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Almond joy should also be amongst the queen

for the king its no other person but Stepehnp

for the queen its jennykadry

rotflmao see matured insult ,ive been missing alot

for females:almond joy,jennykadry,busta,ladyT,morenike,sheniqua and so on

i think jennykadry and almondjoy takes d lead,they are very straight forward,they always say their mind,and hit d nail on d head

for males:4him,4play,prince_onx,ozioma,sly and so on

i think 4him and 4play,they r also straight forward,especially 4him

so what do u all think,please drop your comments

happy birthday welli

hmmmmmmm

i was thinking about this and i decided to open up this thread

for the ladies i think:jennykadry,busta,cadet,ibkaye,LadyT,Almondjoy,wendymanda,and so on
but i think jennykadry takes d lead for now

for the guys i think:sly,4play,4him,prince_onx,eldee,saucekid,hammers,totolover and so on
don't know who takes d lead for guys because they are all funny


but let me hear from u nairalanders,who do u think is d funniest f/m nairalander

@topic

if it were possible to get waters from d moons for u,i wont hesitate

@jenny
hallo jenny,waddup,how r u doing and hows ur husband,hope u dey take care of am well well oooo,come ooo i never see any reply from chinda3,una be friends according to wetin she tell me,hope no problem wt her

@poster
no vex say i dey derail ur topic

for me wearing trousers is not a sin,afterall christ while on earth was putting on trousers,believe me ,even my husband buys trousers for me,because sometimes whenever we are going out,if he puts on a jeans and a can(choks or canvass? he always wants me to put on a jeans and can too,that makes us both a wonderful couple

mennn u r d bomb jenny, i dont see anything wrong wt my babe wearing trousers,afterall i buy them for her sometimes

to d babes in d house ,if u feel comfortable wearing trousers,please wear them,and forget about all dis people that judge about it been a sin,afterall it was stated in whole testament not new,and trousers was not specifically emphasised on,it only said women dont wear wat belongs to men

your mouth should be washed with soap

agreed ,but who will supply d soap

Emma,
tell me the storm is over. The bride is home for super!

Hope you got my point?

not yet bro, the storm is still heavy,i pray it settles down fast

lol good one my brother keep it up for me

@emma

wats up long time no see,how r u doin

i was only imitating u chinda3 and trying to get ur attention ojare

im fine ,been very busy wt work,im ok ,and i dont need to ask how u r doing u r always bouncing well

Dude you seem to be scared of her, speak out be a man!

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

igbo girls are the bomb

i talk am i know say na his grace go post this kain topic :d :d

hallo chinda3 how r u doin

@poster

chinda3 is a very romantic person,i wish my girl was like dat,i never knew she could be dis romantic,judging from her nasty replies sometimes, until d day i spoke wt her one on one,men her voice alone is d word romantic.

@chinda3

pls dont crucify me if u read dis ,i was just telling d truth

@ Emma
Emma, How are you my man? i checked the last thread and you have not visted since them. Hope everything is good for you. This person is a girl and I know I enjoyed being with her , we never really dated because we were teens but everything she makes me feel both good and bad I cherish.

@eccentric
my brother wetin man go do ehn?i just took d advise of u and other people on d last thread,but dat ola guy is too harsh and not understanding,he does not understand wat im going thru ,he thinks its easy for me,if it was easy i wouldnt have come here for advise,anyway i know wat to do now,as for d reminiscing thing,my dear e no bad,its no big deal,but when it starts affecting the new one like u said,all u have to do is sit down and think ,ask urself ,wat do i really want out of this?

My question to Nairlanders is reminiscing a good thing

its a good thing depending on wat u r reminiscing on,though u r not obliged to ansa dis question,but permit me to ask u?is dis ur friend male or female?wat exactly are u reminiscing of?if it's a female,were u inlove wt her before?

Hi Emma,
I'm sorry to keep harping on this but why did you ask the girl in Nigeria to marry you if you say you can't be yourself with her? I just don't get it. . .were you planning to spend the rest of your life pretending to be something you're not or were you hopping that after marriage you can finally be yourself? Honestly, this is where the whole "you've changed, you were never like this when we were dating" starts from. Give her the chance to see the real you. . .who knows maybe then she'll also be able to express herself more. Women have been blessed with a sense of intuition. . .maybe she's getting that you're not being yourself with her and that's why is why she keeps things bottled up. . .not knowing how you'd react. It seems to me you're both tip-toeing around each and this does not bode well for your relationship.

It does seems like you've made up your mind about this girl in the US. . .which is fine and good but in my opinion, you didn't give the other girl a fair chance. Please know that I am in no way trying to dissuade you from what you'eve decided, I just want you to think carefully. . .there are not one, two but three people's emotions at play here.

