I courted my husband for two years before we finally got married.Ours was sex free during courtship. Am beginning to feel I have made the wrong choice,because my husband beg me for anal sex,after the normal sex. I was surprised when my husband brought out a gel he bought for anal sex, the first day I allowed him just to please him. Whenever we make love, he will insist on anal sex to complete our sex. Am beginning to think I married a gay. Am thinking of opting out of the marriage which is 5months old.I need mature advice as to what to do pls. Has anyone been experiencing same too? I need help. My fear is what family, friends, and people who knew we barely got married would think of me. I love my husband, but if he continues with the anal sex, i don't know how long i can cope with him.Am confused.

I advise you refuse giving him and see his reactions. You married him and you know him better than anyone, don't die in silence. Dialogue with him first before involving a third-party which can't be more than a sex therapist or a psychologist.

That's what too much porn does.

He is not gay. He is just tuned into being in love with anal.

He is your husband and i don't see any wrong if you give it to him and try and enjoy it. Also help caution him to make it less painful for you and try and be more friendly in bed.

Most happy marriages you see around are made from two people sacrificing for each other to make ine another happy. If he enjoys it, why not try and enjoy it with him. Be flexible and also ask him to do things for you. Nothing stopping him from going down on you and so on.

Who wants a boring marriage when you can have an adventure laden one? One you guys are sweating out of the bedroom and doing all "sorts" from different positions? Good chemistry in the bedroom can lead to further happiness in other areas of your life.

Missionary or whatever shouldn't be the only options.



Did i just write the above. ....shocked. I am out of here.

Hmmmmmm

Anyway his wanting anal all the time isn't enough pointer that he's gay.. could be a weird fantasy. .

First thing first, stop obliging him especially as you ain't comfortable with it..

Then, He's your husband, try and dig why he behaves the way he does.. could it be watches gay/anal porns? Or ?

Whatever discovery you make will trigger further actions.. all d best nne

You should not have anal sex x if you are not interested in it.Doing it doesn't mean you are gay.
Go online and order a dil do and next time he asks you,lubricate the dil do and ask him to present his nyash for you to start with.
If the devil is awake that day,and your hubby enjoys it your own don kpai.

No one should be forced to do what they don't want sex ually.

Came:
I courted my husband for two years before we finally got married.Ours was sex free during courtship. Am beginning to feel I have made the wrong choice,because my husband beg me for anal sex,after the normal sex. I was surprised when my husband brought out a gel he bought for anal sex, the first day I allowed him just to please him. Whenever we make love, he will insist on anal sex to complete our sex. Am beginning to think I married a gay. Am thinking of opting out of the marriage which is 5months old.I need mature advice as to what to do pls. Has anyone been experiencing same too? I need help. My fear is what family, friends, and people who knew we barely got married would think of me. I love my husband, but if he continues with the anal sex, i don't know how long i can cope with him.Am confused.

My dear, i feel your dilemma and pains. I suggest you send an email to this email address. counselling@deeplookers.com. It is newly set up. They are a team of counsellors, psychotherapists, and psychologists. One of them will expertly handle your case and give you a reply.

Or if you permit me, i will email your story to them. I know someone who they have helped

He can't stop asking
He has tasted it and so shall it be else he cheats

Men and crazy fantasies

Don't start what you can't continue

Yes lots of people do it
Some are cormfy and some do it to please the man
Some crave it
Yh some likes to try new things

But this your case
Your hubby won't stop
That I am sure of

Don't ruin yourself because of a man's stupi*d fantasy!

Anal gini?

No one comes near my nyash abeg. Who wanna deal with hemorrhoids?

So long as it hurts and is not enjoyable to you, your hubby should understand.

Try shoving three or four fingers down his nyash, that might make him "understand" how sweet it is. Lol

You shouldn't even have allowed it the first time.It's not every sexual practice that one tries out even in marriage especially since it doesn't make you comfortable.

Help your men to see a sex therapist.This is the result of porn.

laughing out loud @ "sex free courtship for 2yrs" no need deceiving yourself. How did he know about the gel they put inside anus in the first place if he has not tried it with someone else before? where did he buy it from? sorry to say this, your husband has been slaying orisirisi Kitty Kat and he has seen it all. He's tire of it.

He wants something new and anus is something new, something he can explore till he tires out. I pity your Anus sha, how much do they sell adult pampers now sef? that is what you'll start wearing if you oblige to his demands. Obliging to his demand for the first time was a grievous mistake.


That reminds me, when pastor ask both of you why you wanna divorce, I hope you don't keep mute as some others do. Well, experience PASTORs know when couple keep mute during counseling the cause of the problem between them is SEX

Jahblessme:
You should not have anal sex x if you are not interested in it.Doing it doesn't mean you are gay.
Go online and order a dil do and next time he asks you,lubricate the dil do and ask him to present his nyash for you to start with.
If the devil is awake that day,and your hubby enjoys it your own don kpai.

No one should be forced to do what they don't want sex ually.

O ma ga o! Wetin con dey happen nau. Well, when me I say I no do chastity in relationship, my friend usually calls me a tyrant. No be him be this now? She argues one could tell if he would be capable by "raising" to the occasion when one bring on the heat with some serious kisses. No be him be this, the guy obviously doesn't like the Virgo, he prefers the chai! Well, you can't divorce him based on his sexual preference o, if u don't wanna do the annal anymore just say no and stand by it. By the way, I hope you know that its not safe. Your body will become yours alone if your friskiness goes back someday.

Talk to him.

chai men go leave wet drippling sweet pussy dey Bleep dry nyansh...big problem dey walai

Came:
I courted my husband for two years before we finally got married.Ours was sex free during courtship. Am beginning to feel I have made the wrong choice,because my husband beg me for anal sex,after the normal sex. I was surprised when my husband brought out a gel he bought for anal sex, the first day I allowed him just to please him. Whenever we make love, he will insist on anal sex to complete our sex. Am beginning to think I married a gay. Am thinking of opting out of the marriage which is 5months old.I need mature advice as to what to do pls. Has anyone been experiencing same too? I need help. My fear is what family, friends, and people who knew we barely got married would think of me. I love my husband, but if he continues with the anal sex, i don't know how long i can cope with him.Am confused.

First thing: he's not gay.
Second: It's your duty to satisfy his sexual needs, so just stop complaining and give him what he wants.

He's an animal. Don't allow him. Let him look for his type that will be giving him.


A woman once did it only to find out in the end that the man is gay and he left her and got married to his gay boyfriend las las.

This things should be discussed during courtship. Just stylishly ask him if he likes it and hear what he'll say. If he affirms it then dump his rotten a$$ and run for your life.

I don't know the kind of useless men wey we get these days self. smelling thinz.