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EducationRe: Nigerian Defence Academy Admission Processes..........68-76RC by Emyben(m): 6:43am On Apr 01, 2017
I still cant upload anything even after the extension. This is serious
EducationRe: Nigerian Defence Academy Admission Processes..........68-76RC by Emyben(m): 8:59pm On Mar 31, 2017
Dann01:
.nda twitter account
wow..thank God for that. Atleast i can still upload me some passport
EducationRe: Nigerian Defence Academy Admission Processes..........68-76RC by Emyben(m): 8:33pm On Mar 31, 2017
Dann01:
Fellow cadidate! d filling of application and upload of documents has been extended to Sunday 2nd of April 2017 by 11:59pm
I hope this is true. How do you know this bro?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Fidelity Bank Recruitment For Graduate Trainee 2017 (Bsc And HND Only) by Emyben(m): 6:57pm On Mar 31, 2017
laskillful:
I just did d test today... n I can categorically tell u that if u read d whole of d GMAT 2007, u would com across at least 15-20 questions from it word for word. So its a good study guide. I scored 75% n I put d rest at God's feet
Hey bro.. Good day. Can i get the Gmat 2007 from you? Mine is on Tuesday and i really wanna prepare with it too.
I will very much appreciate. Thank you

emekabeny@gmail.com
EducationRe: Nigerian Defence Academy Admission Processes..........68-76RC by Emyben(m): 5:54pm On Mar 31, 2017
Pls... Someone should tell me why i still can't upload anything. Have reduced my passport uptill 52kb.
This is frustrating me here really.
And the time is fast closing down. So sad
EducationRe: Nigerian Defence Academy Admission Processes..........68-76RC by Emyben(m): 4:53pm On Mar 31, 2017
Panzerfaust:
no o
How do i know when its successfully uploaded? Getting worried already
EducationRe: Nigerian Defence Academy Admission Processes..........68-76RC by Emyben(m): 4:45pm On Mar 31, 2017
Please, does this mean that my passport has been uploaded. I have been having difficulty uploading it but now i am seeing this.

Nb: i cant see the passport

Jobs/VacanciesRe: Fidelity Bank Recruitment For Graduate Trainee 2017 (Bsc And HND Only) by Emyben(m): 8:35am On Mar 31, 2017
Pleeeeeease guys. I need a gmat copy. Thank y'all
emekabeny@gmail.com
Forum GamesRe: Post Your First Ever Comment On Nairaland Here. by Emyben(m): 8:21am On Mar 27, 2017
Afam4eva:
What is he contesting for? Governorship of Anambra or Presidency?
That was during or before the Anambra November Governorship elections
Forum GamesRe: Post Your First Ever Comment On Nairaland Here. by Emyben(m): 10:36pm On Mar 26, 2017
if soludo should contest,then i personally would prefer him above others (June 29,2013)
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Navy Direct Short Service Course Aspirants(dssc) 2015 by Emyben(m): 6:58pm On Mar 24, 2017
pijay:
Hahahahahaha
grin grin grin grin
Lol, na so i go dey do my own hahahahaha for prospective officers next year. I go don become officer then.. Lol. wink
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Navy Direct Short Service Course Aspirants(dssc) 2015 by Emyben(m): 9:45pm On Mar 20, 2017
pijay:
This is wat ya Eye Test look like. U will read out d alphabet from a distance. If they ask u to use 1 hand and cover 1 eye, pls dont press the eye hard cos u might end up not seeing for 30secs
Haha.. Sir Pijay.. I see you.
I asked you about it via mail. Lol
CrimeRe: Lady Falls Inside Gutter And Faints After Being Punched By Tricycle Rider (pics) by Emyben(m): 12:39pm On Feb 03, 2017
Who else thinks her dress made her look like a snake. undecided undecided I thought that was lala's Python cheesy
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Navy Direct Short Service Course Aspirants(dssc) 2015 by Emyben(m): 7:10pm On Jan 30, 2017
Filafa:
Access Bank PLC is currently recruiting eligible candidates as Executive Trainees or Internship Program

The requirements are:
A. Minimum of 2.1 (second class upper) or 2:2 for Internship Programme
B. Not more than 24years of age. However if you are a law graduate or a Masters degree holder you shouldn't be more than 26 years old.
C. Must have completed or about to complete NYSC

Kindly log on to www.accessbankplc.com to apply using the referral code: 9953/13

The deadline for application is February 09, 2017

Be kind enough to inform others.

