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PoliticsRe: Four Generals Killed Under Tinubu Administration By Bandits (Photos) by emmyseg(m): 6:10am On Jun 16
Instead of capturing the killers they're rehabilitated and reintegrated to the society... That's too bad 😞
Ezeama400:
Four Generals Were Murdered by Terrorists Under Tinubu, Yet None of Their Killers Has Been Reported Captured — Social Commentator, Obiasogu David



Source
RomanceRe: Which Couple Is The Happiest (photo) by emmyseg(m): 4:33pm On Apr 26
I feel no 4 is the happiest as they have umbrella but choose to use that of the husband despite having umbrella and the husband still carry the bag.
Kingsland24:
Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass; it’s about how we walk through the rain together.

I’m currently putting together an article on the 'Reality of Life and Relationships' using this image as a case study. Looking at these four couples, they all face the same rain and carry the same bags, but their dynamics are totally different.

To you, which couple represents true happiness? And more importantly, WHY? Your perspectives will help shape my upcoming piece. Let’s discuss in the comments! 👇
CrimeRe: Cult Gang Busted In Ilaro, Ogun As Police Nab 4, Recover Weapon & Loot by emmyseg(m): 1:25pm On Apr 21
You be mumu ooo, how do it correlatehuhSo, they shouldn't burst the gang?
marlow1962:
Nice, hope after bursting, una go protest for una pension?
EducationRe: JAMB Candidates Forced To Remove Hijab In Ibadan As 2026 UTME Commences (video) by emmyseg(m): 6:45am On Apr 17
Western education and Islam are now compatible
Prestar:
EntertainmentRe: Lagos To Host 96-Hour DJ Marathon Festival Featuring 100 DJs by emmyseg(m): 7:10am On Nov 30, 2025
I've been reading people's comments under this post,na your own mumu pass. What do you mean by slaving away? Man work wahala, e no work wahala... Una dey mad gan ooo
jiggyman:
You dont have to be there for the entirety of the show! Omo eh nigerians make una de calm down. You guys are so shallow in your thoughts, im sure you will yap about going to work, there are people who dont slave away in the banks working 8 am to 10pm.

Ps. I dont care about nigeria.
PoliticsRe: 15 Nations Most Indebted To IMF by emmyseg(m): 7:59am On Apr 04, 2025
How manage Nigeria no dey this list? So, we no dey own again, thank God ooo
Slytiger:
Source: IMF
Christianity EtcRe: How My Churchy Upbringing Influenced Me As An Adult (long Post) by emmyseg(m): 10:10am On Dec 22, 2024
I can actually help link you up with some military guys if you need some meanwhile it depends on your location
Goodlyhrt:
My parents tried to raise us in the way that most Christian homes would go.. In the way of the Lord! And all the associated activities of going to Church all Sundays, ignoring all other associations as they are perceived as being unequally yoked with unbelievers. Adhering to all doctrines of the church no questions.

I was raised in this type of environment. In short my parents were staunch members of the Deeper Life Christian Ministries (DLCM) and all my formative years where under the doctrines and teachings of the church.

My parents and the Church taught me to put all my hope in the Lord in all situations and never to complain much because God will make a way even at the dieing minutes.

So I grew up weary of my non church going environment. I wouldn't find myself being a social animal that I am working aggressively hard on becoming nowadays.

So I made church friends, and went to church gatherings, church schools right until my secondary school days.

But there is a catch.

I watched my family falter and we lost everything we had. My father went down with diabetes around 2008 and nobody to help. He lost his carpentry workshop and showroom.. almost lost his life to the disease.

The Church, my church DLCM couldn't offer us good help because they too were individually waiting on the Lord too. So they offered us help but meager.

But that was the only gathering we knew and are aquatinted with.

No Umunna membership, ordinary friends gathering or in another word Friends club. Even market association, my parents never belonged to any of those.

We solely waited on the Lord and around 2011, my dad's diabetes was somehow controlled. Thanks to my Uncle in the village who came to our rescue by using herbs and leaves to help my dad. But not without enough convincing and lobbying from my uncle because my parents saw the help as being fetish of some sort.

In fact at that time we were not in talking terms with the said uncle because of his native practices. But at the end of the day he came to our rescue through the herbs he gave to my dad.

