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aigmax:
you dont have to lie you know ......i promise you ...do what Biingoo says nd imma buttress his 50k with 30k....just upload it here nd quote me

My guy, please no fighting and lets make peace as one

Claraola:
Baba we're waiting for you to update your thread ooo.

OK my man i will very soon. Thanks anyways

NockMedia:
LOL glad you enjoyed your stay in Cote d'ivoire.
For people here that your experience there will totori after reading your story, please, if you are NOT a businessman, DON'T go to Cote d'ivoire. No jobs for foreigners except menial jobs which the natives are struggling to get.
The women are beautiful, friendly and the country is way better than NIGERIA, in terms of standard of living.
"Naija na Giant of Africa for mouth."

Yes bro , who no go no know

odinga1of:
Osheyyy bro, I am following like kilode

Na so..... Lolz

Four40:
EMEKUSBOY9 fire on

Nothing do u my brother

Happy easter to everyone, Like i promise too update again by 8pm today. Am here to share about my pains and gains.

Writing this now... Is making me go through some emotions. Yes! i know i had some "sweet memories " but before all this sweet memories i had some painful and difficult times over there in ivory coast and this is to strengthen anybody who has the determination to succeed in him.

"MY PAINS"

I remember how i left Nigeria without knowing any one over there ( am not saying u must follow this step ooo). And after discussing it with my friends and they discouraged me from going. even one of them asked me in pidgin " wetting u go eat for there" at that moment i know, i never shared same dream with them even if we are all footballers.

I remember how the first girl supposed too help me at the first moment I got too "Ivory coast" but out of pride as a man made me to lie to her... After this ivorian girl asked me after we entered Abidjan. she said - ( emeka do u have where to stay?) She asked this question almost every stop over we had. then out of pride as a man and as a Nigerian guy, i said - i am going too "ASEC MIMOSAS FC TEAM CAMP in Abidjan" , anybody that follows soccer know this soccer team.

But after just one or two days stay at one of the hotels at abidjan, i know i can't continue this way then i humbled my self and call this girl to come and meet me at the hotel. And after she came, she was so angry why did i rent the hotel and lie to her. But i apologised and she brought me to her place, and i learnt my lesson to always "be my self " if i want to be helped.

Believe me, i learnt a lot after lieing so heavily on this good girl. Infact i learnt how to be "my self " no matter what.

Before i continue i want to use this space to thank this good and beautiful Ivorian girl called (Genevieve) for what she did to me at the first stage of my life in Ivorian coast.

My brothers and sisters..... some Nigerians in diaspora are good despite how bad some are. Am so happy that i met a guy who bears same name like myself. His name is Emeka, before i met this guy i know what i went through from other Nigerians over there who has been advising me to go back to Nigeria that their is nothing in ivory coast, but this my friend keeping advising me to stay and showed me some mansion owned by nigerians and how i was even better than them. He also gave me money and told me anytime i needed money i should call him, he tried to help me on where i will be sleeping but he was under someone that brought him to "ivory coast " but his direction really helped me.

Oh my God, i remember how i slept from one nightclub to other nightclubs, infact i know a lot of nightclubs in Abidjan , because sometimes i move around at day time to discover a new nightclub to sleep at night ( is that not hard work?) i also remember how others are dancing and those babes shaking their as*, ( God forgive me ooooo, for this sentence) this is the only part in all i wrote that made me to laugh with out control despite being emotional.

My brothers am getting really emotional i wish to continue writing my sad moment/ pains but let me just stop for people too be able to read it easily ( long note is not good at this time)

I will update MY GAINS Later also.

Stay turned.... While i update my gains...

cc: odinga1of

tunmyce:
one can learn the basics of the language even with a google translator

Yes just like primary basics.....