Goodluck!
Hello bro, Please, whats the need for the referral code? . First time am seeing something like that.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Navy Direct Short Service Course Aspirants(dssc) 2015 by Emyben(m): 6:03pm On Jan 21, 2017
pijay:
None of the girls ran away or voluntarily left, so y will a man run away from training. Even a very lazy person will eventually pick up nd bcome strong after 3 months..
Thanks Sir Pijay. U can't imagine how relieved i am.
because, the way people were musing over it, i was beginning to think they voluntarily kill people in camp.

If a girl can undergo the military stress, why jot a medically fit boy.

Thanks bro. Your boys keep looking up to God. The list we await as we prepare and get ourselves busy with other stuffs.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Navy Direct Short Service Course Aspirants(dssc) 2015 by Emyben(m): 12:01pm On Jan 21, 2017
wildchild1:
They couldn't withstand the training
I seriously am still imagining the kinda training they give there that would make boys quit voluntarily.

Okay, not like am afraid... Infact let me be truthful grin grin... Its scary! Am afraid too but what kinda activities biko? Chai cry
FamilyRe: Men Are Also Abused: A Touching Story By A Nigerian Lady Whose Father Was Abused by Emyben(op): 1:21pm On Jan 19, 2017
pocohantas:
https://www.nairaland.com/3579174/untold-story-abused-husband#52913841

Duplicated topic. No need calling lala...
Oh, really?
Nice to see that someone already made people read the story. Thanks
FamilyRe: Men Are Also Abused: A Touching Story By A Nigerian Lady Whose Father Was Abused by Emyben(op): 1:09pm On Jan 19, 2017
This story got me thinking seriously.. Chai
FamilyMen Are Also Abused: A Touching Story By A Nigerian Lady Whose Father Was Abused by Emyben(op): 1:07pm On Jan 19, 2017
A Facebook user Cynthia Valerian Raphaels posted this on Facebook Yesterday.

This goes a long way to show that men are also abused.
The identity of the narrator is however hidden.
Read below

"Hmmmmm, waking up to read this message on my inbox made me weak to the bone. May his soul find peace, Amen!

Ana eme!



Madam today is the memory of my legend, ( my late father) 14 years ago, he was laid to rest! His memory still remains fresh in the heart of those who love him. I miss you daddy.

Madam I wish to share my family story with you, since I have been on social media and reading relationship updates, I have never seen a page very fruitful and educative like yours . My story is heartbreaking, the story of my late father, he was all I got, his death took the most deepest part of me. The very minute he was laid to rest, nothing means the world again to me. Daddy know that where ever you are,your daughter misses you and in my next world, you will always be my father. My father under went a lot in the hands of my mother, though I haven't seen her since 9 years I got married . Me seeing her after I left on the day my daddy was buried, I packed and left, seeing her again,was on my marriage day. I have forgiven her, but she will neither get close to me or my children, not in this life . Madam Cynthia , yes men get abused and my father was one man who endured till he gave up. I am the first child of my parent. My father was a bank manager, he always provide whatever we need. Whatever my mother say, he does without asking what she needs the money for .

She tortured him, not one minute of peace. As little as I was, I can recall she slapping my daddy on different occasions when he questions her on where she went. My father believed in the sanity of marriage and he doesn't want a separation because of us the kids. My daddies work is very demanding and from his work he will come pick us from school while my mother is at home sleeping . It got to a time, he was almost sacked and he found a driver for us, though he was trying to save cost by coming to pick us himself. Once we get home, he will bath us, and my mother will still be on phone talking to her friends and my father will go to the kitchen and start cooking what we will eat.

