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FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op):
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 4:15pm On Aug 10, 2018
mikkyjagga1:
Brother your story is touching and familiar, I have been on this road before and it brought back memories, lost my dad some 2 years ago to kidney failure after spending millions on dialysis....pray for the best and prepare for the worst.
I still pray for a miracle to happen.
You are a strong man and your mum must be proud of you.
Thank you sir.
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 2:24pm On Aug 10, 2018
Eketem:
Poster so sorry about your mom but please whatever you do stay away from Emeka, he has defrauded so many people, he has been disbarred for cheating clients, people in need who were taken to him he also took the little they had and defrauded them. He has cases in Nigeria and abroad, avoid him.

Focus your energy on your mom please, your step father is a waste of time and space
Thanks for this information.
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 1:28pm On Aug 10, 2018
odysey:
your step dad has a responsibility to take care of you and your mum

you need legal help

Reach the DPA they're on facebook the one with over 300k members run by Bar. Emeka Ugwuonye
Ok thank you.
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 8:51am On Aug 10, 2018
I'm still in need of help
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 8:50am On Aug 10, 2018
Good morning nairalanders
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 6:23am On Aug 10, 2018
hisgrace090:
May the Almighty be your streinght.

You did not invite foolish people into your life and God knows this.
My mum did.
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 6:23am On Aug 10, 2018
eyinjuege:
You are not responsible If your mum dies. She s diabetic and hypertensive and that has damaged her kidneys. It's either she is on dialysis for life or she has a kidney transplant.
There's no 2 ways about it. For how long are you going to keep doing dialysis 3x a week? That's over 200k per week.
If you can start soliciting for funds to do a kidney transplant for her, that would be good.
Otherwise, if no money to keep her on dialysis, and she dies, don't see it as your fault.
Thanks.
Im actually working on a fund raise for a kidney transplant for her but it's really tough I must say.
Some people have assisted me here too. I have out to some government officials in Edo state they have promise to help cus my mum is a local government staff. All I need him (my stepdad) to do now is to send money cus I have spend all I have and no body is responding again to my online begin.
FamilyRe: I'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op): 5:58am On Aug 10, 2018
PointZerom:
If that woman dies, the two of you are responsible.
All I need is advise not this.
But by the Grace Of God she's not going to die I will do all I can to make sure she make it. Cus of this issue I had to sell of the small land I just bought secretly this year to raise money for dialysis.
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FamilyI'm Having Serious Issues With My Step Dad Please Advice Me. by engrj(op):
I have been advised to take this post down.
Pls mod help.
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 2:00pm On Aug 05, 2018
Nairalander, happy Sunday.

Please we are still in need of help please. Thank you.
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 2:21am On Aug 05, 2018
We are still in need of all the help you render please.
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 2:20am On Aug 05, 2018
Good morning
PoliticsRe: 2019: Who Will Be The PDP Presidential And Vice Presidential Candidates? by engrj(m): 9:45pm On Aug 03, 2018
chidextec:
Lol!!! With that combination PMB can as well go to sleep without any headache cos he will win with a landslide cool
Really.
Well I doubt it. But let's just watch them from a distance.
PoliticsRe: 2019: Who Will Be The PDP Presidential And Vice Presidential Candidates? by engrj(m): 8:37pm On Aug 03, 2018
If PDP can give us Saraki as president, Peter Obi as vice then it's settled.
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 3:56pm On Aug 03, 2018
Good day
Science/TechnologyRe: Blood Moon Thread (Live Updates: Pictures & Videos) by engrj(m): 8:42pm On Jul 27, 2018
I can't find anything at my end here. Ijaye Lagos precisely.
HealthRe: PLEASE SAVE MY MOTHERS LIFE SHE'S NOW ON DIALYSIS MACHINE by engrj(op): 5:10am On Jul 27, 2018
Pentagon1993:
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Your mum has diabetic retinopathy, at this stage there is abnormal growth of vessels and the back of the eye is starved of oxygen
The best plan now, reduce the sugar level to least, then the eye clinic will give her drugs that will destroy the abnormal vessels and also help maintain the healthy ones. Don't panic just adhere to the instructions of optometrist, please go for optometrist as this is their area of excellence and expertise. Am a student Optometrist, working in IMO state university Senior clinic.
You can ask me further questions. Thanks. Ignore any advances from non optometrist or ophthalmologists.
Thank you.
Good morning please help me with your no I need people like you too pls let me no how to contact you.
My phone no is on my signature and on post too thans so much bros.
HealthRe: PLEASE SAVE MY MOTHERS LIFE SHE'S NOW ON DIALYSIS MACHINE by engrj(op): 9:31pm On Jul 26, 2018
This is what i shared on my facebook yesterday . I believe it will be nice to share it here too.

