Romance › Re: “when You Collect Good Preek, You’d Just Be Blushing Like An Idiot” - Lady Says by espn(m): 6:27am On Oct 08, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: I Asked Him Why He Refused To Sleep With Me, Gh Lady.(screen Shots) by espn(m): 6:22am On Oct 08, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: Forgotten Facts –the Day U.S And Nigerian Soldiers Jointly Kicked ASS In Somalia by espn(m): 10:54pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
NICE 1..WAITING FOR PART 2 |
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Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo Poses In Just Bra To Mark Breast Cancer Awareness Month by espn(m): 4:32pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
SMELLOS...GRANDMA FORMING SLAY QUEEN... |
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Music/Radio › Re: Phyno Ft. Olamide - Augment (Video) by espn(m): 3:43pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Reverend Father And Sisters Drinking Beer (Photos) by espn(m): 9:26pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
Yeligray: don't compare muslims to christians cuz we don't crave for blood the way muslims do, killing and destruction is their hubby.. yes that's true don mind those Muslims jor.. dey like killing like the one that happened @ LAS VEGAS! |
Culture › Re: Origin Of The Name Bello?! by espn(m): 11:14pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
mrlaw93: All tribes call their father papa.. watz d origin? Your question is same as someone asking why the sky is blue.. nah u r wrong..all tribes dont!! |
Romance › Re: Twitter User Attempts To Shine, Plays Her Penalty To Throw-in (pics) by espn(m): 4:15pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
trying to form holier than thou..but she got trapped. |
Romance › Re: Ladies If You Were To Ask A Guy Out, What Lines Or Moves Would You Make? by espn(m): 6:13am On Sep 19, 2017 |
julietkcee: I like you... Will you go out with meh...
FYI.. neva tell a guy yhu like him.. Go out to where? To go buy puf puf or what? FYI- No big deal asking a guy out..it all depends on individual mind set. For me I take ladies that comes so easy serious (Not pay me for sex oo) cos I wouldn't want her feel cheap or used..My longest relationship of 7 yrs started from a simple hi..we met on d street..we bonked 1st meeting (she was a Vee)..She came so easy..buh I loved her than anyone I have ever met. |
Family › Re: I Just Cut The Cord With My Father by espn(m): 3:00pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
Beverly1: Hi fellow Nlanders
I was born into Catholic faith and practice till I was 12 and I enjoyed it. My parent became deeper life member while we were living apart and now a pastor in that church. I re-united with them when I was 12 and since then I've been attending the church with them and still attend Catholic occasionally....I love the preaching from the founder of deeper life as he preaches the bitter truth but I believe most other young pastor see d church "doctrine" as commandment and so must be kept 100%.....the founder of the church addressed this issue several times but NO.
18 years on since we re-united, I'm a graduate, married and living abroad but my father still forcing his believe and doctrine on me. I considered myself spiritual but not so religious. I connect with my God easily but not a 3G church guy.
He made me and my siblings antisocial and introverted simply because he believed we shouldn't be involved in any social activities even sports. I still remember being beaten for playing soccer, he believes we would be influenced badly. Watching TV was a crime especially movies.
Fast forward to yesterday he rang my wife to check on us but the first question he asked was if we attend to church. I told him it's been raining and temperature was really low....then he started lamenting asking if I won't go to work if it wasn't Sunday,complaining about the country where I can't worship God...then to get me more exasperated he asked and insisted I tell him how many time I've been to church lately and how many times I've read d bible....I told him we've been attending but he insisted on a number.
This got me so mad that I stood up for myself under a heavy breathe as I do not want to disrespect him or hangup on him.I told him I do not appreciate being asked questions like a 10 yrs old boy and at my age I should know how to live my life and what's best for me.....he got angry and said goodbye and I guess he was still on d phone but I didn't know...I just hang up.....Now I've block him from reaching me ... planning to change my numbers.....but not any financial support. Only cutting all communication with him but not with my siblings as they mean more to me and I wanna see them through as much as God help me...
