Autos / Re: Toks 2010 Toyota Camry LE Available For Sale 3.2 Asking Price by Erums(m): 3:49pm On Apr 19, 2021 |
2.750...i pick up tomorrow |
Autos / Re: SOLD SOLD SOLD :Toks 2004 Toyota Camry Clean In And Out 1.9 by Erums(m): 2:03pm On Apr 19, 2021 |
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Autos / Re: SOLD SOLD SOLD :Toks 2004 Toyota Camry Clean In And Out 1.9 by Erums(m): 10:51pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
1.6 |
Autos / Re: Excellent 2009 Toyota Corolla Sports With 79k Miles For 2.1m- 07084133615 by Erums(m): 10:35pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
1.8...serious buyer |
Autos / Re: Superclean 8months Reg 012 Camry Revcam 4plugs For Just 3.1m See Pix... by Erums(m): 10:32pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
2.750 serious buyer |
Investment / Re: How Safe And Sound Is Piggyvest Are Their Better Alternatives For Dollars Saving by Erums(m): 5:33pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
Olu14993: Getting usd from the black market and saving dem is kind of a no brainier for me cos u buy from dem at a higher rate and sell to them at a lower rate.
Buh a lesser way of getting usd is if u have friends/family abroad.dey do a direct deposit/wire transfer into ur Dom acct and u give dem d naira equivalent.Dis is a business am into Can you Pls enlighten me on this? |
Family / Re: Who Should Sleep In The Guest Room? by Erums(m): 7:26am On Apr 09, 2021 |
NoToPile:
Where will baby sleep? Its better if mum and baby are together, in this case mum baby and MIL.
You might have to sleep in the parlor since there's only a bedroom available. The extra foam goes to the room for MIL. Ok thanks.. I do appreciate this.... Regards to your family |
Family / Re: Who Should Sleep In The Guest Room? by Erums(m): 6:36pm On Apr 08, 2021 |
NoToPile:
The new mum and baby gets the bed. You might have to get extra small mattress for your mum in law, A new mum or an elderly person can't sleep on the floor.
Thanks... I any my wife tought abt buying a 4.5 bed so we both sleep in the palour.. What do you think? |
Family / Re: Who Should Sleep In The Guest Room? by Erums(m): 6:12pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
Please i need advice, I stay in a one bedroom flat, how do i manage the arrangements, just my wife mother inlaw is coming...
Thanks.. I use a 4.5 ft bed and can only accommodate one person and the baby.. Thanks |
Properties / Re: Help!!! My Engineer Insists No Need For German Floor For My 2bedroom Bungalow by Erums(m): 11:52am On Apr 06, 2021 |
whalleh: Hello people.
I just need some inputs and advice concerning my situation.
I have just completed the foundation for my twin flats (2bed and 1bedroom) and I'm about to take a decision on the German flooring.
Due to cost constraints I have at the moment, I'm forced to think of other options that will possibly achieve the same end results.
Instead of German flooring, I'm considering a 150mm thick concrete layer on the blocks alone throughout the entire foundation. I'm of the opinion that this option will stop ingress of moisture from the soil to the superstructure, prevent insects and rodents from moving through the soil to the roof, offer some sort of atabilizatin for the building and of course drastically reduce the cost associaTed with filling the entire foundation with concrete.
I'll like that you please look into my idea and advise me based on your experience.
Thanks in advance What did you finally do? |
Phones / Re: Who Has Been Able To Unlock The MTN 4G Mifi by Erums(m): 6:42pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
nelson7777: Can anyone unlock spectranet blue freedom mifi
Hello, Have you gotten someone to unlock for you? |
Autos / Re: SOLD ❌❌❌Registered 2009 Toyota Matrix @ 2.650m by Erums(m): 4:44pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
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Autos / Re: Direct Belgium Matrix 2008/ 2009 For Sale Going For @2.9m by Erums(m): 4:43pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Icentautos: Has originally duty nothing to fix just fuel and drive
Location Abuja
Contact 08038427367 Price? |
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Erums(m): 4:40pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
lolibunm: A Toyota matrix car for sale.An American spec.Location Lagos. Contact for price 08106734314 Howmuch plz |
Career / Re: Do I Need To Quit My Job ? by Erums(m): 12:18pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
janetakan:
I probably have one of the most beautiful feet you will ever see. Unlike the females in your life, I am actually very clean.
The hate you feel for a total stranger will destroy you one day. I am still beautiful and happy I'm sorry maam...ure the one with hate and a bitchy attitude.... FYI, those legs ain't clean for someone who's fair... And the ring.... Pls use. A nice tag... Bt im not gonna body shame u... Drop ur full photo.. You ain't worth rating..... |
Career / Re: Do I Need To Quit My Job ? by Erums(m): 7:26pm On Apr 01, 2021 |
janetakan:
Come and ask my toenails. U mean the rotten toenails u posses... Baff first abegg |
Career / Re: Do I Need To Quit My Job ? by Erums(m): 3:52pm On Apr 01, 2021 |
janetakan: How can you be a family man with 85k as salary?
Your wife must be an angel. You better adore her!
