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Tell me o Mr I-Know-It-All
If you don't have reasonable words to say, just get your ass off here dummy.

IamPlato:
You Dont Know What Hymen Is. Okay

You started it. So, make I laugh abeg

IamPlato:
Be Lying

Okay.... I really appreciate your kind gesture

rawpadgin:
whenever u feel like talking to someone, message me on 09076778294

Thank God o

IamPlato:
Swear That Your Hymen Is Still Closed

Lol! I only said what I feel noni

lilwetdick:
scary..this your type of love can lead to stalking someone if things go wrong

Sorry dear, I know how you feel. Just relax with music and have a cool bath. I do that all the time.

dairykidd:
After a long day u throw in this long write up... I'm tired & can't read that

Yeah it is. When you don't have someone to talk to or check on you, you feel life is meaningless.

rawpadgin:
Boredom is very bad

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Dear Sweetie,
I cannot promise you that the journey you’re about to embark on is going to be easy, but I can promise it’ll be worth it. I don’t know when I’ll meet you, thought I can tell you I’m looking forward to it. Don’t be alarmed if I seem guarded and uninterested, I’m just tired of dealing with guys who can’t handle the love that I have to offer.

I’ve been introduced to all the wrong guys, the ones who let you fall with no intention of catching you, or worse the ones who prove that it’s hard to find someone that’s willing to be loyal to just you. From a young age I’ve known guys that have abused, used and played with my emotions.

I need to tell you a few things before you jump in head on. If you invest your time in me, I’m going to invest mine in you. I’m going to love you with everything I know, and I’m not going to fake it either. My walls are built high, with a moat around it. It’s unfair to you that I automatically judge you to be just like the people of my past, but it’s to protect my heart that so easily clutches onto the idea of love. I'm a kind of woman who loves with every fiber in me and I do it the right way. A lot of guys don’t know how to handle or accept the kind of love I have to offer.

My heart has been broken in the past but it doesn’t mean the right person can’t help mend it. I’m braver because of the heartache, because not only am I willing to take chances on people, I’m willing to give someone else the chance to get the love I think they deserve.

Finding someone who can love me the way I can love them is something I’m looking for and I’m willing to work for the relationship that not only I deserve but that you deserve as well. It’s a partnership, I’m looking to grow and enjoy life’s adventures with. It’s a chance that is terrifying, because I could end up heartbroken again but I’m willing to try and fight for love.

I’ll let you in on my past, because for us to have a future we’ll need to start at the beginning. I’ll reopen the wounds and the pain because I trust you. I'll take you on the good days and the bad. When you’re ready to tell me about your demons, I’ll face them head on with you. I’ll never be quick to judge because I know how it feels and if your past troubles you, I’ll work to help make it a little less troubling.

Our generation has lost sight on love and romance, but I can tell you I’m not that girl. I’m a hopeless romantic that’ll remind you daily that you’re important to me, even in the smallest gestures. As I’m asking you to not take my heart for granted, I promise to never do the same to yours. This isn’t a game of who can break whose heart first and if you open yourself up to me I promise to cherish everything you share, and the memories that we make.

I’m asking you to be patient with me. It’s not going to be an easy task for me opening up to you right away. If you put in the work and the effort, I promise my heart will show you the loyalty you deserve. Once I love you, I’ll love you in ways you never thought imaginable.
All the reasons your past relationships didn’t work out won’t matter to you anymore; I’ll show you what was wrong with those girls and raise your standards to what a real relationship should be like.

I’ll love you with my whole heart, because that’s all I know how to do. I will love you my darling with everything a real woman can do to treat her man right with tenderness. With the help of God, I will treat you sweetly and passionately.

Hmm. ... Marriage is one of the most important thing I cherish in my life. My problem now is trust. I have issues trusting people especially men because I have suffered so much in the name of love. I'm almost 30 years and no sign of commitment. It's really sad.

