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Nairaland GeneralRe: The E-Helpers Network (TeHN) - Official Thread by engrj(m): 12:09am On Aug 15, 2018
dominique:
I'm afraid I don't know of any regular nairalander based in Uyo. What I will suggest is that you do a fresh thread and reference it to the one that made frontpage. Don't forget to mention how much has been raised so far and also carry us along as donations come in. I'll send you a pm later.
Greetings ma/sir.
I just found out about this now.
Please can you help in anyway as regards to the below link. It's about my mother's health. Please read.

https://www.nairaland.com/4610349/48-yrs-old-mother-dying
Nairaland GeneralRe: The E-Helpers Network (TeHN) - Official Thread by engrj(m): 12:04am On Aug 15, 2018
Gboliwe:
Where is his address in Uyo? How much is needed? Is there any other group taking funds on his behalf?
Good evening madam.
I found out about TEHN now any help for me pls as regards to the below link.
https://www.nairaland.com/4610349/48-yrs-old-mother-dying


Thanks so much for all the help so far. Hope you remember me?
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 2:49pm On Aug 14, 2018
Greetings nairalanders.

This is her account details 
 Account name :AKHARE FLORA O.
Bank Name: First Bank.
ACCOUNT NUMBER 2009301003.
Also find below the link to her her GoFundMe account.

Thank you and God Bless You.

https://www.gofundme.com/gofundmecomplease-save-a-lif
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op):
LordKO:
Na you no come understand me. For that my first post I hope you see where I say make him stepfather try him best though. The fact remains say if everybody here tell OP to take up a case against his stepfather as things be now, na police and redcap chiefs go benefit, because dem go use the little money dem for use cater for him mother to entertain the mentioned arbitrators.

The stepfather de vex for the OP, na accumulated malice him de exhibit towards him now. Through OP and him maternal relations' actions and inactions from the time past towards him - he knows say they being de mistrust am - so him wan use opportunity like this to retaliate, by allowing the OP to cater for the problem alone since his wife no de the same location with him. But this no be the kind of situation to use settle scores therefore the reason I say make him try him best though to complement the OP's effort.

@OP, take the route of diplomacy in relating with your stepfather at this juncture, I say. God's blessings to your mother in particular and your family in general.
Bros greetings sir.
My step dad whom you are in support of, only sent 5k check my mum balance as at on Saturday.


I also attached the drug I got for her too.

FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 2:38pm On Aug 14, 2018
Gloriawinning:
I don’t fully understand but what I will say is that you should plan on staying together and forget any plan of living her alone.
You will need to start managing her health from home and general hospital if there is no money for healthcare. It is the reality that many face now in this country, many sick have gone back home due to lack of funds, the ones that survives with less pain are the ones that decide to use our local herbs and remedies for pain management they are everywhere so no excuses.
Once again if there is absolutely no fund you take her home and register her to a general hospital as well as through the help of a local herberlist.
My mums friend who is also a nurse is a herbalist and she is currently managing 5 people with holistic therapy and herbs. Some have cancer, diabetes, long term wounds all who can’t afford medical care . Of course they are all not likely to make it but it’s better than just watching her.
That is the reality of the poor not everyone have 5MN for treatment .
If you are social media savvy you can open a go fund me account, take her pictures regularly and document her illness for all to see, how much is needed including all doctors report . I promise I will be the first to donate. Also submit to social media and charity workers like Nikki Laoye etc
Good luck .
Thank you.
Please how can I reach you?
I have open a GoFundMe account for her but nothing seems to be working.
This is her direct account details

 Account name :AKHARE FLORA O.
Bank Name: First Bank.
ACCOUNT NUMBER 2009301003.
Her GoFundMe account
https://www.gofundme.com/gofundmecomplease-save-a-lif

But I got this below message via my email

HealthRe: PLEASE SAVE MY MOTHERS LIFE SHE'S NOW ON DIALYSIS MACHINE by engrj(op): 1:03pm On Aug 13, 2018
Read my story via the below link.

https://www.nairaland.com/4667821/im-having-serious-issues-step

A GoFundMe account has been create for her see link below.
https://www.gofundme.com/gofundmecomplease-save-a-lif

This is her account details
Account name :AKHARE FLORA O.
Bank Name: First Bank.
ACCOUNT NUMBER 2009301003.
Also find below the link to her her GoFundMe account.

