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Foreign AffairsRe: Donald Trump Jr. Marries Bettina Anderson In Bahamas Wedding by Ephort: 5:12pm On May 25
Omoawoke:
Son of Donald Epstein Trump

The white supremacist
Lol... You have learnt their word salad. Get some rest, bro.
BusinessRe: Dangote To Partner Kenya, Uganda To Build Refinery In Tanzania by Ephort: 10:04am On Apr 24
This is a very good move. This is how Africa will grow.
PoliticsRe: I Paid Off All Loans But Name And Bvn Still With Credit Bureau by Ephort: 3:15pm On Jan 26
unclejb2:
Get a letter of non indebtedness and send to the credit bureau
Do the above or, alternatively, reach out to the institution(s) you borrowed from to send an update of your credit information to the bureaus.
TravelRe: Nigerian Man Reportedly Deported After Returning A Lost Wallet To Police by Ephort: 9:37am On Jan 22
He was not deported because he returned a lost wallet, but because he was an illegal immigrant. Good deeds don't justify illegality.
PoliticsRe: Why Did Tinubu Wait For Trump’s Insults Before Acting? by Ephort: 10:34am On Dec 02, 2025
hisexcellency34:
https://www.thecable.ng/why-did-tinubu-wait-for-trumps-insults-before-acting/
Is he acting, or are things just getting worse with little or no pushback?
BusinessRe: Ezra vs Paystack: Can A Company Use A 10-Year-Old Post To Terminate A Contract? by Ephort: 2:50pm On Nov 25, 2025
The major issue here is dismissal without a fair hearing, as this will not qualify as a termination of contract in the legal sense.
PoliticsRe: 6 Most Popular Nigerian Military Officers Of All Time by Ephort: 5:45pm On Nov 13, 2025
E be like say everyone one here missed the joke. Op please put Yerima as no.1.
SportsRe: Calls Intensify For Okoye To Replace Nwabali As Super Eagles First-Choice Keeper by Ephort: 3:07pm On Nov 05, 2025
Bar1941:
Nwabali with that his head like the head of a truck is long due for replacement. He fought everyone this days including his teammates. I don’t know if it’s inferiority complex or something else. He just needs some benching for now or even absence from the team before he cause us a bigger problem.
Make una leave his head and attitude. Make he sha dey catch ball and make e no collect red card. I doubt if we have a better replacement. The guy has been fairly consistent.
HealthRe: Dwarfs Association Of Nigeria Marks World Dwarfism Day With Awareness Drive(Pix) by Ephort: 7:34pm On Nov 03, 2025
Are you sure it's not Dwarfs Association of Osogbo?
FamilyRe: Man Shares Experience With An Entitled Relative Months After Giving Him Millions by Ephort: 9:28am On Oct 31, 2025
SAMBARRY:
taaaa

Getat with your gaslighting tactics
Does it please you to be this ratchet? You are better than this.
Christianity EtcRe: Christiano Ronaldo Became A Muslim After Seeing Mohammed In A Dream by Ephort: 6:24pm On Oct 30, 2025
HeatSeeker:
You've missed the point of this thread entirely.
I guess I did
FamilyRe: Man Shares Experience With An Entitled Relative Months After Giving Him Millions by Ephort: 6:23pm On Oct 30, 2025
Jennyclay:
Men have entitled mentality? undecided
I thought they said all men are independent men.

I’m pretty sure the entitled relative will be on every social media platform insulting women not knowing he’s the Oga patapata of entitled mentality undecided

Biko, I can’t laugh.
Bunch of beggars everywhere!!
Everything is not about gender war.
Christianity EtcRe: Christiano Ronaldo Became A Muslim After Seeing Mohammed In A Dream by Ephort: 10:32am On Oct 30, 2025
As of today, Cristiano Ronaldo is a Christian, a Roman Catholic. The rumour has been clearly debunked.
PoliticsRe: Persons Convicted Of Serious Crimes Removed From Tinubu's Pardons List by Ephort: 5:03pm On Oct 29, 2025
Two lists have many names, but only one Igbo name each, which is not a problem. My question is: why are the only Igbo names on the lists coming first? What kinda political tokenism is this?
CelebritiesRe: J Martins Survives Ghastly Auto Crash, Escapes Unharmed (photos) by Ephort:
I hope we see more good news about our OGs instead of this sort.
NYSCRe: Corper Raye Quits NGO After Single Mother Celebrates Being Pregnant by Ephort: 10:36am On Oct 06, 2025
It's difficult to help people address the outcome of a poor mentality without first addressing their mentality which is the source of the problem.
PoliticsRe: Nigeria, South Africa Poised To Exit Dirty-money List In October by Ephort:
This is such good news. The CBN has been doing a lot to ensure compliance lately.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Galatasaray Vs Liverpool: UCL (1 - 0) On 30th September 2025 by Ephort: 8:38pm On Sep 30, 2025
Someone should assist with a link to watch this live.
PoliticsRe: Runs Girls, Illegal Earners To Pay Tax From 2026 - Taiwo Oyedele (Video) by Ephort: 2:08pm On Sep 30, 2025
So, Olosho has been indirectly legalised. Interesting times.
FamilyRe: Lady Recounts Brother’s Sacrifice After Father’s Death by Ephort: 3:01pm On Sep 03, 2025
This is great. Many of our fathers are like this. They sacrifice all but are rarely recognised, let alone celebrated. The sister has done well. The appreciation alone with or without an increase in patronage, is commendable.
FamilyRe: My Wife Took My Child Away by Ephort: 11:52am On Sep 03, 2025
Austinbiggy:
Last year I met a girl who she claimed to be a nice girl, I was having a good intention of settling down with her not when she told me she has two son elsewhere. I was like two son but she told me the father of the two children are not dating but the children are with their father people.

