European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Chelsea (0 - 0) On 21 January 2023 by EnterpriseMan(m): 3:18pm On Jan 21, 2023 |
angelEmade: You are a Man U fan. Secondly Arsenal didn't lose 'woefully' to them. It was a well played match for both sides. . . Take this from a Barcelona/Messi fan What is Barcelona 😳😳😳🤣🤣🤣🤣 |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Chelsea (0 - 0) On 21 January 2023 by EnterpriseMan(m): 3:03pm On Jan 21, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: SKB Ogbuagu, PDP Chairman Slumps And Dies During Campaign In Enugu by EnterpriseMan(m): 4:52pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
When will it be Tinubu's turn  |
Romance › Re: Court Order Lady To Pay Man N150k For Not Coming After Taking N3k For Transport by EnterpriseMan(m): 10:53pm On Jan 19, 2023 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Crystal Palace Vs Manchester United (1 - 1) On 18th January 2023 by EnterpriseMan(m): 9:55pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Crystal Palace Vs Manchester United (1 - 1) On 18th January 2023 by EnterpriseMan(m): 9:52pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: Young Mother Hangs Herself And Her Son In Ghana (Photo) by EnterpriseMan(m): 8:18pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
This is sad  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Crystal Palace Vs Manchester United (1 - 1) On 18th January 2023 by EnterpriseMan(m): 5:46pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Can Child Support Amount Be Included In Prenup For Future Sake by EnterpriseMan(m): 4:08am On Jan 18, 2023 |
segtech68: hi everybody, i created a topic earlier asking how i could politely tell my fiance that i don't want court wedding , thanks for all the comments, I really appreciate. I've decided to go for the prenup option, from your advice I've come to realize that doing the court marriage is the best , not for the sake of traveling because I've been traveling for short stay in and out of the country for quite some times. https://www.nairaland.com/7519526/how-tell-fiancee-dont-want
My question now is , is it possible to determine what a women gets for child support and alimony in the prenup if there's divorce. I love her and i trust her, i just don't want to make the mistake just incase she changes when we finally settle down in a western country. I've heard of many men paying outrageous amount on child support.
I know the prenup takes care of what the property and cash but does it also takes care of alimony and child support ?
Is there a system or a legal document where the man could voluntary decide what he wishes to pay his wife and voluntarily decide what to pay for child support?
I appreciate your comments, and please don't judge me, i'm just trying to be careful and as much as i wish for an ever lasting marriage yet Change is the only constant in life... A prenup is a good idea, but a column must also be added in the prenup that at the date she signed this, she was of a sound mental health and have her get a mental and a valid document to prove this. The only thing a prenup can't decide is child custody and child support. I have a uncle (lawyer) in France, and he says property wise, a prenuptial agreement can protect you 100% in any western country, but child custody is determined by the judge, and child support by your income and number of children until the spouse remarries. NB: if the court decides you're the better option for the children and grants you custody, you don't get to pay anything. |
Travel › Re: 10 Million Naira To Japa Or Business In Nigeria by EnterpriseMan(m): 7:05pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
bigsam75: Between investing 10million naira in Nigeria or JAPA with 10M which one is the best? both. Start a business you can operate from anywhere in the world, make some profits and japa with, trust me, you will be glad you did |
Phones › Re: Nigerian Bank Cards Not Working On Google Play by EnterpriseMan(m): 5:38pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
AgentNnamdi: Hi guys, I am trying to add my debit card to Google Play for the renewal of my subscriptions and to make App purchases but none is working. Please, does anyone know which card works on Google Play now?
It's urgent. Thanks.
My GTBank's Dollar card didn't work. Use GT Bank naira mastercard |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Neighbor Is Pressuring Me To Accept God by EnterpriseMan(m): 3:52pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Castigate Girls For Wanting To Date Only Rich Guys? by EnterpriseMan(m): 3:20am On Jan 16, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: I Cheated But Do Not Want To Admit by EnterpriseMan(m): 6:24pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: EFCC Raids Yahoo Boys Scamming Australians by EnterpriseMan(m): 2:02pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Jakumo: Scammers do exist and operate all over the world for sure, BUT those in Nigeria do constitute a far greater percentage of the general population than is the case anywhere else on the planet, with the possible exception of Jamaica, where lottery scam practitioners are numerous and prolific in their own crime wave. Lol this is rubbish Sir. We scam with illiteracy more, nothing else. Nigerians scan reach Indians? or the so call Americans? who you think say invent scam. And we also like to show ourselves and shame ourselves for the whole world to see. Our scammers are illiterate scammers compared to others and that is whybthey get caught the most |
Romance › Re: What Hurts More Than A Breakup??? by EnterpriseMan(m): 1:57pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Crystal Palace (1 - 0) On 15th January 2023 by EnterpriseMan(m): 1:54pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Girl Who Has Sent You A Nude Picture Online Before? by EnterpriseMan(m): 1:39am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Tombrown3: I've had countless girls send me their nudes on WhatsApp, and some of these girls are considered "good girls" outside social media, which brings me to this question.
