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micellgevity:
8 years ago when I just got married, I was happy and everything was going on smoothly as it was supposed to be for the newly weds. Not knowing the challenges ahead. One year gone with no pregnancy. The second year, I became worried and went for series of tests. Hormonal profile, HSG, TVS and many others. Semen analysis was also done for my husband and all the results were fine but not without some fertility enhancing drugs by the doctor.

Few months after, I fell pregnant and I was very excited. But two months into the pregnancy, I began feeling unbearable pains in my tummy, dizziness and bleeding. This landed me in emergency, which almost cost me my life. And guess what? I had a twin ectopic pregnancy. It was unfortunate that this happened after longing to have my baby I had to undergo surgery for evacuation.

As if that was not enough, I had a repeated ectopic pregnancy a year after the first one. It also ended up in surgery. This time, I lost a tube, leaving me with only one blocked tube. How did I know it was blocked? I kept on trying to have a baby and pregnancy didn’t occur. This time, I went for another HSG where the doctor confirmed I had tubal blockage. The doctor said I could only become pregnant through IVF as there was nothing he could do in his power.

What caused the tubal blockage? I was crying and asking in pain. The HSG pain is something no woman should experience. When I went to collect the HSG result few days later, I was not happy and still crying in the doctor’s office, knowing fully well that it would take miracle for pregnancy to occur. The doctor had to persuade me to stop crying and sat me down to educate me. He told me what could cause tubal blockage and the list is endless. Yeast infection, ghonorrea, staphylococcus and many others are culprits that can block tubes. Tampering with tubes during ectopic pregnancy surgery can also be responsible.

Immediately the doctor mentioned yeast infection, I remembered having it regularly. I told him this and he asked me to describe the symptoms. Itching in my vagina, thick whitish discharge with a very unpleasant odour, painful urination and swollen vagina are all the symptoms. I also used to have menstrual pains during this infection and my period would only flow for two days with little drops. I told him all these. There was also a day I went to the hospital to complain about swollen vagina with itching and after examination, the doctor said I had pelvic inflammatory disease (PID) . The doctor said all these were enough to have tubal blockage and fertility challenge. And he advised me to go for IVF.

Where would I get the money for IVF? This was the question going on in my head. I began searching for solution to my tubal blockage online and I came across this site https:///38wpX2d I contacted them and I was convinced with what I read about their product, I placed an irder to give it a trial. Their warehouse is in Asia, so it may take up to 6 weeks to arrive if you order as I waited for 6 weeks for the package to deliver. When they told me this, I said to myself, “I have waited for years before, so 6 weeks can’t be a problem, I will wait”. I placed an order with faith for just 9,087 Naira. I didn’t pay for shipping as it was free. I received my package exactly 5 weeks and a day. I was actually called from the post office in Ilorin to come for my package. I went there and collected it.

Thank God I was not in my period that day, because you cannot use it while on period. So, I started using it immediately. I used one tampon for 3 days, and removed it the fourth day and put another one immediately. I did this for a month and some days. And I had just used 8 out of 20 sachets. What I noticed was that the pain that always accompanies my period has stopped, itching in my vagina has stopped, my period now flows normally for 5 days without any bad odour and it is pure, no more unpleasant vagina discharge, ovulation pain has also stopped. All these looked like a miracle to me. One thing I noticed each time I removed the tampon from my private part us that a lot of whitish dirty materials would come our with it and if I dipped my middle finger into my vagina to clean it, I would be packing more of these dirty materials. I did not know the blockage was opening, the little fibroid I had has pulled, the cyst on one if my ovaries causing pain during ovulation has gone and my tube has also opened. The yeast infection I used to have every now and then has stopped, my libido has improved. And funnily, my “puna” is now tight like that of the Virgin Mary. Lol. It may interest you to know that I was confirmed to be 10 weeks pregnant 5 days ago. That is why I am telling other women trying to conceive my story as this will encourage them not to give up. I wish you all baby dust. Thanks for your time. I am Mrs Tayo from Ilorin.

Dominiondominio:
I’m a 26 years old woman married to a 37 years old man. We have been married for almost 3 years.

We don’t have kids yet and 6 months ago I ended up in hospital with sepsis. The doctors originally thought it was caused by a kidney infection but later found that it was caused by Pelvic Inflammatory disease.

They repeatedly asked about my sexual history but I have only slept with one person in the past 3 years - my husband. I ended up having to have emergency surgery as the infection would not respond to the IV antibiotics they were giving me. I was in hospital for 10 days and have potential long- term damage which will affect my ability to have children.

I recently found out that my husband has cheated on me a number of times throughout our marriage and that the Pelvic inflammation was caused by untreated Gonorrhoea.