Thank you and God Bless You.

FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 1:02pm On Aug 13, 2018
Read my story via the below link.

https://www.nairaland.com/4667821/im-having-serious-issues-step

A GoFundMe account has been create for her see link below.
https://www.gofundme.com/gofundmecomplease-save-a-lif

This is her account details 
 Account name :AKHARE FLORA O.
Bank Name: First Bank.
ACCOUNT NUMBER 2009301003.
Also find below the link to her her GoFundMe account.

Thank you and God Bless You.

HealthRe: PLEASE SAVE MY MOTHERS LIFE SHE'S NOW ON DIALYSIS MACHINE by engrj(op): 1:04pm On Aug 12, 2018
Originalsly:
Bro...not in the medical field....but you need to slow down... you not focused. You came in here because of your mom's failing eyesight....focus on that. You went to the Air Force hospital as recommended by someone who gave good reason why you should go there. They can't do anything much to help your mom's condition. ....the people who are very good saying this. Ask yourself why? Vision loss caused by diabetes is like irreversible. ..but can be slowed down. Why am I not reading anything about controlling the diabetes? What diet was recommended from jump?...what foods were/are to be avoided?.. what native herbs are used to control diabetes? ...have you explored any of these? Eye surgery....why?...what would they remove from the eyes?...diabetes? Sooo many people were losing their sight and had it restored after surgery...I am one such person....but surgery for what? I am sure not loss of sight because of diabetes. Ask they will say yes...ask for the last such successful surgery see what happens. If you really love your mother...take her out of LASUTH.....LASUTH is a vampire...they will suck your last kobo...no amount of funding will be enough. Search DJOLA here on NL.... came here for help...just like you..go read for yourself.
On your mother sudden complications...guy...you be giving her all kinds of drugs...do you know how they react with each other?...do you know if these are the cause? Again...slow down...focus. Control her diabetes.... monitor and control her sugar level.... control her diet...make her stick to it. If her kidneys not good...all the drugs will make them worse. Focus period.
Wow how come you know LASUTH very well like this?
I regretted taken my mother there. If I share my story/experience about LASUTH online, I'm very sure the state government will get me arrested secretly. So make I just dey look .

As for your write up thanks shall. See below the drugs she takes now and what I use in controlling her sugar level and BP. Thanks sir.

FoodRe: World Jollof Day 2018: Three Fun Recipes To Try by engrj(m): 11:27am On Aug 12, 2018
Good Morning Friends.

Please Read, Donate And Repost God Bless You.

This is Mrs. Akhare Flora O. (My Mother) she's a young and ambitious woman (48yrs old), a mother of one, a staff of Ikpoba Okha Local Government Edo state Nigeria.

She was diagnosed of Chronic Kidney Disease (CKD) around April 2018.
It began around 2015, when she noticed excessive thirst and frequent urination she went for check up and discovered she's diabetic. She started the treatments immediately and there was a change in diet also which is the only way to fight diabetes.

Fast forward to 2017, she woke up one morning and realized that she couldn't see clearly again (blurred vision not blind). She went for an Eye check in Benin Edo state and she was told she have diabetic retinopathy so she was recommended to Eye Foundation (A Health Care for Eye treatment only not foundation) around GRA. Lagos State Nigeria.

On getting to Eye Foundation some series of test was conducted, then we discovered that her kidney has been affected. (Chronic Kidney Disease) We have no choice than to omit the treatment of the eyes and focused on the solution to the kidney disease.

So she started going for dialysis after spending two (2) weeks on admission at Lagos State teaching hospital (LASUTH). We have been going for dialysis and sometimes the dialysis do cause an infection.

NOTE: Infections acquired in dialysis units can kill, disable, hospitalize, and/or prolong illness in patients while disrupting lives and increasing the cost of treatment. Dialysis-relatedinfections can occur in many body locations including the bloodstream, bones, lungs, and skin.

After spending so much on dialysis, blood transfusions, injections to formulate the blood and buying of drugs, I decided to make a research about a lasting solutions to Chronic Kidney Disease, and also according to the Dr. Managing her, we where told that the only solution to this is to go for a transplants. And the transplant, is very expensive hence we have no choice than to beg for a funds raise to enable her live again.

