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shutaaaaap we've heard enough already how many thread will broke a** niggas open to rant about how demanding naija girls are to get gf na by force even those guys who can't buy their gf common pure water will stll rant,if u don't do it for her someone else will ok,go advice ur sisters at home to stop being beggers ok,if e pain u dnt date such girls simple,case close.

My new year resolution is to keep away from losers and time wasters and also to be be 3x focuz in all my dealings then never before.so help me God

My new year resolution is to keep away from losers and time wasters and also to be be 3x focuz in all my dealings then never before.

useless

lt sucked smh

Danm some guys can be heartless,that's why l blame some girls who stick to those losers when some signs are glaring.sorry to say you're decietful and wicked,never led a girl on when u do not have a honourable intention towards her.Theres nothing as deadly as a woman's scorn l bet u,u shall meet ur waterloo loser

kokolet007: You are so reasonable wiv ur post!

thanks dear

okewumi: They have said it all.
Let me ask some questions about your guy
1. Is your guy from well to do family (a) Rich (b)Average,mummy teacher and daddy teacher (c)poor
2. what is your guy education profile? (a[b]) Attempted waec or Jamb several times, Carry-over during undergraduate and extra year,third class [/b](b) genius, Scholarships when he was in school, first class.
3. Any professional certification presently (a) yes, ICAN, Autocad etc (b) No, I rely on anointing oil (c) No, The race is not for the swift.....
4. Where is your guy working presently (a) Private companies e.g Banks (b) Self employed (c) Federal Gov job
5. Is your guy the first child (a) Yes and they are four in numbers (b) No and nobody request for support from his family
6. Status of his parent presently (a) Retired, still expecting pention (b) Mummy has retired but dad is in service (c) they are dead.
7. Number of interview he went for before getting the current job (a) uncountable interviews and online CV submission (b) Got job after NYSC

If your answers are the bolded response, you have to take it easy. if a guy struggle to find his way to the top in Nigeria hmmm, the first thing is to build security around himself and that is why he is building his own house. In case he loses his job, atleast the issue of shelter is sorted. It is not easy to marry "aterofo dide". Your guy is not stingy, you will enjoy him when they start calling you landlady. Only God knows the number of online application he submitted b4 he got his current job. Struggling sometimes affect thinking. pls don't be offended, l am just talking from experience

All you mentioned up there is immaterial if her bf is naturally a stingy person, the op confirmed he is stingy because even his friends are complaining. Even if he has responsibility of which am certain he does if he is the generous type his generosity would be extended to her and everyone else, generosity is a virtue, she has every right to be worried.

I laugh at some comments yet those same guys are the ones who come here to post my girl left me for a richer guy. Some even say she is not his wife bla bla bla and he is not oblige to assist her financially I disagree with that am sure when op's bf was broke she had other options yet she sticked to him, if at that time she dumped him for another guy she will be called names that's why I don't blame some girls who will rather date an already made guy, a girl who sticks to a guy through thick and thin deserve an applause especially cuz her type is rare . Take it or leave it every girl wants a stable relationship it includes financial stability especially in marriage, the best way a guy can show he loves his woman is by being there for her in all areas of her life including assisting her when need be vice versa . I blame you for ignoring the warning signs from the unset this Is not an issue you would have discarded, this also goes out to everyone you need to be smart never take little things for granted it wasn't an issue before why bring it up now Perhaps you thought he will change right Let me tell you a guy who out of the little he has does nothing for you will not change over night deal with it or live with it. Also can't you fend for yourself or what As a lady the best way to gain respect from your man is to be financially independent gone are the days were a girl will just sit at home hoping prince charming will come and rescue her it only happens in romantic novels and movies, perhaps is time to build yourself financially it will do you a whole lot of good.

Op abeg make we hear word, stop generalising, besides not all doctors possess the qualities you mentioned, personality is what matters, not profession more so, who cares if you are a shit packer so long as you can pay the bills. Your theory is quite shallow different strokes for different folks jare. So after all your proposition what is your conclusion Everything you mentioned supra is pure bruhaha Not all girls love '' Alpha males'' also not all doctors are alpha males. It's only a shallow minded girl that will fall for a guy cuz of his profession at the end of the day she will be so disappointed.

