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NwaAmaikpe:




You won't understand the husband's plight if you've never been at the financial mercy of your wife.

I can only imagine the frustration of the husband calling up his wife in front of a debtor with the phone on speaker to ask for a soft loan and then have her rain all the abuses in the world on him.

I won't be shocked too if it wasn't him who took her from obscurity to the financially comfortable level of having a 2k to spare.
That's exactly what these women brought from Nigeria to come study Nursing in the US do.

It doesn't justify him beating her to death but why did God tell us that wives are helpmates when 70% of them would never help out financially in the home even if they could?

This is a lesson to all gold-digging men. The only submissive wife is the broke wife.
Who born Mama Ramotu to talk to me anyhow when she knows that she can not buy Sanitary pad without me.

Never allow your wife get richer than you, because the shrewd treachery and bad mouth of a rich wife can make a broke husband do what this man has just done.

I don't wanna believe this is who you truly are. Sheybi you born girl too, do u pray her husband treat her this way? I beg dey reason well before you comment.

Octopusssy:
How about you try beating someone who can actually fight back? You hit her because you know she can't hit back. If she hits you back once or twice I'm pretty sure the demon spirit of anger will leave your body

That would bring zero solution. He needs to be intentional about it in order to stop. I hope the lady won't leave him before he learn.

dharmybayor:
Abeke ain't stupid but foolishly in love with the guy,which it's high time to unveil what's covering your face to see that he doesn't want you again.. give the guy a break and stop calling and see if he's gonna call but if he doesn't call then she have to just let go.. Someone else will love you more..

Thanks

Pele ti e... Warhawk

Warhawk:
you really are useless ain't you??

Now I see you really need help. Answer the question you just asked yourself... Pele. I can see you're a frustrated fella.. it happens. Don't worry, you'd survive it.

Because he is not is real man yet.

kid... Y stress, when you know exactly what to do. you need it. sleep well

[quote author=Warhawk post=50715835][/quote]You need help, get some now that is not too late

[quote author=Warhawk post=50715835][/quote]You need help

Warhawk:
Let her go buy a cucumber...

You need not say anything, when you know you can't be of help. Abegi park well allow those that can really help come in

Drop your advice sir... Abeke's identity is of no use to you

you can abuse her all you want, call her names. but don't forget to drop a piece of advice...

Abeke's fell in love with a man that finds it difficult to express his love... so she thinks

She went out of her way severally to please the man, although the man was broke, Abeke did not mind, she knew it was a trying time n that it would pass.

Although the man use to be loving n caring but that was before he got to know Abeke had total fallen in love with him... Still she kept on hoping that he'd change considering the fact that ladies had in the past treated the guy wrongly and his current blight... So she loved patiently n never kept mute...

Abeke would be the one to call, her man finds it difficult to pick and when he does, he'd say "I call you later" but most times he never did, even when Abeke want to share her worries and joy he hardly create time... like I said earlier she never stop telling him and pointing out his faults, her man would only say she should hold on it's because of what he's going through.... Even though Abeke has her own worries too, she always want her man to be happy...

This is what Abeke is facing, she never pestered the dude for material things, just for the man to love her back.

Now Abeke wants to break up, because the relationship is affecting other spheres of her life... But its hard for her cause she has never loved any man like that in her life...

pls advice Abeke, how can she leave without this man.

When people make you feel unwanted, don’t leave to make them feel sad or guilty, they won’t. Leave because you no longer have a reason to stay. Sometimes you have to be strong for yourself. What’s meant to be will end up good and what’s not – won’t. Love is worth fighting for, but sometimes you can’t be the only one fighting. At times, people need to fight for you. If they don’t, you just have to move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you.

The perfect guy is not someone who has the whole money or most handsome, you'll meet. He's the one who knows how to make you smile and would take care of you each and everyday until the end of time.