Please kindly assist us with whatever you can. We are in need of all the help you can render, prayers, money or anything.

If you need any proof you can contact me +2380-6494-5586 via whatsapp video call to see her live and the condition she is. If you need any more documents to proof my story to know if its true or not i will also provide to backup my story, you can reach me on +23480-8029-0561.

This is her account details
Account name :AKHARE FLORA O.
Bank Name: First Bank.
ACCOUNT NUMBER 2009301003.
Also find below the link to her her GoFundMe account.

https://www.gofundme.com/manage/gofundmecomplease-save-a-lif

Thank you and God Bless You

Christianity EtcRe: Grace Is Not Enough by engrj(m): 11:15am On Aug 12, 2018
Good Morning Friends.

Please Read, Donate And Repost God Bless You.

This is Mrs. Akhare Flora O. (My Mother) she's a young and ambitious woman (48yrs old), a mother of one, a staff of Ikpoba Okha Local Government Edo state Nigeria.

She was diagnosed of Chronic Kidney Disease (CKD) around April 2018.
It began around 2015, when she noticed excessive thirst and frequent urination she went for check up and discovered she's diabetic. She started the treatments immediately and there was a change in diet also which is the only way to fight diabetes.

Fast forward to 2017, she woke up one morning and realized that she couldn't see clearly again (blurred vision not blind). She went for an Eye check in Benin Edo state and she was told she have diabetic retinopathy so she was recommended to Eye Foundation (A Health Care for Eye treatment only not foundation) around GRA. Lagos State Nigeria.

On getting to Eye Foundation some series of test was conducted, then we discovered that her kidney has been affected. (Chronic Kidney Disease) We have no choice than to omit the treatment of the eyes and focused on the solution to the kidney disease.

So she started going for dialysis after spending two (2) weeks on admission at Lagos State teaching hospital (LASUTH). We have been going for dialysis and sometimes the dialysis do cause an infection.

NOTE: Infections acquired in dialysis units can kill, disable, hospitalize, and/or prolong illness in patients while disrupting lives and increasing the cost of treatment. Dialysis-relatedinfections can occur in many body locations including the bloodstream, bones, lungs, and skin.

After spending so much on dialysis, blood transfusions, injections to formulate the blood and buying of drugs, I decided to make a research about a lasting solutions to Chronic Kidney Disease, and also according to the Dr. Managing her, we where told that the only solution to this is to go for a transplants. And the transplant, is very expensive hence we have no choice than to beg for a funds raise to enable her live again.

Please kindly assist us with whatever you can. We are in need of all the help you can render, prayers, money or anything.

If you need any proof you can contact me +2380-6494-5586 via whatsapp video call to see her live and the condition she is. If you need any more documents to proof my story to know if its true or not i will also provide to backup my story, you can reach me on +23480-8029-0561.

This is her account details
Account name :AKHARE FLORA O.
Bank Name: First Bank.
ACCOUNT NUMBER 2009301003.
Also find below the link to her her GoFundMe account.

https://www.gofundme.com/manage/gofundmecomplease-save-a-lif

Thank you and God Bless You

HealthRe: PLEASE SAVE MY MOTHERS LIFE SHE'S NOW ON DIALYSIS MACHINE by engrj(op): 11:02am On Aug 12, 2018
Good Morning Friends.

Please Read, Donate And Repost God Bless You.

This is Mrs. Akhare Flora O. (My Mother) she's a young and ambitious woman (48yrs old), a mother of one, a staff of Ikpoba Okha Local Government Edo state Nigeria.

She was diagnosed of Chronic Kidney Disease (CKD) around April 2018.
It began around 2015, when she noticed excessive thirst and frequent urination she went for check up and discovered she's diabetic. She started the treatments immediately and there was a change in diet also which is the only way to fight diabetes.

Fast forward to 2017, she woke up one morning and realized that she couldn't see clearly again (blurred vision not blind). She went for an Eye check in Benin Edo state and she was told she have diabetic retinopathy so she was recommended to Eye Foundation (A Health Care for Eye treatment only not foundation) around GRA. Lagos State Nigeria.

On getting to Eye Foundation some series of test was conducted, then we discovered that her kidney has been affected. (Chronic Kidney Disease) We have no choice than to omit the treatment of the eyes and focused on the solution to the kidney disease.

