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Emu4life:
Giant of Africa by Blockos.
Every other thing na from behind we dey carry 1st

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With the kind of entitlement mentality our women have! Marriage favours no man at all.
Better to be single and enjoy your life than to carry one unvirgin woman to foot all her bill!

Imagine her father will be asking you, what do you do for living to know if you can take care of his unvirgin self entitled entity of his daughter

ohosi4real:
Some ladies even enjoy rape and make proud like good thing in life.

Lemme not talk before the bots come to ban me

Love800:
So because you caught your partner having a good-time with another man, you will send her packing!

Many people still don't understand marriage.

no dear!

I will forgive her till she give birth to another's man child for me and I will take care of her and the child. And even if she cheated on me the 2rd 3rd and 4th time. I will always forgive her and welcome 🤗 her back because I don't respect my surname

Jman06:
Cheating is a different thing all together. My girl knows that cheating is a deal breaker for me so I'm sure she wouldn't dare!

Oh you are correct 💯
I thought you are those type of guys who can forgive a cheating partner over and over again!

I would have use 2by 2 wood on you

Actually married is about forgiving your partner over and over again! But once it comes down to cheating. That's a no no

Jman06:
Anybody going into marriage must prepare his or her mind to forgive his or her partner over and over again! It is actually in marriage that the number of times we should forgive our offenders as written in the Bible comes into practice. This is why I'm marrying the girl I genuinely love because forgiving her shortcomings will be very easy for me because of how deeply I desire her.

so if you caught her cheating will you forgive her?

ogbe88:
She will learn, give her more years
.

those species are delusional!
Even if you give them more years, they never learn, instead they goes worse

dre11:
https://leadership.ng/valentines-day-federal-government-bans-money-bouquet/

Na who dey date naija women go dey complain!

As for me and my household we shall not date that species of iniquity called naija women

Kwinesther:
You made no sense. All these your usual attempt of using shiloh to guilt trip ladies into marrying wrongly even when the signs are there doesn't work anymore. Why should a young lady or man dive his or herself into a marriage where the inlaws hate them in the first place? For how long will you continue to please and impress them just for them to accept you?

you never get pikin so comot from my mention!
Once you have a a grown up child who want to marry come back to this writeup and erase it

Rootrophy:
by the fact that it works for u doesn't mean it will work for all. Not all inlaws are good so madam enjoy your marriage

see one of them

Years later you will be wasting in Shiloh and doing all sorts of hallelujah challenges in quest of a man because you can't take a simple advise

iwaeda:
https://dailypost.ng/2026/02/12/nigerians-experiencing-significant-drop-in-electricity-supply-nationwide/

valentine nepa!

Them don give us valentine's gift of darkness

Ovieemmanuel:
still not clear . What is the main issue? Or you just want to leave?

I think this is just for contents or fake write-up!

She is just beating around the bush with no clear direction of what is happening

SpencerForbes:
It’s either she really likes you, she no get option or na matured ladies you Dey go for

You no be like us wey dey find freshers. But some ladies are like that but few.

or maybe she see one kind potential make her still dey hang around

SpencerForbes:
Simple tip: Never tell a woman you don’t have money.

Most people don't want the raw truth; they want a well-packaged story. Instead of "I'm broke," tell her you’ve locked your capital into Crypto, a new Investment, or a heavy Project. You can even mention urgent family or "hospital bills"—make it convincing enough and she might even be the one to support you.

Even if she suspects a "format," she won't be able to prove it. Admitting you have nothing is the fastest way to chase her away... unless, of course, you’re already tired of her honey pot.

oga reverse is the case oh.
I dey tell women say I no get money I broke, na them dey stay pass.

The new business in town na online ashawo ohh.

All those ones don cast how many years ago

VenExchangee:
Good day Nairalanders, I need sincere advice.
I met a lady called Chinelo on TikTok around November 2024. We later moved to WhatsApp and became close. She is from Anambra State, I am from Delta State, and she stays in Asaba.

During the Christmas period, I suggested she visit me, but she insisted that I should come to Asaba instead. After some arguments, I agreed.

I travelled to Asaba on December 24. We met around the Coca-Cola area, stayed together in a hotel for about five days, and I later returned home.

About one week later, she told me she was pregnant for me. I was surprised but asked her to go for a pregnancy test and even offered to send money for it. She refused, which made me uncomfortable, so I decided to end the relationship.

About a week after the breakup, she sent me a message saying she would soon get married to another man and mocked the pregnancy issue. I congratulated her, after which she blocked me.
A few days later, she unblocked me and we chatted briefly. She later asked if I could come to Asaba so we could have s*x one more time. I refused, and she blocked me again.

On Sunday, February 1, someone messaged me saying they were looking for her and asked if I had seen her. I thought it was a prank but still shared the little information I had.

Out of concern, I later messaged her younger brother to ask if it was true that they were looking for her. He responded angrily and told me not to message him, so I blocked him.

This morning, I received a WhatsApp message from someone claiming to be her mother, accusing me of kidnapping her daughter. She threatened me with deities, said she has my picture, demanded that I return her daughter within one week, and said I would pay back everything collected from her daughter double.

No police has contacted me. I am only receiving threats via WhatsApp.

For clarity:
I have not seen her since December
I do not know her current location
I did not kidnap anyone
I am only being threatened online

Please, I need advice:

What is the best step to take immediately?