Just because you are single, that doesn't mean that you are not good enough for someone out here. Usually the greater person you are, the harder it is to find someone out here who is special just like you. The fact that you have been single for such a long time, is one of the very reasons why you are special. You are not the kind of person who can just give your love away to anyone. You are not the kind of person who can just invite anyone into your circle of peace and disturb your energy. You are not the kind of person who can just settle down with anyone and be content with that. It takes a special kind of person to wait on someone worth waiting for. It takes a special kind of person to understand that love is a serious commitment to each other, and you want to make sure that you get it right the next time. It takes a special kind of person to not let themselves being alone, drive them into the arms of the wrong person.

- IG@woodtheinspiration

Watch out for these signs... Don't lose her

Correct... sharp guy

fella...killing haa! like seriously?

man you're just 22 and someone is killing you already... abegi pity you parent...

See dear, the girl is still young, you need not rush anything, don't give yourself HBP and dont scare the poor child, she might just think you're after something- her body.. that is why she has been behaving like that... you should know the orientation female teenagers have about men...she only trying to protect herself... allow her breathe small...

and come, focus on your future first ... that important, if she's your woman... you'd never miss her... you've a long way to go abegi....

Be wise n don't stress your heart... you'd need it for your life's journey... pele

foolinlove:
I have spoken with many Africans over the last few months. Nigerians and other African people.
All Africans who aren't from Nigeria seem to say the same thing:
Nigerian men have no heart.
They only love money.
They will make you crazy and want to kill yourself.
They care for nothing but themselves.
They have no regard for their wife or children.
They cheat non-stop.
My closest friend said I am better off getting pet a dog than a Nigerian husband - at least a dog can love me.
When I look at this romance section, I agree. It's all about stupid stuff like men bragging and how to make a girl have sex with you and how to tell of a woman is a virgin - as if virginity is important.
Very little talks about actual love, how to make it work - unless it is clickbait.
Nigerian men are fukked up.

Dearie... I understand you, but not all of them. Do you wanna tell me that all ladies are saints. NO!

We all choose who we wanna be. Perfect gentlemen still exist out there. its just that good things are scarce.... precious gems are rare.

loooool.... you need a stage


(in jenifa's voice) shiidren of nowadays...

op abegi! no kill person with laugh. You aren't old enough to be a dad but you old enough to manage three ladies at the same time...

you'd have to fast forward into the future ni oo. man up and carry your cross. Pele ti e

this thing is so simple... u don't like... she ain't ready to change... teach her a lesson by leaving her!

or you think you would never find a girl like that again or love like that again, I bet you'd.. cause you aren't the one fucking up...she's... Love is such a good fella that knows how to serve everyone right... It would definitely treat you right.

Abegi don't kill yourself bcs of some one that would live her life long after you're gone...

You've got to sit her down and have this trashed out... You can't just keep mute and expect the situation to solve it self... You guys should talk about it...let her know how you're feeling ....

Just see a doctor...before thing get worse

BREAK UP WITH HER BEFORE SHE BREAK UP WITH YOU. do yourself some good bro.
she is not an ideal woman
Thunder fire such girls...

BTech Urban and Regional Planning

I think you need deliverance... seriously. You need a divine touch

You saw dis in a movie abi?

There's story behind every glory... not trying to sweet talk you or something. it right to get scared at times like this but it wrong to give up.

You'd regret more if you delve into crime, my dear your frustration had not started yet.... you need not to be told that they either get ganged!, spend their lives in jail! or die young!.... you wanna make others cry because you wanna smile... abi? Thunder fire you!

I think you're such a coward, 6yrs n you're giving up already... some family were barren for 24 years n they still stood together... God did it for them....

You need not to be told.... since you read a lot, that what goes round would definitely come back around. DO EVIL AND YOU'D BE PAID WITH EVIL.

I'd say Hope's not lost until life's lost... give up and you've made your predicament lord over you, persevere and someday...my dear a day minus today... great opportunities would come knocking at your door.

just keep on praying n be hopeful. better days are ahead.... Pele

Sorry. Some girls are just like that.... Parasite!

motfun@ymail.com

Have you been hurt so much that you find it difficult to let go, you're only causing yourself more damage.

... Its good to let go of your pains...keep it and it would keep holding you back...overcome it and you've shamed it n you're totally free.

When you don't let go you've giving it power over your life.... It would only allow you more 7steps forward and 6 backwards.

Give life and love another chance.