Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages. 

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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achorladey:

If you agree that this latest post applies to you as well. its okay by me. If not, then your wisdom is not from the one described in James 3:17

achorladey:

I know that road and way that Matthew 7:13-14 talked about, that road and way is in John 14:6. If you know you know.

Hairyrapunzel:


I am happy people are reading my comments here and also seeing your stupidity.
I remember one time on nairaland I kept saying there is no where the bible said identifying and joining an organization will be the only means by which salvation will be guaranteed and somebody kept telling me that it wasn't my fault that I couldn't comprehend. Today the person agrees with me on this. This was about 3 months back. You feel making faces will give you an upper hand? Think again. You are giving a bad witness about jehovah.
So many people here see you as the typical jehovah witness who instead of addressing issues, insults people.

achorladey:

OK.
The Governing Body is a small group of mature Christians who provide direction for Jehovah’s Witnesses worldwide.
Achorladey: Such direction protects true Christians
Their work is twofold:

They oversee the preparation of Bible-based instruction through the publications, meetings, and schools of Jehovah’s Witnesses.​—Luke 12:42.

Achorladey: These bible based instruction are provided without tithing

They supervise the worldwide work of Jehovah’s Witnesses by directing our public ministry and overseeing the use of donated assets.

The Governing Body follows the pattern set by “the apostles and elders in Jerusalem” in the first century, who made important decisions on behalf of the entire Christian congregation. (Acts 15:2)

Achorladey: Like the apostles and elders in Jerusalem in the first century, Like those faithful men, the members of the Governing Body are not the leaders of our organization.

Achorladey: Watchtower study edition Feb 2017 Fourth study balances any misconception.

They look to the Bible for guidance, acknowledging that Jehovah God has appointed Jesus Christ as the Head of the congregation.​—1 Corinthians 11:3; Ephesians 5:​23.

Achorladey: In accordance with Matthew 23:8 that Jesus is the leader, all others are brothers.

Who are the members of the Governing Body?

As of January 2018, the members of the Governing Body are Kenneth Cook, Jr., Samuel Herd, Geoffrey Jackson, Stephen Lett, Gerrit Lösch, Anthony Morris III, Mark Sanderson, and David Splane. They serve at our world headquarters in Warwick, New York, U.S.A.
How is the Governing Body organized?

The Governing Body has established six committees to oversee various aspects of our work, and each member serves on one or more of these committees.

Coordinators’ Committee: Supervises legal matters and responds to disasters, to incidents in which our members are persecuted for their religious beliefs, and to other urgent matters affecting Jehovah’s Witnesses.

Personnel Committee: Oversees the arrangements for Bethel family members.

Publishing Committee: Supervises the production and shipping of Bible literature and the construction of meeting places, translation offices, and branch facilities.

Service Committee: Oversees our work of preaching the “good news of the Kingdom.”​—Matthew 24:14.

Teaching Committee: Directs the preparation of spiritual instruction provided by means of meetings, schools, and audio and video programs.

Writing Committee: Directs the preparation of spiritual instruction provided in printed form and on our website and oversees translation work.

In addition to its work through these committees, the Governing Body meets each week to consider the needs of the organization. In these meetings, the members discuss what the Scriptures say, and they yield to the influence of God’s holy spirit, striving for unanimous decisions.​—Acts 15:25.
Who are the helpers to the Governing Body?

These are trustworthy Christians who assist Governing Body committees. (1 Corinthians 4:2) They have ability and experience in the work overseen by the committee to which they are assigned, and they attend its weekly meeting. Although they do not share in making decisions, the helpers provide valuable advice and background information, implement the committee’s decisions, and monitor the results and progress of these. They may also be assigned by the Governing Body to visit our brotherhood in various parts of the world or to deliver parts at events such as annual meetings or Gilead graduations.

https://www.jw.org/en/jehovahs-witnesses/faq/governing-body/

achorladey:

The gate to destruction is wide, and the road that leads there is easy to follow. A lot of people go through that gate. But the gate to life is very narrow. The road that leads there is so hard to follow that only a few people find it.