Please is this not an over reaction because I loved him as he's a very responsible man who puts the family first and strived to make us who we are. But we do not av a close relationship because of his believe even though he's been forcing it. Pick up your phone and call him..suppress your anger...swallow your pride..you have been managing him for years even when you lived together.. Apologize to him...let him realize you were wrong hanging up the phone on him. He is only over-protective and wants the best for you. You definitely know what is right for you but do it wisely and dont let anything come between you and your father. Remember he had strived and sacrificed a lot to make you who you are today. The only sacrifice you have to make now is to keep managing him and keep him happy. |
Jokes Etc › Re: Hilarious Snoop Dogg Look Alike by espn(m): 11:22am On Sep 18, 2017 |
drunkcow: No but your english resembles thrash Oga apply sense at least.. It is obvious am making jest of the OP grammatical blunder. |
Jokes Etc › Re: Hilarious Snoop Dogg Look Alike by espn(m): 10:38am On Sep 18, 2017 |
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Celebrities › Re: P'square Breaks Up Again? "Nyash Go Open You'll Know Blood Is Thicker Than Juju" by espn(m): 8:00am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Der fucking problem |
Celebrities › Re: Did You Know That Dinosaur In Google Chrome (offline) Is A Hidden Game ? (PHOTO) by espn(m): 5:01pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Oga go and sleep..see as u dey scream like say na new thing..We play dis shit everyday! |
Politics › Re: Northern Youths In Kano React To Clash In South-East (Photos) by espn(m): 1:37pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
No time for unnecessary hatred.. 1 love is all I preach... Lets fight our corrupt leaders.. |
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by espn(m): 10:04am On Sep 16, 2017 |
Right now am listening to "ORI" by DECENT..best naija song so far dis 2017 |
Celebrities › Re: Who Is Your Artiste Of The Year? by espn(m): 9:58am On Sep 16, 2017 |
aauflash: Who is your NIGERIA artiste of the year? Dont spoiled the Fun let headies get to know about this my artiste of the year is "DECENT". Who dropped his latest single titlled "ORI" which is the most sensible song so far th year..but unfortunately Nigerians do not like good songs.. Even MODS on Nairaland find it hard to push the song to front page.. Na so dem go dey favour some people over others.. |
Forum Games › Re: Great Riddles That Will Make You Think Outside The Box by espn(m): 9:02am On Sep 16, 2017 |
Explorers: Five men are going through the street.
It starts raining.
Four of them start moving faster.
The fifth man makes no effort to run from rain, however, he stays dry.
The other four get wet anyway.
All of them arrive at their destination together. The fifth man was in a car..it was raining so he couldn't drive fast..while the other 4 were moving fast..at t en the both got to der destination the same time. Note that my assumption is based on th fact that the riddle didn't say if they were walking or driving...It only states that they were going through the street(the means of transportation was not included)
How could this be possible? |
Forum Games › Re: Great Riddles That Will Make You Think Outside The Box by espn(m): 8:56am On Sep 16, 2017 |
Explorers: More Pawpaw..Grape..water melon..so many things fall into dis category..You peel der back..eat the fruit itself a throw away the seeds.. |
Education › Re: Amazing Facts From Around The World You Won’t Believe Were True by espn(m): 7:34am On Sep 14, 2017 |
elantraceey: Are you serious @ Mario.... I played that game a thousand times so how come I never noticed Wow
I think I need to take a trip to Jupiter, what do you guys think? 
Really interesting facts op.... some are still unbelievable though.... I wonder why anyone will buy a blank so called piece of art I knw d park where they load pax going to Jupiter.. |
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Education › Re: 10 Times Nature Made Us Say “NOPE” (VIEWERS DISCRETION) by espn(m): 6:36pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
lordraiden: am sorry accepted..we are together bro..1 Luv.. |
Romance › Re: “I Need A Husband Who Wears Gucci And Drives Ferrari” - Nigerian Lady Says by espn(m): 9:30am On Sep 12, 2017 |
sekxyqueen: because a girl escaped yabaleft makes all women parasite?? No vex..talk to a sis wey don run MADT....Na she make the guy para for all women... |
Education › Re: 10 Times Nature Made Us Say “NOPE” (VIEWERS DISCRETION) by espn(m): 8:11am On Sep 11, 2017 |
lordraiden: if all those stuff are normal that means you are not normal All normal stands to be my opinion.. you don't have to quote me...if you have to why the insult? |
Romance › Re: Siamese Twins In Vicious Legal Battle Over Right To Masturbate by espn(m): 7:39am On Sep 11, 2017 |
Pics pls... |
Education › Re: 10 Times Nature Made Us Say “NOPE” (VIEWERS DISCRETION) by espn(m): 8:01pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
All normal... |
Romance › Re: 4 S£x Positions That WILL Make Her ¢um by espn(m): 9:36am On Sep 07, 2017 |
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