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Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by mechanics(m): 10:47pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Just iron things out with him in love and reassure him of your submission and respect to him. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by luminouz(m): 10:48pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
tchidi066: Come here,make I give you belle sharp sharp... |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 10:49pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
God! Tales by moonlight every now and then. Between this section and romance section I can’t tell which one has more fake stories these days 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by mumumugu(m): 10:51pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: shower your children with love and affection. that will resist his attempt on them.they won't fall for his tactics |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by luminouz(m): 10:51pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Philpham: I'm a black man and I'm not cursed!! |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by chronique(m): 10:52pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: How do you guys manage to get married to fools and idiots? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 10:55pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
One-sided c.o.c.k&bull story. You are painting yourself as being the victim. After a wonderful ten years marriage (according to you), your husband just woke up 1 day and started threatening to ask your kids to disrespect you.. ? And you want sensible adults to believe this story ? Are you sure you have not been using the kids against him whenever you guys have any misunderstanding, and he probably got fed up and threatens to retaliate,and you come to NL with this one-sided thrash.. One question : If he's such a horrible husband, why are you still with him? DIVORCE him.. Is he holding you hostage with a gun to your head? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by vickydankal(f): 10:57pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Philpham: I'm not good insulting people, especially when I'm the elder one. It won't hurt to dispute my writeup in a civil and matured manner, but here you are.... What I wrote up there is for men. Don't mistake yourself as one of them. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Ferdinandu(m): 10:57pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
ebyjoyken:Except if you are not what a typical mom is. You have nothing to fear, his effort to poison their mind against you will definitely backfire against them. Kids are naturally closer and feels easier with their mum than Dad. At 7yrs at least kids already have minds of their own, they are more like a dog. That a neighbour gives a dog food doesn't make it not to know it's real owner. If your kids is already closer to you now, it is going to be efforts in futility. Except if they are closer to their Dad then you may have something to worry about |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Martinez39(m): 10:59pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
I could give detailed, sound, and coherent reasons why this story is probably false and, at least, doesn't make sense. However, let assume the truthfulness of your story and say that your husband is a terrible person and you need to discuss with him and tell him that any disagreement should be between you two only and the children shouldn't be involved in it. Also make it clear to your kids that you love them and will always have the good intentions towards them. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by BOFREJO(m): 10:59pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Macsjebs:Because it takes years to be a Graduate and everyone want to be a Graduate on time..... so how would you expect an inane to stay long in such institution. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Kapapa: 11:02pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
I laugh at those who said he can't do it. Do you know how he intends to achieve that? Take no man's word for granted he can go exra mile to achieve 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Frankyboy1(m): 11:05pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
tchidi066: You look more like a maid than an only daughter, my observations though |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by BabaIbo: 11:06pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: Post whatever you have to post(i.e advise her) and leave the males alone. If only you know the reason behind that decision you won't type those things you typed there. You think someone like me will come online and jump to conclusion with only one side of the story. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by healthserve(m): 11:06pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
GidiWoodsMan: Really fvkec up one's. I couldn't have painted the narrative any better |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Skmoda360(m): 11:07pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
MedicH:This crack me up [center][/center] |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by CAPSLOCKED: 11:08pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Martinez39: IF YOU SEE THE MAN'S PART OF THE STORY YOU'LL REGRET EVER PAYING THIS WOMAN ANY ATTENTION. I STOPPED READING AT THE SECOND SENTENCE WHEN I REALIZED THE DIRECTION SHE WAS HEADING TO. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Akwukwonso: 11:08pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
[quote author=GrabHisBalls post=84873692] You need to rephrase the emboldened to 'whenever you guys have disagreements which subsequent leads to a quarrel'. Firstly, your marriage has lasted a decade so you should know your husband more than anyone. If you really need a solution, then you should look inward to see if there are things you do or say to him that he finds disrespecting. There lies one of your solutions. Secondly, you're obviously bitter your husband didn't call your family when you lost your dad. Have you found out from him why he didn't? Did your family offend him in any way? And even if he was offended, nothing justifies not sharing his condolence at that time. Regardless, you have to forgive him in order to have a peaceful marriage since he's your husband. Lastly, you don't have to be scared if you've been in your best behavior or get angry when it's demanded. Your kids are actually seeing everything and know quite a lot if you're thinking they don't. When your husband is in his best mood, you should have a talk with him to resolve these underlying issues before they'll escalate to something irreconcilable. Whoever you are that gave this piece of advice, you are a GIFT! I learned a good lesson now. God bless you a great deal. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 11:08pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: The future is too far for you to be worried about. Besides, why do you need your kids loyalty to be what you are? Those kids are strangers and so is your husband. You are here on a mission, and that mission does not need your husband and kids to complete. Meditate and invite the intuitive guidance system to show you your mission, so you can focus on your mission and be less worried about these distracting and artificial assignment called family responsibilities. You have a greater task to complete before you Exit the Matrix. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by YorubaLord: 11:09pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: Sisi… You no well, I swear!
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Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by BabaIbo: 11:12pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
tchidi066: Abeg choose one and let the men know the serious ones. You're talking as if na you go marry person abi na person go marry you... na you wan pay bride price. I dislike people that always have a wavy or negative thoughts about something cos of few complaints on that thing. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by BabaIbo: 11:14pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED: Na their way/style/pattern |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by April4th(m): 11:16pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: Now you’re talking, the true story why he doesn’t like your family is unraveling. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Emma1Oj(m): 11:21pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
What is going on with marriages this days ? |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by budusky05(m): 11:25pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
1)But recently each time we are having a discussion he keeps saying that anytime I challenge him that he will ask my children to insult me. What kind of discussion or do you mean quarrel or arguments? Why do you challenge your hubby? 2) I have never spoken ill of my husband before my kids, so i don't understand why he keeps saying that to me. Q A) Do you speak I'll to his face when you guys quarrel? |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 11:26pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: Poison their minds first. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by zigzagluv: 11:31pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
thats not true, I have seen a man talk ill of his wife to his children , to the level the children are calling their mother prostitute ,5boys, the last boy is 9 years. When the mother try to discipline them, they will be calling their mother name publicly sometimes they will tell their father to slap their mother, The woman got married to the man at 19.The man is from Abia, they children dont have regard for their mother.. Larryfest: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Luckysbab: 11:33pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
luminouz: Why are you pampering the nutcase; you wan marry her? Disgusting! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by luminouz(m): 11:39pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Luckysbab: Lol.....nope @ your question. I just needed to let her know due to her energized emotional state, she misunderstood a simple statement. I never take things on NL that serious bro |
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