Tuberculosis? My mum hardly coughs but she sneezes on occasions.

eletu11:
This are sign of tubaculoses (dnt no if I got d spelling right)..
Pls take her to general hospital asap(general hospital won't cost u much dear)

I will take note of what you said. Thanks for your advice and kind words.

Maga30:
Hello EmpreesT

The honest truth is that no one can actually say what's wrong with your mum except you go to the hospital

There is no other way around it!

First step, Take her there to really know what the issue is.

second step, source for ways to solve it if you are not financially bouyant.

Third step, Pray! God can do anything, no matter how impossible it may be!
He will help you and you won't have reason to cry.

Your mum would be fine!!

I only want to know the cause of the illness. That's all. I have no one to help me to raise finances. I am looking for a way out.

Miradamian:
God to heal your mum?you must be joking.take your mum to hospital.if u don't have money,go and borrow.u watch your mum die and u pray to God to heal her.gush,religion for s really a disease

Hello Doctors in the house. I am depressed right now and I don't know what to do.
My mum is going through some health issues and the most important one here is the sneezing and coughing of blood. I did notice that on February she had nose bleeding but I didn't take it to heart. And yesterday afternoon, she was bleeding heavily through the nose and later through the mouth. I am getting so worried. My mum is so dear to me and I don't want to lose her soon. She has been very strong until recently. My only hope now is God to heal my mum completely.

Kindly advice her to reduce too much sugar intake. Eating much sugar causes the vagina to smell even while menstruating.

Alright. Thanks

Nigg3369:
Ok then pink is a cool color no homo

Lol! Well, you may be right. I don't know much about fashion. I'm only expressing my thoughts on this forum. So, no biggi.

Nigg3369:
Well pink hoodies is a new trend so I don't think you know much about fashion

I don't like pink coloured clothes on men. It looks gayish in my eyes. I get easily irritated when a guy keeps long nails. For that, it's a total turn -off. Also, Dread locks, sagging of trousers.

Hahahaha! Wawo! The highest of the things nairaland guys don't like about ladies are Hair Wig, Eye-lashes, Make-up, Long nails and Tight clothes.

Sincerely, I am speechless. Being naturally beautiful and endowed is the best a woman can be.

I just wish all ladies can go natural.

You should be confident to express what you feel @Op. After all, you have known each other for years and he's taking about building a family of his own? My dear, I think you should make the first move.

When it comes to love, one is unbound to say whatever they feel for another without being ashamed.

The best feeling in the world is to walk down the aisle with someone who you understands every single shit about you. someone you are so comfortable with discussing about the secrets of your past and will love you still.

Marry someone who are attracted to in all; physically, psychologically, emotionally, socially and spiritually. If you can't foresee your future with that person, please don't hesitate to go further in your relationship.
Sex cannot keep a man or a woman forever. It is only the love you both have shared from the onset and the sacrifices made to keep the affection much more alive will remain constant.

Very good of him. When I was a toddler, I don't like seeing them with charms seen all over them. Because of these masquerades, I ran and fell inside gutter

Hmmm, I almost did the same because my past has brought total shame for any man who wants to marry me to accept me for real. I am really depressed. The burden is too much for me to bear. I can't stand telling another man about my story life. I am yet to find a man with a strong mind to bear my shame and love me for me. I wish I could go someplace very far just to clear my head and get healed. I am so afraid to love and being hurt again.

Haba! That's too harsh pastor.

Hmmmm.....I am not perfect but with time, I'll get used to this verse you pointed out.
I have always admire the teachings of Pastor Kumuyi, Mary K. Baxter and Kathryn Kulhman. I so much admire the courage and sincerity of these evangelists when preaching in accordance with the Word of God(i.e the Bible ).
We need more preachers, gospel singers and drama actors and actresses telling the world about God's Kingdom, Salvation and the Second Coming of Christ.
A person like me isn't moved by sermons preached on Prosperity because I will easily get bored.... I just don't know why. I love to listen to the mysteries about God and his spirituality. I love to see beyond the physical.

