It's a very sad experience and could give your friend emotional scars for life...anyway if i were in his shoes,my brother i know God urges us to forgive but i just cant find it easy to forgive any lady that can go that far to deceive me I'll rather go to hell for the sin.How could she say she was gang raped in secondary school and the road was still as open as Benin Ibadan express way...haba lets be realistic here even when you've not had sex with ur girl for a long while who is faithful you will feel it..not to talk of someone who was raped just once in secondary school.She is a liar and a bad one at that.If she was even smart at all she would have told him no s3x till after marriage for her cos she is disciplining herself for her future man and not the virgin card..What i would do is divorce her lying,deceptive a$$ as early as possible who knows how may tricks & surprises she has up her sleeve...them no dey use shame drink poison marriage is forever and the greatest mistake your friend will make is keeping her out of pity..except he still loves her ooo..but me i see no reason why i should still continue loving such a snake.

mencade4:
HAHAHA......TRUE.....SHE HAS BEEN FVVVCKING DIFFERENT PE...NIS BOTH IN HER VAJAYJAY AND HER SHIIIT HOLE. FRONT AND BACK.

lol.. If seun catch you ehn!!

mencade4:
WHAT HELL?

U DONT KNOW WHAT U R SAYING. FALLACY

okay

mencade4:
WHAT HELL?

U DONT KNOW WHAT U R SAYING. FALLACY

Must you comment? If you don't have anything meaningful to contribute why not observe and keep mute, I only required matured views here.

runnazz:
It's a very sad experience and could give your friend emotional scars for life...anyway if i were in his shoes,my brother i know God urges us to forgive but i just cant find it easy to forgive any lady that can go that far to deceive me I'll rather go to hell for the sin.How could she say she was gang raped in secondary school and the road was still as open as Benin Ibadan express way...haba lets be realistic here even when you've not had sex with ur girl for a long while who is faithful you will feel it..not to talk of someone who was raped just once in secondary school.She is a liar and a bad one at that.If she was even smart at all she would have told him no s3x till after marriage for her cos she is disciplining herself for her future man and not the virgin card..What i would do is divorce her lying,deceptive a$$ as early as possible who knows how may tricks & surprises she has up her sleeve...them no dey use shame drink poison marriage is forever and the greatest mistake your friend will make is keeping her out of pity..except he still loves her ooo..but me i see no reason why i should still continue loving such a snake.

Exactly my thought but I still feel divorcing her would be a bit too extreme, don't you think so? I would advice he take a little time off to clear his mind to avoid any irrational decision.

MKSON:
Since i know this is gonna make front-page, lemme comment

Dude that gurl was not raped in anyway cos if she was raped in secondary school, her hymen could have been very tight by now that it would not be so easy to penetrate. Infact it seems she had sex before the wedding.

Sorry i could be straight to the point. Am a realist

Some ladies are naturally tight even after child birth. Its a natural phenomenon to be either too tight or lose..

But Nigerian girls are the worst liars on earth.

Ask Liar Muhammed.

ifex370:



okay but he shouldn't divorce her still that would be stupidity at its peak plus it will surely land him in hell

All these girls way dey lie like Liar Muhammed, wey dem go go sef ?

AfricanApple:
he exposed his wife without knowing. now you knew a secret the wife would love so much to keep.
best thing is forgive or does he wanna file for a divorce?
there is no advice needed on this issue, he should be able to take his own decision on such matters

I wish him good luck

has he now seen all the advice given to him?

Stop defending something that is bad

The poster might be the person it happened to. Or are you in league with this lady's bad behaviour ? This is very despicable..

mencade4:
END IT.

DONT FORGIVE HER.


IF YOUR FRIEND WAS IMPOTENT WITH LITTLE PE...NIS SHE WILL ABANDON HIM IMMEDIATELY.




DUMP HER!

Hahaha...

emerich:

Must you comment? If you don't have anything meaningful to contribute why not observe and keep mute, I only required matured views here.

stop bleating like a goat. see who is seeking for mature response.

i wish i.could indulge you in such infantile.altercation but nay, go and join your mates.in the playground.

make u take time ooo.

100Cents:


All these girls way dey lie like Liar Muhammed, wey dem go go sef ?

my brother tank u jare.....them want use hell fire make ken turn eternal.mugu. hw far

Deceit is a valid ground for divorce. I am not an antagonist by any stretch of ur imagination Bt I dnt c any means by which he would ever trust her again. Though nt married, sm1 did same to me and mine was within a space of 4 yrs. No matter hw bad it was d least she could hv done was to say it b4 d marriage cos ntin cn ever change dat feeling of betrayal on d part of d guy

emerich:

Exactly my thought but I still feel divorcing her would be a bit too extreme, don't you think so? I would advice he take a little time off to clear his mind to avoid any irrational decision.

wow so you think that's extreme? well if it was me or a friend of mine its exactly what i would advice him to do to save future problems...the matter is very clear no need for time off.The foundation is corrupt already...well my opinion tho...a stitch in time they say....