[quote author=Stewart883 post=88361388]The OP is actually saying the truth. I personally dated an ivorian lady for over 5 years. Mehn those women are very beautiful and very real. I should have married her although something happened sha.[/quote

My guy tell them oooo.... Ivorian babes are hot. If u stay there without getting any woman pregnant, then u are really discipline

kasonud:
Business Wise Uber is lucrative in Abidjan getting conversant with roads hence it's your first time in the country and language berries should also be considered while making your plan to avoid any regret, also if you wish to master french language within a year there should be a special program/ time for that if not na long thing my brother.

OP which job were you doin to survive or you succeeded in soccer?.... please I still want to hear more about those your sweet time with their laddies, maybe ego ginger me to contribute

i believe i was lucky enough to get a job after fews weeks there but i turn it down because, my main purpose and burning desire was to get a soccer team, patience and determination got me through and got a soccer team but in lower division through the help of some locals.

i will be updating again by 8pm today stay tuned. is going to all about my PAINS AND GAINS

Hadampson:
Okay bro. I will be expecting it

And don't forget to give us an update today o

Yes i wont

Hadampson:
EMEKUSBOY9

This your story got me glued to my phone very interesting

I'm currently learning French. Please can you recommend some materials to me especially the ones that focus on the speaking aspect

odinga1of, I'm actually following the thread but all the same, thanks for the mention, i really appreciate

Ablemax I haven't forgotten you sir. I will mention on a non-active thread to join using the link.

Thank u bro for the compliment. OK i will send one to u later i just dnt remember name, so the reason why i will send it to u later

odinga1of:
Bro, I told u to tag me or mention me with my moniker.


U still went ahead n write without me.

No shaking

cc:Hadampson

Baba i think say u only need the part 2 with different topic. Abeg make u no vex ooooo , my hand they up

babakb:
I'm thinking of spending like1 year in Abidjan too so that I can master French Language and I'm thinking of doing Uber to support my self with it.

How possible is this?

Very possible with good plans and discipline. But i hope u are not going to be giving Ivorian ladies free uber ride ooo

babakb:
You spent 2 years in Abidjan, I hope you have mastered French language, if not you should better do because being bilingual will open a lot opportunities for you.

Yes bro, i can speak French . thanks

Jamestown123:
Hmmm no wahala bro we dey wait.

Lolz....

Jamestown123:
baba I hail oo. Come update the thread with better story na! We dey very eager to knw more about there.

Yes i will. i just want this present one to get more view then i keep updating it

Like i said, i promise to share some part of my sweet memories today......

Back to my sweet memories in "ivory coast republic"

I remember my first "night out" when my former Ivorian babe father chased me out of the house.... Despite how hard things are that day, the sweet night life i experience did not allow me to even think for once that am homeless... with every sweet Ivorian ladies passing by and i could not stop turning back in shock why this girls/ladies are so endowed and beautiful .

This is why i said if u promise any girl/ lady marriage before coming too ivory coast you need to embark on fasting and praying. Mine was different because i was not into any relationship before i left Nigeria and is like i have every license to explore ( please am not saying u should leave ur woman before coming). Am saying my conscience was clear.

I remember how i met 3 Nigeria guys and one of them got married to Ivorian lady just 6 months he came into ivory coast i told u ? u need to be strong to escape this trap from Ivorian Beauty and bounty women. As am typing this that my friend have a son .

I also remember how Nigerians are balling and Ivorian ladies are really feelings us to an extent my Ghana friend was even jealous of me and how he's female friend got interested to me and wanting me to tell her about Nigeria music stars( good time to be a Nigerian) it got so interesting to me that i stop responding with English, because that is the first sign that u are a Nigerian guy. Wow!

Let me stop for today i have a lot to say another day and let me start preparing for the part 2. That will be a different topic entirely.

Rupect:
Are still in Ivory coast now?

No am in Nigeria now but i may still go back

Trenton:
i don park my keke oh, oya update make we fire down...nice thread OP, CIV has some amazing coastline...hope you enjoyed the beaches

My guy if u go does beaches, make sure u are a real man and try to wear "bullet proof" because the types of shapes and sizes u go see for those beaches ...... Your "Mr, do good" go they disgrace u

donogaga:
This will get to front page in no distant time.