The only time you should quit a job is when you have found a better offer. Make out time to learn driving, do not quit your job! What nonsense are you even talking 1 Like |
Phones / Re: How Can I Unlock My Spectranet LTE M022t Device. Please Assist by Erums(m): 3:25pm On Apr 01, 2021 |
Any help yet? |
Phones / Re: Best Mifi In Nigeria? Suggestions Please by Erums(m): 2:44pm On Apr 01, 2021 |
TheCalculator:
There should be newer models by now, got mine 3 years ago, it's black in color with a scree on it, can't remember the model but I could get it for you if you okay with that Cost? |
Phones / Re: Best Mifi In Nigeria? Suggestions Please by Erums(m): 2:37pm On Apr 01, 2021 |
TheCalculator:
Hi, unable to reply with my main moniker u quoted
The ZTE universal mifi is good and durable, used mine for a long while Cheers Model Pls? |
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Erums(m): 2:28pm On Apr 01, 2021 |
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I have new universal for N13, 000 Contact me asap[/qu
Does it support glo 4G |
Phones / Re: Best Mifi In Nigeria? Suggestions Please by Erums(m): 2:11pm On Apr 01, 2021 |
Macsjebs:
Yeah currently using this, I have used Ntel, Mtn, Airtel on it so far, works with all sim but not up to 14k though. My friend at computer village sells for 11k. Can you advise me on the universal mifi to get now? |
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Romance / Re: Why I Have Decided To Marry An Uneducated Woman When I'm Ready by Erums(m): 8:56pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
LordKO:
I only hold brief for sane people, and my post connotes the same. Once more, it's easier for a leader to lead educated followers in any conventional gender-neutral setting than the uneducated. I believe it gets to you when one doesn't agree with your disposition.... I any case, please make a valid argument why it's easier to lead educated people than non educated... Look at the North and the South, who's has better allegiance.. Well I don't think people who talk book print like you... Reality is far from you |
Romance / Re: Why I Have Decided To Marry An Uneducated Woman When I'm Ready by Erums(m): 4:37pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
LordKO: Women (people in general) do not automatically take to evil because of their high educational attainment or lack of it. Where they do, it's because they've weak mental and moral profiles. In fact, higher attainment of education always makes every sane person more refined. And for a fact, every enlightened, confident and fair-minded man knows that it's much easier to have a successful relationship with a highly educated/enlightened woman who has a strong mental and moral profile than an uneducated woman regardless of her mental and moral profile. Just the same way it's easier for a leader to lead educated followers in any conventional gender-neutral setting than the uneducated.
Conquer yourself, as a man, and then choose a woman based on her ethical leanings rather than her educational level. The fact that women are more malleable than men makes it very easy to work and walk with them and bring out the best in them. Only men and women who take delight in meting out evil against others or who are outright ignorant have always wished to have partners who are not enlightened.
Meanwhile, it's absurd that you termed an HS leaver uneducated, whereas one can be educated without experiencing any form of formal education. And who told you it's easier to lead educated pple... Man Pls the agberos has more unity than the union of teachers... Go ask why? |
Properties / Re: Urgent Clearance Sale: furniture's In a Victoria island 5 Star Hotel (with pics) by Erums(m): 10:11pm On Mar 27, 2021 |
lakeside50: Location of items for sale: Victoria island, Lagos state, Nigeria.
Items to be sold: 1 Standing Full body mirror 2 Reading Desk Mirror 3 Reading Table 4 Reading Desk Lamp 5 Reading Desk Chair 6 Coffee Table 7 Room Arm-Chair 8 Window cushions 10 Ceiling LED bulbs 11 Headboard reading light 12 Curtains 13 Sheer Curtain 14 Head Board 15 Bed side & Door switches 16 Bed side Lamp 17 Bed base and Mattress 18 Room & Reading Table sockets 19 Bed side Table 20 Wall skiting 21 Wardrope Closet 22 Luggage Rack 23 Kettle and Base 24 Carpet Price for entire furnitures per room (there are more than 100 rooms): #300,000. ONO
Items/furniture's are in a 5 star hotel on the island, they have a policy of disposing off furniture's every 2-3yrs or less, items listed here are in each of the rooms. Pics attached. More pics will be sent on serious enquiries.
Call 08186161605, 07060495156 for more infos, inspections.
Can the items be bought individually? |
Autos / Re: Contemporary 4bedroom Bungalow Architectural Design by Erums(m): 8:25pm On Mar 26, 2021 |
Gabrokpara001:
Budget between 11-13m Can I do a 3bedroom of this nature for 7m? Considering current market price of materials? |
Family / Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by Erums(m): 7:21pm On Mar 26, 2021 |
Tedpgrass:
Hmmmmmm.
Na true you talk
. So u see.. The motive was evil from the unset... U stay in rent, while u build home for your father who's lived his life alrwdy |
Family / Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by Erums(m): 4:45pm On Mar 26, 2021 |
Tedpgrass:
Things happen.
Not a good reason to divorce Let her learn her lesson You should actively also invest for yourself and children.. Can borrow a leaf from her as she seems to be the hustling type.
Look from the prism of her trying to build for the future if there was to be a strange turn of events.
Keep the love
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.. In her fathers name |
Family / Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by Erums(m): 4:20pm On Mar 26, 2021 |
izito: *
In 2016 she told me her salary was #50.000 And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only #5000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”
I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.
One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. #400,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?
I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.
All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”
She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine.
The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.”
We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?” He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”
My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”
Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”
I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”
I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions.
*What's your take?* Twitter stories bro |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Salary Inquiry by Erums(m): 3:38pm On Mar 26, 2021 |
Angy55:
Hahaha. I already declined. Thanks for the Info.
Come work with me..... |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Good Job After Graduation? by Erums(m): 3:23pm On Mar 26, 2021 |
wevy: 7 years later..got my first 6 figure paying job. All those years of experience on low paying jobs eventually paid off.
To those saying start a business, not everyone is cut out to be an entrepreneur. Some people do better as part of a system! Hi |