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EventsRe: Jehovah's Witness Bride Wears Simple Ash Coloured Gown To Her White Wedding by EmpressT(f): 8:26pm On Nov 27, 2017
Wow! I must say I am impressed by this. It shouldn't be mandatory for ladies to wear a white wedding dress to church. And if she wants to, she should be decent about it. Me, I love am die.
PhonesRe: Signs That You Are Completely Addicted To Your Phone by EmpressT(f): 9:20pm On Nov 26, 2017
Like kingsley, he is so glued to his phone.
Christianity EtcRe: Letter To The Born Again Sisters From A Born Again Brother by EmpressT(f): 9:12pm On Nov 26, 2017
All churches my dear
OtemSapien:
Is it deeperlifer church?
NYSCRe: Soldiers Welcome Corpers To Kogi NYSC Camp With Their Luggage On Their Head by EmpressT(f): 3:14pm On Nov 23, 2017
Same thing this crazy soldiers did to me and my friends back in 2015 in plateau state. I almost fainted cos of the stress I went through while registering.
fingard02k:
These are the new NYSC members posted to Kogi State orientation camp.

Could this be punishment or a way of welcoming them to the camp


http://www.enzyhub.com/see-what-army-did-to-new-nysc-members-in-kogi-camp-photo/
EducationRe: Chris Imafidon: Autism Didn't Stop Me From Making It In Life by EmpressT(f): 12:23pm On Nov 23, 2017
Same here my dear. I feel so inspired by this beautiful piece.
ThinkWISELY:
I didn't read at first,i cool down book space firstgrin,then read this lengthy masterpiece,i must say i learned a lot today !


Please try to read,you will enjoy it,hmm people can be brilliant sha cool
CrimeRe: Roland Samuel 'Christ' Arrested By NSCDC For Engaging Followers In Anal Sex (Pic by EmpressT(f): 9:45pm On Nov 18, 2017
Issorite
swagkingcole:
Na so we see am oh I'm shocked.
CrimeRe: Roland Samuel 'Christ' Arrested By NSCDC For Engaging Followers In Anal Sex (Pic by EmpressT(f): 5:58pm On Nov 18, 2017
Eeeh, so mr roland news don appear on nairaland too? Naso life be.
RomanceRe: Wtf? Man Successfully Undergoes Surgery To Transform Himself To A Dog (pics) by EmpressT(f): 3:39am On Nov 15, 2017
Hmmm.... Aye ma le o! I never imagine a human can go under knief just because of this disgusting shit! Wooo.... Nawa oo! I wonder how comfortable this guy will feel
FoodRe: Name One Thing You Don't Eat by EmpressT(f): 2:43pm On Nov 14, 2017
Junk foods especially when they are fried. Damn, those kind of food make me wanna cough and could lead to pneumonia as well.
CelebritiesRe: Bobrisky Arrested By Police In Lagos Over Fight With Toyin Lawani (Photos) by EmpressT(f): 11:17pm On Nov 07, 2017
Lolz!!! cheesy
BeeBeeOoh:
If I happen to be his father I will use him for money ritual, then use the proceed to train those that want to be something in life angry
CrimeRe: Eiye & Aiye Cultists Denounce Their Membership During Public Rally In Lagos.PICS by EmpressT(f): 10:50am On Nov 07, 2017
Hmm.. Rugged buccaneers..... This my friend paints his room yellow with a pyramid signs on the wall, the way they do tells alot. This my close paddy is very very gentle, kind hearted and homely. He treats all the ladies he had as lovers nicely. He hardly gets angry infact he is extremely an introvert person, very intelligent which I really admire about his personality. Hmmm... Thanks my dear. I just want to clear my doubts
XXLDICK:
All cult groups weren't built on the idea of killing, sleeping with olosho or treating women badly.
For instance, check Aiye's manifesto, you will like them but in reality, they act the opposite. They have killed more black people that they claim to protect.

