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Fabulous36: My dear sis or OP, men are polygamous in nature and they will everly cheat on thier wives and babes, its not their fault cos they are wired like that. So dont even bother your head about their cheat just enjoy ur hubby and the relationship you have with him. Once he is taking care of you. Remove your mind about cheating or no cheating. GBAM!!!!!

Ohrydo: u mst b d most very useless woman i ave eva heard abt in dis earth, if we get 2 knw u, u mst b an arrogant nd shameless woman in ur husband house IDIOT.

leonard509: All of una wey dey post curses..una well done...na me be the OP..

bizz: sec anyway

bizz: Just wondering why a student that is still collecting cash from parents and not working would want to keep a girl......do u think it's right ...cos I don't understand again

ms_pee: No, a student should face his/her books and make good grades first. Every other thing will follow later.

bizz: Just wondering why a student that is still collecting cash from parents and not working would want to keep a girl......do u think it's right ...cos I don't understand again

Dannyxy: i have never dated a girl for mre than two weeks, is it a problem?... LET ME EXPLAIN......................................................... When i see a girl i like, i go after her and try to find out if she likes me too and they usually do, bt the problem is, once i see she has fallen for me, i begin loose interest and wouldn't want to continue pursuing a relationship with her, i start avoiding her, stop picking her call etc, till she gets tired nd leave me, then i start picking interest in a new person, and it continues like that... Though i'm nt ready 4 marriage nw, i'm worried it would affect me when i ready to get married, will i find that person that would be able to check mate me? Or will it continue like this...

leonard509: If you are u nairaland guru u'll know which topic triggered this one....just incase you don't know its ''nigerian girls are not bad,its the boys who are foolish''...this topic was uploaded by a GUY !can you imagine


NOW BACK TO WHY WE ARE HERE


some girls use sex or rather intimacy and even money to make a guy love them .....@ my dear readers,hav'nt you noticed such situations?

At first

have you noticed this senario where a very HANDSOME and SHY guy,less i forget he also has money ....nd she then comes across this guy ...she knows the boy is shy and through my studies that shy nature of his won't let him say just right to her face''I DON'T LOVE YOU'' ...through one way or another ,she'll infiltrate this guy's life ...soon she'll start occupying this guy'z life(like from sitting with him always in class to following him to his house as time goes on she'll start choosing which girl he'll talk to,which girl he'll sit with in class or any occasion in school e.t.c).......wen she starts using money is when i'll have to bring in the sugar mummy ish..i dnt rilli hav to expanciate on that ..m sure most of my readers will either know or those that dnt will surely do by reading some of the comments that'll be posted by those who know....

Thats all i hav to share......ALUTA LEONARD509 was here

khia: In order to cry one would have to have a heart, so the answer is no, men do not cry when they get dumped.

passionate88: Na wetin I dey fear pass, I hear say Naija babes like man wey good for bed so I dey avoid relationship wit a non-virgin.

Suigenerisshegs: Op,u're mistaken I swear
Guys won't think of enticing girls with money if they weren't covetous. Come to think of it,Y don't gay guys entice straight guys with money..d ans is Cos guys aren't materialistic and/or covetous like girls.
My Opinion.

Truckpusher: Omo ! see as men just dey throw bottle up and down

Truckpusher: Omo ! see as men just dey throw bottle up and down

fresh_dude: Naija boys too mumu, no game no IQ. Na only showing of money dem sabi.
If dem carry babe go date, na to buy peppersoup and nkwobi with 33, tell me why babe no go get big belle.
My brodas change, the world is coming to an end.

clemz85: sure!
but then, since the Universe has a way of rewarding us according to our deed, i eer to the side of potential guyz unless she didn't contribute gainfuly to the making of the guy,
i deem it to be a prestige when i hear women pointing out significant role they play in their man making and i bet and give it to them when they say "my man", truely that man is hers.

claremont: Never cried, so I wouldn't know.

IAMBREEZY: Nope i experienced it that's why am spilling it out,not that i ain't fine or i don't have swag,am telling ya even after she told me she love me she was still asking for money that was too bad,i ain't her dad,
i've dated like 5 and all of them posses the same behaviour so i had to find my way.

DailyNews: Lol, yes u are very correct, but then, no matter who made a mad person mad, it doesn't change the name we all call a mad person, which is: MAD PERSON! Lol

So there is no justification to a girl being materialistic, wayward or gold-digger! If u don't like a guy, there is no two ways about it, tell him no and stand by your NO and don't commit yourself and emotion to him by accepting a dime or gift from him!

If I don't like a girl, even if she likes, let her go to heaven and bring angel Gabriel down for me or buy me diamonds, the fact remains that I won't date or marry her, and I won't accept anything from her, period! And that's how a reasonable human (man or woman) ought to behave.