When I was discharged from hospital, he admitted that he has been cheating on me with a single mother of 4 (unprotected sex ) And he got the gonorrhea! How irresponsible! I am completely devastated and don't want to believe that the love of my life could be so callous. I very nearly died and if it were not for the brilliant doctors who quickly recognised my symptoms.

Of course the woman my husband got the gonorrhea from denied everything and I bet she won’t go get treated and will continue to spread this nasty and dangerous disease! She is done with having kids so why would she care, right?

Well, I do want to have kids and I won’t let my fertility and health taken away! the emotional damage caused by the infidelity itself is horrible. I feel angry, dirty, and ugly. All I want to do is cry all day. I can’t talk to anyone about it because I feel so ashamed. The person I trust the most is my mother but i don't want to break her heart. I know that to her my happiness matters the most and I think she would be angry at me the rest of her life if I told her that I still love my husband.

My husband feels remorseful and said he would never cheat on me again. He said he would choose me over any lifestyle and that he would give up everything for me. I have a very hard time trusting him again and I still don't know what I want from this whole thing. I just can't understand why my husband would have sex with a disgusting, nasty woman and betray me on so many levels. My pride got hurt so badly. I feel so ugly and worthless. My libido is absolutely gone. I feel empty inside. Then all the sudden I feel horrible, horrible anger and I want to break everything in sight. On some nights I can't sleep and sometimes I want to sleep all day. Most days I'm not even hungry and I have to force myself to eat something.

I feel like I will never be happy again. I used to be a happy, confident, bubbly person, now my zest for life is gone. Is this normal? Will these feelings ever go away?

papaejima20199:
This is my first time posting NL , although I've been reading a lot in the last few months . I'll try to be as detailed as possible. I don't even know if I'm asking a question, or advice, or what. I just have to get some things out of my brain.

I’m 36 and my wife is 32. we've been married for 12 years and have two children, twins age 1. I would say happily married. As in, we don't fight, , never any abuse of any kind, no major life disagreements. I love my wife. She is a great mother, a great provider for the family, and we make a great team when it comes to raising our kids. However, she leaves me feeling undesired. Sexually, just intimacy in general, not feeling wanted or desired, missing that flirtatious quality that we all enjoy in a relationship. Our sex life has been on a steady decline, honestly since we got married. Less and less and less every year, and yes, kids make that even more difficult (and provide very easy excuses)

About 2 years ago, I was close to cheating. There was a girl at work that I flirted with often. We started hanging out , and we always seemed to end up talking, touching innocently, flirting, but nothing ever happened between us. The feeling this girl gave me inspired me to tell my wife how I was feeling, what I was missing, etc. I told her how important sex was to me, asked her what I could change, or if she needed to change something. Her response was that she "just didn't really think about it like you do" and that she would try to work on it. Well she didn't work on it, at all.

The flirty girl didn't work with me any more, and I lost that "flame" with her and let it go, and went about life as usual. I've been working a lot of hours over the last six months. I fell into this flirty relationship with one of my coworkers 22 and we just would have a lot of fun with one another. Mad sexual tension. A few months back things happen and she blows me. Its great. Best sex of my life. We set up plans to meet up off work hours and we do.

My coworker is in perfect shape. Its like my perfect woman. I love the way she loves me. She appreciates me, she satisfies me, she matches my sexual drive, and even exceeds it. She is everything I was missing in life, and I'm as happy as I've been in a long time. She is also crazy about me which feels unbelievable. Its been a while since someone has just wanted me to be happy and wanted to please me. I now consider her my girlfriend.

I don't wish to hurt my wife. But I do wish to be happy.

I do not wish for my children to grow up in a home with divorce. I want them to grow up with myself and my wife still being the team we've been so far, doing equal parts to take care of them, and always be there for them.

I realize a lot of what I'm saying are things that can't go together. I want to be with my girlfriend, I don't want to hurt my wife, and I don't want my kids to suffer . I can't have it all. Now I feel stuck

I need help because I can't seem to go through with this alone, and I have no one close enough with the time and level of trust that I can confide in, so I would really appreciate it if you'd offer me some advice.

Thanks for reading

akpoguma1989:
I travelled to imo state where I stayed at any hotel, I asked the receptionist to get a girl for me to spend the night, during the night we engaged in sex and used condom throughout after sex I discovered that I had a small boil that has burst on my abdomen.

My issue is that vagina fluid came in contact with my boil that has burst on my abdomen, is there any risk of having hiv, I am presently taking truvada but the side effects are much, note that the condom did not burst, am I at risk or just unnecessary worried

Misypee:
My kid bro is having serious tooth problems, i have researched but didn't get tangible results, i want to know how much it costs and the best hospital to get it done

pls fp, this is very important

AmadiAba:
*** Over the coming days and weeks, Okezie Ikpeazu will be methodically and systematically shredded publicly for his blatant lies against our leader Mazi Nnamdi Kanu and the great IPOB movement he leads.