So she started going for dialysis after spending two (2) weeks on admission at Lagos State teaching hospital (LASUTH). We have been going for dialysis and sometimes the dialysis do cause an infection.

NOTE: Infections acquired in dialysis units can kill, disable, hospitalize, and/or prolong illness in patients while disrupting lives and increasing the cost of treatment. Dialysis-relatedinfections can occur in many body locations including the bloodstream, bones, lungs, and skin.

After spending so much on dialysis, blood transfusions, injections to formulate the blood and buying of drugs, I decided to make a research about a lasting solutions to Chronic Kidney Disease, and also according to the Dr. Managing her, we where told that the only solution to this is to go for a transplants. And the transplant, is very expensive hence we have no choice than to beg for a funds raise to enable her live again.

Please kindly assist us with whatever you can. We are in need of all the help you can render, prayers, money or anything.

If you need any proof you can contact me +2380-6494-5586 via whatsapp video call to see her live and the condition she is. If you need any more documents to proof my story to know if its true or not i will also provide to backup my story, you can reach me on +23480-8029-0561.

This is her account details
Account name :AKHARE FLORA O.
Bank Name: First Bank.
ACCOUNT NUMBER 2009301003.
Also find below the link to her her GoFundMe account.

https://www.gofundme.com/manage/gofundmecomplease-save-a-lif

Thank you and God Bless You
Christianity EtcRe: Rewarded For What We Have Done? - Paul Ellis by engrj(m): 7:36am On Aug 12, 2018
Good Morning Friends.

Please Read, Donate And Repost God Bless You.

This is Mrs. Akhare Flora O. (My Mother) she's a young and ambitious woman (48yrs old), a mother of one, a staff of Ikpoba Okha Local Government Edo state Nigeria.

She was diagnosed of Chronic Kidney Disease (CKD) around April 2018.
It began around 2015, when she noticed excessive thirst and frequent urination she went for check up and discovered she's diabetic. She started the treatments immediately and there was a change in diet also which is the only way to fight diabetes.

Fast forward to 2017, she woke up one morning and realized that she couldn't see clearly again (blurred vision not blind). She went for an Eye check in Benin Edo state and she was told she have diabetic retinopathy so she was recommended to Eye Foundation (A Health Care for Eye treatment only not foundation) around GRA. Lagos State Nigeria.

On getting to Eye Foundation some series of test was conducted, then we discovered that her kidney has been affected. (Chronic Kidney Disease) We have no choice than to omit the treatment of the eyes and focused on the solution to the kidney disease.

So she started going for dialysis after spending two (2) weeks on admission at Lagos State teaching hospital (LASUTH). We have been going for dialysis and sometimes the dialysis do cause an infection.

NOTE: Infections acquired in dialysis units can kill, disable, hospitalize, and/or prolong illness in patients while disrupting lives and increasing the cost of treatment. Dialysis-relatedinfections can occur in many body locations including the bloodstream, bones, lungs, and skin.

After spending so much on dialysis, blood transfusions, injections to formulate the blood and buying of drugs, I decided to make a research about a lasting solutions to Chronic Kidney Disease, and also according to the Dr. Managing her, we where told that the only solution to this is to go for a transplants. And the transplant, is very expensive hence we have no choice than to beg for a funds raise to enable her live again.

Please kindly assist us with whatever you can. We are in need of all the help you can render, prayers, money or anything.

If you need any proof you can contact me +2380-6494-5586 via whatsapp video call to see her live and the condition she is. If you need any more documents to proof my story to know if its true or not i will also provide to backup my story, you can reach me on +23480-8029-0561.

This is her account details
Account name :AKHARE FLORA O.
Bank Name: First Bank.
ACCOUNT NUMBER 2009301003.
Also find below the link to her her GoFundMe account.

https://www.gofundme.com/manage/gofundmecomplease-save-a-lif

Thank you and God Bless You.

FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 7:32am On Aug 12, 2018
Good Morning Friends.

Please Read, Donate And Repost God Bless You.

This is Mrs. Akhare Flora O. (My Mother) she's a young and ambitious woman (48yrs old), a mother of one, a staff of Ikpoba Okha Local Government Edo state Nigeria.