Madam if I start remembering what happened when we were small, I will put a bullet to my mothers skull. When my daddy finishes cooking, my mother will be the first to go take food and eat. I came across my dad washing clothes one day and I saw my mothers bras and pants in it. That was when I took over the washing at 13years and relieved my father of that. My mother prefers to go out with friends than stay at home with us on weekends, so my daddy is always there to look into our homework. Even in school when parents meeting will be called, my father is the person who comes, the school barely know my mother. I grew up knowing what womanhood was from my father. He taught me all I know. My daddy so much loved my mother that whenever he goes out, he will find something to buy for her, to make her happy, some she says thank you and some she doesn't.

The name calling are unbearable, fool, idiot, I managed to Marry your type,you are not my ideal man, I will soon leave you and marry another suitable man. She killed my daddies pride! She ridiculed his ego. Sometimes my father cry in his heart whenever I am around for me not to see. After my coming, my mother stayed 5 years before my twin siblings came . My father became a ghost of himself. The torture was painful. My mother had her separate room, so she sleeps there often with the twins, me and my daddy sleep on his bed, sometimes when I wake up, I will look for him, but will see him on my mother door kneeling down , asking her to open the door for him. As small as I am, I will go and kneel with him, asking him to get up and go to sleep.

Sometimes he kneels down at the blessed sacrament altar in our house to cry because my dad is a staunch Catholic , he will cry till he is tired . My mother detest my daddies people with passion, so no one nears our house at all. I have asked her severally what they did, she said nothing, just that that are coming to scatter the wealth that she suffered for. She slapped me at 14 years when I asked her what wealth, that she has been a house wife , so where is the wealth? That is only my daddy that is making the money, the slap she gave me , landed me on the floor. My mother never for once go to the market to buy me bra, my father did. One day I asked my dad, how did you and mummy meet, he said he met her back in university days when a man who promised her marriage dissapointed her and married her friend , that my mother is acting that way because of betrayed trust. I told him even at that, she shouldn't transfer aggression to you who is innocent. My daddy said they courted for 9 months before he married her. My mothers friends has never entered our house and behaved themselves, either they are drinking or dancing In front of us, sometimes my mother ask us to leave when my daddy is not at home.

Oh madam, I never had a peaceful childhood. I started cooking at 14, to help my father. My grandmother came just once and visited, the cold reception my mother gave her was nothing to write home about. She served her cold food, I was the one who went to warm it for her, when I brought it back for her, she said she has lost appetite.
When I was 16 years, I was molested by my secondary school teacher, telling my mother, she said go talk to your father, I waited for my father to return before I complained, he took the case to the later, till the teacher was sacked.

My two twin brothers took the footstool of my mother, one is in nigeria prison for rape and the other is surviving with his plumbering job, when he found out that robbing people of their property isn't safe anymore, that he can be caught and sent to jail, so he learnt plumber work. The kind of disturbing names my mother shouts on my daddy is not funny. I thank God that people knew he was a great man. The two storey building at my mothers place was built by my father. Yes, he loves my mother beyond repair, he took all she did as if it was nothing, the thorn kept piercing his heart . I refused going to boarding school just to stay close to my father. When I finished school, I got into the university, my father had stroke at 54 years. That was the period I vowed never to have a mother. She left my daddy to our mercy, all she does is to ask him how he is doing, and to tell him that he smells sometimes . For 2 years, i didn't concentrate in school till my father recovered. That period my mothers late night was something else . It got to a time, her own mother called her and told her she is ashamed to call her her daughter, that what is wrong with her ? She transferred the aggression on me saying am the one telling her mother what she is saying. I thank God my father healed and I sat him down with his friend to tell him to speak up, that he has tried to condone a lot. Madam Cynthia, my father spoke up very late,almost at the point of death.