@siskill

how do i say thank u to u?u r donly one here u seems to understand wat im going thru,believe me ive not made up my mind about d u.s girl,somepeople said i should stop comparing,but like ecentric said ,there is no way comparison wont come into this,as a girl if u want to buy clothes dont u compare out of d two u love most especially if u cant avoid the two,and must take one,u compare both and then decide on the one u want

some think im after dis girls wealth,I AM FAR FROM IT ,i dont care if her father is d president of naija presently,i only mentioned d wealth aspect cos i was hitting on humility,i keep saying dis,i am not a poor man myself,the girls fathers wealth did not make me ,who i am today,so i dont know why some nairalanders dont seem to understand wen one needs help.

sisikill i repeat i have not made up my mind yet on d u.s girl,i am only comparing and its just dat she's leading for now.

thanks all d same for ur advise sisikill,from my heart i appreciate it,im sure whoever's going to marry u ,will be d luckiest man on earth,cos u r very understanding

thnaks all for ur advise.
@sam milla

thanks all d same,im a citizen of america and i can travel to wherever i want to,i can travel to nigeria today if i want to,and d girl in nigeria is my fiancee,not my wife,but i know wat u mean,thanks all d same

@ Emma

Your mind is made up for this us girl. It is very very obvious. You maybe started this thread to make yourself feel like you are not being unfair to the Nigerian girl. I have to tell you that you are being unfair to her not because you might leave her but because of the way you are doing it. I tell people that the best time to take a decision on any relationship is when there is no body else there. Why did you not leave her since you can not tolerate a girl that bottles things up. I personally don't like such people but i would break up with any guy if i find out something about him that i cannot leave with BUT I will definitely not wait to find another guy first before breaking up so as to be fair in my judgement.

Comparing two people is unfair especially the one you love less because love will make you side the one you love most and then highlight their good side and turn supposed weakness into strengt.While i don't support u marry out of pity, i must tell you that u have been unfair to your Nigerian girl my reason being that if her bottling things was so much of an issue ,why did u wait till to do this. I think you are just looking for a way to paint her black so u can move on.
Com mon people it's time we started treating people the way we want to be treated. Let's respect peoples heart.

@baby girl

my mind is not made up yet,its just dat ive watched both characters and hers seems to be d best,babygirl if u had read dis thread from d begining u will find out where i said i have never cheated on d naija girl,never,not even for one minute,not a second,even though we r miles apart,ive always been faithful,ive met so any girls but none of them has moved me d way d one here in d u.s has,believe thats y i came here for help,i know its going to be unfair
on one of them
but i would break up with any guy if i find out something about him that i cannot leave with BUT I will definitely not wait to find another guy first before

breaking up so as to be fair in my judgement

i did not wait to find someone before i break up wt d naija one,infact the thing is i did not even plan to fall for anybodyexcept d nigerian girl,but things just turned upside down,i know i deserve to be kicked in d ass,but i just need advises dats all

« #47 on: Today at 08:40:03 PM »

Before you do what you will regret, just think twice.

I have a friend who has been dating this girl for 5 years, they got engaged, we had this work thing together, his girlfriend travelled and we started hanging out, the next thing I know he was already hitting on me. I just thought it was pure friendship no strings, because I know his girlfriend to. The way he talk to me, how many times he'll call me on d phone eveeryday, it all changed! The day he finally said something, I was shocked.

So, I sat him down and talked to him, everything is fine now, he got over it, they're getting married in August.

I won't go into more detals, what I just want you to know is, what u're feeling might not be love or chemistry, it's just anxiety, it's very natural so don't feel bad. Just be sure u
re not making the wrong decision, good luck! Wink

thanks i appreciate ur advise,God bless u

@eccentric

thanks my bro,u really know wat im going thru,u see i just have one question for u,check urself out,from dis two ladies who do u love most?ur answer will make me reach out to u,u see everyguy needs a wife who is a mother a sister and a friend,a wife dat makes u feel athome,a wife dat understands u and u also understand her,dis are d qualities i find in d u.s girl.

I understand the pidgin part was Emma's way of saying how down to earth the girl is and I apologize for dismissing it the way I did. I honestly don't get that he loves one more than the other. . .I think he really is confused. I know he has no obligation to tell us more but I'd really love to know why he thinks he can't be himself with the girl in Nigeria and why he thinks the girl in the US is calculative. . .or calculating.

@sisikill
u see sisikill i can be wt d nigerian girl,like i said i proposed to her and wat i wanted was to propose and then after a few wekks we get down wt d traditional marriage,but after i proposed to her ,because of dis attitude of bottling things up,i decided to delay a little and try to make her change ,u see sisikill i know i cant change her or make her change ,but i only begged her to let me know wenever i annoy her,instead of bottling things up and then after few months she just offloads everything on me,like i said im not telling u the u.s does not have her faults,anger(hot temper)is one problem she has,but if i annoy her she tells me instantly,look emma i dont like wat u just said ,i actually complained to my best pal here in d u.s about d naija and he was like girls dat bottle of things can be very dangerous,and wat i meant by calculative is,i believe an intelligent person is calculative,u know wenever d person is asked a question d persons mind runs fast to answer,dats wat i meant by calculative,sometimes we (d u.s girl and i)will be talking and then i will tell her about some problems i have,u know wat ,her mind runs so fast and get me d solution i need to my every problem,all she will say is EMMA WHY DONT U DO IT LIKE THIS OR LIKE THAT wat i have not thought in 100 years dis ggirl just thinks about it in one minute,tell me is she not intelligent,and at d end of d day if u take up her advise it works very well,sometimes i wonder if God just gave her extra wisdom

thank GOD u understand wat i meant by d pigeon english,its just a way to explain d kinda person she is

@cool funke ,kalmebad,sisikill,chinda3,ola,and every other person,i thank u all for ur contributions ,it has helped me alot,God bless u all