She was diagnosed of Chronic Kidney Disease (CKD) around April 2018.
It began around 2015, when she noticed excessive thirst and frequent urination she went for check up and discovered she's diabetic. She started the treatments immediately and there was a change in diet also which is the only way to fight diabetes.

Fast forward to 2017, she woke up one morning and realized that she couldn't see clearly again (blurred vision not blind). She went for an Eye check in Benin Edo state and she was told she have diabetic retinopathy so she was recommended to Eye Foundation (A Health Care for Eye treatment only not foundation) around GRA. Lagos State Nigeria.

On getting to Eye Foundation some series of test was conducted, then we discovered that her kidney has been affected. (Chronic Kidney Disease) We have no choice than to omit the treatment of the eyes and focused on the solution to the kidney disease.

So she started going for dialysis after spending two (2) weeks on admission at Lagos State teaching hospital (LASUTH). We have been going for dialysis and sometimes the dialysis do cause an infection.

NOTE: Infections acquired in dialysis units can kill, disable, hospitalize, and/or prolong illness in patients while disrupting lives and increasing the cost of treatment. Dialysis-relatedinfections can occur in many body locations including the bloodstream, bones, lungs, and skin.

After spending so much on dialysis, blood transfusions, injections to formulate the blood and buying of drugs, I decided to make a research about a lasting solutions to Chronic Kidney Disease, and also according to the Dr. Managing her, we where told that the only solution to this is to go for a transplants. And the transplant, is very expensive hence we have no choice than to beg for a funds raise to enable her live again.

Please kindly assist us with whatever you can. We are in need of all the help you can render, prayers, money or anything.

If you need any proof you can contact me +2380-6494-5586 via whatsapp video call to see her live and the condition she is. If you need any more documents to proof my story to know if its true or not i will also provide to backup my story, you can reach me on +23480-8029-0561.

This is her account details
Account name :AKHARE FLORA O.
Bank Name: First Bank.
ACCOUNT NUMBER 2009301003.
Also find below the link to her her GoFundMe account.

https://www.gofundme.com/manage/gofundmecomplease-save-a-lif

Thank you and God Bless You.
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 7:24am On Aug 12, 2018
Good Morning Friends.

Please Read, Donate And Repost God Bless You.

This is Mrs. Akhare Flora O. (My Mother) she's a young and ambitious woman (48yrs old), a mother of one, a staff of Ikpoba Okha Local Government Edo state Nigeria.

She was diagnosed of Chronic Kidney Disease (CKD) around April 2018.
It began around 2015, when she noticed excessive thirst and frequent urination she went for check up and discovered she's diabetic. She started the treatments immediately and there was a change in diet also which is the only way to fight diabetes.

Fast forward to 2017, she woke up one morning and realized that she couldn't see clearly again (blurred vision not blind). She went for an Eye check in Benin Edo state and she was told she have diabetic retinopathy so she was recommended to Eye Foundation (A Health Care for Eye treatment only not foundation) around GRA. Lagos State Nigeria.

On getting to Eye Foundation some series of test was conducted, then we discovered that her kidney has been affected. (Chronic Kidney Disease) We have no choice than to omit the treatment of the eyes and focused on the solution to the kidney disease.

So she started going for dialysis after spending two (2) weeks on admission at Lagos State teaching hospital (LASUTH). We have been going for dialysis and sometimes the dialysis do cause an infection.

NOTE: Infections acquired in dialysis units can kill, disable, hospitalize, and/or prolong illness in patients while disrupting lives and increasing the cost of treatment. Dialysis-relatedinfections can occur in many body locations including the bloodstream, bones, lungs, and skin.

After spending so much on dialysis, blood transfusions, injections to formulate the blood and buying of drugs, I decided to make a research about a lasting solutions to Chronic Kidney Disease, and also according to the Dr. Managing her, we where told that the only solution to this is to go for a transplants. And the transplant, is very expensive hence we have no choice than to beg for a funds raise to enable her live again.

Please kindly assist us with whatever you can. We are in need of all the help you can render, prayers, money or anything.

If you need any proof you can contact me +2380-6494-5586 via whatsapp video call to see her live and the condition she is. If you need any more documents to proof my story to know if its true or not i will also provide to backup my story, you can reach me on +23480-8029-0561.