Op I don't really understand what message you are trying to pass across,cuz your post is not clearly defined. However In regards to the title of your post I actually don't think getting pregnant for a guy is a guarantee that he will marry you.cuz some men may shy away from taking responsibility for the pregnancy more so, some might be compeled to marry you not for love but as an obligation and such marriage may be filled with sadness, also the man in question might deny the pregnancy, a lot of factors maybe considered before deciding to hook a guy with pregnancy cuz some girls have tried it and failed no wonder we the rate of single parenting is increasing by the day. Instead of trying to hook a guy with pregnancy don't you think it will be more honourable for him to make up his mind on marrying you rather than using pregnancy to trap him if that's your intention then it says a lot about you, it's either you're insecure or desperate . How certain are you that the man involved truly love you

kambo: the nonsense u catholics spout.
If mary was without what u call 'original sin' why didnt she die for man? What is original sin? The bible says for "All (including mary) have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God (including mary) ".
The bible says Jesus is our ADVOCATE . The bible says we have boldness to approach the throne of Grace (on which the Father sits) because of Jesus . The blood of Jesus and His righteousness speaks on the christians behalf.
The bible says Jesus lives to make INTERCESSION for his children.
So which one is askng Mary to intercede again?
Which bible verse commands such?
And which bible verse says God is in a perpetual state of seething rage that needs to be appeased.
Catholicism cant just shed off its grim paganistic roots.
Catholicism is satanic and a perversion.

My dear am a Catholic, first and foremost I don't worship Mary neither do I worship images, I know my faith, when I go to church I go with the intent of spiritual growth,whether the Catholic Church is demonic or not is what I would have observed as a result of my vast knowledge in Catholicism. More so, what we practice in church is backed by the Scriptures. This same Catholic Church compiled the bible you use as a reference today, I still advice you to do the needful and stop nosing in other Christian denominations mode of worship we are one in Christ heaven is our goal.

Just passing by. I don't know what this world is turning into people now put themselves in the place of God to the extent of judging, I find this quite disheartening. Who are we before God We're mere mortals,who knows the mind of God who can give him counsel As a true Christian instead of being engrossed in frivolous arguments I urge each and every one of us to be focused in building his or herself spiritually. I strongly believe Christianity is a personal race, some things still remains a mystery instead of trying to dig out those mysteries walk for your salvation diligently because at the end of the day the Church you attended while you were on earth would not be the criteria for where you belong, rather how you lived your life here on earth. BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU SAY NO ONE KNOWS ALL DO THE NEEDFUL AND LEAVE THE REST.

There's nothing wrong in inter tribal marriage, with the level of civilisation I think it's nice to explore other peoples culture . Although it's true that one's ethnic background plays a dominant role in the way one behaves, I doubt if that will be an issue so long as both parties have adequate understanding, also I'll have to counteract one of your point were you pointed out that such marriages do not last, that is highly fallacious, so couple's tribal difference does not determine the success of their marriage. Rather it's effective communication and understanding.

Na for only nairaland guys go dey form macho whether is wrong or right won't change a thing. The truth is guys would always spend for girls if you can't someone else will. Thank God the world is changing only lazy girls depend on a guy for everything, as a guy it makes me feel good knowing I have something to offer my girl. Also since the creation of the world it has been the responsibility of the male to protect and provide for the female I don't know why it's a problem now civilization I guess, if you can't do little things for your girl in a relationship how sure is she that you will do a thing for her when you marry her smh

Well I want to make a shout out to different categories of people in nairaland
1)Those who can't give any useful advice other than reigning insult on others.
2)Those who make unnecessary attempt to appear funny.
3)Those who have no life outside nairaland.
4)Those who have grudges or grievance with male or female gender and rant about it.
5)Those who think they can change the way things in the world are through nairaland.
6)Those who talk like psychopath
7)Those who act holier than thou
Those who bully others online
9)Those who pretend to be alpha males, when in real life they are soft as jelly.
10)Those who are mature and give intelligent contribution and avoid any form of unnecessary altercation. My shout out goes out to you all.