What I am saying is that my parents lifestyle of being too churchy in the way the raised us has been net detrimental in my life as a grown man and to my siblings too.

Talking about me. I didn't finish my education due to my dad's health and the fact that there's no one that could help me who my dad is aquainted with. My social skills is zero until recently. I didn't know how to deal with anybody outside talking about church related stuff and academic stuff I was lost.

So I am on this situation all thanks to my parents way of life of being too judgemental of everything not church related.

In short right now I don't how to keep a healthy relationship - you know calling to check up on someone, buying gifts, attending birthdays and all those stuffs that make knowing people interesting. I am just trying to pick these stuffs up from the street now.


And it hasn't helped in any way.

I think it has brought untold hardship to our lives in the sense that we suffer alone with no one to help. Not uncle's, not friends because we hardly make friends. In those days I wondered why no one visits my parents at home while all our neighbors hosted visitors almost all day especially on Sundays. Unless we are hosting Bible study session.

The simple truth is that no one should exist alone in this plane Earth. We were never built to survive alone and my parents and the church were all wrong.

So I stopped going to church totally. I hated my life how it has turned out and wish I could've made my own decisions earlier in life.

Of a truth I started dodging church activities very early in my teen years but I met stiff rebuttal from my dad. You know the "if I don't see you in church blah blah blah no school fees for you blah blah blah".

Because I started noticing something was off.

They said God answered prayers but I couldn't get answers to mine. I could remember one time in the DLCM camp ground. I prayed earnestly to be healed of my deformity, seeing that others got theirs and I was moved and cried sore for God to heal me. Even made promises to God if he proves his faithfulness. But it seemed the blessings from pastor Kumuyi would never get to me.

I was depressed and got angered.

Starting from then, my prayer life took a dive. Interest in the things of the church tanked.

Also my dad's ill fortune and how we suffered to eat most times during that time, made me question God and doubtful in everything.

In conclusion. We are never going to survive alone as species. We all need US in our lives.

I have started opening up to non church related associations lately. I even joined another church howbeit a modern church if you know what I mean. But now, I joined the church with a purpose. Not because I like going there but because I needed the connections there.

In the Bible it says that we should worship God with understanding but most non-orthodox denominations don't understand a thing.

My message to everyone.

Go out there and be aquainted with your fellow humans. Don't listen to religion and its backwater ideologies because we can't survive alone.

Join a political party, know some force men and become friends. Go to events with the sole aim of meeting new people.

Attend seminars and be active in the society.

A little appraisal of the Yoruba people. In the way some of them practice the Abrahamaic religion. They don't go overboard like the Northerners because of Islam or as strict as the Easterners, my people, in the way they practice Christianity. I stayed in Lagos for upto six years and I was initially confused in the way they practiced the Abrahamaic religions but now I understand better and I am in love with their way in that aspect.

Lastly be wise in your association with people. I.e. avoid secret societies or cult groups because although they'd promise you protection but it's all a lie.

I want to add this.

I learnt this from a pastor.

He said that the reason why Africa is suffering and is in great poverty is because we don't have more partnership businesses.

People have really nice business ideas but no one to sponsor them because African people are not inclined to form partnership so they don't know how to handle it.

In Europe or "the West", many people live off their investment in numerous business partnerships. No matter how little the business they invest in it and get it working good and then get ROI. Even when they are not actively employed or run their own personal business. But they are getting ROI from the investment in other people's businesses.

I think this is true though.

Sorry for the long read. smiley
PoliticsRe: Exploit Of The Nigeria Army Aviation: COAS, Taoored Lagabaja Shows Support by emmyseg(m): 1:16pm On Jul 12, 2024
Hope they've trained engineers those that went to AFIT or NCAT
Racoon:
Nigerian Army Aviation : Meet The First Set Of Decorated Aviators. 

https://defensenigeria.com/2017/12/17/nigerian-army-aviation-meet-the-first-set-of-decorated-aviators/
TravelRe: Germany Launches Opportunity Card To Entice Non-EU Workers by emmyseg(m): 8:03pm On Jun 01, 2024
Howhuh una don come again 🤔 if I say I won learn now you go ask for money, human being sha
eliwa47:
All this Japa of a thing? When one can land a good online job right from your home and be cashing in foreign currency undecided
PropertiesRe: I Finally Moved Out Of Face Me I Face You by emmyseg(m): 5:03pm On May 01, 2024
How much for the rent?
SirLiquidGold:
In 2021, I decided to stay on my on and try to face life and achieve growth as a man. The journey has been challenging, I won't lie but I have been able to learn valuable lessons.
I have been living in a face me I face you since may 2022. When I got there, it was a total different kind of lifestyle.