Is it advisable to have a serious commitment as marriage with any of these girls? Girls don't send nudes to people they don't trust. I believe that should answer your question |
Events › Re: Why Are Weddings Always held On Saturdays? by EnterpriseMan(m): 5:38pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: Woman And Her Partner Arrested For Battering Her Two Kids Aged 5 And 2 (Graphic) by EnterpriseMan(m): 5:36pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
Jesus!! This is beyond abuse. This is attempted murder  How on earth would a sane person do this to little children who have no idea what wrong they did |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Brighton Vs Liverpool (3 - 0) On 14th January 2023 by EnterpriseMan(m): 4:31pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
Brighton to win |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Manchester City (2 - 1) On 14th January 2023 by EnterpriseMan(m): 3:43pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
Angelfrost: So, who are you keying for the title??! At this point between the Top3 teams. I still don't trust Arsenal consistency to run away with it. Arsenal still has 2 legs to play against man city which would most likely decide their fates. I would say After the Arsenal match, Man United should have the easier run to the end of the season if they can make the most of it. But Man United is still a question mark. I will back my team even if it me just being bias because objectively i can't pick a team yet |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Manchester City (2 - 1) On 14th January 2023 by EnterpriseMan(m): 3:31pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Manchester City (2 - 1) On 14th January 2023 by EnterpriseMan(m): 3:24pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
Angelfrost: What a shame!... Guardiola why na??! 
You are shaming the gods of football!
Chai... Well, congrats ahead to Arsenal! The EPL is yours to lose at this point. Lol chillax, We are literally just half of season. 2 defeats and everywhere go spoil. This is EPL, not groundnut league |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Manchester City (2 - 1) On 14th January 2023 by EnterpriseMan(m): 3:13pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
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Celebrities › Re: Portable Spotted Trekking Barefoot On A Street In Sango (Video) by EnterpriseMan(m): 4:22pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
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Family › Re: My Ex Fiancee Is Pregnant For Me by EnterpriseMan(m): 3:19pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Alesa3341: Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long.
MODIFIED I won't insult you and call you foolish and stupid as much as i want to, because i know how subjective emotions can make us. 1. A girl you want to marry should be desperate to get your parents approval, not you in front of them. 2. If a girl i ever want to marry comes to me and says anything bad about my mom who has always been there for me all my life, God knows where that girl would find herself. 3.You have given her too much freedom to do what she wants and insult you. You are a prize girls would kill for, don't let someone disrespect you because you want to marry her 4.Call her to meet and establish your authority, don't let her talk back when you're talking to her if possible slam the wall so hard she wets herself but DON'T HIT HER. Tell her if she dares remove the child that your relationship with her is over and she must knee down and apologize to you and go knew down and apologize to your family. If she refuses then she isn't ready, don't give her the opportunity to say she's leaving, Tell her "You fvcking get out of my house right now and never delete every contact you have off me, you and i are done" while forcefully pointing at the door. NB: make sure to screenshots or record all your conversations because someone like her can call the cops on you and claim you rape and impregnated her. Be careful mate oh and removing a pregnancy is not 125k |
Romance › Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend To Save In My Bank? by EnterpriseMan(m): 2:26am On Jan 13, 2023 |
Banilla: Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.
Hi everyone! I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a year. I absolutely love him, he's my whole world! And that's the reason I'm pressuring him to save, if we're going to have a future together. And he's down for it, he makes nothing less than 200k monthly. I'm still a student, searching for a decent job. I can't invest sh** presently but I hope to start soon. Yesterday, I brought it up. I want him to send money monthly to my bank account, no matter how little. I'll save it for him. He's hesitating. He said I should be patient, he'll give me everything I need but he wants more time. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need his co-operation. I'm scared he might leave me, after I've given him the best years of my life. I subtly threatened him that my family would force me to marry a Nigerian but he made a joke out of it, saying I would never, that I'm his... 
What should I do?
NB: I've never taken a dime from him. He drinks often and I don't want him spending 'our future' on alcohol! I'm way better at saving.
I'm worried if I press the subject, he'll get mad at me.
I also told him I want to leave Nigeria, he thinks it's a good idea and I also told him I can't afford it alone. He said he needs time.
Doesn't he love me? Should I let it go? Or insist we resolve this? Pls shut up and get a life. No let them do you watin that chiko man do that housa girl, Na person pikin head you wan take open church. You're even coming here saying he doesn't know how to save and he's an alcoholic, this is someone you claim you love and here you are spilling his dirty laundry. And don't be stupid, what makes you think he doesn't save? or you expect him to tell you how he spends his money? Oh and btw, How about your sugar daddy hustle? No show??  Leave the poor guy alone let him enjoy his life abeg 
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Romance › Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend To Save In My Bank? by EnterpriseMan(m): 2:20am On Jan 13, 2023 |
martinlooter: Banilla, you're a good person with good intentions. I think the guy loves and I am sure you love him back as well. However, in Nigeria, what you're suggesting has led to a lot of unprintable things, hence no Nigerian man will give a woman money to save for him, even if you're from the lineage of Peter Obi. Women are naturally emotional just as you're exhibiting now, but by the time you find something k8ce you want to buy and you ask him for money he tells you there is no money, guess where your mind will flash to... Yeah definitely, you guessed right. So you see, with money in your account, you've taken away his freedom, let him be and from how you're talking you're less than 22,thus at your age, anything can happen. So just chill and enjoy your relationship while it lasts. No she is not, she's a hustler. She's just thinking about herself and looking for someone to change her life, She doesn't give a fvck about this guy (if at all he even exists). |
Romance › Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend To Save In My Bank? by EnterpriseMan(m): 2:18am On Jan 13, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: Video Footage Captures Robbers Operating In Broad Day Light In Benin (Video) by EnterpriseMan(m): 9:35pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Old video and was a skit |