ABOUT MRS. AKHARE FLORA OLOCHEMEUAN CASE (MY MOTHER) WHOM WAS DIAGNOSED OF CHRONIC
KIDNEY DISEASE CKD. AND SHE IS IN NEED OF FINANCIAL HELP TO GO FOR A TRANSPLANT.

From my inbox, I have so many Questions, from the comments section in my previous post and the one shared by friends there are so many Questions too.

Now I will like to respond to some of them one by one.
But before that, let me explain briefly how it all started.
My mother Mrs. Akhare Flora was diagnosed of diabetes some years back (close to 3 years now).

She face some personal challenges which leads to hypertension, the diabetes and hypertension contributed to chronic kidney disease. And it has also affected her sight (but not blind) which is the main reason she came to Lagos for a better treatment.

When she came to Lagos, I took her to Eye Foundation at G.R.A. Lagos state on getting there they conducted some test, and from the test result, we discovered she has chronic kidney disease. I was shocked as a Christian I rebuke it, but again I was scared hence I involved my doctor friends whom latter educated me more about kidney diseases.

Some weeks later, I decided to take her to another hospital around shasha Lagos state. We met Dr. xxxxx after explanation and all that she open up to us that, there is a drug she will get for my mum (to treat kidney disease) and it will cost us N80k to cut the long story short, I paid via mobile transfer. My mum was on the drugs for like a month her condition got worsen and I latter rush her to Lagos State Teaching Hospital Lasuth, from Lasuth, she was referred to Clinix health care for immediate dialysis.

I have attached the photo of the drug sold to me for N80k by the Dr. xxxx and I have gotten a layer to take legal action against her for free though he is out of the country for now to return end of this month.

We have done dialysis more than four times now and we must go for another section before end of this week.

NOW ABOUT SOME OF THE QUESTIONUESTIONS:

QUESTION: Has she gotten a donation?
ANSWER: No. (Though I wouldn’t mind donating one for her
cus she is my mum, but I’m not sure if mine will match. And the saddest part is I’m her only child so it’s really difficult but my step dad must sort this out)

QUESTION: Have you taken her to church?
ANSWER: Yes i to her MFM Region 4 headquarters Lagos and I’m working on taken her to Winner’s
Chapel, T. B. Joshua and Christ Embassy very soon.

QUESTION: How much is needed for the kidney transplant?
ANSWER: No idea yet. Her Dr. atLasuth, ask me write a letter to the CMD. Of Lasuth to enable them give me Doctor’s report which will cover the needed information’s concerning the amount needed and all the needed prove.

QUESTION: Have you try tradition (Local herb):
ANSWER: Yes, it contributed to her present predicament as such we regretted it.

QUESTION: Do you have documents to back up your claim?
ANSWER: Yes. To me I think the photo of her on dialysis
machine is enough evidence but I have also attached some of the receipts I have right now and I will attach more tomorrow.

QUESTION: Why don’t you go to TV. Station?
ANSWER: Yes i been there, they requested for some documents and I will provide it before end of this month.

QUESTION: Have you inform her local government chairman where she work?
Answer: Yes but no respond yet from him (Ikpoba-Okha L.G.A. Benin city Edo State. But her NOGE Chairman Mr. Scot help us with some money.

In addition, why is that you (i) don’t respond to messages or comments on time? Well why we were in Lasuth, it was so tough that I have to sell off my phone to raise money to run some test and buy injection too. So for now, I only come online when I’m at home using my neighbor’s laptop or when i'm at work.

On her present condition, she’s doing well, she eat well in fact she consume food more than me now but mostly fruit and carbohydrate no protein . But after some days she will brake down until she go for dialysis then she will recover again.

On the donations so far: she got N13k this morning, N2k, and N10k as at 25/07/2018 11:00pm Nigeria time.
To be continue……

Thank you all God Bless you all Amen.