Should I report this at the police station now?

fear not na scam be this!

You don't even need lawyer. Just go to police and write report with screenshots. And rest

BlackViper:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7NlK5wms680?si=zgUydq7c85td34Lu



https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cp3zp4zzn1zo

Oluwabunmu Adeleiyi,

Let's have it! Let have it!

Justicepluto:
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do a total thanks giving!
The lord has delivered you from Jezebel!

But this time he is warning you not to come back to her

Igbophobia:
Does God have a special person for you to marry? I'll answer you from the scripture and from experience. The answer is a big yes.

From scripture, remember when Adam was alone? The bible says God brought all the beasts to Adam and it was Adam that named them. There's a twist there: the bible says but none of the beasts was found fit for Adam. Later when God made Eve, Adam saw and named her because she was his flesh and bone.

In a spiritual sense, there is an eve for every Adam. If an Adam misses his Eve, he ends up with a beast.

On a personal level, I've been tempted to marry someone but God through His Spirit warned me not to.

This should be clear enough at least for the believer: marry in God's will or marry a beast. This could be why christians are admonished to at least marry another Christian. That minimum is for Christians who don't care about finding God's will in marriage.

What marrying another believer does for you is minimize your marital pains because they bear the same Spirit, unlike the calamity of marrying an unbeliever which effectively makes satan your father-in-law.

Marrying by 'finding a wife' is a sure recipe for disaster. If not now, later because even if you marry someone you think is a Christian, they may not actually be. For instance, there are many people in church today who are not Christians because their names are not written in heaven because they're walking in darkness such as fornication, hatred, internet fraud and many other sins. Would you say you found a good thing if you marry someone like that?

You see the logic you propounded above? It originates from Christians especially pastors who are guided, not by the Spirit of God but by their flesh.

this was not reviewed to you by fresh and blood!

Babatunjo:
So I was at dinner with a friend this week. Guy has been married for about 8 years now... married almost immediately after uni. Tall guy, always had fine girlfriends back in school. You’d think na him go dey hype marriage pass.

Out of nowhere, he just sighed and said he regrets marrying… apart from the kids.
His advice shocked me.

He said if he were single again in 2026 Nigeria, he would never marry. That I should just find a woman, have between 1 to 3 kids if I want, make her comfortable, take care of my responsibilities... but avoid marriage completely.

I laughed it off, but then it hit me:
My boss had told me something very similar some time ago.
Then I remembered a former neighbour... fine wife, two kids, lovely family pictures on social media... he also warned me not to rush into marriage.

These are not bitter, broke men o. These are men society would call “successful”.

So now I’m asking myself (and una): Wetin really dey happen?
Is marriage quietly becoming something different from what we were sold?

the people who voted I will get married are all female between the evening newspaper 📰🗞️ era

phorget:
High GDP or High BP?

ohh do forgive me I mistake

nlfpmod:

Rest of the video pic.twitter.com/LVBJHV1UQI

— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) January 28, 2026

good good
Our Agbado president has improved our economy with high GDP
Everybody is feeding well!
Good road!
No bandits at all, you can walk the street at night and go to farm confidently without thinking of any Fulani man coming towards you with motorcycle!

Please come back Nigeria!
Village people want to confirm sometime

nurez305:
Hello all, please I wanted to buy Xiaomi 14 on AliExpress and the seller confirmed to me that it is a Chinese version but he will update it to global version. I asked him if there will be any different after updating it but he replied that I won't be able to receive software update on it. Since I will like to use the hyperos 3, I asked him if it will come with hyperos os 3 but he said it is not supported. Is there anything I can do to get software update if I purchase it?

you people will never learn for this.
Stop buying phone with Chinese rom from Ali express! They're many sellers who sell this phone here

nlfpmod:
https://www.facebook.com/100050364255333/posts/pfbid06aXiVVFLc2QBtRaXatk57gEXGqhVmESLoVBErS3y5YssXFU8m6CQ2hUoyWBuB1oBl/?mibextid=Nif5oz

they don't date broke boys groups, will always be use for ritual purpose.

If you women don't want to learn this 2026 and change your small girl big god mentality! I'm afraid many of you female will have missing organs 🫀🫁 in this 2026

RollinTNDA:
Na one soup my babe cook from her house
The soup still wasting in my fridge

Soup wey get heavy taste of kerosine.

I just pluck all the meat and abandon the soup for fridge

your babe don discover say you dey play away match, so she won kpai you strategically

Hellisreal70:
Why not throw the beans away the moment you perceived the odour?

because his papa na dangote Abi

alphonsoolajide:

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7597446889914748181?_t=ZS-93FqFzRMhoj&_r=1




https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/21/lady-alleges-tinder-lover-scammed-her-40m-life-savings/

this face looked like someone that has only 4k in her opay account

Kingsley34:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BTV5azCoWsc

Nollywood actress Nkechi Blessing Sunday goes off in this viral car rant after an old video of hers blew up again, causing thousands of men to slide into her WhatsApp and Facebook DMs with marriage proposals!

She's crystal clear: "I'm truly single, but I'm not looking for any man right now." Over 5,000 messages from "different species called men" have her fed up with blocking and archiving. She can't even change her number because it's linked to her Facebook.

Watch as Nkechi vents her frustration in this hilarious yet relatable moment that's got the internet talking!

once naija women just put on makeup on their face, they immediately lost all sense of reasoning
Don't know what we should call this phenomenal