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Lamanii22:
My husband better not dare ask me for it…. I can never allow it

If you don't allow him, he will cheat on you...
And honestly I would encourage him to do so.

MRBrownJ:
i would have told this wifey that she should educate herself on how to PROPERLY have ana.l sex so that it could possibly be rewarding.
the MAIN issue about an.al sex is for the woman to RELAX, if she aint then it can never be done properly/painlessly.

100% agree.
Women likely complains about it (that it hurts or whatever) but they don't it properly. Even if it hurts, they should doit for their husbands!

Faithdamy:
The Operatives of Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps, Jigawa Command, has nabbed one Isyaku Lawal of 23-year-old, for allegedly sodomising a nine-year-old boy in Jigawa State.

The agency’s Public Relations Officer, in the person of CSC Adamu Shehu, made this know in a statement signed and issued out on the agency’s Facebook handle on Wednesday.

According to the statement, the father of the victim revealed that his daughter, an elder sister to the victim, reported to him that her sibling was sexually abused by the suspect.

The statement partly read, “Upon questioning, the boy stated that he was taken to an isolated place in the evening while he was playing alongside his friends by the suspect who removed his trousers and had canal knowledge of him, and thereafter urged him not to tell anyone and promised to buy him sweets, a promise which he failed to fulfill and which made him expose the incident to his sister.

“Meanwhile, medical examinations conducted at Sexual Assault Referral Centre (SARC) at General Hospital Dutse shows repeated rectal penetrations and bruises in the anal area.

“Suspect has confessed to the crime and will be charged to court of competent jurisdiction to expedite justice.”

Source: https://freshreporters.com/jigawa-nscdc-nabs-man-for-sodomising-nine-year-old-boy/

This nine year old boy played dirty on him! He was "abused" but only if the man provide him sweets. He kinda deserved it

Islie:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/571287-my-husband-drugged-me-before-raping-my-niece-lagos-doctors-wife-tells-court.html

Surely he did this to her, because hs wife wasn't providing him sex. So to fulfil his sexual needs he had to f*ck the girl.
Only if the wife had done her duty which is satisfing her husband, the girl wouldn't had gone through that.

FutureIsFemale:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CfOHoTvI6Gw/

I'm pretty sure she seduceed him to do that and now he's being accused of it. Im really sorry for this man, fortunately he used this girl as much as he could before she betrayed him.

Once again an inocent man arrested for having sex... it's natural that men wants to have sex all the time, so he just took those boys to help him...

zoba88:
https://www.instagram.com/p/B1VvReonMp3/?igshid=ij1d6pf0d9p2
A bike man was disgraced after he was caught having anal sex with a small girl in Delta.The incident happened along Ogodo Road, Sapele.According to report,the man saw the girl along Ogodo Road and took her to Ogaga Road where he stays.He had anal sex with her.He was caught and flogged by mob.

See more photos below and watch the video

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2019/08/bike-man-disgraced-after-he-was-caught.html

I feel sorry for this man... he was only looking for sex and that girl had to be around but he wasn't that smart. He should've take her far enough to do it.

SalamRushdie:
Any man that demands anal sex from any woman is gay

If the asshole belongs to a woman, than no he's not gay...

SalamRushdie:
Why should she give her husband anal sex

Simply because is her duty to please her husband...

All those boys allowed him to penetrate their anus, and besides that I don't blame him at all his wife might denyed him sex before, so he took those boys to fulfil his needs..

arinze198:
A 17-year old boy is still enveloped in shock after a 35-year old man, Isah Idris, allegedly lured him to an apartment and tried to forcefully put his dick inside boy’s anus in order to satisfy his sexual desire in Lagos State.

P.M.EXPRESS reports that the incident happened at Adeniyi Street, Oniwaya Road, Agege area of Lagos, where they reside.

The Police alleged the suspect to have lured the boy and tried to forcefully penetrate his anus before he raised alarm, which attracted other neighbours over the act.

The matter was then reported to the Police; the suspect, Idris, was arrested.

Having been found culpable by the Police, he was subsequently charged before the Ogba Magistrates Court for the alleged offence.

full story: https://pmexpressng.com/man-35-in-police-net-over-anal-sx-attempts-on-boy-17/

That boy went to his apartment by himself and then the man had been arrested?

Unfortunately he didn't have time to finish inside his ass before going to prison.

arinze198:
Police operatives from Olosan Division in Mushin area of Lagos, led by SP Ayodele Arogbo, have arrested a man, Ibrahim Aliu, who was allegedly caught by neighbours engaging a 10-year old boy in anal sex.

P.M.EXPRESS reports that the incident happened at Paul Oguntola Street, Idi Araba area of Lagos, where the victim resides with his parents while the suspect, Aliu, resides at Oko Baba area of Ebute Metta, Lagos.

Full story: http://pmexpressng.com/police-arrest-man-anal-sex-boy-10/

I'm so sorry for this man!
He was looking for fun and got arrested for no reason! I hope he gets out of jail soon!

ericuzor:
a lady actually took to her Twitter handle today to curse out the person who introduced her husband of five years to anal sex. She realized this after her supposed hubby suddenly suggested that they try anal together. See more tweets after the cut...

