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Pope22:
Firstly women over-30 have a lower fertility. If you want to build a family with these type of women be prepared to possibly have a downs syndrome child. 2. When you marry a 30+ woman, you’re marrying her 30+ pe*nises she’s had over her long life on earth. She has more bodies than a grave yard.

Women over-30 are very bitter from the wasted prime spent on failed relationships she hoped would lead to marriage. Now that you’re marrying her, she should be grateful, but she’s not. She’s always just angry.

By marrying a woman over 30+ you are investing everything in a rapidly depreciating pleasure provider that has already lost a lot of its aesthetic value… She will be wrinkled in the next 5 years and already having back problems.

Many guys these days are marrying early 30’s women, and then, almost immediately – Bam!. It’s over almost before it began. Its because you are trying to make ancestors housewhives. Leave these dinosaurs.

Marrying an over-30 woman is like buying a used car 1Km short of its 120,000km servicing. The over-30 woman can fix herself up enough to fool the prospective provider/hubby for a short while, and once the line that is dotted is signed her true colours come out.

Many women who are not married in their late 30s today never saw it coming. They had a plan: finish their first degree, masters, a job, a promotion, make money, be independent and settle down by 30, latest 32.

Over the years, they turn down potential husbands, go on a partying spree like they have frozen time, only to arrive at 35 with nothing to show for it other than a dead end job, a car, and sometimes a child from a relationship that never quite worked out

So, now they are stuck in a phase where they will never find a man of their dreams and have to settle for any man who will be gracious enough to even suggest marriage. By now, all those flimsy and shallow standards they used to have are gone, humility is their second name.

I have seen many women on Twitter in their 20s buy into the misguided, feminist belief that men & marriage are bad for their academic & career advancement. What feminism does not factor in is that the older a woman get, the less a chance she stands of marrying someone desirable.

Very few men would marry a 35+ woman when we live in a highly hypergamous (act of marrying someone wealthier than you) society. There are plenty of young and hot beautiful women ready to settle into a marriage where they play the second fiddle as long as the man provides.

It is good to be ambitious, even better to break the stupid glass ceilings, but at what price? Bottom line, at some point, you will need a man in your life. My experience of having observed women 30+ has proven that they mostly live a life full of regrets.

Let me share with you from my observations the signs that a woman is likely to end up single, and lonely and stay away from these types!!

1. She values education and career over marriage and relationship. She’s always throwing statements like “Marriage isn’t an achievement”

2. At age 30+ she has more liquor in her refrigerator than fruits and vegetables.

3. She can take down more shots than any of her peers at 30+ who have kids

4. She’s into smoking cigarettes and addicted to weed.

5. Her idea of fun at age 30+ is a night out with the girls.

6. At age 30+ she still insists on only dating men based on what their career is. “He’s a lawyer” “He’s a doctor” “He’s an engineer”

7. The idea of cooking for a man is a total turn-off to her.

8. She has never forgiven her father for abusing her mother, or her first boyfriend used to abuse her and she now thinks every man is violent and controlling.

9. She is so much into fashion, and hair-styling she doesn’t want to be identified as being old in her circles

10. Her job involves a lot of travelling.

11. She can easily find a parking spot at Taboo than her way to church.

12. She believes in absolute equality in marriage without any sacrifice or compromise.

Rocktation, lalasticlala

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Who asked you to ask me

Espada10:
why the mention..I am not the reason for your frustrations..

1)that men in your life, use and dump you anyhow as they see fit, how is it my concern?

2)that you are not a virgin , how is my concern?

3)that you lost your viginity over small things like coke and fast foods,how it take concern me?

4) and later the dude that disvirgnid or the dudes that spread your legs like the red sea and cum on your face but will later go on and marry a responsible girl.. how it take concern me?

4) that out of frustration , you now spread your legs over burglary proof ( in your own words) to receive pricks from different men ...with the mantra "what a man can do , a woman can do too" ..how it take concern Espada?..

5) that you always comes to nairaland to form women empowerment on romance section ..to insult, shade and argue with male nairalanders you don't agree with ,out of misery..how is that my concern..na me abuse and disvirgined you?

Madam pocohantas and The OP ,carry una wahahla dey go because

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I can't.

donstan18:
I perfectly understood.

Infact, we perfectly understood, Including him.

DaddyKross:
Your point is ?

Blackhawk03:


I've typed and cleared my comment repeatedly. I'm wordless and speechless, you do that to me always! I can't thank you enough for being in my life and staying true to me always, not minding the dramas and baggage that I tag along. Thank you for being a man, thank you for loving me despite my shortcomings. I love you.

DaddyKross:
When you type the shit they like
"He is soo sweet, 100% husband material, yenyenyen"

If otherwise
"He is backward, anti female, lives in under 15.5 century, yadayadayada"


Women, ode le like

shervydman:
About 1/4 of Amsterdam is reclaimed. 11 cities in China are reclaimed from sea, majority of Singapore is reclaimed from sea, Mumbai in India is majorly reclaimed from sea.... the palm island in Dubai is reclaimed also.

Land reclamation has been going on in d Netherlands since 1300 up till today, yet no record of casualties.

Lagos is about 3,000sq/m... being d smallest state in Nigeria with high population density and d need to cater for its demand is high as well. I'm sure people like u can't stay in eko Atlantic cos it's a reclaimed city but will like to live in "mukahari" in Japan not knowing its a reclaimed community as well.

Niggas fear what they don't understand n hates what they can't conquer, guess it's just the theory of man.

biacan:
I pray she make him miserable....
Guys will never learn just look at how beautiful Alex is....and she is fat in the right places instead of him to treat her like a queen "which she is" he's chasing after a this lady who can't stand Alex in anyway he must reap the repercussions of his actions "Yoruba demon" and for that lose girl called Alex I hope she will learn her lessons the hard way..... Men are heartless

chyy5:
[b] It pains, yes it pains but I have no choice.

lazeal:
I love Akwa Ibom, so peaceful. If only there can be more industries in that state, it will help a lot but sadly, there are not. Yeah, all those ibeju lekki noise no be here. I think it will be hard for people who already own house in Lagos to vacate just like that and if they would move, the closest would be OGUN STATE. People are in Lagos not because they love it but because of the commercial activities that goes on there.

I can tell you that if any state can start developing rapidly right now, people will move. Other state government have a lot of works to do.

Blue3k:
I'm not sure and don't want to give you wrong info. I would have to ask my cousin or something.

Blue3k:
Eket but why not just land in Mbo or Ibeno.

Blue3k:
6 million in Uyo by the teaching hospital. If you want cheaper plots of land judt move futher out of major cities. I think you could get land cheaper by Eket if I remember correctly.

Blue3k:
Depends where you want it. My mom bought some last time I went.

PastorLucifer:
"Every Nairalander knows this is your alternate" yet it was opened on Jan 22, 2018? A few days after I dealt you that public blow your nairaland image is yet to recover from?

Very funny.

Madam stop making excuses and return to your pocohantas moniker.

That moniker has lost crediility and you know it thats why you opened AntiBrutus. No one can take you seriously again after seeing the true, subservient, thirsty, needy, male-dependent hypocritical wh0re that you are.

Coward.




NB: Quit hiding your pain behind grin emojis. It only draws more attention to it.