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soulbroken761:
I'm extremely introverted. It has always affected my relationships with people; family, colleagues, and lovers. I've not been in a real relationship before because of my communication issues. So I thought at 24 years, I need to learn how to be in relationship if I get a good guy. My female classmates are married or engaged and I felt left behind
I met my guy and started staying days in his house at a go. I thought it was for the best. He is a good guy even though very broke. Honestly I put myself in this situation.
We would make out but because I was a virgin, coupled with the fact that I have extremely low sex drive, I always told him to stop when it gets to that point. Even his finger hurt like crazy. It caused little quarells but he always told me he would never force it because he loves me.
So this afternoon we were making out as usual and he started touching me down there. It was so dry and it hurt like crazy, as if the skin was peeling off. I think the fan contributed to the dry ess. Anyway I begged him to stop but he wouldn't and I was almost crying. He started trying to force his dickk in but it didn't enter. All the while, I was begging him while trying not to attract neighbors. It got so painful that I bit his arm very hard and that was when he stopped.

He was very very angry, asking what I did that for. I told him he put me through a lot of pain. He went out and came back at night. I saw he was still angry so I slept in the living room, trying to be understanding and not piss him off further. He came and lovingly moved me to the bedroom. I thought all was well and dozed off.

Only to feel my mouth being gagged all of a sudden. I was still confused because I never expected such a thing. He said he had been thinking of what to do to me for biting him. He put clothes in my mouth and tied my mouth very tight, bound my arms together at the back, forced my legs open. I was crying and begging not to let it be like that but he slapped my face.

He grabbed oil and poured it and began forcing his dick inside until it entered and he rapedd me. I just waited helplessly for it to be over. I bled so much. I cried in the bathroom and came out to leave. He started begging, saying he loves me, etc.

I wanted to WhatsApp my dad to tell him something terrible just happened to me but my heart broke when I saw his picture. My parents really tried.

I just wanted to pour out my feelings in this post. I already know it was my fault even though I feel robbed. I would have given it to him if he had been patient. I hope to get over it soon. Typing with tears. I will shamefully get something at the pharmacy in the morning so that I don't get pregnant

That might have been painful, but I'm pretty sure that was the right thing to happen. He's a man with his sexual needs and you pleasued him, that's the most important thing...

Lamanii22:
God forbid! I would never stoop that low

I hope your husband can find some other woman that is willing to give him the best. Men don't deserve woman like you...

Auxtan:
The man that demands anal sex against the wife's wish no get conscience sha. In fact, ladies should make it clear to their partners before marriage that anal sex is a no no if they are not fine with it. In my opinion sef, anal sex is kinda sodomy.

It's not a matter of consent. Its a men's right to have sex and be satisfied by their wives, even if he asks for anal...

Chibu1189:
Instagram comedian Justin ugo denies having anal sex with a 14 year old minor.

And if so... why should he be condemned? 14 year old girl for example, had gone through her first period, so she would be at the right time for sex.

EBMedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1382178/akwa-ibom-prophet-arrested-sodomising-12-year-old-boy-photo/

I see no problem in this...
Was he married? Did his wife provide sex for him?
There's gotta be a reason for him to do this. It was a sexual need of a man, that's all.

shawnfamous:
Which one be immoral sexual act with your husband or wife on marriage bed

Immoral: a wife that denies a sex request from her husband, even if it's anal or oral. That's the real sin...

Poor guy, he was only looking for an asshole to pleasure himself. He did not deserve any of this torture!

arinze198:
A man, one Seyi Adelana, has been arrested in Lagos for allegedly abducting a 17-year old boy, keeping him in captivity for four days and forcefully engaging him in anal sex

Full story: http://pmexpressng.com/man-abducts-boy-17-engages-anal-sex-4-days/

He bleeped someone's asshole, what else?

Ofunaofu:
https://punchng.com/its-not-marital-rape-court-rules-against-wife-who-sued-husband-for-forced-unnatural-sex/?amp

Once a woman gets married, it's implied that sex WILL and SHOULD be the most important thing for men.

Marital rape does not exist!! It's a men's right to have sex. Vaginal, anal and oral included.

I'm sure he provides everything for this household so the least she could've done was to satisfy her husband.

And it's important mencioning that anal sex is totally resonable for a man's desire!

If she's not able to do anal for her husband there's no reason at all to confront this chick.

This man looked else where for something he was seeking at home.

Kobojunkie:
You don't see any problem with the obvious use of underaged girls for this religiously legalized form of prostitution?

Not at all...

exlinkleads:
A married woman on Twitter, @mrs_madiba, has cried out, inquiring for who introduced her hubby to anal sex.

According to her, since they have been together for the past five years, he has never asked for anal sex until recently. And she suspects some girl might have introduced him to it.

So she decided to come on twitter to call out sidechics who introduce anal sex to married men, after her husband mentioned it.

Read tweets below..


