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Business / Re: See Why Loan App Operators Disgrace Most Of Their Customers by ernie1234(m): 5:19pm On Sep 29
That is how people will treat you...
VeryWickedGoat:
I support loan defaulters.

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Politics / Re: Gunmen Attack Isaac Fayose, Vehicle Destroyed (Pictures) by ernie1234(m): 1:37pm On Aug 30
Voting for those old men is wasted time and effort...............

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Politics / Re: 2023: On Peter Obi, Let Us Verify by ernie1234(m): 7:58am On Aug 11
Trying hard to discredit whom will be your president come 2023...I pity you

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Crime / Re: Police Rescue People From Jungle Justice On Eko Bridge (Photos). by ernie1234(m): 8:02pm On Aug 03
This is an offshoot from the terrible administration of the nation

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Politics / Re: Fact Check: For Every 150 NBA Players, 100 Are Nigerians - Peter Obi by ernie1234(m): 11:51am On Jul 26
Sound Man

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Politics / Re: Tinubu: Until We Have A Good Credit System, We Can't Conquer Corruption by ernie1234(m): 3:13pm On Jul 02
Okay nah. Get the mortgage running and allocate houses to your cronies right?

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Romance / Re: Sex With My Wife Is Very Very Boring, I Need Help by ernie1234(m): 7:11pm On Jun 08
Bro that is exactly my wife you just described. We have been married for 10 years. I had serious issues with her and battled with issues of kissing which she doesn't like, pre-intimacy for where, she only likes direct.
We are both believers so I had to endure it overtime and as we speak now bro, I had to find a way to leave with it bro. I now enjoy her just the way it is and had to enjoy our sex life with 2 kids. My brother It's not easy oh but I had to discipline myself that I die with my wife no matter what.

I fear God so I don't want to engage in adultery or any kind of nonsense with other Jezebel ladies. My advise get used to it. Give her time she will adjust.
Whiteheartbit:
Hello naira landers.
I really need your advice on what to do about this.
Sex with my wife has become so so boring that after it i most often time regret leaving whatever I was supposed to do for it. I mean the feeling of it was not worth it at all cry
I've tried all I know, I've read books and bought some for her to help out for our sexual life, yet the improvement is short leaved.

We've been married for Six years with two kids. Yet from the day we got married I can count how many times I've kissed my wife during or not during sex.
I've called her attention to it, if I managed to kiss her I must have begged my way through.
Like a secondary school chap.
------ I enjoy kissing -------- which she knows, she'll promise making a change yet no Change.

Okay, I've come to understand with her that maybe kissing is not her thing as it is for some women. Fine I don't go to that area any more.

All of a sudden, she's not interested in fore play of any kind, which I love to engage in no matter how badly I want to get in because I want the satisfaction to be mutual, but She just want me straight in.
Many times I'm filled with wondering thoughts while making up with her.
Peradventure she agrees to a pre-intimacy after much bagging and persuasion, it's not more than 5mins with restrictions to some parts. GGGGGGGGGGod!
I'll just be like what is this.

I've called her on serveral occasions if something was wrong, if she was going through any emotional stress or something I could help out with or change, response always negative.

Yet no improvement.

I don't know who to talk to, because I'm a very private person and respects privacy.

I'm doing my best to make her and the kids happy, to the best of my ability as God is helping me.
I'm a very charming and romantic dude, the best I know about myself in that area, which she has also told me.
I've never cheated on her, not once and I don't intend to and she knows.

I had to come up here to seek for help because it's getting out of hand.

To the point that I seek her consent if we can make out for the night ( it's not the top priority in our lives though, but it's necessary) she sometimes come up with an excuse which I'll understand or she agrees but ends up disappointing ( i.e sleeps off or not in the mood) and I get pissed off, because I'm left ganging and she doesn't care. My God!
For about a month it's been dry sex and it's making me feel as if I'm violating her, forcing her against her will.
The very last time it was as if I was making out with a dead body, no sound, no moves, no connection. Mahn o Mahnnnn

I'm at the verge of taking the selibacy way, because that was my vow before I married her.
This sex thing is distracting me.

I need advice, is there something about women I don't known because I've read and researched about women.

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Politics / Re: Lagos Develops Off-Grid Electrification Strategy, Action Plan by ernie1234(m): 12:39pm On May 24
Since it's Lagos, it already ���
Politics / Re: Lagos Parks Leadership Crisis: NURTW Orders MC Oluomo To Vacate Office Complex by ernie1234(m): 8:19am On May 16
The state Lagos, is what is given MC oluomo power to do and undo.

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Health / Re: The Evil In University Of Benin Teaching Hospital (UBTH) by ernie1234(m): 12:25pm On Apr 12
Bro, I stay in Lagos, and never knew it was this bad. Not until my father had health challenge and we had to take him there based on recommendation. Na wah sha
Restroom:
That place is notorious from nurses to doctors and their mom medical staff

Thank God your pops made it . People die like fowl there.

You will see a patient this minute, next minute he is gone. Dead.

