₦airaland Forum

Mopolchi:
That's my aunty and her son.

May their gentle soul rest in peace. Amen.

akinsadeez:
Chisos! That's someone's body under the container. Someone who woke up and left home this morning hail and hearty not knowing that was the last time he/she would ever see that home. Chai. Very very sad.

Father lord please direct and protect our steps all through this year. Amen.

What is chisos? In as much as u r trying to make humour out of d situation, u don't call d name of our dear Lord in vain, pls do not incur d wrath of d Lord upon urself. A word is enough 4 d wise.

Bad market for importers

Ladies being jealous since 2000 BC

Badt good guy.

PlutoLA:
Jeez you niggas are dumb. Those places where you see stuff like 1 are just mere strokes to signify the subjects he didn't do! That's why under the remarks,| is also put there,if it meant A1,excellent will be written under remarks. You sef think,how will he have done so many subjects in waec,if you r going to count all the |s as A1?!

Exactly my thought Bro, some peeps reasoning via their anus.

moderatorr:
You dont put on caps in passports. Its fake. And different from what the military submitted. How could he get A1 in igbo and C in hausa?

Why not get your facts right b4 you comment on a post or quote someone, he didn't get an A1 in igbo, he never registered it, that's not a 1 on his result, It's a slash to indicate he didn't sit 4 d particular subject.

BeeBeeOoh:
let's just say u win, but what about Kwakwanso??.. Is he not from d north

Kwankwaso is not loved the way Buhari is, he has lots of sympathizers in the north as well as in the south too. Unlike Kwankwaso whom can only garner votes from mainly Kano state.

Footballers living their dream, hard work pays.

BeeBeeOoh:
The worst mistake APC as a party made was fronting GMB as their presidential flag bearer, Raji Fashola would have been a better option..

Fashola wouldn't have been a suitable match for GEJ, it would hv been an easy ride girl GEJ, Fashola is only popular in the south west, how many people knew him from the north?

vedaxcool:
My brother fayose is a mental case, but if the person he is acting out his rabid madness had told in plain english he is acting stewpid he would have stop, the knife and bread is in Jonathan had, how he wants his campaign to sound is his to determine!

Jonathan is only tarnishing his come back bid by having notorious hooligans in the likes of fayose and FFK.

What's wrong with this tout of a guy called fayose, he needs to go for a psychiatric evaluation

What where they waiting for before?

Haba this children sef! Una noh dey hear word, shebi una wan give bros Jona high blood pressure?

My dear you are not, you guys were never meant to be in the 1st place, he was only an instrument for u to meet ur Mr right. Ignore their threats and go ahead with ur wedding plans, they would later come to terms with you, try and be nice to them at all cost and never allow them to deprive you of the joy that comes with u getting married to ur found love. Above all take it to Baba God in prayers.

Keep ur answers coming, u would surely get ur recharge cards, am not restricting it to a winner alone.

200 naira worth of airtym to whoever get it ryt, so let's go dia
1. Was a virgin till 23

2. Loves ladies with extra large bosoms

3. Am very light skin

If you are in love go to Ekpoma and see her, she's a nice girl, knew her some years back, and stop constituting a nuisance on NL.

Most ladies with big bosoms do complain of back pains, others to me is irrelevant. Love them Mega.

You have to move on now, she is now your past and have to remain so.

RIP Murna, It's well with your soul.

runnazz:
It's a very sad experience and could give your friend emotional scars for life...anyway if i were in his shoes,my brother i know God urges us to forgive but i just cant find it easy to forgive any lady that can go that far to deceive me I'll rather go to hell for the sin.How could she say she was gang raped in secondary school and the road was still as open as Benin Ibadan express way...haba lets be realistic here even when you've not had sex with ur girl for a long while who is faithful you will feel it..not to talk of someone who was raped just once in secondary school.She is a liar and a bad one at that.If she was even smart at all she would have told him no s3x till after marriage for her cos she is disciplining herself for her future man and not the virgin card..What i would do is divorce her lying,deceptive a$$ as early as possible who knows how may tricks & surprises she has up her sleeve...them no dey use shame drink poison marriage is forever and the greatest mistake your friend will make is keeping her out of pity..except he still loves her ooo..but me i see no reason why i should still continue loving such a snake.

Exactly my thought but I still feel divorcing her would be a bit too extreme, don't you think so? I would advice he take a little time off to clear his mind to avoid any irrational decision.

mencade4:
WHAT HELL?