Thanks bro

odinga1of:
Bros continue the story and ignore oversabi wanna be asslickers association of Nairaland

Thank u bro, i will be updating more info by tomorrow on this same trend

Mizwisdom:
No vex, hope you have gone for HIV test, I heard most of their free girls are +ve

No thick skin to this and is good advice. But Nigeria has higher risk of HIV patients in africa after south Africa and i think Zimbabwe. So my dear it should be Nigeria girls any man should be worried about.

CONCLUSION - do not judge anyone or victimize anyone

Iamicekid:
. Please how much is rent there for a room self contain in a dope place and what’s the payment interval I hear is 3month or 6 but am not sure

My guy, it depend on your taste and they so many options on type of place to stay and dope place may not even cost u anything if u have been able to build some contact with some ivorians. is not just 3months or 6months they are different type of rent over there .

CONCLUSION - since u want to stay in a posh area., have a budject for the rent from 200k, get into country stay In an hotel for 2 or 3days. Then look for house agent is very easy there and every u walk on the street u will see advert and is not like Nigeria where things are difficult to come by. But if u are sharp enough u should have gotten some ivorians friends that can link to a house where u will not be even paying half of the money u budjected.

Phelixblaq:
OGA Continue your thread and ignore this girl wey like to Dey distract people, going up and down from different threads so we go know say he don go Poland so we wey Dey romance section na wailer,, who born you? Who you??

My guy i understand how u feel, but please no fighting. One love brother

cuteguy201:
I believe what you intended to say is "Samedi Soir" not "Samedi sua" as you mentioned.
It's a french phrase meaning "Saturday Evening"

Nice Thread.

Thanks for the correction

Petyprincess:
Why did you stop? I'm curious

because i have some good options

Petyprincess:
I have been to Poland bt i really want something extra ordinary like visiting this maasai tribe in Kenya,the tribe yemilade features in her latest single with angeli kodjo abi weti be her name
I want strange nd fun-filled experience with bit of scaring adventure bt my paranoid self wnt allow me My future plan is visiting an island which I'm targeting Mauritius! It's not everytime Europe,american or Canada

I also have plans for that Mauritius. Although started the process then i stop

Petyprincess:
Have you been to romance section? Na wailers full there Anyways should we be expecting pictures? I plan on visiting countries in ecowas since those are the countries that do not require visa including Kenya,sometimes it's not about travelling to exotic places bt you just want to have adventures nd experience

Loolz. I have also visited some few countries like Egypt, Dubai ,Togo, and ivory coast. But the experience i got in ivory coast is everlasting other countries i did not spend much time those countries only Togo i stayed like 6months... And is good that is your plan, because traveling is part of education and you may find what u are looking for you know what i mean

Petyprincess:
I love the fact you not trying to bash Nigerian ladies nd i respect you for that! Bt i think you should date more nd explore b4 concluding. This will just be an avenue for guys to bash Nigerian ladies as usual while you the op have no intention to bash no one. Ivorian ladies are beautiful no doubt lol

Lolz . I believe only does guys who has it rough with dating a Nigeria girl will always want to bash them on this site, but believe me some guys on this platform who have had it good with Nigeria women are not doing any justice and most of them are " ghost reader"

odinga1of:
Please do and make sure you copy or mention me.

I'm a ghost reader tho.

Lol..., i will thank you

Petyprincess:
I'm enjoying your thread bt why Nigerian guys always claim non Nigerian women don't like money It's funny how y'all think only Nigerian ladies are gold diggers

Peryprincess. Smiles.... Honestly i never compare any ivorian women to Nigeria women, and if you check some of my replies you will clearly saw where i stated it.
But honestly, the few women i dated in ivory coast never worried about my pocket. May be i had not dated up to 5 women in ivory coast to know more about their women , compare to me to dating several women before i traveled out to ivory coast

odinga1of:
Bro continue, as you are writing more inspiration will come and you will be remembering some.

Thank you, i will write the more people ask questions. and i intended written some interesting fact on the country and their women in the "part 2 section"