The landlady particularly called me on the second week I got to the compound. she said I looked gentle which is good but that shouldn't stop me from washing the bathroom and toilet when it's my turn.
I kept wondering what was the similarity between being gentle and washing the toilet?
Well I had no problem complying since it's a normal routine for all tenants.

I had to share bathroom and also toilet. And when it's time to cook, I did that in my room. Sometimes I felt shy and washed in my room grin grin then one lady in our house told me my room will be smelling if I keep washing there.
Sometimes they fight over the smallest issues that can be solved with just sorry.
I found it very strange.

To top the whole issue, our compound did not have its own water or well. We had to go to the next street.
Well I thought it wise to be buying things gradually. I bought bed, standing fan and curtains. You know the normal bachelor bachelor's setup.

Then this week, I was able to rent another house which was a room and palor...
Hahahaha I have been walking up and down the house since I moved in. From the kitchen to the palour and to the room then to the bathroom. Sometimes, I'll peep through the windows to look at people passing lol. Don't mind me, I just graduated from living in a house with a single widow to a house with more than 5 windows

I now have easy access to water and I have just been laughing unnecessarily to myself. Well I think it's part of living alone.
I'm going to get pots of flowers and put it infront of my house grin make we start from there.
Having a spacious apartment is also beautiful. Omo I feel really happy o

Photo of Face-Me-I-Face-You used for illustration
InvestmentRe: Why Is Forex Trading So Difficult by emmyseg(m): 3:09pm On Oct 16, 2022
VeeVeeMyLuv:
Drop your mail
I will give you just 2 books,
If after reading them, there's no change, my friend nothing else will.

Then u can retire from the game
Please send me the books too boss
ibitolae@gmail.com
InvestmentRe: Why Is Forex Trading So Difficult by emmyseg(m): 10:09pm On Oct 15, 2022
Sir willie, I'd like to talk to you please send me a msg via ibitolae@gmail.com
Willie2015:
Absolutely correct....
Not up to a year in Forex
Ve been reading and using demo
Also using copy trading ..
Copy Tradin ..very profitable ...
Am up by over a 1000 percent...
Mastery is the key .....
InvestmentRe: Why Is Forex Trading So Difficult by emmyseg(m): 10:07pm On Oct 15, 2022
Please boss, help me send the book to this email.... ibitolae@gmail.com
Melvess:
ayoolaojediran@yahoo.com
Please help me and send to me too
InvestmentRe: Why Is Forex Trading So Difficult by emmyseg(m): 10:05pm On Oct 15, 2022
Please boss help me send the book to this mail.... ibitolae@gmail.com
VeeVeeMyLuv:
Drop your mail
I will give you just 2 books,
If after reading them, there's no change, my friend nothing else will.

Then u can retire from the game
TravelRe: Aero Contractors Halts Operations Over Economic Crisis by emmyseg(m): 9:00am On Jul 19, 2022
Without no further ado, obviously you know what you're talking about so you're really an airline enthusiastic as I'm an engineer I know how those stuffs work.
JohnBullMySon:
Did you ever fly Nigerian airways. I'd like to hear how flying to New York in their DC10s felt those days. I'm an airline enthusiast.

Now only Delta connects Nigeria direct to the US. Atlanta and New York.
PoliticsRe: Muslim Appointees Of Vice-President Yemi Osinbajo (Video & List) by emmyseg(m): 10:11am On Apr 15, 2022
Ameachi that has been given a turban, you're indeed from the stone age
SenatePresdo:
As if it was the Aso Rock Houseboy that appointed those ones by himself.


Judas Osinbajo is a Pastor and a religious Bigot, he cannot be given the most powerful position in Nigeria.

We don't need bigots, be it a Christian or a Muslim.

Osinbajo can't be our president, neither would Tinubu.