My university education was badly affected. My brothers got into the university, joined cults and got erosticated from school. My mother fought to bribe her way to help them. My Final year was when life lost meaning to me. My father called me saying he is feeling as if his breathing isn't normal, my mother traveled to their house, saying she wants to attend her sisters daughters wedding. After the wedding, she stayed like one whole week leaving my father and our nanny, an older lady she brought to help keep the house neat because we are all in school. I rushed home, saw my father, he was looking healthy, but I noticed he was fighting it had to breath, I asked the nanny to help me take him down the stair case ,let me bring the car keys, I can drive, my father taught me . When we got to the hospital, his bp was terribly high. He was admitted. I picked up a phone to call my mother, my father said I shouldn't bother. I got angry left his side, left the room to call my mother, asking her how she left home and never cared to check up on her husband, she said isn't the nanny there to take care of him? That was her question, I just switched off .

She later came after three days to the hospital, but the next day my daddy was discharged, so we got home and my exam was the next two day, my last exam before my Defence. I instructed the nanny on what to do, and she shouldn't hesitate to call me once my daddy starts getting worse, immediately I left and went back to school. On the day we started exam was the day my father died. I felt it in the morning, because my flower vase fell all the way from the center of the table. My water gallon broke, for 4 years, I have used it till that day. The one that got me mad, was my exam card, I looked for it till I got tired not knowing I was wearing it inside my shirt . My father died in the morning, when I finished writing my exam, I started calling my daddies phone, he did not pick up , I called our nanny, she said she left our house yesterday to see her mother who called that she is sick. I picked phone, called my mother and she said my dad is fine and she gave him food in the morning before leaving the house, and she will soon leave her fiends place home. I wasn't comfortable so, I left school immediately, saying once I see my father healthy, I will rush back to school and start preparing for my next paper. When I got home, my mother wasn't back yet, my brother was down stairs smoking, I asked about daddy, he said he should be in his room, I was singing climbing the stairs, dropped my bag, went to meet him where he is lying , his eyes were closed, so I tapped him to tell him, I am around, he never responded, pushed him to know if he can wake up, no way, when I started shouting my brother came upstairs and I ran out to go called my fathers brother,and they confirmed him dead, we took him to a doctor, and he said, it's been long he died. Life lost its meaning for me, I didn't know what I was doing. I carried my daddies head up to my lap and cried, life why me? My mother came back when we brought my daddies corpse back from the hospital, thinking of which mortuary to take him too. When she started crying, people that knew her, never even looked her way. My father died in pain and agony. Life was so unfair to him, he was tortured to death.

It was only God who wrote my exams for me because I can't understand anything, anymore . After my fathers burial, I packed to go live with my grandparents and I stayed there till I got married. My father was a victim of abuse and he died loving my mother, I am married and I want to love my husband till death, I have kids and I will train them responsibly. My mother has fought to see me , but all to no avail, my husband has asked me to let it go, but all I told him was, h never understood because he never walked in my shoes. I was touched to go see my brother at the prison, he was so ashamed of himself, life taught him a lesson the hard way"

Madam a lot of men are abused daily but they don't want to speak up. My father was one, millions are out there . I rest my pen here madam Cynthia, good day to you .
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Navy Direct Short Service Course Aspirants(dssc) 2015 by Emyben(m): 5:37pm On Dec 21, 2016
pijay:
Nobody will tell u anytin either u are eliminated or not. Ya conscience will prick u once u Bleep up maybe u dont hv relevant certificate. Only Medicals will b announce so that those that are eliminated wouldnt run d Edurance race.
Sir Pijay, how is their visual acuity test done. Is it just the chart test where u get to read charts placed at a distance?