More reactions @ http://www.exlinklodge.com/2016/09/married-woman-cries-on-social-media-cuz.html?m=1


Cc lalasticlala mynd44 obinoscopy ishilove missyb

Because of women like her, men seeks for side chicks to provide sex for them...
He only asked for anal, and?
If she can't take it up her ass (which is perfectly able to fit a dick in it), just be aware that her husband will look for some else to do with.

tola9ja:
***''HE'S TOO BIG DOWN THERE, LASTS FOR TOO LONG'' - WIFE COMPLAINS ON FB***

If she is not capable of doing her wifely duties, let him get it outside od this marriage. He only wats sex and she's complaning abou it. Imagine if he asks for anal sex?

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Those kind of acts that leads to ruin marriages...

All she had to do is to provide him anal sex, and she keeps refusing it. He should have the right to force her to do it or get it outside.

I see no problem with this at all...

Men have their sexual needs, so this pleasure marriage thing help us out to fulfill our desires..

[quote author=Klass99 post=129559818][/quote]She denied sex from her husband, that's unnatural indeed!

If she can't do it for him, allow him to get it outside of their marrige!

Why no anal sex?

rizzyrozz:
A WOMAN in Tororo Town shocked a fully-packed local court with an unusual revelation of how her husband demanded sex everyday even when she was on her periods.

Susan Kaitesi, 42, further astonished the court when she revealed that in their 19-year-long marriage, her husband even demanded sex when she was in labour with her last born child – a situation that led to her giving birth in the house.

Ms Kaitesi narrated that she once fainted when her husband had weird anal sex with her since the pain was unbearable.

“This man will kill me with sex; he does not get tired, even when I am fully pregnant he demands for sex,” she said.

The woman has since sued her husband, George Wakida, 46, for divorce saying that he is a sex maniac.

Shockingly, Wakida accepted all allegations levelled against him and testified that sex to him was the major reason he married Ms Kaitesi.

He said he had a right to make love to his wife whenever he deemed it fit even when she was on her monthly periods or in labour.

“I can make love to my wife in which ever manner I want because I married her for sex first and love later,” he said.

Ms Kaitesi said it was clear that her husband needed a younger woman who would give him all the weird sex styles because she was old and not strong enough to sustain the pressure.

Read more: https://royalsgist.com/2017/11/13/woman-files-divorce-husband-demands-sex-even-periods-photos/

I think he should be the one to look for divorce here. She can't deny her husband sex like ever, even if he demands for anal or oral.
Because of women like her, men should have the right to force their wives or cheat on them...

Lifeinlight:
can you receive anal sex?

No.
Women are the ones whom have to receive anal

Davidospy:
A Nigerian lady identified as Sandra Nkeiru has taken to her facebook page to recount a complaint by her friend who has been married for two years. According to her, the husband has refused to use the opening made by God during sexual intercourse

She wrote;

"A woman friend of my complained to me that since she got married with her husband which is two years now that her hubby does not like having sex with her through the opening God made for sex instead He prefer sex through the anus and they are looking for fruit of the womb and she want to know whether it's possible to conceive through that way I told her am not sure but let's hear from other people pls no insult she needs help thanks"

source: http://www.wakawoman.com/help-my-husband-does-not-like-having-s-ex-through-the-opening-god-made-for-it-woman-laments/

Anal sex is more pleasure for men, bc it's really tight.

So ladies,whatever your husband asks to do, do it for him!

fati2001:
I just want us to learn from this please. No matter what happens, no matter what at all, don't give any son of Adam anal sex
ADVISE NEEDED!!
My Husband always demand for Anal sex. Although I never enjoyed it, I always allow Him to have his was so that He will not go out.
My Friend said thousands of Girls out there will give it to Him, considering His good looks, and Money. I decided to play along just to have a Happy relationship with Him.
Since 2 months now my tummy has been paining me. I noticed that I had pile last week.
The problem now is that there is this clear water coming out from my Anus. It stinks badly so I have to wash my yansh constantly.
It is very embarrassing. People at close range notice the smell is from me. I have to insert cotton wool which is not helpful. I get wet often. I have not been to my shop this past week because the water coming out of my Anus is getting much and soaking my cloth. The smell is worse. Since all this started happening, my husband has refused to make Love with me.

He said I Smell bad. In short He avoid coming close to me. When I try to get close, I can tell from His face that He can’t stand my smell. The embarrassment and inconvenience of having cotton wool inside my butt is too much. I can not continue like this. I am even ashamed to go to the Doctor. I smell like rotten egg.
Please is there any traditional cure for my predicament ? Please help me post it to the group. I need help before I do something bad to myself
Cc. Rant

DO YOUR BEST AND LEAVE THE REST FOR GOD.

Ladies out there. Keep satisfing your husbands!

A wife's duty is to provide pleasure for their husbands, so I don't see pany problems with this...

Deeminaj:
In other words you are saying what the man did was right?

Obviously he's right...

