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czarina:
Up Aston Villa! We're winning!

Jealousy.... Go and meet your Arsenal pple, at least Liverpool beta pass Arsenal.

What is going on with marriages this days ?

dannyla:
I opened a new account to remain anonymous.
This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.

I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace.
He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.

He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.

Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.

Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.

He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s.
I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.

Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.

3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.

He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.

I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.

I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.

He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit?
Thanks for reading and pardon any typos

In summary Madam. I feel u don't kn what u want and the value of your happiness!

Neoteny:
Madam born pikin first, abi na human beans do you?

Mind your business oga. how does her not giving birth yet affect your income? is like you stay in face me I face you apartment!!

Jealousy pple no wan update Never walk alone score o... Its not our fault that we kn how to play good football o..

Yes, power has been restored back to Ishawo since yesterday evening.

We need from ikorodu bus stop to marina, ikorodu to vi or Lagos island plssss anytin to avoid the constant traffic in ikorodu road pls.

Roon9:
Hmm.. Never knew governors could be this powerful. How Ambode take loose guard his?

there was notin Ambode could have done to savage his situation. He is a very proud and stubborn person,all civil servants were not happy wit is style of lidaship even the soil he walked on was angry with him. Beside, the national leader of APC reside in the Lagos n the den commissional of Lagos state is the national leader parley. So.. Ambo cause his own problems den by abandoning almost complete project of the foma Gov and worst still tried to force his will on lagosian by creating is own legacy.

donoro:
arsenal ke I reject it for myself and my future generations bros u got the wrong person o

U really crack me dis evening, future generations lo wun lo wun. We Are Liverpool and We Will Never Walk Alone!!!

donoro:
2-0 I love liverpool I love liverpool

anyway u r welcome to my club. We Liverpools have the heart of gold n accommodating. Welcom

donoro:
2-0 I love liverpool I love liverpool

Shu..!! But you use to be an Arsenal supporter na.. Bros!

Wordson:
Abeg, if u no get reasonable thing to type, dash sb ur fone.. .. or I tell Mod to do d needful

Bros stop inching o.. Its not good for your health.

donoro:
so origi and shaqiri would have scored that goal

Bros goal will com if it want to come. But experience is important. Those pple u mentioned can still score it. Thank God we r leading

Okpe o.. Mine darling Liverpool leading. For Mane to have gotten a yellow card in this match means this club really tried to frustrate Liverpool

fecta:
Half time.
Origi needs to come in for salah.

Ox is needed for gini.

Klopp will never be bold enough to make does changes. I don't kn what he sees in salah despite that he plays rubbish at time. Origi and Shaquiri is there o..

okomile:

All Lagos state governors dey attend. Nothing new

Next!!!!

Ambode Neva attended. I don't know if he was invited or not o but I kn he didn't attended not even The Platform by" Covenant Christian center"

Aidejay:
See in developed music industries you cannot perform someone's song with out crediting them nor can you do a performance with out prior notice or permission. But these gospel artists need to evolve you get song yet you go perform another man song.

I remembered one of our thanks giving service, frank Edward was present and Sammie was ministering in songs"leading praises" he den tried to sing one of frank Edward song, the guy(Edward) pointed at Sammie and told him he will take that , Edward walked straight to him n collect the mic from him. Edward lead only that song n one other n gave back the mic to Sammie.

To me o, it's total wrong to perfume other actist song on stage. U make their absence inconsequential n make dem feel bad and they won't or can't be invited since other actist is performing the songs. Its not wise.

damble:
Oga, we have this department in big churches, they are the protocol officers, their basic responsibility is to prevent crowd from going close to the men of God in the name of touching them to receive miracles. I am 100% sure it is the prayers of these God's generals that is keeping Nigeria. Believe it or not . God bless You.

Oga u shoot yourself wen u said "their basic responsibility is to prevent crowd from going close to the men of God in the name of touching them to receive miracles."? Shu.. na so your sense reach? Pls mention how many pple did Jesus or his disciples prevent from getting close to them?. even u self that is donating can't get close to them, what an irony.

Mane is Liverpool!! Liverpool is Mane..!!! He's a threat to any defense in the world of football.

This is match of the night, all eyes will be on Morinho and he will not want to let anyone down.

OtemAtum:
Everton, do something pls

I don't want know and I don't care all I know and care of is " We will never walk alone" Liverpool will trash Everton.

Any one who don't know won't know all this is targeted at saraki.

u tink u r politically smart abi? used APC to get federal govt appointment den decamp back to your previous party. Oshiomole has promised to deal with you.

y shld he attend when he already kns the system has been politicised... what did messi did or do to deserved that award.

I like Ronaldo way jor, he no send them

GrabHisBalls:
The thing is that you have raised a standard for yourself. Perhaps, if you're patient enough, he'll come around. I'm in same shoes as you. Infact, I have one that has been disturbing me of marriage but he's just not my type. He knows he's not and has confronted me citing not being up to what I want but I refused to state the major reason why I won't accept to date or marry him 'cause I don't want him feeling less. I just believe that with time, things will fall in pleasant places.

Sha don't wait for your type and taste or shld I even say class until you get to 35,36,37 to 40 by then you will be desperate and settle for anything. use your brain o.

Pls check d mail

They are the best producer. They can produce The very best in everything including porn stars....

Access bank oshi wo? This bank that can frustrate and scatter customers money. GTB leads!!!

Daddy Freeze over to you U. pls help me analyze leke call for prayer.

Onijagidijagan:
Congratulations Tiwa.

Mention a female artist that best hardworking grammy nominated Tiwa salvage in west africa and in Nigeria?

Don't try to mention Yemi alade cuz you will not have a point

You opened two accounts just to hate her..nawa o? She done win but how will u too be successful yourself in life?

You talked about hardworking and not talent. I don't c any reasonable music from Tiwa compare to Simi. I believed na the yash wey wizkid dey pack and nude dance she dey dance for stage give her that undeserved award. Simi is far better.

SamuelAnyawu:
These New Governors got nothing to offer

Sanwo olu do have something to offer.

Ambode was a waste sperm for four years