Kingjames:
Deuteronomy 22:5 The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God. Bible (KJV
yes the Bible said it. But one can not read a verse and start preaching without deeper understanding
The so called men of God will never teach any of the rules in the old testament than " bring ye tithe unto God" or Women should not wear men's dress
look at VERSE 11: Deuteronomy 22:11 Thou shalt not wear a garment of divers sorts, as of woollen and linen together. Bible (KJV)
how many of us are not guilty of this; even the pastors
Grace has saved us

I am so glad that God made you my earthly mother. You are the original image God has made me to be. You have raised me up to be strong, brave, independent, loving and kind. I am just short of words Mama. I know that the challenges you are going through right now will end with tears of joy. I will never be ashamed to show you off to the world and scream with my voice to tell you how much I love you, how much you mean to me. When the world, your family turn their back against you Mama, by the strength and grace of God, I'll surely stand by you with everything I have as a woman. And whosoever tries to strike you down in any form, may they dry up like the fig tree Jesus cursed. On my happiest day Mama, you will be my mother on that day and no one will replace you in Jesus name. May God prolong your days to benefit all the things you have laboured for. I pray for you Mama that your heart will be filled with peace, love, happiness all the days of your life on earth.

My greatest gift from Jesus to you Mama is Salvation in Jesus name - AMEN.

I love you mum beyond words.

Yes my sister. Mistakes are bound to occur. It is not that easy to confess our sinful atrocities to the those we call our family, particularly our parents.

Guest007:
You're right, it is a deep matter...

What I find disheartening is the judgemental culture that won't allow a child of God to make mistakes, and learn and correct thyself, and somewhere along the line help others to avoid such mistakes.

This is a serious matter @Op.
Option one is the most difficult. It is easier to tell God and ask for forgiveness but to men it's not. If I were in her shoes, I would feel the same. I will urge the lady in question to pray for strength and ask God to touch the heart of whoever she wishes to confess her story to.
We are all bound to make mistakes in life. Whether you are religious or not, it can happen to anybody. We learn lessons from our past. It is well.

Hmmmm, I will strongly advice young girls who are practising pre marital sex to STOP and ZIP-UP! Abortion is Never a safe step to take. It is 50-50, either you live or die. I wish I could tell my story here to a group of ladies who are in a relationship or the other way.

Like I said, Abortion is NEVER safe for any girl.
Stay safe, be happy always, don't allow someone to push you beyond your limits. And don't force people to do your bidding, you will regret it sooner.

So black and disjusting ewwee

martineverest:
see armpit like public latrine

Wow! A woman transformed that man's life by picking him up from the street is very rare. A drug addict for that matter. For that, she owns my respect. It's sad the man is late.

Nigeria will always be my favourite home country.

If you are desperate to travel out to any country of your choice, please take time and effort to do your research thoroughly. Many of us especially the youths fall victim in the hands of these scammers called travel agencies. Some of these agencies are running their businesses illegally and now they still exist.

People who are wolves covered with sheep clothings and pretending to be nice to you just to get their evil deeds done are everywhere. These people could be our closed friends, relations. We have to be more sensitive and extremely careful.

We are all striving to survive to actualize our dreams but we must be sure of any decision we take in life.

Patience, hard working, determination and prayer are the strongest tools we need to achieve anything in this world in the right way . May God help us all.

I just want to express how I feel. It hurts me deep when my love is taken for granted . When I love a man, I love him hard. But it seems I'm gonna step down for a while maybe for months, I don't know.... I have always wanted to have a serious commitment. I want someone to love me too, someone who thinks I'm the best. I know he's out there.

It hasn't been easy for me to remain single for a very long time now. I have burdened lots of things in my heart. Deceitful men who claim to have feelings for me, trust issues happen to be the top reasons I remain being single.

I don't have a clue of what to do next. I really want to experience deep affection from the Only One. I am so scared that I might stay longer in searching for true love. There's no day I don't think about it i.e having a great family of my own, seeing my beautiful kids calling me mama . I am believing in God for that.

True love really matters. It brings peace to your heart. When you find it, don't ever let it go.