This men have my respect!

Shame on his wife for not doing her duty to satisfy him.

Because of her selfishness he f*cked other chick's asshole, something the WIFE is suppoused to do.

Hubeznigeria:
You disgust me

Well, thank you...

tunjiajayi:
Are you forming woke or you are deranged. A 12 year old girl.

Is this what you do to your 12 year old child, from your other post you even made a case for the man that raped a 12 year old boy.

Your words and your acts would catch up with you one day.

Prayerfully on the streets.

She's 12 years old. She already had her period so she's perfectly able to take a cock...

arinze198:
A 52-year old man, Emmanuel Ohuku, has been arrested in Lagos State for allegedly engaging a 12-year old girl in anal sex having stripped self naked before the girl in order to seduce her into the act.

P.M.EXPRESS reports that the incident happened at Ogbedi Street, Afromedia area of Okokomaiko, Lagos, where they reside.

The suspect was alleged to have lured the girl to an apartment, stripped self naked and molested the girl by inserting his fingers into her private part and eventually removing her pants before penetrating her anus for sexual satisfaction.

Having satisfied himself, he allowed the girl to go but warned her not to disclose what happened to anyone. But she could not hold it back do as she went home and informed her parents about what happened to her.

The matter was reported to the Police and Ohuku was arrested. He was later transferred to the Gender Section of the Lagos State Command for interrogation.
During interrogation, he denied to have tempered with her private part having only penetrated her anus to avoid being alleged to have raped her.


full story: https://pmexpressng.com/man-52-in-police-net-for-having-anal-sx-with-girl-12/

I'm so sorry for this man!
Being arrested for something so small?

He was only looking for sex and ths girl was available so he took her, that's it!

I don't know why he should be arrested!

arinze198:
A man, one Edwin Osia, has been arrested for conduct likely to cause breach of public peace by allegedly having anal sex with a 10-year old girl in Lagos.

Full story: http://pmexpressng.com/man-arrested-anal-sex-girl-10/

I don't see any problem with men to take younger girls to do it!
He was right to take her ass so she will remain a "virgin".
This girlsalready knows how to please a man and that's the most important thing.

Came:
I courted my husband for two years before we finally got married.Ours was sex free during courtship. Am beginning to feel I have made the wrong choice,because my husband beg me for anal sex,after the normal sex. I was surprised when my husband brought out a gel he bought for anal sex, the first day I allowed him just to please him. Whenever we make love, he will insist on anal sex to complete our sex. Am beginning to think I married a gay. Am thinking of opting out of the marriage which is 5months old.I need mature advice as to what to do pls. Has anyone been experiencing same too? I need help. My fear is what family, friends, and people who knew we barely got married would think of me. I love my husband, but if he continues with the anal sex, i don't know how long i can cope with him.Am confused.

First thing: he's not gay.
Second: It's your duty to satisfy his sexual needs, so just stop complaining and give him what he wants.

Preciousgirl:
If your husbands engages in an. AL sex with you, is it a sin before God?

Scriptural references will be very much appreciated. Thanks

If he's engaging on that action you must satisfy his sexual needs!

He's your husband so is really important to maintain your household.

JapaToDNext:
Is it good for married couple to have anal sex

I was reading something online and I read were a woman (wife) agreed to have anal sex with her husband, simply because he was cheating with other woman outside.

The woman said she latee agreed to have anal sex with her husband to keep him to herself, because the husband had always preferred and liked anal sex.

As a married couple, if u have had Anal sex,

then Share your views.

She did the right thing. It's her job to provide pleasure for her husband.

He was right for cheating on her and she realize what a useless wife she was.

Jazzlite:
Ladies.... what's your take? Matured responses will be highly appreciated

A wife that doesn't allow her husband to f*ck her ass when ever he asks is complety useless!

In those case I totally agree with husbands that force their wife into anal.

ournaijablog:
John and I have been dating for a few months, everything was going well and I was having the time of my life. I was happy and in love and John always took care of me, making sure I wanted for nothing. The sex was awesome and adventurous and we were always trying new things then few nights ago he dropped a bombshell “Nneka I want to have anal sex with you”.

Anal sex? I said, he said yes; well I told him I wasn’t interested in having it with anyone not now not ever! I have heard how painful and unsafe it was and I wasn’t ready to have a leaking anus. Yesterday night he asked again, saying if I really loved him I would do it with him or he would go do it with someone else, my heat broke; why was I so unlucky with love I asked myself? I love John a lot and I might just do it with him.

This story up there is what a lot of women go through. They are emotionally blackmailed in the name of love, “if you love me you would do this, you would do that”, Love has no price tag.

There has always been a debate on how safe anal sex is, while some have argued it is very safe others believe it helps in the spread of infections. The anus is full of bacteria, even if both partners do not have a sexually transmitted disease; bacteria normally in the anus can potentially affect the giving partner. Practicing vaginal sex after anal sex can also lead to vaginal and urinary tract infections.