That's UBTH for u
Health / Re: The Evil In University Of Benin Teaching Hospital (UBTH) by ernie1234(m): 12:24pm On Apr 12
Thanks Bro.........We bless God.
Johnnycastro18:
It is a Nigerian thing, this doctors, especially the nurses, MOST of them look at patients as if the are dirt's. With no human felling and sympathy. Its so painful that many have died due to this carelessness and attitude. anyway Thank God for your dad.
Health / Re: The Evil In University Of Benin Teaching Hospital (UBTH) by ernie1234(m): 12:23pm On Apr 12
Is it that Bad?
Kestolove:
Come to teaching hospital abuja, you go sabi say benin own na play play
Health / The Evil In University Of Benin Teaching Hospital (UBTH) by ernie1234(m): 11:05am On Apr 12
Hello Guys,

I pray this gets to the front page for all to know the decadence of our health system and medical employees in UBTH

Its quite appalling and unbelievable the inhumane attitude and total disregard for lives in the University of Benin Teaching Hospital. I remember in times past, it was not like the way it is now. You have professionals, empathetic medical staffs and best of care attendants in UBTH. But as we speak now, you will be doing yourselves a disservice or allowing your ward to just die like chicken if you carry any of your family members there.

We never knew it was this bad and useless not until my father had an ailment which required an operation. Oga If you don't have money to bribe the doctors and other officials there, more so getting to know any top medical staff there, your ward is as dead as gone.

It was God that saved us, what you will buy outside UBTH for 100naira, it will be 400naira in the Hospital. Nobody cares about you, you will run helter shelter just to get some doctor to attend to you or else sorry will be your state.

On a final note, we thank God for the surgery carried out on my father was successful and we quickly discharged him or else the way we were seeing people dying everyday due to the non challant attitude of staffs of UBTH was worrisome.

I call on the state or federal government to do a surprise visit to UBTH and see the nonsense happening there. Its an eye-sore and pitiful for patient there. Other private individual can also visit and do their own investigation if what I state here is the truth.

May God help our nation.
Phones / Re: FG/NCC Directive: Has Your Phone Number Been Barred?? by ernie1234(m): 11:38am On Apr 05
It's not just been stubborn, I have linked all my lines but still can't make calls. Went to Glo office at Allen avenue complained and they pleaded that it was their error. Their technical team is working on it...

So it's not entirety our fault. It's the system
Education / Re: Has Anyone Ever Left The University A Virgin? by ernie1234(m): 10:10am On Feb 17
My wife graduated untouched...

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Politics / Re: Convention: APC Writes INEC, Confirms February 26 Date by ernie1234(m): 8:20am On Feb 01
Hope the best candidate emerge
Politics / Re: PDP Blasts Jega: You Contributed In Bringing This ‘Failed’ APC Government' by ernie1234(m): 12:02pm On Aug 03, 2021
Quite true anyways... Jega on the other hand is also saying the truth.... So who is lying here
Crime / Re: Christopher Madaki: Jema’a Secretary, Wife, Daughter-in-law Murdered In Kaduna by ernie1234(m): 3:56pm On May 09, 2021
Oh my country ���
Politics / Re: How Obasanjo, Gumi & Father Of A Bandit Facilitated Release Of Afaka Students by ernie1234(m): 1:16pm On May 06, 2021
APC always in the known
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is BOI Recruiting At The Moment?? by ernie1234(m): 1:07pm On Apr 28, 2021
Scam Alert!!!

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Politics / Re: Hausas Rampage In Lagos As Soldiers Watch by ernie1234(m): 9:06pm On Apr 26, 2021
You try this in Benin where I come from?
I pity your entire family lives...
Yoruba na mouth dem dey...

No level
Family / Re: How Do You Deal With An Occult Family Member? by ernie1234(m): 5:44pm On Apr 20, 2021
Oga if you don't hold strong to Jesus, that your uncle will succeed over time... Bro good and get busy with God q
olabukola:
The above question need an urgent answer to help a friend.

He is of the opinion that one of his uncle's is holding almost all family member down. And many in their family hold the same view. The uncle in question is a PhD holder and a lecturer in one of the Northern or Middle Belt University. According to him the said uncle always brag about how he is the most well to do in family, that no body will surpass him in the family.

I laughed at him( cos I hardly believe in such narrative) while he narrate to me but he was dead serious and the issue is taking a good part of him as he seek for a way out.

Anybody know any solution?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Real Madrid, Chelsea & Manchester City "To Be Expelled From Champions League" by ernie1234(m): 7:03pm On Apr 19, 2021
The world is actually coming to an end

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Travel / Re: Why Is There A Passport Booklet Scarcity? by ernie1234(m): 7:35am On Apr 17, 2021
wd2454418:
If you want your passport today, I will link you up, it won't take more than 5hours u will get your passport. But you will need to travel to one of the remote state in south West. If ready dm me

Please arrange it for me
Food / Re: The ₦5,000 Tortoise I Bought And Ate (Photos) by ernie1234(m): 5:16pm On Mar 02, 2021
Ancestors OK oh
Politics / Re: TI Corruption Index: Reno Omokri Blasts Buhari, Lists 20 Reasons by ernie1234(m): 3:22pm On Feb 02, 2021
Its only a blind and deaf Man that will claim Nigeria is a free country devoid of corruption.... cry cry cry
Celebrities / Re: Pray To Have A Friend Like Bobrisky – Tacha (Pix) by ernie1234(m): 6:27pm On Dec 29, 2020
Should Bobrisky be called a male or female?
Tasha... grin

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Crime / Re: 3 Car Snatchers Arrested In Akwa Ibom (Pics) by ernie1234(m): 1:10pm On Dec 03, 2020
Everyday for the thief..... One day for the owner of the House........
Celebrities / Re: Wizkid: Only Naira Marley Has Sang Songs That I Wish I Were Th One Who Sang Them by ernie1234(m): 5:52pm On Nov 10, 2020
Really

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Politics / Re: Sanwo-Olu Approves Full Resumption Of All Markets In Lagos by ernie1234(m): 3:29pm On Oct 27, 2020
So had it been this unrest did not come up, Sanwo-olu wouldnt have thought so abi?

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