Alora on the other hand refer to themselves as fine boys because their ideology is built on swag, making money and protecting each other's interests. The proplem here is protecting members interests and they go as far as killing rival gang members to do so.
CrimeRe: Eiye & Aiye Cultists Denounce Their Membership During Public Rally In Lagos.PICS by EmpressT(f): 9:58am On Nov 07, 2017
Eeeh! I was absolutely right about this guy is a damn cultist. But I was confused that they don't kill, sleep with olosho or treat women badly. Hmm... There is more to this history
XXLDICK:
Buccaneer also known as Alora is a cult group. Though not as violent as Aiye and Eiye but they are violent.

Bucaneers have executioners whose job is to kill people. They are very similar to vikings
CrimeRe: Eiye & Aiye Cultists Denounce Their Membership During Public Rally In Lagos.PICS by EmpressT(f): 9:35am On Nov 07, 2017
Including the buccaneers. I have a friend who is an alora sealord and I asked if he was a cultist but he denied it saying it is a social group. I know he was lying. Is it true these guys aren't into a secret group? cos I have heard their songs so many times and I quite understand their language.
XXLDICK:
If I was the President of this country, I would proscribe all cult groups
RomanceRe: What Will You Do If You Meet Your Partner Like This In Your House by EmpressT(f): 10:31am On Nov 04, 2017
Hhmm... Who no like better thing? smiley
policy12:
I will gently move close to the fridge, get the ice cream and back to her gently I will lay her on the couch and with soft touch remove her hands. Then I will pour the cold ice cream on the boobs and within d valley of d breast then work on her with my tongue.
RomanceRe: Ladies Be Simple...you Must Not Be Slay Queens. by EmpressT(f): 10:10am On Nov 04, 2017
You look ravishing lady. I prefer your natural self. Keep it up
FamilyRe: A Guy Impregnanted My 16 Years Old Sister. by EmpressT(f): 12:50pm On Oct 31, 2017
Keep talking my dear. You can yab me for all I care. wink
chineduemmao:
oya kip telling de whole world u had 15 abortions in 12 months. Query wey nobody ask u... Biko puorom na uzo, onukwube...
FamilyRe: A Guy Impregnanted My 16 Years Old Sister. by EmpressT(f): 12:46pm On Oct 31, 2017
Hmm.. Yea... All of the above my dear.
FrankGiel:
Some call it murder yet it Doesn't make it murder.. If u choose to define ur experiences based on peoples label then it will be a pity..
If the child of the mother is at risk, doctors are bound to take out the foetus.. Is that also murde??.. Pls leave judgement for God.. People are full of hypocrisy ..
So birthing a child you are unprepared for, or u dont even have financial capabilities or more Importantly u were not psychologically ready to train that child, which is worse??
FamilyRe: A Guy Impregnanted My 16 Years Old Sister. by EmpressT(f): 8:08am On Oct 31, 2017
Why mentioning me when u have nothing tangible to say? Nobi u need advice oponu.
chineduemmao:
ok i think its time u kip kwayet we don hear
FamilyRe: A Guy Impregnanted My 16 Years Old Sister. by EmpressT(f): 12:20am On Oct 31, 2017
Hmmm.... Thank God I am free from that even though it hurts me so much for getting pregnant and murdering an unborn child.
FrankGiel:
Oh alright.. I get..
Even if it's a month, there are drugs to use.. But u will need a specialist recommedation
FamilyRe: A Guy Impregnanted My 16 Years Old Sister. by EmpressT(f): 11:59pm On Oct 30, 2017
smiley i wanted to say she should find a paying job to cater for her child
FrankGiel:
Lol.. When the young girl has a future ahead.. Why let a pregnancy bug her down.. Why settle for a vocation when she can go to the university??
FamilyRe: A Guy Impregnanted My 16 Years Old Sister. by EmpressT(f): 11:57pm On Oct 30, 2017
The pregnancy was just a week. That's all. If it is 3 weeks getting to a month, then im in trouble
FrankGiel:
Above or about 2 months?? Ur statement is confusing
FamilyRe: A Guy Impregnanted My 16 Years Old Sister. by EmpressT(f): 11:52pm On Oct 30, 2017
Aww.. Too much oyinbo abi?
FrankGiel:
Vocation?? sad
FamilyRe: A Guy Impregnanted My 16 Years Old Sister. by EmpressT(f): 11:51pm On Oct 30, 2017
Never about two months mr
FrankGiel:
U went though hell because 1. It was done by a quack 2. U were far into the pregnancy.. (Above 2 months)
FamilyRe: A Guy Impregnanted My 16 Years Old Sister. by EmpressT(f): 11:50pm On Oct 30, 2017
Never about two months mr
FrankGiel:
U went though hell because 1. It was done by a quack 2. U were far into the pregnancy.. (Above 2 months)
FamilyRe: A Guy Impregnanted My 16 Years Old Sister. by EmpressT(f): 11:27pm On Oct 30, 2017
Op, this is my true experience. I did two abortions but the second one was hell cos through that process I have a miscarriage before terminating my pregnancy. The second one was much more painful than the first. Well, I have lots of lessons to teach my unborn kids how I spent my life and the tragedy in it when the time is right. I find it hard now to trust men. So....this is it.
QueenOfNepal:
Nice advise but plz blot
Out d aabortion part because some stories don't deserve to grace here.