We started in a good tone but not when she took in for me, she gave me condition that I am going to see her parents and also be responsible for her two children and I said over my dead body. I told her I can go and see your parents but I will not be responsible for your two children and she said we need to remove the pregnancy and I said no problem. She claimed to remove the pregnancy but all the drugs didn't work but when I took the responsibility of keeping the child she was so excited.

Since the day she gave birth everything about her change towards me, when she was staying with her former Guy, she took the two children and ran away from the man but when she discovered she can no longer handle the bill of the children she returns it to the man and the man took the children and returned them to her sister. The former Guy sister has been the one taking care of the two children.

Now, the two children came to visit their father for holiday now my wife left my house and go and see the children and hide my own child saying she doesn't want the children to know she has given birth. I have been having issues with her concerning the children, now the father of the children said she don't have business with her.

Guess what happened today, my wife knows very well that I am too attached with my four months baby, she took my baby and park her things and ran away from my house and my baby is just four months. I don't know her where about. People are saying I should calm down but I can't sleep. I met her former Guy and the guy told me she's a big fool, that she supposed to be happy that she see a man who accepts her even after giving birth for two. I don't really know what to do.
The problem is not the lady. The problem is you! You thought you could save a damsel in distress - the clean-up guy. What happened to your testosterone - Nice Guy?
People who make this sort of decision are the "my mother raised me" crew, who believe that women are angels and deserve protection and tender support.
Learn this: you don't ever judge women by their outlook or your observations, but their results and their nature. The results so far will tell you everything you need to know while their very nature will always manifest.
My advice: the more needy you become, the more you are pawned. Your strength is manifested in your ability to disconnect from her and by extension, the baby. Deaden your hunger to provide and nurture until it's right. For now, she is playing games that you can never win. At best, exit the arena, then participate when the need calls. Then, and only then will you come as a man and set the terms. More so, she is not your wife. She belongs to many.
EducationRe: From Wig To Skit: A Silent Crisis In The Legal Profession". by Ephort: 6:30pm On Jul 12, 2025
TechBoss65:
One of my brothers made a post yesterday that hit deeper than most realize. He simply emphasized how lawyers are transiting "From Wig to Skit: A Silent Crisis in the Legal Profession".

He said, “5,000+ called to bar… get ready for more content creators.”

We laughed. But I couldn’t shake off the weight of it.
Because underneath that joke is a crisis—one that we’re all pretending not to see.

In a country where it takes 7–8 years (and sometimes more) to become a lawyer, it's tragic that many of our brightest legal minds are abandoning the courtrooms and contracts for comedy skits and influencer deals.

It’s not that content creation is wrong—far from it. But when the system is so broken that people invest close to a decade in education only to pivot into trends that require none of that training, we need to pause and ask:

What are we doing to the profession?
What are we doing to justice?
What are we doing to society?

Even worse, we now face another dilemma—people with criminal intent earning legal badges. Not to uphold the law, but to hide behind it.
When law loses its honour, society loses its compass.

But here’s the shift I want to encourage:
Instead of throwing your law degree into the ocean of virality, how about pouring it into innovation?

LawTech.

JusticeTech.

Legal operations.

Contract automation.

Rights protection platforms.

Case management systems.

There’s so much to build, so much to fix.

If you're a legal professional with an idea—or if you want to explore how to apply your legal knowledge in the tech, civic, or impact space—let’s talk.

I’m passionate about helping people turn ideas into real, scalable solutions.
Africa doesn’t just need more lawyers or more content.
It needs legal builders and justice innovators.

Your law degree is not a waste. Let’s put it to work.