*** Okezie Ikpeazu has been rejected by the public so lying against Mazi Nnamdi Kanu or using his name is the only way to gain relevance and sympathy.



The Indigenous People of Biafra, IPOB, has reacted to a statement credited to the Abia State Governor, Okezie Ikpeazu who called its leader, Nnamdi Kanu a liar.

IPOB challenged the governor to “publish” whatever material at his disposal that will lend credence to his assertion on Kanu.

In a statement signed by its spokesperson, Emma Powerful, the pro-Biafra group, described Ikpeazu and governors in the region as “Hausa-Fulani stooge” masquerading as politicians in Igboland.

The group noted that Ikpeazu, who has been rejected across Igboland only resorted to using Kanu’s name to gain popularity.

The statement reads, “Over the coming days and weeks, Okezie Ikpeazu will be methodically and systematically shredded publicly for his blatant lies against our leader Mazi Nnamdi Kanu and the great IPOB movement he leads.

“It will be in his best interest and that of his Northern handlers to publish whatever material at his disposal that will lend credence to his assertions, chiefly that our leader Mazi Nnamdi Kanu reneged on agreements reached with him and other South East governors during his interview granted to BBC Igbo Service in the Government House Umuahia.

 
“He must tell the world, where, when and with whom he met Nnamdi Kanu. We will not allow him to get away with this bare-faced deceit and lies. Lying has become second nature to most of these Hausa Fulani stooges masquerading as politicians in Igboland especially. These peddling of lies and distortion of facts against Kanu is a well orchestrated plan conceived prior to Operation Python Dance 2 which they the governors initiated with Nnia Nwodo.

“They hoped to use compromised media channels like the BBC to peddle these lies that they had an agreement with Kanu when such never happened. Okezie Ikpeazu is a mass murderer cited at the ongoing case review by ICC at the Hague. He is also indicted in ongoing law suit in the USA. He has been rejected by the public along with his other Fulani Islamic servants at Government Houses across the South East, so lying against Mazi Nnamdi Kanu or using his name is the only way to gain relevance and sympathy. Anybody who believes in anything coming out of the mouth of an Igbo governor or Nnia Nwodo led Ohaneze Ndigbo needs psychiatric help.

“Okezie Ikpeazu failed to understand that the highly respected and foremost constitutional lawyer Prof. Ben Nwabueze was at the meeting between Nnamdi Kanu and Igbo governors which he Okezie Ikpeazu did not attend. We ask between Okezie Ikpeazu and Prof Ben Nwabueze who has more credibility? The truth about how Igbo governors and Nnia Nwodo out of petty envy and jealousy of the popularity and public acceptance of Nnamdi Kanu arranged for Hausa Fulani soldiers to use the cover of Operation Python Dance to assassinate him is well known to the world.

“Okezie Ikpeazu should keep his testimony and evidence with him because he will soon be called upon to give account of his role in the military invasion and abduction of Nnamdi Kanu and his parents from their home. We are placing the world on notice that Okezie Ikpeazu have never met with our leader Mazi Nnamdi Kanu despite the fact that Umuahia government house sits on his ancestral land and his father the traditional ruler.

 
“Gov. Okezie Ikpeazu is an unrepentant liar in the mould of other Igbo Biafra traitors before him. The day of reckoning is fast approaching and when that arrives, there will be no amount of Ghana Must Go bags or Hausa Fulani soldiers to defend them.”

http://igberetvnews.com/430449/breaking-ipob-declares-war-on-ikpeazu-vows-to-frustrate-his-2nd-term-ambition-over-attack-on-kanu/

sirequity:
Video: 2019: Tells Us Nnamdi Kanu’s Whereabout Otherwise We Are Not Going To Vote, Wife Of IPOB Leader Says



News source: https://www.headlineng.com/2019-tells-us-nnamdi-kanus-whereabout-otherwise-not-going-vote-wife-ipob-leader-says/


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pj_2LBL2vCs

escavros:
Lagos is fast becoming a filthy state.

The menace of illicit public refuse disposal was a diseased mammoth tackled in previous years by the Lagos state government, wherewith Lagos resident enjoyed a cleaner Lagos.

The advent of the cleaner Lagos idea began in the earlier years at the emergence of the great visionary of recent times the former Governor of Lagos state Governor. Bola Ahmed Tinubu, and the desire to have a cleaner Lagos was further championed by his predecessor Governor Raji Fashola.

In recent times, Lagos has once again enjoyed the filthy presence of the diseased mammoth, which is gradually ravaging our model Nigerian city, and fast turning every nook and cranny into a refuse dump.

Something has to be done fast!!
It's a state of emergency!!

Please take a snap shot of a refuse dump and tag as #CLEANERLAGOS

This awareness for good begins with us.

#CLEANERLAGOS