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Kikyben_2: Everything that concerns dating, I've come to realise its luck and fate, u culd meet a young guy with potentials, he'll date u, but when he gets rich, the issue of class comes in (I'm talking out of experience). But then again, dating a rich guy is a two way thing, and also has to do with the "rich" guys personality, if he's just out to play, he'll use and dump u, but if he eventually falls in love, he can end up marrying u. Life's very complicated.very true dear |
It's hot in here, from all the comments I see I can tell who the mugus are and who the guys with style are. Op I hail you, you're a realist just like me. If a guy is smart he should know if the girl is after he's money,you spent willing, now you are lamenting, if you are a sharp guy you need not use money to impress a girl, there are other means. Take it or leave it there are girls who even spend on guys and who don't ask guys for money. Yet the have a stand by mugu who gladly supply the dough, if you are sharp you can choose not to give. I sympathise with all the mugus or once mugus I see why they are barking like dogs. Wise up and step up your game and take correction the op is not against anyone he is just a realist. |
Extom: Now this is the very definition of LIMPOPO!!!Gbam!!! You've said it all. |
WackyJ1: The typical dumb girl. Who denies all that her fellow females are doing by claiming that the guys that have seen shit at their hands have met the wrong girls.you sound pathetic and hopeless. I strongly think you need to step up your game loser. |
Mikocake: Brought up like a Spartan bro..I have a strong dad with strong gene..Don't do that shit.Please how old are you ![]() |
ikekings1: Naija gals are not bad but they are trash!!!are your sister and mum trash ![]() |
DJDOLA: BOY:doguy you're so funny, this so hilarious it got me lol |
Mikocake: Guess u don't know ur history then. women do the crying here bro not the other way round. To me its weakness to see a man crying for a woman, I mean woman?? I can't even think of it sef.I guess you've not seen a girl that would weep your ass and make you cry like a baby, if you don't get emotional perhaps it's your nature, don't sound as though It's eratic to cry. Guys cry too I repeat. Just because it hasn't happened to you does not mean it's unusual ok. |
IAMBREEZY: Op u wrong even if they like you they will still drain your pocket i don't know where you are getting your fact from...too bad you've been meeting the wrong set of girls, Pele I sympathise with you, perhaps you're lacking in the looks and style department that you have to compensate with money, I stand to be corrected if am wrong, Pele o |
IAMBREEZY: Op u wrong even if they like you they will still drain your pocket i don't know where you are getting your fact from...too bad you've been meeting the wrong set of girls, Pele I sympathise with you, perhaps you're lacking in the looks and style department that you have to compensate with money, I stand to be corrected if am wrong, Pele o |
DonCrust: Oh yea? You're consoling yourself after spending your savings on a girl that care-less about you, keep it up dude!why are you hating The op is right, no girl forcefully squeeze money out of a man's pocket. Most of them give hoping for something in return, but the smart girls as op rightly stated won't bulge at all. |
![]() WackyJ1: Op is a traitor... ![]() WackyJ1: Op is a traitor... |
We've got a lot of pretenders in the house, see how dem dey claim say dey never cry. What has Africa got to do with emotion Take it or leave it guys cry just as girls cry, it's all about how emotional an individual is. |
pristine7: the church recognised by Jesus are those born of the spirit who pray to the father in the name of Jesus (not mary) who believe john fourteen six.....i no get tym nowhere we go again, another aimless argument about the church of Christ. |
odibenson: dont want any gbege.i will still watch her tommorowgood for you, some guys advising you to make a move, am sure dey no sabi the game, u think say e easy for girl to sorji, take your time study her and her body language. |
rokiatu: Gbam!!!! I once saw an ex pic with a boyfriend I was dating, and that was like a ex he was dating in schoool like some century ago. They were not even in the same country any more. He apologized for more than a year.my dear that's how most girls are wired up, they get jealous easily, even though some won't admit it the even get unnecessarily jealous sometimes, men let go easily but some girls even if the forgive the will still make reference to it when dispute arise. |
Na wa for this op Sef u suppose don know what's up with the babe na, no just conclude say the girl want make you knack her akpako. Cuz if you make the wrong move you will be in her black books. I hope you're not one of those guys who can't keep a platonic relationship with a girl. I'll advice you wait for the right signals except you don't value your friendship with her. Girls send mixed signals, if you are sharp you would grab the right signal. Cheers |
uniqueval: [color=#FF00BF]guy na true o |
rien05: U may decide to leave one parish for anoda. D truth be told, d catholic church lacks spirituality. Its all based on routine. U bow down at every statue and say u don't worship it but honour d being it represents. Stay there. Am a Catholic or was,but am out.you can't just conclude that the Catholic Church lacks spirituality, cuz we read the Bible and there are functions in the church which will boost one's spirituality, we read the Bible and all the routine is also biblical. Take it or leave it the Catholic Church is unique. PROUDLY CATHOLIC ANYTIME ANYWHERE. I encourage that everyone works for he's salvation it's an individualistic race church will not take one to heaven. The church is there to guide you and help you grow spiritual, but not a an exit to heaven. It grieves me when I see believers criticising, castigating other Christian denomination. We all should remember that we are all running the same race hence denomination is immaterial. |
sweetpoison: mumu they said CHURCH not societymust u insult is it normal This is a religious section yet you curse, may God help you, in what way are you wiser than her?? |
pc guru: After this response this thread should be locked, cuz no response can top this, beautiful answer ![]() pc guru: After this response this thread should be locked, cuz no response can top this, beautiful answer |
