GistMore.com

A housewife, Asma’u Sulaiman, on Thursday prayed a Sharia court at Magajin Gari, Kaduna to dissolve her marriage to her husband over frequent demand for anal sex.

Sulaiman also told the court that her husband, Nura Ahmad, had been assaulting and accusing her of infidelity.

“There was a time I went to my parents’ house over a misunderstanding I had with my husband; when I returned, he accused me of aborting my pregnancy which was not true,” the News Agency of Nigeria quoted her as saying.

The complainant said she came to court to get justice as she could no longer endure the pain and was scared of contracting a disease from anal sex.

However, Ahmad denied his wife’s allegation.

The judge, Malam Musa Sa’ad, asked the wife if she had any witness that would testify for her and she answered in the affirmative.

The judge then adjourned the case till April 18, 2018 for the complainant to present her witnesses.

Via: http://www.gistmore.com/husband-always-demands-anal-sex-woman-tells-court

I think her husband should be the one getting the divorce. She denied him sex, doesn't matter if it's anal, vaginal or oral...