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Congratulations. This reminds me of the 1st female bank chairman, Mrs Awosika

brain54:
Is that what the op is talking about...?


If say he wear that cap now the story for different abi.


Blind batemeus.


@topic dangote is a proper business man and would openly never show support to any particular government!

Plus tinubu almost ruined dangote's business. The moment he mentioned Malta blending facility, Mr man left him alone

Tinubu-like military

lawjjj:
All these is subject to passing trial and providing concrete undisputed evidences and never by tears. Therefore we are saying the same thing.

This is just a summary of my explanations. Subject to passing trial and providing concrete, undisputed evidence Except on criminal grounds,no Deportation is concluded without an appeal.

hslbroker2:
Sey na woman matter una dey drag today ni, I dey beg, na money matter concern me

I wonder oo. Old tales for that matter. This is 2026. Even women dey hustle like men now

They keep taking off their leaders yet, they don't want to ceasefire. Stop the nuclear program and embrace a regime change to pave the way for the liberation of your people so america can stop dealing with you but you refused. Which kain strong head be dat nah? Abi you wan become like gaza and you'd be shouting genocide again and justice for iran? because the gaza war started this way.

The truth is, America na master any day. You don't dare them. They're trigger-happy people. You apply diplomacy and live in peace. That doesn't mean you're cowards. It's called wisdom. Iran is a threat to the world. I'm surprised why Muslims are defending them. If given a chance, they'd bomb Saudi mosque and kaabah . They've attempted this before. Saudi and Iran never agree. Their version of Islam is different. There was a time Iranians refused to observe hajj in Saudi. How some gullible Muslims forgot this is appalling

mynd1:
Good one from Iran. How can you asked for 48h cease fire only when the war is not favouring you? What happened to permanent cease fire?

God bless Iran joor

Make una dey continue oo. Naso Iran use strong head and dare America until they removed all their key leaders like rodent living inside hole. When you're big, you're big. If you can't beat them, join them. This life no be about strong head. Diplomacy can turn the strongest into a puppet. Iran can opt into this. I would suggest Iran embraces the ceasefire agreement, which centres mainly on giving up their nuclear plans and a regime change. Those are the main contents in the agreement, not that America is saying Iran should stop fighting. It simply means, agree to these terms and we will stop striking you. Iran is the sore loser in this needless war, with almost all their leaders taken off and major facilities destroyed.

Have you seen the documentary of pentagon before? Their jets in their armoury can fight for one year and they'd still have a lot left untouched. It's massive. Im not in support of the war. Nothing like peace. You don't challenge your oga else, youd see what you never wished to see. I hope Iran won't be another Gaza later cos this was the way it started

callmetade:
But president was at jos saying it will not happen again yenyenyen

World best president

You dey mind that liar? We're used to his lies in Lagos already. Na outsiders his lies dey catch

twilliamx:
This are calculated attacks to sabotage this government. May God expose this evil doesrs

They've begun to defend their failure already. I know this would be their last word sabotage . Only failed and coward leaders with their followers often use this word, instead of taking action

Failed president, Failed governors. Sadly, they're all in a failed apc

lawjjj:
I laugh,the problems with many Nigerians is they don't know what is tort

Tort or not, i was talking based on experience. About a friend in Italy and another in Ireland a few years back who were living there illegally. One cited boko haram terrorism as a cogent reason he wouldn't wish to be deported as he'd suffer same fate his relations in Benue had suffered. The other cited he had no family members left in Nigeria and his wife, who was a citizen and their child would suffer emotional disconnect, should they deport him. They were granted asylum. The one in Italy later married a Nigerian from edo state, who was adopted by an Italian reverend sister and moved to Bremen in Germany. While the other secured a work permit which he's been using till today subject to renewal.

Westerners aren't like most of us Nigerians who think shallowly.They give considerations in certain cases. Those arrested in this news won't be deported immediately. They'll be tried. A grave offence committed could be lessened if the offender has enough proof to defend him/herself in the appeal court. A parole or civil penalty could be awarded in lieu of long term imprisonment if already conviced and had served part of the prison terms,etc. All these legal considerations are either not available here or aren't explored. Is it someone who had been awaiting trials for years that would have access to such? A lot is wrong with our legal system.

America can search for a missing citizen at all cost. I remember the way they rescued the abducted US citizen by boko haram,what the Nigerian government had failed to do. They neutralised all the abductors and took their citizen home unhurt

ednut1:
Oyinbo no dey hear begging o

They're not like us. They do. They may even give them the option of appeal. If during the appeal, they're able to prove substantially why they must not be deported, they could be granted asylum

Tinubu is set at rattling whatever union that will knock him out of power next year. He'll continue to try in vain

True. Anyone arguing with the apc blind supporters no get time . They make use of every opportunity to thrive in bad situations in Nigeria. Imagine them stopping crude sale to dangote, the masses' rescuer, so that so that someone's blending facility could thrive. God is watching all of them.
Some people will still mumuciously vote them despite hauling so much hardship on them.

