Family › Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ernie1234(m): 8:13pm On May 20, 2020 |
LegitGirl: You’re not a serious person. You’re not the talking type... what are you then, the beating type?
Nonsense and ingredients! Coward! Hello girl are you married? If you are not married, you don't have anything right to comment on this topic. I am not supporting him beating his wife, but when issues start coming up in an unstable home, you need the grace of God to endure not hitting your wife. |
Health › Re: LUTH Denies Conspiring With Patient's Lover To Hide, Loot Him by ernie1234(m): 3:48pm On May 20, 2020 |
Writing letters as if you are the sole custodian of the money.....SHM |
Romance › Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by ernie1234(m): 11:35am On May 18, 2020 |
Mr. Man are you sure you are ready for marriage? So your Mum has now become so low that you even quoted saying you had to caution your mum on what she said by saying if she cant carry the mango she should put it on your head? Oga that your fiancee is still small to know what life and marriage is all about. If you go down the alter with her kind of attitude with no respect for anybody even your mum, i pity you and the kids you guys will have in life... Both of you need to meet a marriage counsellor and set your priorities right before saying the word I DO...... funkmrflexx: We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .
I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.
Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship
But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out
So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.
My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).
That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her
The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.
So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .
I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)
I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her
So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)
But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .
I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house. |
Health › Re: Lagos Discharges Sixty More Coronavirus Patients by ernie1234(m): 6:23pm On May 05, 2020 |
That's a good one from Lagos State.....
We should try to minimize the rate at which new cases are coming up daily. |
Family › Re: I Am Ending My Marriage Because Of These (see Reasons And Give Advise) by ernie1234(m): 4:35pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
MedicH: You both are immature and u Mr man u are very silly and a disgrace to manhood. How is he silly and disgrace to manhood? You type like an individual with no brains? |
Health › Re: Abdulsamad Rabiu Donates Additional ₦3.3 Billion To Fight COVID-19 by ernie1234(m): 4:46pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
How I wish these our billionaires can simply do the transfer of the said donations to individuals accounts through simple BVN.....
As far as I am concerned, it's Audio ohhhh... ��� |
Politics › Re: Obasa Gets N17m Monthly For Maintenance Of Personal Residence, Guest House by ernie1234(m): 4:42pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Fuel Scarcity Looms As FG, Oil Marketers Disagree On Pricing by ernie1234(m): 4:20pm On Apr 16, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Lockdown: Nigerian Man Dies Of Hunger (Photo) by ernie1234(m): 3:22pm On Apr 16, 2020 |
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It's really sad....���
And the very principalities of our governmental structures does not care but are only interested in storing wealth for their 10th generations.
No wahala posterity will judge us all in this nation. |
Politics › Re: Otosirieze Obi-Young Sacked By Brittle Paper After Criticising Hadiza El-Rufai by ernie1234(m): 1:10pm On Apr 16, 2020 |
Northurmate: Serves him right You said serves him right? Are you OK at all? |
Romance › Re: How Much Will It Cost To Conduct A DNA Test? I Can't Believe What I Saw by ernie1234(m): 11:41am On Apr 15, 2020 |
Just get about 100k ready, do the test and make your decision. No need making it public. Be wise wengerboy: Hi guys, I can't believe what I just saw in my wife phone now both her whatsapp and facebook chat, pictures and voice recorder messages.
I want to conduct a DNA test on our 10yrs and only daughter to confirm if she is truly mine.
Women are deadly...Bros make una fear WOMEN. |
Politics › Re: Coronavirus: President Buhari Addresses Nigerians - Live Updates (13 April 2020) by ernie1234(m): 7:17pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Another extension for two weeks still ongoing.. How can we feed  |
Health › Re: What Would You Do First & Differently When Coronavirus Lockdown Is Lifted? by ernie1234(m): 6:35pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Macsjebs: I will try to monitor more closely how my kids develop new traits in their growth and development as a father.