Hairyrapunzel:


Your blood transfusion ban that has been and is still killing jws since 1945 Nko?
Now down to the matter

How come your jehovah is coming to murder 8 billion people for not paying allegiance to a publishing company called watchtower organization?
If you like bring history from the past I don't care. I am in living in the present and look foward

If you like try to get the topic changed it won't work. Show me the bible passage supporting your number doctrine.

Hairyrapunzel:

All these your rantings since that God is using your organization is all a lie.
No Bible verse to show yet you believe God will slaughter people because of something not mentioned in the bible. Dead brain.

salvation101:

https://www.nairaland.com/4527618/jehovah-withnesses-accused-systematically-covering
Come and defend ur society

Hairyrapunzel:
ApostateLoverJW.

salvation101:
Lying jw

johnw47:
false jw

DonBenny77:
Lie lie

Liliyann:
JW too late!!

danvon:
Just sick Jw

danvon:
defrauded pentecostal jw

Hairyrapunzel:



See somebody that is calling somebody brain dead and an illiterate. Your organization frowns on its members using their own brain to think for themselves. It shows your brain is dead an non functional when you allow people do your thinking.
See someone that his leaders encourage not to get tertiary education so they will continue to do his thinking for him.

Your leaders say your jehovah will kill 99.9% of earths population in their magazines because they refused to join watchtower organization a publishing company. What's your take on that?

Very soon you will start thinking with your own brain and not that of 8 old men in new York.
My own is I need Bible passages and not magazine lines

Hairyrapunzel:


Show me one verse in the bible governing body is mentioned
If it's Catholic church you will say pope wasn't mentioned in the bible. Abeg show me the word governing body.
Be formulating thing not mentioned in the bible
Show where joining an organization is the means of by which an individual will be saved is mentioned in the bible.

I didn't ask you for all these your explanation. Mention a place where they wrote those things mentioned in the bible.
I am waiting for Bible passage.

So you guys have groups like Christendom? Wow no difference.
You think you can threaten people with what's written by your publishing company in their magazine?

Think again. I use my God given brain to think independently. I don't need some old men in new York thinking for me.

Shame no let you show us bible passage?

Hairyrapunzel:


My bible in john 14:6 says
6 Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.

Please show me the bible passage
Where did the bible mention governing body?
Where did the bible say that joining an organization will be the only means to salvation?
Where did the bible say that God will slaughter/kill people because they didn't join an organization and follow the teaching of the organization's leaders

Hairyrapunzel:


I dey wait for Bible passages.

Hairyrapunzel:


Group of worshippers thinking God will kill people because they refused to join an organization called watchtower a publishing company.
So much for an all loving God that did not state joining an organization will be the only means of salvation in his book.
Ever changing truth lol. Something called Truth today will be called false tomorrow. Lol

salvation101:
Last I checked, d thread is about "who jw are"
Any curious mind dat stumbled upon this thread should be able to notice how dey get angry wen their doctrines are proven wrong and resort to attack to shut the individuals up. My little time wit u guys on dis forum, I av seen dis over nd over again. Go check, dis muniker has been registered since 2013, i av had heated arguments with Muslims, catholics, even pentecostals but never seen dis type of evil. Seems jws wish every other person dead. Just show dem their heresies nd u will see dem come on u like swarm of bees. Ain't scared of u guys one bit, just keep d lies coming, we will keep debunking till God opens ur eyes

Riofidelio:

Hairyrapunzel:


Watchtower quotes indicate salvation at Armageddon is dependant on being an active Jehovah's Witness, associating with the Watchtower Organization. In Jehovah's organisation it is not necessary to spend a lot of time and energy in research, for there are brothers in the organisation who are assigned to that very thing, to help you who do not have so much time for this, these preparing the good material in The Watchtower and other publications of the Society." Watchtower 1967 Jun 1 p.338
[b]
LIES. The quote above does not support the assertion

You see watchtower organization the publishing company, states it is Jehovah's organization.