U DONT KNOW WHAT U R SAYING. FALLACY

Must you comment? If you don't have anything meaningful to contribute why not observe and keep mute, I only required matured views here.

AfricanApple:
he exposed his wife without knowing. now you knew a secret the wife would love so much to keep.
best thing is forgive or does he wanna file for a divorce?
there is no advice needed on this issue, he should be able to take his own decision on such matters

I wish him good luck

has he now seen all the advice given to him?

I think the better part of the advice given to him is to forgive and love her unconditionally, but the task ahead is getting him to regain the trust he had for her, I believe time would heal his broken heart, you wouldn't understand what it feels like to be betrayed by someone you truly loved.

AfricanApple:
I wonder what kind of a man will bring such issue to a friend, he is making mistakes aswear. what does he expects you to tell him, whatever happens to forgiveness.
op you could as well advice your friend to stop exposing people he loves so much like that

It's not exposing as you see it, It's called wise counsel, many mistakes in relationship wld had been averted had it been a proper advice was yielded to, am like a brother to him, so he feels like he could trust and confide in me.

topchi:
sad,i can imagine the pain ur friend is passing through.But i fink he should forgive her knowing that most rape victims usually find it difficult to love again.she could be saying d truth. besides,what are her other characters like.did she ever cheat on him while they were dating,if not then he should forgive her.time heals wound. remember he must involve God on what ever decision he is taking.best of luck.

She never did while they were dating atleast to the best of his knowledge.

MKSON:
Since i know this is gonna make front-page, lemme comment

Dude that gurl was not raped in anyway cos if she was raped in secondary school, her hymen could have been very tight by now that it would not be so easy to penetrate. Infact it seems she had sex before the wedding.

Sorry i could be straight to the point. Am a realist

Exactly my point bro, had that view too, you sensitive issues like this one need to belatedly in rendering advice, ladies can't be trusted this days o

ifex370:
All man dey claim virgin... even my papa sef na virgin... your friend wan marry virgin abi... he hasn't seen anything...


he should better run back to the bone of his bone... mtcheww

Not really, he wasn't so keen about the virgin thing, he only respected her views and being the fact she was 1.

My childhood friend came running to my house in a very tensed mood, when I asked him what the problem was he just stood motionless, unable to mutter a word, I later took him out to the bar to calm his nerves, these were what he told me, being unable to advice him, not to advice wrongly I want to throw it up to you, I seeked his consent mind you because he is a fellow Nlander, let's go there.
My friend has been the type you would refer to as being a good guy, he was the kind of guy every girl would dream of, faithful, Godly, rich, tall and very handsome, we were course mates at the university, we parted ways after graduation and got re-united months back, he met this Pretty girl during his service year during camp and they became best of friend, they started dated during their NYSC scheme ,while dating he made some approach to make love to her and he was turned down by her, he already anticipated that so was never bothered, but he was surprised w hen she told him she was a virgin and was keeping herself for her husband, which made him to love her the more and showed more interest in the relationship, during the course of their dating he told her everything about himself including his former bad habits and addictions whom he has quitted, he also encouraged her to do same but she declined telling him she was a good girl in all raminification, he believed her in good faith.
My friend proposed to her immediately after service because he was well to do as he comes from a very wealthy family, she accepted and everything as regards the marriage was done in a grand style, where the problem now began was the night he has been awaiting for the better part of his life, after the aftermath party he excused his friends and took his wedded wife to their executive lounge, so he was expecting a real battle that night, he even had to ask his friends whom had dis-virgin a lady what to expect and he was well tutored, on getting there he met no stiff opposition, he had a free ride infact he had an express ride and a more experienced treat than what he had ever had, puzzled, he had to stop for some questions as he never bargained for what he saw, upon fierce interrogation she then opened up to him that she was raped while in secondary school and as such never had affection for men and became a secondary virgin and that she became madly in love with him and was afraid she may loose him if she confided in him, but he was furious that see never told him while they were dating, my friend feels cheated and betrayed and is contemplating calling it quits because he strongly believes any marriage that was built on deceit may not stand the test of time, so what do you feel guys? Should he forgive her? I need to get back to him as soon as possible as he is in a very bad shape so messed up.

Sijo01:
BMLS I guess.
she will hear; who should I say 'said hi'?

Yeah, Her senior colleague.

Sijo01:
Where is the sawg

Luvly dp, by the way my regards to Hope, miss that black beauty.

Clerics are speaking the words of wisdom, hope fellow Nigerians would hearken to them.