I will modify mine when you read.
FamilyRe: A Guy Impregnanted My 16 Years Old Sister. by EmpressT(f): 11:09pm On Oct 30, 2017
And one last thing, try to engage her in any vocational work that can fetch money to take responsibility for the child. Let her begin to carry her cross from there. Thanks.
FamilyRe: A Guy Impregnanted My 16 Years Old Sister. by EmpressT(f): 11:01pm On Oct 30, 2017
Hey mr. Don't try anything funny to abort the pregnancy for your little sister. I once got an abortion and I know what the hell I went through as if I want to die. I have realized my mistakes in the past and I have learnt my lesson in the hard way. Thank God that I did not give up the ghost in the process. Pls my dear, let your sister be and let this be a lesson to her. But for the guy who impregnated her and decided to take her as a wife, dnt marry her off cos she is too young to understand what marriage is all about. If you really want the best for her, let her have the baby and then continue to sponsor her education. I hope this helps..
Christianity EtcRe: The Dangers Of Divorce As A Christian by EmpressT(f): 6:47pm On Oct 30, 2017
cheesy
alBHAGDADI:
You've opened that your weed book again. grin

So you want it expressly written that Abraham wedded Sarah, perhaps you want the name of the musicians that performed and a taste of the meal that was served. grin

Verses in the Bible called Sarah Abraham's wife, how come none called Hagar a wife but a slave woman?

Pls, discard that doctofus stupid book that only you in the entire world knows about.
Christianity EtcRe: The Dangers Of Divorce As A Christian by EmpressT(f): 6:25pm On Oct 30, 2017
You have said it all mr.
timojerry:
What the op has said is very true and correct. God hates divorce. It is sickening that many people turn the word of God to suit them and claim that we are in the modern times.im not judging but God has said that He is the same yesterday today and forever. He changeth not, modern or old times.
For those asking if separation is biblical, it is people. You can separate from each other with consent pending when either party cones to believe God. If he does not, the Bible says you should report him to the church to see if the leaders can solve the problem. If after that he or she does not come to believe God, it says leave him or her to him or her self but do NOT remarry. Instead after separation, you can begin to care more for the things of God as Paul said in the Bible.

Remarrying means continuous living in sin. How can we say God forgive us for our sons yet we are in it, there's no grace for that. God will not answer the prayers because the prayers of sinners is an abomination to Him. People may say if domestic violence had existed during the times of Jesus, he might have added that as one of the reasons for divorce after adultery but people, God sees the end from the beginning, He must have known about domestic violence yet He chose to talk about only adultery.

Divorce isn't good. Do not remarry because of adultery and do not commit fornication while seeking God's face. After all Paul was single, cared for God and after everything he was able to say that he has fought the good fight and there was a crown waiting for him. He knew where he was going, how many of us can say that after our life on Earth.

I know it's easier to talk than to do. I'm not judging anyone because I know it's not easy but that's why God's grace is sufficient for us. Sex ain't food. Two minutes pleasure or for some who take enhancement two hours pleasure after that what else? Satisfaction? There are other things Paramount in life than that.