As we countdown to the end of the coronavirus lockdown, one thing is certain - things would be a little different from the norm
Let's share those things we would do first and differently
Here are things I feel would be first & different happenings when the lockdown is over:
1.) Businesses will try to make up for lost times and things may be a little fast paced
2.) Religious leaders will channel so much energy into propagating the 5G and other conspiracy theories in order to justify their inability to render 'spiritual/miraculous' assistance in the fight against covid-19
3.) A good number of broken homes and marriages would be reunited and there will increased cases of pregnancy
4.) A good number of church members would be hesitant to attend large religious gatherings for a little while
5.) Citizens will indirectly be made to pay for expenses govt incurred in the fight against covid-19 through heavy taxes and levies
6.) Prices of commodities will remain a little high for a while
7.) People would still practice good hygiene for a little while like regular hand washing and few others will still continue to wear face masks in public.
8.) Few persons will be richer than they were before coronavirus and there will be a lots scandals and accusations here and there.
Feel free to add yours. |
Crime › Re: Man Killed As Eiye And Aiye Cultists Clash In Ikorodu (Graphic Photos) by ernie1234(m): 11:01am On Mar 06, 2020 |
ollymooreagain: Another Killing Between Eiye And Aiye Cultists In Ikorodu Graphic
His name is idris. He was shot dead yesterday morning around 11:30am @itunmeko junction in Ikorodu. Its very simple.....He who kill by the sword will die by the sword..... Cultism does not pay............ |
Politics › Re: Ore Residents Get Electricity After 20 Years Blackout by ernie1234(m): 1:30pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
Why can't Fashola be president  |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija: I Never Had Sex With Gedoni – Khafi by ernie1234(m): 1:25pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
If by now you don't know this show is scripted, then you guys are all wack |
Celebrities › Re: Pretty Mike: "Heaven Is Certain For Me, Give Your Life To Christ Now" by ernie1234(m): 6:01am On Mar 13, 2019 |
I have this feeling that pretty Mike will soon travel out of this world and never return. All this talk of heaven funny me |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Earn Atleast 5k Daily. by ernie1234(m): 5:01pm On Jun 25, 2018 |
08065056931 |
Romance › Re: Stop Seducing Me,My Body Is Not Yours! by ernie1234(m): 11:35am On Apr 25, 2018 |
My dear I so much appreciate your post................................Though as a man one has to be disciplined bodily, it still requires some measure of decency from our ladies not push out the nature in us.............(MEN).....After all, we are visuals................. |
Nairaland General › Can We Ever Be Equals Even In Lagos??? by ernie1234(op): 8:45am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Good morning Guys, On my way to office through Maryland this morning, I discovered there was posters of different individuals been placed at the middle of the road before you get to the army barracks The posters carried the celebration of Lagos at 50 and how Lagos is doing great. Well that's a beautiful thing because I am also a part of the greatness Lagos has attain and would love to be celebrated. On checking the names of the guys been advertised on the board, I discovered names like Banky W, Olamide baddo, Funke Akindele, Desmond Elliot and other celebrities. But on going through the names, I discovered among the celebrities been advertised, names of ordinary Nigerians were also advertised. But the funny thing I noticed was that the names of the ordinary Nigerians were not mentioned as other celebrities names were mentioned on the bill board. One questions borders me, what difference does it make to simply mention these ordinary Nigerians names to create this sense of equality and ownership of Lagos by all of us  Why the deliberately removal of these individuals names to make them feel irrelevant. Well  It's up to us to make our nation great by having these sense of love,family and togetherness as far as our great country is concerned. |
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Culture › Re: Makeup Transformation Of New Olori Of Ikorodu Land(pics) by ernie1234(m): 7:32pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Na wah sef....... Where is now the real beauty?......Guys look before jumping in oh. |
Sports › Re: Ngoma Luamba Weds In Congo (PHOTOS) by ernie1234(m): 7:27pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Good and welcome to the real life |
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Business › Re: Despite Recession, Business Is Good In Nigeria, Says US Firm by ernie1234(m): 7:22am On Oct 16, 2016 |
Every problem has its under lining solution. Recession a blessing to Nigeria. |
Christianity Etc › Re: OPEN HEAVEN Devotional(thur. 11/08/2016) by ernie1234(m): 4:51am On Aug 11, 2016 |
Thanks bro....... |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Applications Open For Andela Internship Programme by ernie1234(m): 8:19am On Jun 20, 2016 |
miketayo: You just have to be a really good programmer to join So as an Accountant, I cannot join abi? |
Family › Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by ernie1234(m): 9:58pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Simply communication can get it right....
Then put it to God in prayer |