This is her account details
Account name :AKHARE FLORA O.
Bank Name: First Bank.
ACCOUNT NUMBER 2009301003.
Also find below the link to her her GoFundMe account.

https://www.gofundme.com/manage/gofundmecomplease-save-a-lif

Thank you and God Bless You.
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 8:47pm On Aug 11, 2018
LordKO:
Na you no come understand me. For that my first post I hope you see where I say make him stepfather try him best though. The fact remains say if everybody here tell OP to take up a case against his stepfather as things be now, na police and redcap chiefs go benefit, because dem go use the little money dem for use cater for him mother to entertain the mentioned arbitrators.

The stepfather de vex for the OP, na accumulated malice him de exhibit towards him now. Through OP and him maternal relations' actions and inactions from the time past towards him - he knows say they being de mistrust am - so him wan use opportunity like this to retaliate, by allowing the OP to cater for the problem alone since his wife no de the same location with him. But this no be the kind of situation to use settle scores therefore the reason I say make him try him best though to complement the OP's effort.

@OP, take the route of diplomacy in relating with your stepfather at this juncture, I say. God's blessings to your mother in particular and your family in general.
Amen.
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 4:45pm On Aug 11, 2018
yvelchstores:
I just reached out to Pastor's second in command tho the medium was not direct, I also dropped Ur mums name and phone no, if my means of contact goes through, she will get a call. pls note our healing school is absolutely free, no one will ask u for 1 naira. It's 100% free. ☺ I will be in touch
Wow thank you so much ma.
Should I send you my contact to reach me?
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 4:25pm On Aug 11, 2018
LordKO:
I don't want to believe that you're an articulate incompetent - my foremost submission is lucid for any articulate competent person to assimilate. OP should apply diplomacy at this juncture in order to work effectively with her stepfather. His main aim for now should be on how to save her mother's life.
I understand you though.
But if im not ready to apply diplomacy I wouldn't have come here to seek for advice sir. Also if I have the enough money I will go on with the treatment of my mum which I have being doing all alone.

I don't know how it sound to you sir, that your wife need blood and the husband response is I DON'T HAVE MONEY. As at today he only send 5k and I need 49k more. All the same thanks so much sir.
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 3:36pm On Aug 11, 2018
yvelchstores:
Pastor Chris is currently in Lagos state conducting healing school. Go there, oregun church, don't accept no for an answer till your mum gets Pastor's audience. Don't give up.
Ok thanks so much.
I was actually planning to take her to T.B. Jushua on Monday to book an appointment first also to winners chapel.
I will be very grateful if you could help us out on Christ Embassy too.
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 3:33pm On Aug 11, 2018
LordKO:
@OP

Find a means to take care of your mother, with or without support from your stepfather - I hope he'll try his best though. The truth is that the problem between you and your stepfather didn't start now - both your mother and stepfather are obviously good to each other. Unfortunately, you're full of vices. You in particular and your maternal relations in general (who tried but failed to sow discord between your mother and stepfather from the inception of their union) are needful bad influences your mother should avoid when she recuperate.

You aren't only narcissistic but also cynical and domineering - the connotations of your messages says it all.
From your response I doubt it if you really understand my write up.
All the same thanks.
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 9:22am On Aug 11, 2018
strangest:
is it okay to understand that your dad is broke but not understand that your step dad is broke too?

I think you hate your step dad for coming in between your dad and mom... your step dad got tired cause he did not get even a child from your mother.... the truth is, I doubt if there is anything taking him to court will solve rather it will only make it possible for your step dad to take over your moms property should anything happen to her.... because you have already accepted that your step dad is married to her by taking him to court for not doing his duty... I do not know if you understand me...

you do need to rally around everyone to contribute the one they have.. I mean your real dad too and not just focusing on your step dad...
First I do not hate my step dad. but does it make any sense for a man to be leaving in woman's house without paying for anything? All the property in the house is own by my mum.

My dad and mum got separated before I was born.
My mum and my step dad met when I was around 19.
I guess you understand me now.

Also my mum has been sick for more than 3yrs now.
Note: my mum and step dad base in Benin why i base in Lagos.
Assuming my step dad did the right thing by taken proper care of her, my mum case wouldn't have gotten this bad like from diabetes to BP to diabetes retinopathy to chronic kidney disease.

