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Romance / Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by Espada10: 11:04pm On Jun 06, 2018
MyOpinion1:
Anyway after reading some comments here I just laugh and laugh at how illogical some men can reason..........

Most single mothers if not all are victim of cruelty from men and that bitter experience will change their personality totally.... It takes complete and a God fearing men to sit them down and talk sense into them not tagging them as wicked or wayward and trying to shield the men from the blame.
Mind you there can't be a baby mama without a baby daddy

And so what?.

They should go and look for their fellow baby daddy and leave single men alone ..single men are not rehabilitation centers for them
Romance / Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by Espada10: 10:44pm On Jun 06, 2018
openmine:

.....if you get jealous,some ladies will say you are too possessive or obsessive or that you are choking them....if you are not jealous, she will say you don't care or you are seeing someone else!

why do some ladies feel the world must always revolve around them....?

Y
The real question should be why do men always make women feel that the world revolves around them?
Romance / Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by Espada10: 10:22pm On Jun 06, 2018
openmine:
OP ,this behaviour is not only exhibited by SOME single mothers....SOME of the single ladies,esp the pretty ones in nigeria, also have such attitude.....

Initially,very nice,welcoming and humble....after some months,they start trying to figure out how to control or dominate you with some little stuffs.....When they don't succeed with that approach maybe due to your stance,they get emotionally defeated and use the weapon of manipulation just to make them look like the victim or that you don't really love them enough....

Once the manipulation doesn't work out,they will say you are too proud and stubborn (part of the emotional blackmail)....Just to psychologically control your actions towards them...and make you soften your stance....

Once these measures are resisted,they start seeking out other guys whom they can manipulate or bring under their control......

Most of them hate taking advise esp when they know that they are doing what is wrong.....They always believe in calling the shots in a relationship or marriage.....

They want you to eat this food,buy what they want,wear what they like and say what they want to hear.....

They never bother to know what you really want or like simply because these set of ladies always have a "sense of entitlement "......always the "Me syndrome"....!

The funny and interesting part is that these same ladies,in spite of all these behaviors,will even love and desire you more due to the fact that you can't be easily disarmed or controlled by them....

Well thank God for your life but just know that this attitude is not only displayed by single mothers....

I just want to say I am one of the people that gave you a LIKE

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Crime / Re: Teacher Who Stabbed Husband To Death In Lagos Remanded In Prison by Espada10: 9:57pm On Jun 06, 2018
mimimile93:


[/b]locking her up is DANGEROUS. She's a threat to other inmates.. Let her be killed asap

You are right

My bad

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Celebrities / Re: Gbemi: "Date Women Who Earn As Much As You Do" by Espada10: 9:56pm On Jun 06, 2018
*Even when my salary was only 5k years ago , I never asked any dude for money

Crime / Re: Teacher Who Stabbed Husband To Death In Lagos Remanded In Prison by Espada10: 9:18pm On Jun 06, 2018
Lock her up and throw away the key.

If every man start killing their wives for nagging and domestic and emotional violence...there won't be any woman left and society won't try to justiy that evil
Romance / Re: Corper Caught Having Sex With Another Guy After Fiance Sent Her 200k - Twitter by Espada10: 5:14pm On Jun 06, 2018
Wiseonetemmy:
I have promised not to comment on threads like this but the urge to put out the truth is very compelling. I drive for one of the transportation companies in Lagos. Guys listen to this. You think you cheat? You think u are smart with it? Answer is BIG NO?
Most of today's ladies are glorified prostitutes. I can defend this anywhere. I can state countless examples of ladies hugging and kissing a guy before she embarks on a ride only for her to change destination to another guys house or hotel. These are not runs girls o! Average girlfriend looking girl.
So guys the next time she confronts you about cheating, check well she is using reverse phycology on u.

I love that bolded statement
Romance / Re: Corper Caught Having Sex With Another Guy After Fiance Sent Her 200k - Twitter by Espada10: 5:11pm On Jun 06, 2018
Simplep:
She's a very bad friend......BTW girls shud learn how to close their legs for Christ's sake and stop disgracing some of us dat are still very faithful

How is she a bad friend?
Romance / Re: Corper Caught Having Sex With Another Guy After Fiance Sent Her 200k - Twitter by Espada10: 5:02pm On Jun 06, 2018
IamD18:
>Ask them to send their account details, they'll do it without asking about your sisters and mother's well-being.
>Tell them how beautiful they are, they'll smile without asking if you've appreciated your sisters and mother's beauty.
>Buy them gifts, they'll accept without asking if you've bought for your sisters and mum.

>But, tell them the bitter truth that they are hoes and prostitutes disguised as girlfriend, they'll then remember you have sisters and mother. Why? Because they are naturally selfish and only wants to take good glories alone.

But that's what they are, hoes, lovepeddlers, cheap sluts and prostitutes disguising as girlfriends.

The earlier men know this the better for them, girlfriends are packaged hoes, no matter the amount of money you give them, they'll still spread their legs for different men. If you must spend on a woman in your life and end up not regretting, spend on your mother, sisters, wives and daughters. These hoes don't worth the stress and expenses.

Be that man who sleeps and dump these hoes without giving them a dime, not the man who over-spend on them and still get cheated.