Dear, nothing is really wrong with you stop being paranoid. Being emotional shows you're human, but if you think it's affecting you negatively I'll advice you to shut your heart on those emotions, how do you do it When those emotions comes you divert it or channel your thought to something else, learn to think of different things at a time that way you don't dual on a particular thing, people who are deep thinkers tend to be more emotional than others, learn to channel negative emotions to positive ones it has to do with mind exercise. Once you've learned this technic it will go along way. I can't help further cuz I don't know how your childhood was, the environment you live in etc however there's no cause for alarm you're still young.

shortgun: what is there?
Me and one of my friend been dey nak one akpako together until him travel go obodo oyibo,
even if we go club na one babe two of us they carry go house, i just dey miss those days
Op dont allow any girl to come between you and your guy, cos when the chips are down she will dump your sorry ass for another guy.

Am not that kind of guy that date just any girl, I love my girl for real So sharing is out of it.

iamyet: Say wat??!!!!!!!!......so guys nw fake jealousy.......d world is cuming 2 an end I swear

lol, in a situation where you have a gf who thinks you don't love her cuz you ain't jealous what do you do

pc guru: I don't either but I fake it,not because I don't care too much issues on my head to be jealous about someone. I feel ya but just act it.

alright thanks buddy

Pweedylipsmoi: To me, any frnd who can ask ur gf out ain't a good or worthy frnd.....well, since u cant let go of one for the other, i think u should sit both of them down nd tell dem how u feel, we all know communication is d key in relationships nd make ur gf feel she is worthy enuf, of course most girls wants a guy dat will fight 4 her and get jealous or worked up￴ wen anoda guy admires her or askes her out.

you see that's the problem I hardly get jealous it has been an issue between us, she feels cuz I hardly get jealous am not so into her.

bigtt76: Girls will always come and go but a very good friend would outlive a relationship ....all left to you to decide if your friend can really be classified as a 'very' good friend and if your relationship is worth sacrificing to still keep such friendship.

My opinion here is that a 'very good friend' would not attempt going out with his/her friend's girl or boy ...do the math here!

we've been through a lot together so I don't want to lose her I don't know what she expects me to do, he is my good friend his only weakness are ladies.

Pweedylipsmoi: Exactly....my question is which action did u take wen she told u?

I confronted him he admitted it and apologised.

Donalð Genes: You really want my honest opinion, i think if i were you, pretend like you don't kiaaaa what they both doing, believe me, she will see her mistakes, just do your normal thing, ignore her flirtatious advances with your best friend......it won't last longer..that's what i do to some of my ex. anyway not like this, some of them can't even think of flirting behind my back..they know me well, if i wanna break up, i simple stop calling evevn for many months, years, that's me

thanks bro. But that's not the issue the issue here is that when he asked her out she declined, but she thinks he is not a good friend and she feels I should have taken action when I heard what my friend did.

Donalð Genes: wait for me

lol say something jor

I had issues with my gf so I gave my friend her number to talk to her, after we settled our issues he saved her number and started making advances at her, he even went ahead to ask her out on a date, my gf told me I wasn't happy with my friend when I confronted him he said he is sorry, now each time I mention my best friend's name my gf becomes angry and claim I don't love her since I don't get jealous each time I see her with someone else. I can't stop my friendship with my friend cuz he's my childhood friend, also I don't want to lose her am in a dilemma what do I do?

This op wetin be your own sef Who you dey ask yeye question That's the game if you can't live with it deal with it, na todayWill your obnoxious question change the trend Well if you are a broke a** get a life and stop fooling around with every chick you see. There's more to life then fooling around, am tired of silly thread jobless guys open to bash girls,please get a life dude.

Why does this story sound so fake

All this yeye question some op dey always ask sef, the other day someone created a thread asking if a guy can allow his fiancee put on a G string pant, na wa o whatever happened to freedom of doin whatever we like See we're in a free world everyone has the right to live, act, dress the way they deem fit if you have a problem with it backoff and stop being nosy. Just because you don't like it does not make it wrong afteral individual varies. If she like she should pierce her tongue, nose, belly etc. It's her life l dnt go about changing ppl cuz it's their life.