Okereke Inno.
Product manager,
Roots N Squares
rootsnsquares.com/tools
That’s largely true; however, the proposed solutions will require a full dive into tech. Fields like JusticeTech, LawTech, etc are technology-driven areas where technology, not legal professionals, is taking the lead. There are, however, numerous domains where lawyers can effectively leverage their expertise and thrive; areas like intellectual property, GRC, cybersecurity, information security governance, fintech governance, AML, data protection, corp governance, investment advisory (venture capital advisor), capital market advisory, etc. If you choose to practise litigation, consider specialising in a less common area such as maritime law, cybercrime, public-private partnerships, or mergers and acquisitions. I currently lead a GRC team and also mentor fellow lawyers. As the world continues to evolve rapidly, legal practitioners must innovate or risk being left behind.
RomanceRe: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Ephort: 1:05pm On Jul 09, 2025
From my experience, some girls, especially those in their late 20s and early 30s, stay a virgin not because they wish to remain pure and unsullied, but because they are prudish (probably as a result of childhood trauma). After marriage, you will confront zero desire for sex and bad character.
RomanceRe: Men Look Carefully Before You Leap Into Marriage. Divorce Isn’t A Joke by Ephort: 10:46am On May 26, 2025
NaijaphiliaBlog:
Excellent!

This should be framed and hung on the wall by every aspiring husband for daily meditation.
Thanks bro. My story could be a blockbuster if it were made into a movie. I made a mistake that nearly took my life, but I recovered well.

Maybe I should add two more, lol.
1. Never abandon your purpose. Never stop chasing growth. At all reasonable costs, run away from poverty. A poor man is despised by even his wife and children, no matter how noble.
2. It's better not to seek female validation or love. Desire to be respected and not to be liked.
RomanceRe: Men Look Carefully Before You Leap Into Marriage. Divorce Isn’t A Joke by Ephort: 10:34am On May 26, 2025
Nicoddemus:
So who will now marry all those ones you have avoided? My brother one thing must kill a man
Maybe the post is not for you, yet. You will understand when it's time.
RomanceRe: Men Look Carefully Before You Leap Into Marriage. Divorce Isn’t A Joke by Ephort: 9:08am On May 24, 2025
As someone who's married and divorcing now, see my added nuggets:
1. Avoid girls from broken homes. They come with loads of trauma. I learnt the had way.
2. Avoid girls who hate their fathers, even if the man is irresponsible. You'll soon join their fathers' club.
3. Avoid girls who disrepect you. Treat her minutest disrespect as a bloody red flag.
4. Body count matters. Avoid girls with loads of escapades. Avoid girls with unresolved attachment to their exes. Avoid girls who insist on keeping male besties.
5. Lastly, most people don't improve after marriage. Red flags multiply after marriage.
EducationRe: UTME: 19-Year-Old Opesusi Faith Timilehin Commits Suicide Over ‘Low Score’ by Ephort: 10:21am On May 13, 2025
Interesting. There might be an underlying psychological disorder or syndrome. Although some people commit suicide over seemingly minor events, there is usually an underlying condition triggered by the incident. Sadly, the mental health management system in Nigeria is not far from terrible. May the dead rest wherever he is destined.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Real Madrid vs Arsenal: UCL Quarter Finals (1 - 2) - Live by Ephort: 8:42pm On Apr 16, 2025
PrinceofAgoAre:
Omoh glo no gree me stream this match oo


Chaii
Abeg, help with the link
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Real Madrid vs Arsenal: UCL Quarter Finals (1 - 2) - Live by Ephort: 8:41pm On Apr 16, 2025
Any link to stream the match please?
PoliticsRe: Governor Mbah Commissions Enugu State Geographic Information System by Ephort: 11:06am On Dec 17, 2024
This is a great news and long overdue. Kudos to the governor. I just hope that those Ministry workers who benefit from the old paper-based, slow, inefficient and corruption prone system will allow this initiative to work. The greatest enemies of positive changes are those who benefit from the lack of of it.
FamilyRe: I Want To Leave My Matrimonial Home by Ephort: 12:02am On Aug 19, 2024
ojobolinda:
I regret getting married. My marriage is just a year old.
I can't go into details but the bottom line is, I am not divorcing just want a separation.
Reason for my decision
1) I hate sex where as my husband loves it. I have being unable to satisfactory fulfill my conjugal duties to him. I can stay a year without sex and I am happy but its unfair to my husband because he loves sex. We quarrel about it often.

2) Where we are living is affecting my mental health and I pleaded with him for us to relocate but he refused.

There are more which I can't type because it will make the post lengthy

I want to live apart from my husband and his family. I just want to move to another state and stay alone, all by myself. Marriage is not for me. I don't want my parent to know about it too because they wouldn't approve of it ( I have always given them this impression that I am happy in my marriage).

I am currently pregnant and we both agreed he will have custody of the child when he is born.

I just want to know if I will regret my action in the long run
First seek professional assistance. There are many online and offline psychotherapists and counsellors. You need to address the root of your problem instead of focusing on the symptoms. You may be battling with childhood trauma (separated parents, childhood abuse, neglect, or maltreatment, etc.). You may also have some depressive tendencies. I was in your husband's position, and it is, I must say, a terrible place to be.

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