Get this well sir/ma.
My dad and mum where not properly married when they had me. My dad is married to another woman so my dad have nothing with my mum again cus she's legally married to another man.

When my mum met my step dad he was very broke hence my mum was paying for everything, even the house rent I also added to the money. Now that he have little money he returned back to school a private University. On the issue of child birth my step dad also have issue read my post well sir/ma They have not been to court yet.

It's the duty of my step dad to take care of his wife (my mum) not me cus im actually too young to experience this. But my step dad has refused to send money or visit his wife (note my mum has been with me in Lagos for the past 4moths now)

In this 4moths of her staying, I have taken her to Eye foundation around GRA Ikeja Lagos State for the treatment of her eyesight. I have taken her to Air Force Hospital around Shasha Aorforce base Lagos State, from there she was refer to Airforce base hospital PWD Ikeja Lagos before taken her to Lagos State teaching hospital on getting there she was referred to Clinix Healthcare for an emergency dialysis and blood transfusion. After some days she was admitted in Lagos State Teaching Hospital (LASUTH)

We spent 2weeks there. Throughout this tough period no body came around not even for a visit. I was the only person taken care of her, bathing her, changing her dress running around to buy drugs, injections, running of test and getting food for her.

During this period she was supposed to go for another dialysis but no money even when she was discharged to go for dialysis from home, no money to pay again I have to go and beg a pastor of a church inside lasuth.
But from my mum siblings side an uncle and aunt do help in their own little way.
Let me stop here.

This is her bank details I will be very happy to get help here again
Account name :AKHARE FLORA O.
Bank Name: First Bank.
ACCOUNT NUMBER 2009301003.


Her GoFundMe account.

https://www.gofundme.com/manage/gofundmecomplease-save-a-lif

See what she has consumed below.
I can also attach some receipts if there's need. I have spent more 400k house help salary is not inclusive.

FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 6:22am On Aug 11, 2018
I took time read all the comments no much useful advice.
Today is Saturday he is yet to send the money.
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 6:03am On Aug 11, 2018
strangest:
@OP what of your own father?? I am not blaming your mom but what actually went wrong with her and your father
My dad and I are doing great in terms of relationship and communication but he's broke for now cus he just retired. I got so many beautiful and blessed siblings there they visit me once in a while.
Lack of maturity separated them. They where very young then.
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op):
ogolomachi:
bro when ure ready for transplant, I can help..... O+, just send me dm, so we can talk better
Wow thank you sir.

Good morning

I have replied your mail.
My phone no is +234-80-6494-5586- on WhatsApp

Right now what she need is blood transfusion then dialysis before arrangement for the transplant this have some procedures.
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 10:51pm On Aug 10, 2018
OPTIMUSPRIME08:
Some posters here are just mad, I mean very mad
If you can't encourage the op or help me must you type shit, the young man hasn't even ask us for funds yet some idiots are already playing the blame game and typing shit on such a delicate issue
Stupidity every where
Op please you don't need to prove more than you should to anyone gage your proves to circumstances and individuals some don't worth it, please take down some of the information you posted, some are too personal for the public yet
I will thanks
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 10:17pm On Aug 10, 2018
cocolacec:
Why dont you visit daddy freeze of Coolfm and explain your plight to him.?
Yes brilliant idea.
Pls help me with his address on how to reach him in person pls.
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 8:13pm On Aug 10, 2018
Rukkydelta:
Mods please move this thread to the front page. Let's save a life please
Cc Lalasticlala Mynd44
Thank you.
I have created a GoFundMe for her but nothing seems to be working. I have gone to AIT they requested for so documents I'm yet to get the requested documents l.

While waiting for this to be ready my mum needs blood and another section of dialysis in few days time.
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 5:24pm On Aug 10, 2018
Acidosis:
Nigerians and curses.. grin Cool off bro. We are discussing one fraudster called Emeka on Facebook. Besides, my consistent posts here is giving your thread the much needed publicity, I can decide to walk away you know?
Apologies.
I got your comments wrong. I understand now.
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 5:02pm On Aug 10, 2018
Eketem:
He is not talking about you but about but the fraudulent Emeka
Alright thanks
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 4:56pm On Aug 10, 2018
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op):
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