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Romance / Re: I Love White Women And I'm Not Ashamed by ElNino4: 1:06am On Feb 28, 2009 |
Who really cares who you date. |
Romance / Re: What Is The Craziest Thing You Ve Ever Done To A Woman Or Man by ElNino4: 3:36pm On Feb 26, 2009 |
I am glad you too have beautiful things that you fantasize about to doing to men more especially me! I feel turned on already thinking of it Wink And your mama go dey tink say she born beta pikin, How you wan take imagine doggy style when you never even see the person wey you dey fantasize about All dis small small pikin wey no dey get beta yarns. I sure say you believe for your mind say you be voltron as you dey in front of Pc dey type nonsense, |
Family / Re: I'm Thinking Of Walking Out Of My Marriage by ElNino4: 12:38pm On Feb 19, 2009 |
Ok now this is getting ridiculous, Obviously both parties have serious issues. My take on this from a neutral perspective and according to what little information both husband and wife have given is as thus: Mozilla has an issue with his wifes' inability to come half way in resolving whatever problems they might have had in the past and are presently having. In my opinion he also has a guilt ridden air about something he has done in the past (call it what you may, cheating, not seeing wifey for what she may have truely been or whatever) which has made him pipe down a whole lot and holds him back from being confrontational with her. Either that or he is an extremely chilled out fella and his missus is taking his laid back approach as a form of weakness Missus Mozilla's issues obviously have a very healthy hint of them being "GRUDGE" ridden. He has done something in the past that irked her and rather talk about it, they have both ignored it. The issue has festered in her all this while and she is lashing out at what she see's as weakness from her husband. Bottom line with her is that she wants her husband to see things more from her perspective and to "MAN UP" when it comes to things outside their home. Lets assume Missus Mozilla is right for one sec (this is for the onyinyes' karmamod and outstrip): The way she's going about trying to sort out the issue is wrong. Even if you have an issue with the mans brother, you under no circumstance air the view from a confrontational perspective cus no matter how and what you do, it will always leave a sour taste in the husbands mouth. This is his BROTHER we are talking about here. Aight lets flip the script for a sec, how would you advise that she handle it if it were his mum she had an issue with?. The point is whether she likes it or not, she has to deal with the discomfort until a time when you can "GENTLY" get thru to your husband on the subject or he realises it himself. You shouldnt try to turn your husband against his family and still have arguments with him. You will lose cus no one will have your back when the chips are down. As for Mozilla, there's no point running, avoiding, hiding or whatever synonym there is in the dictionary. You have a kid. She's your wife not just some street urchin that crept up suddenly. Find a way to get through to her. Your courtship period was obviously not long enough and you both dont know each other the way you thought you did. Everyone has a soft spot, find out where her's is. She doesnt sound totally unreasonable and does not seem like someone that cant be spoken to. If the one person on earth she respects is her mum, then dude you need to speak to her mum and ensure that she you get through. Just because her mum seems like she dominates her marriage dont mean diddly squat and it does not mean your marriage will end up the same way. We all have options in life, and we make our destinies as we choose them to be not according to history. Long tin, |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Sweet Babes In The, My New Oyibo Oga Needs A Sweet Babe That Would Be Making Him Happy. My Oga Is Cu by ElNino4: 5:20pm On Feb 05, 2009 |
So NL don become pimpin website |
Romance / Re: Don't Know Why My Boyfriend Doesnt Trust Me! by ElNino4: 5:16pm On Feb 05, 2009 |
Being jealous is seen as a healthy sign that he cares about you enough to be bothered. Trust is something that is built, 3 months is not enough time to trust someone, the more issues you both have over the years (and this is hoping you stay with each other that long) it builds an automatic bond which allows either party to puff up your chest and say "nah i trust him/her they wouldnt do this and that to me". This belief is one that grows with time. Just keep on being you, as long as he doesnt act in a rash manner. You should be aight! By the way, i dont blame him. Una london gyals too dey look anoda man BMW and tins |
Travel / Re: I Need To Travel This Year by ElNino4: 1:10pm On Feb 05, 2009 |
BROS, WHO U BE IDENTIFY URSELF CALLING PERSON AMINGO , Abegiiii, Stroll go front, You tink say na confra yarns people dey talk for here. No go find as you go take make money dey talk amingo abi na bolingo, mchewwww, @Poster, abeg my guy you neva hear "6 million way to die, choose one" (Snoop feat cutty ranks, Serial Killa) Plenty plenty way dey, As my fellow posters have enlightened you, rat poison, sleeping pills, jump off a speeding bus, third mainland bridge etc, To kpai no be hard tin, Enter Police station and tell them say you be Anini younger brother, |
Romance / Re: love is GOD by ElNino4: 10:45pm On Feb 04, 2009 |
Bull shite thread, Quit wasting peoples time and go ahead and shag the living daylights out of her, acting like he doesnt know what he wants to do ppppffffttttttt, |
Nairaland / General / Re: My Favorite Nairalander by ElNino4: 11:05am On Jan 30, 2009 |
Hmmm favourite NL El-Nino |
Romance / Re: My Girl Had Miscarriage by ElNino4: 7:12pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
The english is a bit skew Shocked. did not grab shittttttt. LMFAO, That reply is classic |
Romance / Re: I Think My Girlfriend Sent Me This Message Intended For Her Secret Lover by ElNino4: 7:09pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
Dude get a grip, Would you rather you looked like a turd when you find out she aint cheating or would you rather just play it cool and see what happens after a while. Which means she will either get tired of your sorry behind and leave or you will discover more "CONCRETE" (note the word concrete) evidence which shows she's cheating, OR Neither will happen and you'll be kicking yourself in the teeth with the knowledge that you showed a poor strength of character when all she needed from you was to trust her. Its your choice fella |
Romance / Re: I Think My Girlfriend Sent Me This Message Intended For Her Secret Lover by ElNino4: 2:18pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
he could simply call her Diplomacy is not always the best form of action especially when it involves matters of the heart. |
Romance / Re: I Think My Girlfriend Sent Me This Message Intended For Her Secret Lover by ElNino4: 2:08pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
ur actions speak for themselves A tad harsh arent you!!, The dude DID ask her about it and there is the possibility that she lied. Everyone has their own personal insecurities. He might have handled the situation in a different manner but that doesnt serve as an excuse for her if in fact she did lie |
Romance / Re: Wat Is The Perfect Gift For My Boyfriend This Val by ElNino4: 2:00pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
I am single for the first time in ages, I am looking foward to spending all my money on MEEE Grin Talk about being selfish |
Romance / Re: Am Addicted To Callin Him,hw Do I Stop,help! by ElNino4: 1:56pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
This has GOT to be something from Mills&Boon |
Romance / Re: I Think My Girlfriend Sent Me This Message Intended For Her Secret Lover by ElNino4: 1:48pm On Jan 29, 2009 |
LMAO, If she was or wasnt cheating, it doesnt matter anymore cus she's told you to do what ever you want which means she cant be bovvered |
Islam for Muslims / Re: What Qur'an Says About Jesus by ElNino4: 3:24pm On Jan 26, 2009 |
Dang, This david guy get plenty plenty issues oo Oga why you no fit practice "unto you your religion and unto me mine". Na by force to be muslim or christian? Religion has been and will always be the most controversial of topics. |
Romance / Re: Long Story: by ElNino4: 3:13pm On Jan 26, 2009 |
Strangely enough, i heard this very same story about 4-5 years ago. The couple were based somewhere in the eastern part of nigeria. |
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