or does it include thorough examination like using that medical eye torch to look into your pupils/eyes?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 2016 Firstbank Graduate Trainee Programme by Emyben(m): 2:49pm On Dec 12, 2016
TheBatman:
is it consign you,
How do you mean please? Did you read my post at all? Hian
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 2016 Firstbank Graduate Trainee Programme by Emyben(m): 1:48pm On Dec 12, 2016
nayookafor:
The TEST is not the traditional DRAGNET question type. So stop reading Abstract Reasoning that comes with shapes...it is
*Analytical Reasoning that comes with logic...e.g All men are mortals...All men will die...then options follow. Also alphabets turned upside down eg ZYW CBA
*Business Mathematics is basic math - Percentage, Profit & loss, ratio, multiplication of large figures(time wasting because no calculator)...16 questions for 19 minutes
*Verbal Reasoning is strictly comprehension. 4 passages, 20 questions for 16 minutes.
*General Knowledge comes with current affairs, basic Economics and Commerce...20 questions for 16 minutes.
The key to ACE the test is SPEED & ACCURACY! Good luck all!!
Don't tell them to stop READING abstract that comes with SHAPES.

Dragnet is not stupid. They know these scenarios of Write and Tell will occur. And am hella sure that the question patterns for the Tuesday guys will be starkly different from that of the Saturday guys.

Let em who has brains think wise o.
EducationRe: Is Becoming A Phd Holder Possible In Your 20s by Emyben(m): 4:19pm On Dec 10, 2016
I got my BSc aged 19, Got my masters degree aged 21. Became 22 during my service year.

Am trying to use myself as an example now. That means i have/had 8 whole whopping years to get a PhD which is very very realistic.

Nobody should tell you it aint possible bro.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 2016 Firstbank Graduate Trainee Programme by Emyben(m): 3:57pm On Dec 09, 2016
@Winnyluv
Bikozie, am kneeling and begging. Kindly send me the verbal questions please. I asked you since morning.

Many peeps here are already sending me mails asking me to do so to them.
Can you please send me the questions. Pleaaaaase

emekabeny@gmail.com
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 2016 Firstbank Graduate Trainee Programme by Emyben(m): 7:58am On Dec 09, 2016
Winnyluv:
Send your email address let me forward the materials I have to you. I only have verbal reasoning. You can answer numerical online on dragnet site (sample exam questions)
Pls Pls, can you kindly forward the verbal reasoning to me?
emekabeny@gmail.com
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 2016 Firstbank Graduate Trainee Programme by Emyben(m): 7:56am On Dec 09, 2016
LadyJasper:
Please send to me too, makaritao@gmail.com Thanks.
Pls, can you kindly send me the verbal reasoning as you received? emekabeny@gmail.com
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 2016 Firstbank Graduate Trainee Programme by Emyben(m): 6:59pm On Dec 08, 2016
Please, add me up in the whatsapp group. 07035688301
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 2016 Firstbank Graduate Trainee Programme by Emyben(m): 6:04pm On Dec 08, 2016
mayoor15:
Are you talking about numericals or abstract cos dragnet don confuse person seph
Abstract oo
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 2016 Firstbank Graduate Trainee Programme by Emyben(m): 5:55pm On Dec 08, 2016
mayoor15:
Think the exam sections is still the same, analytical reasoning should be abstract, business maths should be numerical reasoning, verbal reasoning and general knowledge. Guess the exam will contain about 80 questions for like say an hour.
That analytical reasoning is something else. In all my practices, it has gulped down far more time than others... Lol
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 2016 Firstbank Graduate Trainee Programme by Emyben(m): 5:16pm On Dec 08, 2016
So, Dragnet replied me.
Maybe we all should chill. By this night, you will get it

Jobs/VacanciesRe: 2016 Firstbank Graduate Trainee Programme by Emyben(m): 5:03pm On Dec 08, 2016
ottival:
Emyben what did dey say?
Called the first one, it was switched off.
Called the second line, it kept being busy till it eventually got switched off again.

This is destabilizing kinda shaa
I hate uncertainty
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 2016 Firstbank Graduate Trainee Programme by Emyben(m): 4:44pm On Dec 08, 2016
mayoor15:
yes, dragnet customer care line
Can i have it bro?

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