FUNNY Only an enemy of Christianity will find anything wrong in the quotes. Is the watchtower organization a devils organization or devilspublishing company. Oooohhkkkk only dady GO when he comes to pray at Okrika market for his members in their shops and businesses has the right to say "this business is anointed and is Jesus approved...blablablablabla"

Watchtower goes as far as to state that there are billions in line for destruction

There are billions of people who do not know Jehovah. Many of them in ignorance practice things that God's Word shows to be wicked. If they persist in this course, they will be among those who perish during the great tribulation." Watchtower 1993 Oct 1 p.19
FUNNY- Is this true or false? are you afraid of sometin

Watchtower has always preached that following the Bible is not enough for salvation, neither are belief in Jesus Ransom or living a moral life. They only preach that only submitting to Jehovah's Watchtower Organization results in salvation

FUNNY - L I E S, L I E S, L I E S...Guilty conscience is worrying you or you're acting your usual conversations the way you want it heard
"As for humans upon earth, on the side of Jehovah will be all those fully dedicated to him and who are faithfully following Jesus Christ; compared with earth's billions these are indeed few. ... On Satan's side will be all the rest of mankind, more than 99.9 percent ..." Watchtower 1958 Oct 15 p.614 - True or false


See your leaders saying 99.9% would die. This is worse than Hitler's records intact it is going to be the Greatest genocide ever known to man. It's like so many jehovah witnesses will suffer from post traumatic stress disorder.

FUNNY - paranoid Pentecostal man


"... to leave Jehovah's organization ... we would lose not only the privilege of doing God's will but also the hope of life in God's new world." Watchtower 2016 Jun study ed p.26.
Would you prefer flocking to the devils organization

Those who leave are told they will die an everlasting death Hahaahahah-


In the near future this generation will see the foretold “great tribulation” that will bring an end to this present wicked system. (Matt. 24:21) At that time none of Jehovah’s faithful servants, the only ones surviving, will mourn over the destruction of the wicked. To the contrary, they will rejoice, even as Moses and his people rejoiced at the destruction of Pharaoh and his army." Watchtower 1977 Jun 1 p.345


Your leaders tell you to even rejoice at the destruction of mankind


Some opposers [are] entertaining ideas that God is so merciful that he surely will not cause the death of so many millions of people during the "great tribulation." Watchtower 1986 Mar 15 p.19

People who disagree about God killing every non jw are tagged opposers - Are you not an opposer, speak for yourself...

Hairyrapunzel:

Your organization was founded by who?
Hypocrite. The founder was a psychologically unstable person who thought and taught the world was going to end in 1914.
Organization that helps only it's members in times of trouble? Is that one organization? Only to give relief materials to your members alone.
Red cross members donate blood so you and your sect members can get blood fractions.
Salvation army will give you guys relief materials, shelter, food, water, money.
MSF are selfless health workers across the globe who will treat you despite your religious affiliation.
They are better than an organization who say their God is love yet show love to only their members in time of need.

Hairyrapunzel:

1. Keep wishing and keep dreaming just like your ancestors have been for over 140years.

Actually, for two thousand (2000) years true Christians have been wishing and dreaming about Revelation 21: 1-5. Your Daddy GOs have been fooling your brethren with Rapture and purgatory and limbo and tithing and fed the world with two world wars. These were called the dark ages. In continuation of the work of individual men of God and a few church organizations the JWs have kept the light on for everyone


2. Don't forget to bring out the verse in the Bible where God is going to kill people because they don't belong to an earthly/man made organization who are a publishing company and corporation.

Keep writing your own history. Its symptomatic of bitter people. “Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the path is broad that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few.”
Keep deluding yourself about the non-existent accusations and complaining about a verse in the Bible where God is going to kill people because they don't belong to an earthly/man made organization who are a publishing company and corporation. Those who refuse to worship Daddy G.O. are going ahead of you into the kingdom of God

3. You will also show me where God said that he will kill people who don't accept 8 old men in new York as being annointed as they claim to be and obey their ever changing interpretation of the bible.