Please i'm still begging for a fund raise for her

Her bank details are:
Account name :AKHARE FLORA O.
Bank Name: First Bank.
ACCOUNT NUMBER 2009301003
Contact to reach her is +2348080290561

Her full information:
She is from Igein's family in Uzebba Iuleha Owan West Edo state.
she work under Owan West L.G.A before she was she was transfer to Ikpoba-Okha L.G.A Benin City Edo State.
Her present location is Lagos.
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 9:30pm On Jul 26, 2018
This is what i shared on my facebook yesterday . I believe it will be nice to share it here too.

ABOUT MRS. AKHARE FLORA OLOCHEMEUAN CASE (MY MOTHER) WHOM WAS DIAGNOSED OF CHRONIC
KIDNEY DISEASE CKD. AND SHE IS IN NEED OF FINANCIAL HELP TO GO FOR A TRANSPLANT.

From my inbox, I have so many Questions, from the comments section in my previous post and the one shared by friends there are so many Questions too.

Now I will like to respond to some of them one by one.
But before that, let me explain briefly how it all started.
My mother Mrs. Akhare Flora was diagnosed of diabetes some years back (close to 3 years now).

She face some personal challenges which leads to hypertension, the diabetes and hypertension contributed to chronic kidney disease. And it has also affected her sight (but not blind) which is the main reason she came to Lagos for a better treatment.

When she came to Lagos, I took her to Eye Foundation at G.R.A. Lagos state on getting there they conducted some test, and from the test result, we discovered she has chronic kidney disease. I was shocked as a Christian I rebuke it, but again I was scared hence I involved my doctor friends whom latter educated me more about kidney diseases.

Some weeks later, I decided to take her to another hospital around shasha Lagos state. We met Dr. xxxxx after explanation and all that she open up to us that, there is a drug she will get for my mum (to treat kidney disease) and it will cost us N80k to cut the long story short, I paid via mobile transfer. My mum was on the drugs for like a month her condition got worsen and I latter rush her to Lagos State Teaching Hospital Lasuth, from Lasuth, she was referred to Clinix health care for immediate dialysis.

I have attached the photo of the drug sold to me for N80k by the Dr. xxxx and I have gotten a layer to take legal action against her for free though he is out of the country for now to return end of this month.

We have done dialysis more than four times now and we must go for another section before end of this week.

NOW ABOUT SOME OF THE QUESTIONUESTIONS:

QUESTION: Has she gotten a donation?
ANSWER: No. (Though I wouldn’t mind donating one for her
cus she is my mum, but I’m not sure if mine will match. And the saddest part is I’m her only child so it’s really difficult but my step dad must sort this out)

QUESTION: Have you taken her to church?
ANSWER: Yes i to her MFM Region 4 headquarters Lagos and I’m working on taken her to Winner’s
Chapel, T. B. Joshua and Christ Embassy very soon.

QUESTION: How much is needed for the kidney transplant?
ANSWER: No idea yet. Her Dr. atLasuth, ask me write a letter to the CMD. Of Lasuth to enable them give me Doctor’s report which will cover the needed information’s concerning the amount needed and all the needed prove.

QUESTION: Have you try tradition (Local herb):
ANSWER: Yes, it contributed to her present predicament as such we regretted it.

QUESTION: Do you have documents to back up your claim?
ANSWER: Yes. To me I think the photo of her on dialysis
machine is enough evidence but I have also attached some of the receipts I have right now and I will attach more tomorrow.

QUESTION: Why don’t you go to TV. Station?
ANSWER: Yes i been there, they requested for some documents and I will provide it before end of this month.

QUESTION: Have you inform her local government chairman where she work?
Answer: Yes but no respond yet from him (Ikpoba-Okha L.G.A. Benin city Edo State. But her NOGE Chairman Mr. Scot help us with some money.

In addition, why is that you (i) don’t respond to messages or comments on time? Well why we were in Lasuth, it was so tough that I have to sell off my phone to raise money to run some test and buy injection too. So for now, I only come online when I’m at home using my neighbor’s laptop or when i'm at work.

On her present condition, she’s doing well, she eat well in fact she consume food more than me now but mostly fruit and carbohydrate no protein . But after some days she will brake down until she go for dialysis then she will recover again.

On the donations so far: she got N13k this morning, N2k, and N10k as at 25/07/2018 11:00pm Nigeria time.
To be continue……

Thank you all God Bless you all Amen.