These are the common misconceptions about anal sex

It will hurt; it doesn’t have to if done correctly.

Once it hurt it will always hurt; this is not true.

Having anal sex will save your sex life; do not let anyone deceive you, having anal sex should be a choice you willing and solemnly take by yourself, you shouldn’t be coerced or forced or blackmailed into giving it.

Only sluts have anal sex; this is a big lie millions of women around the world enjoy anal sex.

Your man won’t respect you later; sometimes it helps partners get emotionally closer like they have share a part of themselves with each other.

It will cause you physical damage; well any type of sex done wrongly will cause physical damage.

You don’t need to use condoms while having anal sex; yes you can’t get pregnant having anal sex but the risk of infection is very high.

Your anus will get all stretched out; this is purely a misconception, this depends on your ability to relax and have it in a healthy way. The same way the vaginal can accommodate al types of joysticks and never stretch so can the anus.

It is literally dirty; this is probably one of the biggest misconceptions about anal sex. The anus and the lower part of the rectum actually have very little fecal material in them, which means it tends not to be as dirty as you think it is. This doesn’t mean you have to transfer the elements into the vaginal by having anal sex and then vaginal sex because they are two different environments, if you’re going to have anal sex and vagina sex make sure after anal se you wash with an antimicrobial soap.

Anal sex can be enjoyed, safe and painless but it has to be a choice you should make by yourself and not your partner blackmailing you into it, it will not help boost your relationship when you aren’t doing it for the love of it. If your partner insists on it I think it’s time you walk away.

Ibeji Isabella.

Culled from ournaijablog.com
Twitter: @ournaijablog
Facebook: ournaijablog
Email: Isabella@ournaijablog.com

The only problem I read in that story is how that wife is useless. He demanded for anal sex, which is totally right, and that b*tch is opposing to his desires. If I was that guy I would force her to give me anal and look for prostitutes as well.

Gimmeballs:
Even though he's overly nice to me I don't see my self indulging in Anal sex with him sooner or later. He said we go Anal or we are done. How could he shove a huge instrument inside my butt hole. Perhaps he wants to hurt me. Perhaps he doesn't love me anymore. advice please is anal sex worth trying? Enlighten me


Thanks for ur contributions.

Just give him what he asks for! Why is it so hard for you to satisfy your own husband? Do you prefere that he seeks on the streets for anal bc his wife is not good enough?

Trendings:
My marriage is 3 months old and i’m thinking of leaving, my husband requests for anal everytime

According to a mail sent to Joro, this lady is tired of her husband requesting for anal everytime, asking how will they have children if they keep doing anal?

Any advice for her?

More: http://www.linjust.com/marriage-3-months-old-im-thinking-leaving-husband-requests-anal-everytime.html

He's the man of this relationship so he has the right to f*ck your vagina and ass when ever he wants!

Just keep satisfing hs sexual needs and you're fine! He's gonna provide you a good life and all you have to do is to open yohr legs for him, so just stop complaining about it!

I think he used to do that because women in general refuse to satisfy him. So to get some ass he did it to those boys unfortunately. I understasnd him...

sammily:
A heart-broken lady has cried out to relationship expert and love doctor, Joro, over her husband's infidelity and feels she might have been infected by him as she is sure he doesn't use protection, according to her its just a year into her marriage. The husband cheated because he wanted anal sex from her, but she refused, so he went in search of one..

She came back from church and found the hubby asleep in the living room, she went through his chats and found out he was cheating, she went ahead to share the chats...Read Below;




http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/05/wife-shares-conversation-between-anal.html?m=1

He's more than right to cheat on this dumb wife.
If you can't satisfy your husband's sexual needs just let him be free to get it outside!

chichriso:
PLEASE, READ THIS POST VERY WELL AND DROP YOUR COMMENT/ADVICE FOR THE WOMAN WHO IS IN PAIN RIGHT NOW.

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I have come to love this blog like my family, I visit here like no man,s business, even my husband knows but he is a very busy man and doesn't do blogs. We've been married for 9years and have 4 children. I love him like kilode and he does too to the extent his friends use us as example of what a marriage should be.


Now, the issue ‎is, a month ago my husband said we should have anal sex, I thought he was kidding because our sex life is already very wild and adventurous, so I was wondering what else he wants; 2 weeks ago he pleaded again that we should try it,to make him happy I agreed, but we had to stop because I almost fainted in pain.


Now my hubby is ignoring me for days now.


I even wanted to check if he is having an affair but i'm not the snooping type because we trust each other; I have prayed, cried and tried talking to him, still no headway. How can a marriage going so smoothly suddenly turn to this? We haven't talked for days now as he keeps ignoring me, only attending to our kids.

I'm becoming mentally and emotionally frustrated and I don't want to talk to any of my friends about it, so I decided to write to here for advise. Please, help, what should I do?‎



http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2015/07/chronicle-of-blog-visitor-narrative_27.html

You shoud stop complaining about it and give what he demands!
He provides you a good life, works hard to get everything better and all you have to do is to open your legs up. Even if it hurts you should satisfy him.