The only place hoes and prostitutes can get their legs closed is in their graves No matter the amount you give them.

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Romance / Re: My Girl Has Never Demand Anything From Herself.. by Espada10: 12:05pm On Jun 05, 2018
If the girl is not from a rich family...then my guy you are the substitute player in her team
Family / Re: ‘I Mistakenly Cheated On My Wife With Her Kid Sister’ by Espada10: 11:56am On Jun 05, 2018
1)when a woman says she is joking ..she is not
many men tend to underestimate that nonsense

2)if this story is even true then your marriage is Over...everything you are doing is just medicine after death.

3) “My wife suddenly just fired my driver and gate man without informing me about it, I came home and she told me that they insulted her.


This quote shows that you are successful man that is doing well..You have a personal house and can afford a driver and a gate man ..so you can be able to move on easily..If you know you know

4) Personally , I have a feeling that your driver and gate man didn't just fvck your wife they also fvcked that your SIL. ..and your slutty wife( who cheated first with 2 men) also found out and fired them .


So bottom line

Send her packing

MOVE ON ..YOUR MARRIAGE IS OVER
Celebrities / Re: Lilian Esoro In Sexy Oufit To Golden Movie Awards (Photos) by Espada10: 4:56pm On Jun 04, 2018
She will only end up a as another side chick to another married man

Wait and watch

Romance / Re: Pls How Can I Be A Man Enough In A Relationship...? by Espada10: 9:48am On Jun 04, 2018
[quote author=donstan18 post=68138466]It's either you are broke, or she took your virginity with an electrifying sex that's making you worship and impress her.


My advice is this; Stop disturbing our peace sir.[
/quote]

The bolded sha

Romance / Re: Man Forgives His Pregnant Fiancée Who Cheated On Him With His Brother by Espada10: 9:41am On Jun 04, 2018
grin

Romance / Re: 'Any Man Who Wants To Marry Me, That Cant Cook or Wipe me Must Be Mad'- Lady Say by Espada10: 1:10pm On Jun 03, 2018
Spoiler alert!!!

She tweeted all this from her BF kitchen

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Romance / Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Espada10: 12:54pm On Jun 03, 2018
Mrmourinho:

My Mum Is A Lawyer And A Relatnship Counsellor, U Cnt Just Label Her A Lesbian, Get That Into Ur Head!!!

He he he

So you are saying lawyers can't be lesbian?

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Romance / Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Espada10: 12:52pm On Jun 03, 2018
darkchild64:


In like manner Nigeria's unfair treatment towards gay people is what would develop our country, I like your reasoning

no element of sense !!!!

You are still making my point for me ..olodo

The point is that whether we accept gays or not...It has nothing to do with civilisation or our economy.

So we all should stop playing that card that it is because of it that Nigeria is not yet develop or whatever.

Nigeria was backward before Christianity and Islam and it is still is after them.

Even, Some are saying we should remove religion from our constitution .

The point is that it doesn't matter.

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Romance / Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Espada10: 11:53am On Jun 03, 2018
smeag0l:
I bet you won't be making these kind of statements if I was a Russian or Chinese. Those economies are well developed and the Chinese economy is even more stable than that of US yet homosexuality is banned in those countries. Do not draw an analogy between sexuality and economic improvement or civilisation. It is baseless!!!

Exactly ...even when Britain was world power and colonised more than half of the world..homosexuality was banned during that era and in fact death was by hanging and beheading.

America achieved everything they achieved when homosexuality was illegal and banned.

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Romance / Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Espada10: 11:43am On Jun 03, 2018
KevinDein:
Amazing that after 9-10 pages not one pro-gay commenter has been able to counter some of op's salient points. They just kept repeating the following words;
Hypocrite
Uncivilized
Umexposed
Backward

Op, thanks for this thread.

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Romance / Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Espada10: 11:40am On Jun 03, 2018
Mrmourinho:
I Will Neva Take Dat Number 2 4rm U, My Mum Uses An Anklet On D RIGHT LEG Same As All My Younger Sis, Does That Mean They Are Lesbians??

YES
Romance / Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Espada10: 11:35am On Jun 03, 2018
Checked86:
1+1 =2. i.e, if you are dating a lesbian, try and make her comfortable with you. One day, just one day, you will be dating two women or more that know about each other or one another and still feel cool about it. That is how mathematicians think.

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Travel / Re: Drop Box Visa Applicants Say U.S. Is Revoking And Cancelling Valid Visas by Espada10: 8:28am On Jun 02, 2018
OfficialRasheed:
Ibidapo and Femi should sit their asses here in Nigeria and enjoy the Buhari government their people voted for and the one Nigeria they want to die for.
No escape route

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Family / Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by Espada10: 7:06pm On Jun 01, 2018
The only solution to your problem is to sleep with her too

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Family / Re: Meet Fortune Ibe, The Tallest 15 -Year-Old Teenager In Nigeria by Espada10: 8:22am On Jun 01, 2018
Older women and evening newspaper no dey play with this kind dudes oo.

Dey fit do juju on top him head

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Romance / Re: Is It Right To Pay back My Ex This WAY? (PART 2) by Espada10: 10:36pm On May 31, 2018
The way klaus of the original looked at Elijah when he killed a witch inside the church( by removing her heart) ....is the way I am looking at you now

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