Please i'm still begging for a fund raise for her

Her bank details are:
Account name :AKHARE FLORA O.
Bank Name: First Bank.
ACCOUNT NUMBER 2009301003
Contact to reach her is +2348080290561

Her full information:
She is from Igein's family in Uzebba Iuleha Owan West Edo state.
she work under Owan West L.G.A before she was she was transfer to Ikpoba-Okha L.G.A Benin City Edo State.
Her present location is Lagos.
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 1:37am On Jul 26, 2018
Vincent580:
I have paid some more money into ur account.
My first name starts with V and last name with
L. Keep me posted with everything going on.
You are right just confirm now thank you sir
I will post the update tomorrow pls thanks once again
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 7:24pm On Jul 25, 2018
Ganjafama:
Go to TV, radio and newspaper houses. You can't depend on nairaland only. The earlier you start, the better.
You are right I have been to tv stations they requested for Dr.'s report but they are delaying it. I will go back there on friday
PoliticsRe: Titus Uba Of APC Emerges New Speaker Of Benue Assembly by engrj(m): 7:55am On Jul 25, 2018
What I was so afraid of has finally come to stay.
I’m not sure if prayers still work's again.
I’m not sure if miracle still happens.
It seems God does not love her any more.
Indeed life is not fair, it never was never will be.
It’s another sad moment in my life again.
I have not been able to do anything meaningful in life again, all what I think about now is dialysis and money for drugs.
The agony of an only product………………
MY MOTHER NEEDS A KIDNEY TRANSPLANT.
So I’m here to beg again.
Please help my mother it’s possible, she can’t die now she’s just 48yrs old not grand mama or mama yet so please stop that name.
From the last test result Dr. said she will be require to go for a transplant.
Please help us with any amount.
Thank you all for the help and calls so far I’m grateful.
God Bless you.
Her Name is Mrs Akhare Flora Olochemeuan From Igein's family a staff of Ikpoba-Okha L.G.A from Owan West Edo state.
Her bank details are:
Account name :AKHARE FLORA O.
Bank Name: First Bank.
ACCOUNT NUMBER 2009301003
Contact to reach her is +2348080290561
NOTE: I’m not happy doing this but I have no choice than to beg. Better than to watch her die in my house.

Read more here
https://www.nairaland.com/4610349/48-yrs-old-mother-dying#69683405
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 7:53am On Jul 25, 2018
What I was so afraid of has finally come to stay.
I’m not sure if prayers still work's again.
I’m not sure if miracle still happens.
It seems God does not love her any more.
Indeed life is not fair, it never was never will be.
It’s another sad moment in my life again.
I have not been able to do anything meaningful in life again, all what I think about now is dialysis and money for drugs.
The agony of an only product………………
MY MOTHER NEEDS A KIDNEY TRANSPLANT.
So I’m here to beg again.
Please help my mother it’s possible, she can’t die now she’s just 48yrs old not grand mama or mama yet so please stop that name.
From the last test result Dr. said she will be require to go for a transplant.
Please help us with any amount.
Thank you all for the help and calls so far I’m grateful.
God Bless you.
Her Name is Mrs Akhare Flora Olochemeuan From Igein's family a staff of Ikpoba-Okha L.G.A from Owan West Edo state.
Her bank details are:
Account name :AKHARE FLORA O.
Bank Name: First Bank.
ACCOUNT NUMBER 2009301003
Contact to reach her is +2348080290561
NOTE: I’m not happy doing this but I have no choice than to beg. Better than to watch her die in my house.
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 6:25pm On Jul 24, 2018
It has been confirmed that my mother need a kidney transplant.

I'm really in need of all the help you can offer.

I don't know the total cost yet but for now any amount will go a long way.

Thanks
My contact in case you wish to confirm my story +234o8o8o29o561

I have to type it like that it like to avoild ban.
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 6:20pm On Jul 24, 2018
Greetings to you all nairalanders
FamilyRe: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by engrj(op): 11:27pm On Jul 23, 2018
Vincent580:
I feel sorry for your mum. Send my ur account details, and also give me updates on her health.
Ok sir.
Thank you.
Account name :AKHARE FLORA O.
Bank Name: First Bank.
ACCOUNT NUMBER 2009301003

On her current state of health: she's recovering fast she eat well now. Whenever she go for dialysis she always feel better and stronger.
HealthRe: PLEASE SAVE MY MOTHERS LIFE SHE'S NOW ON DIALYSIS MACHINE by engrj(op): 11:02pm On Jul 22, 2018
Any help will go a long way please help me.
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