APC should find another Candidate, Maybe Amechi or someone else.
RomanceRe: Caption This Photo Of A Soldier And His New Bride. by emmyseg(m): 4:28pm On Mar 12, 2022
Please allow him, it's a free world, he can say rubbish as he pleases
Stormtrooper11:
Really? Why? not all got kids everywhere tho.
PoliticsRe: Promote Corporal Dr. Nnaji Ebenezer Chibueze - MURIC Tells IGP by emmyseg(m): 1:05am On Feb 14, 2022
This is the first time for me that muric is saying something sensible.
Christianity EtcRe: Is It Right Or Wrong To Give A Beggar My Tithes by emmyseg(m): 9:43am On Dec 19, 2021
Are you sure you're okay bruh? As Christians we do all things through Christ Jesus that strengthen us.
Kobojunkie:
■Tithing, in the Name of Jesus Christ, is sin against Almighty God. undecided

■Giving offering to your churches, in the Name of Jesus Christ, is sin against Almighty God. undecided

■Making your vows in your churches, in the Name of Jesus Christ, is sin against Almighty God. undecided
Jobs/VacanciesRe: My Experience With The Wife Of A Major In The Nigerian Army by emmyseg(m): 2:03pm On Sep 26, 2021
How it's very much possible
22o62021:
You wrote this from your imaginations
CultureRe: I Am Accountable To Only One KING - Ooni Of Ife Speaks (video) by emmyseg(m): 6:47pm On Apr 27, 2017
bantudra:
the oba of the lagoon will be placed over him....the ooni is behaving like a traitor...i understand now why the oba didnt want to shake his hand....what the hell is the ooni doing in a church giving his allegiance to a foreighn looser nailed on a piece of wood??.....

thats treason...
May Christ Jesus forgive you.....
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Army Issues Statement On Allowances, Warns Mischief Makers by emmyseg(m): 6:13pm On Feb 18, 2017
FastShipping:
Do you proof to support this your vague allegation?
So many proof I have a friend in the army, who's in the north east....
BusinessRe: Hannatu Dantata Talks About Trump Muslim Ban. Cries Out For Help by emmyseg(m): 10:34am On Jan 30, 2017
cramjones:
Alhaji Dantata's daughter. Dr. Hanatu Dantata, who is currently studying for an MBA at Johns Hopkins University, cried out on Facebook today on Trump ban! She vowed to exit the U.S and pleaded for an immigration attorney to help her navigate through these immigration storms to complete her studies and exit the United States with her two kids.

The panic on Trump ban is sending shockwaves to many Nigerians living in the United States (both legally and illegally!

-CramJones
please come back home......lol, hanatu
PoliticsRe: Ezeugo Darlington Chukwuma, Soldier Killed By Boko Haram Insurgent In Maiduguri by emmyseg(m): 9:35pm On Nov 20, 2016
Jacko1:
No helmet... No body armor.... Nothing and he is a soldier


Just a rusty gun


Is this picture of a nigerian soldier or rebel

Even militant in their hay daya wud never go to battle like this
if your had provided for him, he would have wear it but for the absence of none....... him no go work again ni? fool
PoliticsRe: Ezeugo Darlington Chukwuma, Soldier Killed By Boko Haram Insurgent In Maiduguri by emmyseg(m): 9:32pm On Nov 20, 2016
Neoguru1:
This F##L died fighting for the zoo. If I have the opportunity I'd spit on his grave.
you are an idiot for saying that, fool of the highest order
TravelRe: Extremely Beautiful Photos Of Nigeria You Will Find Hard To Believe by emmyseg(m): 1:19pm On Nov 18, 2015
One of the blessed con3 in the world #proudly9ja
EducationRe: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by emmyseg(m): 4:24am On May 01, 2015
@ nixowL, please send me your contact, I need some advice on noun though I'm a fresh student
EducationRe: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by emmyseg(m): 3:58am On May 01, 2015
Please anybody studying computer science at undergraduate level, please I need to knosomethings tho I'm a fresh student, please kindly send me your number or call dix pls 07065014403
EducationRe: Kogi State University 2011/2012 Post Ume. by emmyseg(m): 1:34pm On Jul 21, 2011
cool, the fact is that when will the form be out maybe by then i will call you so we talk more 08189370914

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