Anuoluwa12345: Good evening, pls I need help on something I don't even know how to put it well, but I will try my best to explain a little..and I seek sincere advice from matured and experienced ppl on the forum.
I am a type that when I love ppl, I love them wholeheartedly..to the extent that I will give in all my best to them.. be it family members or non. When I tell you I gat your back, then I truly mean it. But the problem now is, when these ppl hurt me. I don't know how to handle it, I don't even know if I will call it unforgiving spirit or maybe cause I remember things alot, I will surely not forget.
It's not as if I won't forgive them o, I will but, to make that relationship between me and that person smooth back.. it's not possible.. the distance will always be there.. tho before I get angry or pick offence it takes long, but once it happens like this! I know I have lost relationship with that soul.
Some of my relatives (extended fam) offended me, and since about 3 yrs now, these ppl have been sending different ppl just to beg me and talk to me etc.. in order to make things back, but it's just not working!. Cuz I know myself.
And I am a type that, once I vex, I don't look back..even if the person has done a lot of things etc.. I have tried my best but it's just not working. And I understand the fact that there is no how there won't be argument among humans, it's not possible.
My greatest fear now is, what if I marry, is this how It will be towards my husband, someone I claim I love? Pls how do I tackle this problem before I reach that stage, pls I need sincere word of wisdom from elders, else why I come to a faceless forum to pour out my mind.
don't worry! Once you reach age 35-40 with no preek to called your own! All those your angry and unforgiving mentality will change to God fearing woman
Your elder newspapers female are here parading up and down. You should learn one or two things from them!
You guys should not bring Congo girls to our country for now! Let everything calm down before you start importing your Congo girlfriend to this country
Freshtruth: I did mine this year I collect 70k loan from easy by to flex a girl that stay in another town . I send her 5k for tafair , down to my town I paid for 20k hotel room when she came she said she was hungry I bought 8k food for her why I bought 1500 naira food for her self I bought h r 3k ice cream and black bullet for her , Omo when we start work this girl when dey claim good girl the whole place has been brutally destroy d thin no dey grip my stuff at alll omo everything wide thank God I use protection if not I would have been treating infections like this. Omo I just dey think my life all night I have to force myself to do 2 rounds more due to the hotel room I paid for make money no go waste breast done fall patapata . I still have her 12k home for thanks for coming . Omo she dey call me tire I no pick and I no block the love fade once.
Can relate! My the breast was as flat as aluminium foil. I couldn't take it! Just have to manage and send her back.
ExAngel007: Young pharmacist shot dead days after opening her pharmacy in South Africa
A young pharmacist, Nomzila Madinane, has been shot and k!lled in a brazen attack in KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa.
The deadly shooting which occurred at her pharmacy in Inchanga on Tuesday, May 19, 2026, also claimed the lives of a cashier and a security guard.
It was gathered that Madinane had opened the new pharmacy a few days ago to improve access to healthcare in KwaNyuswa, near Hillcrest.
KwaZulu-Natal police confirmed that three m8rder cases have been opened following the d3adly shooting.
According to reports, pharmacist Nomzila Madinane had recently opened the pharmacy after identifying a need for easier access to medication in the community, where many residents were allegedly forced to travel long distances for healthcare services.
The attack has left residents shocked and devastated, with many describing Madinane as a young entrepreneur committed to serving her community.
Police spokesperson Robert Netshiunda said the victims were ambushed by unknown gunmen while at the pharmacy.
“Inchanga police opened three cases of m8rder following an incident in which two females and a security guard were shot by unknown people,” said Netshiunda.
“The victims were fatally shot while the security guard sustained a gunshot wound and was taken to hospital where he succumbed to his injuries.”
“Reports indicate that three armed men stormed the pharmacy and opened fire, k!lling Madinane and her cashier at the scene.”
The security guard was reportedly shot while attempting to intervene.
Earlier reports suggested he had been fighting for his life in hospital before police later confirmed his d3ath.
The motive for the attack remains unclear, with investigators expected to determine whether the shooting was linked to robbery or another motive.
Keacyz1: I went to take my bath and discovered that she couldn't even flush the toilet she used very well. It happened twice and I knew she can't be wifed
that toilet aspect is a big turn off for me!
You see some of these girls, they don't know how to use toilet, just only to wear shiny clothes, but try and smell their yansh that's when you will understand all is nothing but vanity
GEJDHERO: Good morning guys pls i am planning converting my petrol engine suv to cng and i needed inputs of what to expect .And for guys already using a converted cng car..how is it.? Pls i need advice on d pros and cons...fuel don too cost.
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na this kind of people go write exam thinking say he flood his paper dey expect A, But na F9 he go get at the end
I believe you have seen the video of the couple in the attached pic tearing a purported marriage certificate.
For a fact, what they're tearing in that video is not a government-issued marriage certificate. An original marriage is rectangular with black or green ink and the seal of the Federal Republic of Nigeria on top. The one they are tearing was probably gotten from their village.
Two, anything carrying the seal and coat of arms of the Federal Republic of Nigeria doesn't belong to you, you are only the custodian of it. Example, Passport, Currency, Govt-issued certs, I.D cards, etc. So you can't destroy them. Destroying them is playing with fines or jail.
I repeat, any thing with coat of arms on it from the govt belong exclusively to the Federal Govt.