Congratulations, His Excellency Peter Obi/Kwakwanso in advance

Botragelad:
It takes serious guts to do something like that, walking straight into an active enemy warzone to rescue your own people, even getting into a firefight.

I really look forward to this mission ending successfully. You don’t see a lot of militaries going to those lengths to bring their own back. That’s a strong nation right there.

Remember they also came to Nigeria to rescue the US citizen abducted by boko haram in the northern Nigeria and neutralised all the terrorists ? I respect the US defence.

Haleluyah, He's risen Haleluyah

immortalcrown:
Your question is not relevant in this case because my marital status is not what determines whether my statement is true or false.

Alright then, I rest my case

bong4:
You really didn't go to school.

Yes, you really know me well as my neighbour, growing up

It's useless lol. Even dy/dx is never applicable in any situation

seunmsg:
About time they stop grandstanding and face the reality. ADC is gone. Otilo. NDC is looking like a low hanging fruit. It’s a brand new party with no leadership tussle. They should reach a good agreement with Seriake Dickson and move there. However, they should not forget to resign their membership of ADC while on the way out. We don’t want to hear Tinubu is doing you if your babes appear on the register of both ADC and NDC.

Wisdom 👏 👏 👏. Good point. Wise people still dey NL

Tinubu at work. Fight with every pint of your strength. If you give up to their game plans to further impoverish Nigerians by forcing his way in power next year, patriotic Nigerians and the suffering masses will never forgive you.

immortalcrown:
Truth is truth, irrespective of the marital status of the speaker.

I asked you for a reason. Please respond.

Mrslarissa98:
Hello everyone, I need your advice please.
I am half Nigerian. I am married and currently living in another African country with my husband and our two children. Our first child is 4 years old and the youngest is 9 months old.

I was born and raised in Nigeria to a Nigerian father. When I was 13 years old, my parents divorced. My mother took me, my younger brother, and my elder sister from her previous relationship back to her country. Since we left, I have not seen or spoken to my father.

Unfortunately, my mother passed away two years later when I was only 15. Life was very difficult for us because my mother’s family treated us badly, but that is not really what I am looking for advice about, so I will keep the story short.

I got married 5 years ago, and 3 years ago my husband and I relocated to a different African country. We are both involved in business. I run a hair salon while also taking care of my duties as a wife and mother.

When I started my business, my daughter was already 2 years old and attending school, so it was easier to manage both my business and my responsibilities at home. But when I became pregnant with my son, I knew it would not be easy anymore because I would need someone to help take care of him while I worked. I stayed home for about 3 months after he was born, and when I was preparing to return to work, I asked my pastor’s wife to help me find someone to assist me. She had helped other people find help before, and she introduced us to a 19-year-old girl who came to live with us.

At first, everything was going well. She took very good care of my baby. My daughter’s school was close to my shop, so I was the one dropping her off and picking her up. We had planned that the following year we would move her to a school closer to the house so the girl could help with picking her up.

Let me also add that while I was on maternity leave, my husband used to come home around 1 p.m. to eat lunch. But when I returned to work, I asked him not to come home during the day anymore and to start taking food to work instead, which he did.

When my baby was about 5 months old, we left for work as usual. Around 10 a.m., my phone rang. It was my husband saying he was at the hospital with the maid and the baby. I panicked and asked what happened and if my baby was okay. He said the baby was fine, but the maid was the one who was not well.

He told me that he was at work, but he suddenly felt very uneasy, like something was telling him to go home and check on the baby. When he got home, he heard the baby crying inside the room where the maid shared with our daughter. At first, he ignored it, thinking maybe she was changing the baby. But the crying became worse, and he heard a loud bump. He called the maid’s name, but there was no response. When he entered the room, he found her lying on the floor naked, and the baby was next to her crying. He picked up the baby and called the neighbors, who helped cover her and put her in his car. One male neighbor followed them to help with the baby while they went to the hospital.

The girl was unconscious at first, but later she recovered. After she was discharged, I was wondering what could have happened. I asked her if she had any history of seizures or something similar, but she said no. She explained that she could not clearly remember what happened that day. She said that after putting the baby to sleep, she rushed to take a bath, and after coming out of the bathroom she could not remember anything else until she woke up in the hospital.

During the following days, I allowed her to rest as much as possible, and I started taking my baby with me to my shop. It was not easy, but I wanted her to recover.