For the person that said can you forgive if your wife is slept with 70*7, well the scripture is clear about forgiveness. Forgive always. We do cruel things yet God forgives us then why is it hard to forgive. If he can forgive the woman who committed adultery ( we don't know how many men she slept with) why can't we forgive.

It has been said in Philippians 4 v 8

Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.

I'm not a judge,neither a pastor. I'm not righteous than anyone, yet the truth must be told. The Bible is clear. No means No. Divorce isn't good do as well as those using artificial insemination of other people's sperm yo get children while still married.

Romans 1 v 21

Because, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish hearts were darkened.

Let us think on these things.

God bless you and have a nice week ahead
Christianity EtcRe: The Dangers Of Divorce As A Christian by EmpressT(f): 5:42pm On Oct 30, 2017
Alright. Thank you
[quote author=newsynews post=61914858]Kindly show her this post and tell her to read it with an open heart without bias.[/quote
Christianity EtcRe: The Dangers Of Divorce As A Christian by EmpressT(f): 1:49pm On Oct 30, 2017
Wow... I am blessed by this wonderful write-up. May God continue to enlighten you with more wisdom. Well, I asked my two sisters a question on the ground of domestic violence in marriage if it occurs God forbids and one of them said she will divorce her hubby if this happens and remarries another man. And I told her this isn't appropriate for a good christian, that she can only go for a separation for a while and then address the matter before God to intervene. How can I convince her more just to clear her doubts on this issue? Thanks
newsynews:
If separation appears too hard, then go for counselling. The issues in the marriage will be ironed out.

If after all of that the partner doesn't change, then divorce is still not the answer. Go to God in prayer and let Him know what you are facing. Let Him know that you are still in the marriage because you want to remain obedient to Him. He will surely give you rest. Remember "come to me ye that labour and heavy laden and I will give you rest".

You see, when you remarry, you make God distant from you. He's someone that hates divorce.

Malachi 2:16
NET Bible
"I hate divorce," says the LORD God of Israel, "and the one who is guilty of violence," says the LORD who rules over all. "Pay attention to your conscience, and do not be unfaithful."

If He was part of your first marriage and is also Someone that hates divorce, do you think he will part of the new union? No. That's why Jesus stated it that such union is adultery which is one of the things God hates.

Take a look at the wedding Jesus Christ attended in the Bible. What if it ended in divorce and one party decides to remarry. Do you think Jesus Christ would honor an invitation to such?

You see, most people might see this to be tasking, some might even think Jesus is laying a heavy burden on Christians. No, the opposite is the case.

Mathew 11:29-30
Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.

Above, we see Christ telling us to learn from him. Learning from him makes us Christians. He loved us so much that he gave his life for us. That's why his apostle told men to love their wives in the same manner.

Ephesians 5:24-25
… 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives,
just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her

If you say you don't want to bear the burden he is placing on you which is light, then you need to go for counselling so as to see what you will face when you ignore him, which are the horrors that accompany divorce.

Examples are the trauma the children will go through, distance from friends and family who wouldn't want to pick a side etc. You expose yourself to dangers of eternal damnation.

Divorcing for reasons other than sexual immorality is equal to committing sin. Remarrying is also committing sin. Staying in such marriage is equivalent to living in sin. All of these make you liable for eternal damnation.

Now, which burden is light? The One that has you forgiving an offending partner, remaining single after divorcing a cheating partner and gaining eternal life or the one that sees you divorcing your partner for reasons other that adultery, the One that sees you remarrying and ending up in damnation eternally?

When you divorce due to reasons other than adultery, you tell God that you cannot stand the tests that a Christian should be built for. Just a problem of domestic violence and you are ready to disobey your Lord Jesus Christ. What Will you now do when you come across the violence of the Great Tribulation? What Will you do when a cutlass is placed on your neck asking you to deny Jesus or your head falls off? Yes, you will deny him since you disobeyed him concerning divorce. Disobeying his commands concerning divorce shows how much you hold him dear. Domestic violence made you disobey him. This means that the violence of the Great Tribulation will make you deny him cos you can't endure anything for him.

Source: http://www.purplefeel.com/2017/10/dangers-of-divorcing-christian.html?m=1#more

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