I no wan comment cuz today na Sunday I go try sha, sexual compatibility matters a lot especially when it comes to marriage. I know a lot of unhappy married woman who wouldn't speak up but the are unsatisfied sexually, because of the nature of our environment The woman may be tagged promiscuous if she complains. Statistics has it that couples who are sexually satisfied are more happy together and confident. Personally I wouldn't want to marry a learner, but I can date a learner. My conclusion is sexual compatibility is important for both parties when choosing a life partner cuz some people have low sex drive others have high and some get more excited then others if you meet your match that's your luck. But that's not the major quality am out for though. |
Having sex on a first date is not ideal, I strongly believe it's better to know the person first and how far he is willing to go with you. When I see post like this especially from ladies I wonder where all our values have gone to this is Africa and having sex with a guy on a first date will not favour the girl. Cuz most guys here would consider the girl cheap, although there are exceptions but is the gamble worth it a girl need to pride herself with dignity. Let's admit to the truth girls go on dates with guys often cute ones at that, so if one go about having sex with every or most guys you go on dates with what does that make you but if you say there is no difference or need to wait it's a big lie.. The op is trying to promote promiscuity and I do not agree with her, why should a girl engage in intimacy with a guy who is not willing to commit to all dem cheerful givers aids is real. |
alaric saltzman: i really need more pple with experiences on thisyou could call it fondness most especially if that person possess some qualities you like, attraction could be there, infatuation could be there, but love is a big no, because most people that experience it will tell you it's nothing compared to reality, cuz you have to paint an imaginary picture of that person and those qualities that makes you think you're in love and most times people fake personalities and when's you meet that person he or she might turn out to be a Total stranger to you. I cannot and would not fall in love with a someone online unless we meet physically and the connection is still there something might follow, but I won't go about chasing shadows when there are real people around me.although a times one could get connected emotional with a person he or she met online without meeting the person physically maturity and experience has made me realise people are not always who or what you think. Never delude yourself with those funny feelings. |
Popowaa: I believe in a guy who is hardworking,have goals and working to turn those goals into reality.I will date such guy even if he is jobless and broke as well becos they become millionaires in few years and u enjoy the morewe are on the same page dear |
fabulousdame: i know individuals differ buh then in every 10 relationships where dere re issues of cheating, if it's d men dat cheated, atleast 8 of dem will still stand buh if it's d women, maybe only 3 will still stand...It depends on the individuals involved, where did you get your statistics from ![]() |
P@lesa:my dear that's the spirit, it baffles me when I see girls all worked up cuz no guy is coming their way. When you stop searching you get found, afterall it's not in a girls place to searchhhh, all a girl need to do is prepare herself and pride herself with dignity, intelligence etc at the right time prince charming will come knocking at the door of your heart. Never have misplaced priority and if you are a girl nt a lady men shouldn't be your priority. Focus on building and working on your potentials first. |
lrguru: ''ode'' why not look that up urself. Do u know if she doesn't relate well with people in her area, or cares less about other people's feeling.Please quit the insult is it normal to insult The op is worried and here you are assuming. what if your assumptions are wrong Whether you like It or not some girls have similar issues, must she smile at every dick and Harry in her hood. A decent girl ought to carry herself with dignity and pride. I can not see pride as her problem here so don't go about making her feel worst than she already is and don't be a sadist if you have nothing meaningful to say sharrraaaaap. |
I feel the female folks are more emotional. Your question is trickish op cuz it depends on the individual, some men don't take cheating likely, while some are lenient enough when the find out. But it seems most ladies get jealous easily even if their bf, hubby comment on a girl's pic or Physic na wahala talk more of cheating. However if both parties are married me think the wife is most likely to forgive the husband even if she is hurt, but the man would take the matter seriously if he finds out his wife is cheating on him. No matter the answers you get please bare in mind that it's an individualistic reaction and decision on the issue of how he or she approach a cheating spouse. Individuals differ and so do their reactions to events. |
My dear something is definitely wrong did you say 3yrs Why am I finding this hard to believe As a girl guys ought to compliment, smile, stare, ask you out on dates and finally ask for more. It's normal for every girl to have toasters and it's nt just about looks dear, so don't feel insecure for whatever reason or get yourself worked up, I personally believe there's always that someone special one out there for everyone regardless of their looks and personality. More so you must realise that love starts from loving yourself, hence you need to enjoy every bit of being yourself and never dual on a guy as a source of your happiness, sometimes love comes when you least expect. But if you are really worried then you have a little home work to do in order for you to start getting noticed. Have you considered changing environment or if you are the indoor type get a hobby hang out often, who knows that special one might spot you, have you considered changing your wardrobe dress cute and decent and it would work wonders,make yourself approachable eg smile often, be polite, don't be to choosy, reaccess the kind of people you keep as friends, be able to keep an interesting conversation going. Remember you must not change your personality completely but you have to enhance your personality and make it more appealing and irresistible. Believe me that special one Is just around the corner. Identify your selling point or points and use it to your advantage. Cheers!!! |
A lot of jobless guys have babes, if the guy has potentials eg he is a student or yet to get a job. . But I won't advice even my enemy to date a guy who has no future ambition or simply lazy and lacks vision. |
Which will you like to date an already made guy(big boy) or a guy with potentials? |