One day, I came back home and found the house empty. She was nowhere to be found. I panicked and called her number, but it was switched off. I called our pastor’s wife, but she said she had not seen her. She was already aware of what had happened at the hospital. We were all worried and tried to reach her without success. Our pastor’s wife even sent someone to her aunt’s house to check if she was there, but she was not.
After a few days, we found out that she was staying with her elder sister in another town. We felt some relief knowing she was at least with family. We tried to contact her to ask why she left suddenly, but she would not pick up our calls.
Four months later, she came back to the church and informed our pastor that the reason she left my house was because, according to her, ever since she started living with us, my husband had been making advances toward her. She said she always refused him. She claimed that on the day of the incident, my husband came home and met her in the room while she was dressing, forced himself on her, beat her, and she passed out.
The pastor called us, and the girl repeated this in front of everyone. My husband could not deny it and started begging for forgiveness. I was completely shattered. Although the pastor and his wife counseled us and tried to reconcile us, and my husband has been begging for forgiveness, I am still heartbroken. I am no longer interested in this marriage. I feel anger and pain whenever I look at him.

Now I feel like taking my children and going back to my home country. I cry every day and feel very depressed. I really need advice, please help me.

Hear this. Most of the members in this forum aren't as mature as you may think, to handle such a sensitive matter as marriage. I'd asked seun osewa to create a forum for married people a couple of times. Tell members to fill a form where marital status will be indicated or ask them to answer some questions before joining a conversation under marriage , just the way they do a muslim forum by asking if anyone contributing is a muslim or not.

Since the church, where i believe was the right place to handle this matter had already been involved, I think you should limit it there else, your mind would be polluted here by many whose parents are still feeding them and are never married to experience what marriage is all about. Here is a wrong place my sister, if this story is true as narrated cos youd never get the right justice or pieces of advice you need here.

That said, marriage is for better, for worse. I'm sure you too must have erred him in the past and he forgave you. Your offence may not even be in any way related to this but the fact that he admitted his mistake and begged you for forgiveness is enough to forgive him. I'm not against employing a maid but I kicked against this idea when my wife brought it forward. I engaged her fully to take care of our children. No be everything be money. What's the essence of money you're chasing when your home won't be in order later? She was a manager in a leading firm in Nigeria before she resigned. She obeyed me and I was taking care of her needs.

Please forgive and forget and help him in prayers, especially because of what had happened to your mum, so it doesn't hapoen to you and become a lineage curse. Marriage isnt an easy adventure but with God, everything will be ok. Let me shock you with something which was shared with me recently. A woman whose younger brother gave birth via surrogacy took hormonal drugs in order to mimick lactation without informing her husband. They were never divorced. They lived together. It was an arrangement between her and her brother who lives abroad with his wife. They sent their embryo home and inserted it inside surrogate mum who delivered the baby.

One day, her husband walked into the room and saw her breastfeeding the baby after he had been taken away from the surrogate mum and handed over to her for care. The husband was only aware of the surrogacy arrangement and accepted to welcome the baby for the sake of love for the inlaws, the breastfeeding part was hidden from him. The husband was shocked. He reported her to every member of her family and they all condemned the act. She apologised and the husband forgave her. Her family also did.

I've heard another story where the wife had an extra marital affair with another man and the man still forgave her and she never did that again. It takes someone with a large heart to forgive sins. Nobody had had the kind of experience Jesus had had, yet He forgave them. My sister, its not easy to forgive oo but for the sake of God that forgives us our sons, we should forgive and forget and with time, you'll heal.

immortalcrown:
My own advice:

Leaving the marriage is risky. What if he becomes unavailable when you later forgive him and wishe to have him? His action was very wrong. But I advise you to continue with the marriage since he doesn't starve or assault you.

As for him, he should be arraigned ona two-count charges of rape and attempted murder. If at all you should separate from him, let his jail sentence be the cause, do not divorce him.

Are you married ? Yes or no? Your response would determine what I'd say next

HardMirror:
so which system is better? Being a dictator abi? Just like the Cameroon government or central African Republic or equatorial Guinea abi. 😂 Smh. Africans too mumu

If you could find my comment so difficult to understand, what more can I say? Smh. If this is what we practice is what you understand as democracy, where the INEC boss wa compelled to upturn the will of the people and the same man was compensated with an ambassadorial position, then you, understand nothing

Afriifa:
That's how they start and suddenly 50 years after they are still there.

He's right. Democracy can only thrive where there's law and order. We're not practising Democracy in Nigeria. Imagine the military in power. Both the terrorists and their spinsors would have long forgotten they once lived today, including their founder who's a key politician in the apc government

He knows pdp is dead. He's desperate right now as everyone has left him

While one is talk and do, the other is a perpetual liar and the enemy of the masses

We4all:
God will not destroy the world. With the high rate of murder these days, it is humans that will end up destroying themselves.

The reason God felt sad after creating this world, seeing the bad behaviour of man. I wonder what this 14 year old could have done to his enemy that shot him

See her side face tribal mark like the one inscribed at the back of cow as seen at abattoir in agege. Useless gew. I see this as nothing but mockery of the real patients. I hope she's arrested