You are slaving for daddy GO, daddy GO is feeding of you and the brethren and living large on your tithing and you're now looking for where God or Jesus said anything about anything...You can't learn anything because of the permafrost in your brain-covering and spiritually rotten Pia mater. Everyone is deserting your churches all over the world except in cultures where poverty and war have ravaged! Truly, truly I say unto you, the word of God is ever constant and his judgement on the wicked is the same: Psalm 37:38 - But transgressors will be altogether destroyed; The posterity of the wicked will be cut off.

johnw47:


is it anger or dislike, for example i don't like antichrists etc.
and so could very well get angry with them

owomida1:
The judge nice self.

I feel like losing 14 teeth all of a sudden. Which church go invite me today?

Hairyrapunzel:
Bitter jw.

salvation101:
Lying jw

johnw47:
false jw

DonBenny77:
Lie lie

Liliyann:
JW too late!!

danvon:
Just sick Jw

danvon:
defrauded pentecostal jw

mhisbliss:
I came across a thread where a guy claimed he discovered his sister is a lesbian, some of the comments on that thread got me annoyed and amused, most of the comments were "She's born that way, its natural" i know that this comment is influenced by the western world but we're not like them, we have norms, culture and a way of life, and we're supposed to be who we are.

Theres no evidence anywhere to prove that homosexuality is natural, it cannot be genetically or biologically defined, theres no gene responsible for homosexuality, and nothing about the human anatomy suggests homosexuality is natural, if you examine the male and female sex organ you'd know that it is designed to complement each other, and to reproduce, both needs to work together, therefore by design, we're supposed to be heterosexual not homosexual,

Our culture frowns at it, it is clearly unafrican, abnormal and every religion frowns at it, including christianity
Romans 1:26–27 follows this same reasoning. Paul says that men abandoned the natural sexual function of women and engaged in unnatural sex with men. His words make it clear that homosexual behavior is unnatural because it is a rejection of God’s design for sex. Homosexual desire, then, would also be unnatural for the same reason: it drives people to abandon the natural design and function of human sexuality.

No one is born gay, its a psychological and societal problem and it needs to be curtailed as soon as it is discovered.

Hairyrapunzel:
Bitter jw.

salvation101:
Lying jw

johnw47:
false jw

DonBenny77:
Lie lie

Liliyann:
JW too late!!

danvon:
Just sick Jw

danvon:
defrauded pentecostal jw

Earthbound:
Even Jesus wore long beards.

Hairyrapunzel:
Bitter jw.

salvation101:
Lying jw

johnw47:
false jw

DonBenny77:
Lie lie

Liliyann:
JW too late!!

danvon:
Just sick Jw

danvon:
defrauded pentecostal jw

Hairyrapunzel:
Bitter jw.

salvation101:
Lying jw

johnw47:
false jw

DonBenny77:
Lie lie

Liliyann:
JW too late!!

danvon:
Just sick Jw

danvon:
defrauded pentecostal jw

salvation101:
definition of self centeredness. So the victims of the crisis are being punished cos dey didn't receive ur message right? Even the little children? Even if u can't go and help, you also can't send dem relief materials?

This is pure religion..James 1:27
27 Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world.

Urs is a self centered religion

Ken4Christ:


Of course I believe in the bodily resurrection of Jesus. But the JW don't.

Please, chose one of the three suggested topics.

salvation101:
like I really cared how you feel about me? You never were my concern in d first place. As far as am concerned here, I av never insulted anyone first nd there is so much I can take, ain't an angel, I am human.. Even the so called pure religious folks here have descended lower by switching muniker to insult me, i av simply learnt to ignore those i can nd those i cant, i reply in same manner

Hairyrapunzel:


Your Jesus told you to flee from war torn areas and you are giving relief materials to only your fellow jws.
Hope Jesus really told you this? Thank God for red cross, salvation army, MSF etc they help people regardless of their religious affiliation.

Hairyrapunzel:

Which hatred? Don't you shun? Don't you guys refuse blood transfusion? Don't you preach that your God will destroy people because they didn't listen to and obey the bible interpretation of some men in new York?