Methinks me, learned this was done to signify they will never divorce. Ignorance of the best version.
Marriage transcends that paper and it is done at home with two people who are ready and willing to work for its success. Tearing a piece of paper will not prevent shi if you don't put effort into it working.
Lasty, apart from the use of marriage certificate to prove marriage, what are the other uses of the certificate?
tohtoh dikeh once luck there marriage with padlock and throw the key in river.
givedemwotowoto: Peter Obi Gives Scholarship Worth N5 Million Naira to Intashara Islamic School Students in Bauchi
Peter Obi gives a scholarship worth 5 million naira to students of Intashara Islamic school in Bauchi. Pledges to take care of the medical expenses of the female student who spoke on behalf of the school. pic.twitter.com/uk3m9Eczb0
blaise26abj: Baba you Cooked on this . When I met my wife , I was very specific on timelines. If I didnt confirm the traits I was looking for , under 1 year ,I would walk away . In my books as long as it is not long distance relationship , 1 year max you should know if you can marry the person . If not don’t waste the person’s time . Communicate and move on .
oga thank your star ⭐✨ you married and married good! And have money to take care of your family!
If you know the amount of shiiit happening in the streets today, you won't even want to have female daughter
Nuff haters here but I dey gbadun this your thread gidi gan. In fact I am thinking of including Uganda in an African tour me and my friends are planning later in the year.
The love and praises Ugandans are showering on Nigeria lately is enticing.. It must mean 'goodies' await on ground in Uganda. 😎
include me in that tour ohh. Cause this year I'm going there.
Babatunjo: There’s a group we no dey really talk about… involuntary single ladies.
Not the unserious type. These ones are fine, educated, stable. You see them everywhere, hospitals, offices, events. Doctors, nurses, professionals. Complete package.
But relationship just no dey stick.
Many of them are actually ready. They’ve tried, dated intentionally, even adjusted expectations small. Yet na same story. They keep meeting guys wey no serious. Promise today, disappear tomorrow. Waste months, sometimes years. Some don’t even know what they want.
At some point, some just settle. Some give up. Some still dey hopeful but tired.
Truth be say, dating market don change. Plenty options, less clarity, less commitment.
almost most jobs now na women dey collect am! How you come expect men to date strong independent woman
Na them full street dey shout I cannot settle for less
Lovelink1991: A lady refuses a man sex who she went to visit for help but the man ask for sex first before he will render her the help. The lady ask him can't you help someone without asking for sex?
Watch the drama that played out between the lady and the man in the night in an unknown location in Lagos
DailyGistsNg: The Nigerian Air Force (NAF) has confirmed that its Air Component under Operation HADIN KAI carried out a precision airstrike that eliminated several terrorists in the Yuwe axis of the Sambisa Forest in Borno State. The operation, conducted on April 19, 2026, forms part of ongoing military efforts to sustain pressure on insurgent groups operating in Nigeria’s North-East region. In an official statement, NAF Director of Public Relations and Information, Ehimen Ejodame, said the strike was executed based on credible intelligence supported by Intelligence, Surveillance, and Reconnaissance (ISR) missions. According to him, the intelligence confirmed the presence of террорист elements occupying fortified positions, including structures and bunkers within the forest. “NAF air assets engaged the targets with precision munitions, destroying the structures, neutralising multiple terrorists, and eliminating key logistics facilities, as confirmed by subsequent Battle Damage Assessment,” Ejodame stated. Sustained Air Campaign Weakening Insurgents The NAF noted that continuous air operations have significantly degraded terrorist capabilities in the region, disrupting their movement and operational coordination. “The sustained tempo of air operations continues to degrade terrorist networks, leaving them increasingly exposed and under pressure, forcing desperate and reactive actions,” the statement added. Military Reaffirms Commitment The Chief of the Air Staff, Sunday Kelvin Aneke, reaffirmed the Air Force’s commitment to ongoing counterinsurgency operations. “The Nigerian Air Force will sustain relentless, intelligence-driven air operations until terrorist elements are completely neutralised. We remain committed to protecting our personnel, safeguarding national security, and ensuring the safety of all citizens,” he said. The Air Force further emphasised that it would intensify precision strikes across operational theatres while strictly adhering to rules of engagement and taking measures to minimise civilian harm. Ongoing Counterinsurgency Efforts Operation HADIN KAI remains a key component of Nigeria’s counterinsurgency strategy in the North-East, particularly in areas such as the Sambisa Forest, long considered a stronghold for insurgent groups. Military authorities say operations will continue as part of broader efforts to restore stability and security across affected communities.
daylay7: I want to know how i can control this urge. I drink at least two pet bottles in a day. If i don't take it in a day, I won't be myself. How do I curb this behavior? I tried looking away, discipline myself but it is not working.
ebubeson: The rate of complain in marriage is much. If you have a beautiful and successful marriage, kindly tell us how to make marriage a beautiful thing.
Family › Re: Unforgiveness: Please I Need Help. by Entanglement: 11:35am On May 25
omo everything wide thank God I use protection if not I would have been treating infections like this. Omo I just dey think my life all night I have to force myself to do 2 rounds more due to the hotel room I paid for make money no go waste breast done fall patapata . I still have her 12k home for thanks for coming . Omo she dey call me tire I no pick and I no block the love fade once.