LekkiGists:
https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/5a7948e15902e.jpg

A seven-year-old boy identified as Wisdom Adefemi, has accused his father, Olusegun Adefemi pictured above, of sexually abusing his three-year-old sister five times and attempting to penetrate his anus and that of his five-year-old brother, Godspower.
Wisdom made the allegation when he spoke at a press briefing organized by the Lagos state police command in Ikeja yesterday February 5th. Wisom said his father had subjected him to beatings because he refused to allow him have anal sex with him.
“My daddy slept with my younger sister from here (pointing at the minor’s private parts) He put her on the floor and did it. It was not once, it was five times. He wanted to penetrate me from the back, but I refused. He wanted to do the same thing to my younger brother, Godspower. When we refused, he beat us up.”he said

Breifing newsmen, the state commissioner of police, Edgal Imohimi, said the suspect was arrested on February 2nd at 6, Ipakan Street, Ijede, Lagos State, after an official of Lagos Neighbourhood Safety Corps (LNSC), Adekoya Sesan, reported the incident. Imohimi said investigations carried out by the command, shows that the suspect injured his daughter in her private part.

''The man injured his daughter in the private parts as a result of forceful penetration. He caned the girl’s siblings each time they did not allow him to penetrate them from the anus. The girl has been taken to Mirabel Medical Centre for examination and treatment, while her siblings have been accommodated in a temporary home''

When interrogated by newsmen, the suspect said he was shocked by the allegations leveled against him by his own son.

“I am shocked at the allegations. I am innocent. I have never done it and I will never do it. I heard that my children accused me of defiling their sister. They never said it before me. I thought that they (the police) would bring them (my children) before me and ask them so that I can hear it from them, but they did not. You should know they are children and can be lured by biscuit or sweet to say anything. I do not know where that came from. I know I usually beat up my kids when they do something wrong. I don’t think this is an offence because I don’t want my children to become wayward. Their mother left over a year ago and since then, I have been with them. I do bricklaying jobs sometimes. At other times, I work as a conductor to provide for our needs.” he said

The police boss said the suspect would be arraigned in court soon.

Source;- http://www.lekkigists.com.ng/2018/02/seven-year-old-boy-tells-lagos-police.html

If only he had a wife to satisfy his sexual needs...

Unfortunately he had no other choise of getting what he wanted, instead fucking those children....

Bigmugu:
⠀

A middle-aged woman has been brutalised by her husband after she rejected his demands for anal sex.⠀

The victim says her husband has been pestering her for a long time for the unnatural act, but she has always rebuffed his advances.⠀ According to the woman, Islamic practice does not advocate anal sex.⠀

The victim says her partner accuses her of being “naïve” on matters sex.⠀ ⠀

“He began demanding anal sex from me three months after our wedding.

I told him: ‘no’; straight away! He, however, kept on urging me to give in to his demands.

Even when I was seven months pregnant, he still wanted to have anal sex with me. I stood my ground, nonetheless,” the woman told Tanzania’s Mwananchi Newspaper.⠀

The woman says her husband’s neighbours – who knew him even before she married the suspect – told her that two other women abandoned him for demanding anal sex from them.

The accused, however, dismisse

Photos below :

Gist via :- https://nairatrend.com.ng/man-attacks-wife-after-she-rejected-demands-for-anal-sx/

Cc ;Lalasticlala, mynd44, Dominique

She could avoid this by doing what her husband asked for.

He wants anal? Give him what he needs! Simple...

She's not supposed to reject her duties

Liberator007:
A house wife, Asma’u Sulaiman, on Thursday prayed a Sharia court at Magajin Gari Kaduna to dissolve her marriage with her husband over frequent demand for anal sex.

Mrs. Suleiman also told the court that her husband, Nura Ahmad, has been assaulting and accusing her of infidelity.

“There was a time I went to my parents house over a misunderstanding I had with my husband, when I returned, he accused me of aborting my pregnancy which was not true,” she told the court.

The complainant said she came to court to get justice as she could no longer endure the pain and was scared of contracting disease from anal sex.

However, Mr Ahmad denied the allegations made against him, saying they were untrue.

The judge, Musa Sa’ad, asked the woman if she had any witness that would testify for her and she answered in affirmative except for the intimacy scene.

The judge then adjourned the case to April 18 for the complainant to present her witnesses. (NAN)

Source: https://www.premiumtimesng.com/regional/nwest/264775-woman-wants-divorce-over-husbands-demands-for-anal-sex.html?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

This woman disrespected her husband!. Dissolve marrige over something so simple? She should be ashamed of this. If her husband demanded anal sex, just do it for him.

Lifeinlight:
Are you normal?

Sure I am

Lamanii22:
He should cheat his d**** gonna suffer for it… anal sex is not pleasure! It’s demeaning! It’s slavery!

I'm sure he loves and provides the best for you, if he ever askes for anal, the LEAST you could do is to satisfy him...