₦airaland Forum

Lol I'm fvcking Lmfao

Dredgemaster:
. This is just one out of a million problems we battle with everyday, no light, no water, no jobs, insecurity everywhere, no accommodation, poor roads, poor education system that's still getting poorer by the day, cultism in our schools and even on the streets, its difficult to pay 30,000 minimum wage but easy to allocate over 19 billion to some few individuals to buy furniture, where do we start from?

It starts with appreciating life. Vladimir put in said this last week. Africans don't value/trust one another

cybriz82:
People are just there minding their bizness n taking photo..they didnt evn atlis try to push d container..naija too slow.this is why i love d yankee.

Too late to push the container

Chidonc:
calm down bleeped up scammer.

As you label me for what I'm not
You will carry a label that will attract rejection. Enjoy

Dredgemaster:
. Avoidable deaths everywhere everyday, yet no solution in sight, may the souls of the departed RIP

There are pallatives that can be employed to avoid such occurrences. We have Lastma on the road, the state govt should order Lastma with power to control and inspect these guys. U latched trucks should be arrested. Trucks without brakes banned from the roads, trucks beyond certain number of years banned. Emergency road repairs permanently in routes where containers pass often.

Nodogragra4me:
Containers are not just dumped on flatbeds. You might not see chains around but it is latched... That is the reason you find some square grooves and openings around the base of containers...those are the point of attachment to trucks


Bad road that makes trucks wobble from side to side is the cause of most of the incidents of containers falling off trucks...once they start wobbling, the turntable is affected and before you know it, it forcefully yank off the bed from the tractor

I know all these trust me 80% of containers on the roads aren't latched I've been monitoring containers for over 6 months now. If there are well latched, it won't fall the way it did in this case, the orderly fall I. Plies it wasn't latched at all

ibkayee:
At all

Healthy marriage must be intentional. Now I've got couchy to eat. Bye

ibkayee:
I’m just happy you suggested a practical medical solution and not just prayer lol

Smh. Too much nollywood is affecting you?

ibkayee:
I dont know if you’re toxic or not, I just used it as an example for a reason to leave a marriage

Lol you missed the point where I mentioned exhausting avenues and divorce being an option but not necessarily the first/default option

Repetitive negative behaviour needs psychiatric attention.

ibkayee:
As what?

Whoever said I was toxic.

You missed the OP's position. If ladies don't separate from root families even during heated times. Why not resolve issues in a marriage. Why is exit the default approach to fixing issues


Oh and for the books, I'm clean, suave, posh, polished, refined. I'm your dream man

ibkayee:
Too much focus on how to tolerate BS, not enough energy on acknowledging the faults of the offender or correcting them. Lol guy, I’m not dictating how your wife should be, if you like marry someone who will gladly suffer through the toxicity with you, that’s not my style and I have a right to live my life the way I want, no?

I'll live with you na

Our fathers cheated on our mums every Friday no divorce. As long as ration back at home doesn't reduce. Women leave is o

Acidosis:
What about the option to pick sensible partners since we all have the freedom the generation craves for?

Guy these ladies in this generation are disturbed. Even if they married Jesus na divorce go end am las las

ibkayee:
Aww, drink milk, you go dey alright

Which milk kayee

ibkayee:
Lol I’m not guwop dear, guwop is Gucci mane

Abuse
Infidelity (depends on the extent, amount of times etc, if we have kids)

Those are pretty much it, that I can think of anyway

Work on your staying power. Focusing on positives increases this. Staying away from mentally disturbed people would avert all forms of abuses to an extent. People ought to know how to communicate effectively without any form of manipulative strategies or abuse in a marriage

ibkayee:
Lol this guy

.

ibkayee:
Default flight approach suggests it will be the first thing I do, that’s not necessarily true. It’s an option after exhausting all avenues depending on the offence

Like what. Rat poison


Withdrawal. From sex?

ibkayee:
Lol I’m not understanding how you’ve concluded that I can’t handle success

What’s my career about?

How did we go from me saying I don’t need my husband’s money to fall back on in the case of a divorce to I find my career better than building a home for my kids? Lol you’re all over the place

Yes. I'm all over the place o. I'm even in your room now. I won't allow you be saving for divorce for a fight that hasn't happened from what I give to you never. You either stop working and manage the home or forget about this marriage ( Meanwhile you're 39 with no more suitors besides me) Manipulation rocks baby

Bossjakande:
Modern life kill u dere

Lmfao


Where is DukeofNZ

ibkayee:
Succeeded to the end or didn’t have any other choice?

People will end up with useless partners no matter the generation, difference is the option to leave

That's the problem. Containment. The ability to be successful yet be grounded emotionally not to have a default flight approach to issues but a fix it approach. You know I was thinking about this deeply tonight and I have a partial solution. Ibkayee you must stop working and depend on me Nothing from me, you can't survive. This way you'll sit upj

ibkayee:
Why do I need to be saving his money for upkeep when I have my own career and money to fall back on?

See why I say you can't handle success. What's your career about again. Taking wrongly parked car numbers . And you find this better than building a home for your kids.

Very soon we'll be booking ladies. Ibkayee I book you for my nephew once you break up with King

AmazonTopaz:
Men can't do without women.
But it is very possible for women to do without men
So las las na una go tire

If I tear you hot slap. I haven't touched couchy in a while. We can do without you. Olosho is there

ibkayee:
To me it’s being realistic

Double mindedness. So when king gives you money for upkeep you'll be saving money for divorce abi babe

AmazonTopaz:
Men treating women like trash when they have made it is your definition of success.
A proud person cannot manage success and many men fall into this category

Issa lie. You people no worry. We will deal with you all. Las Las we will all be alrite. Surrogacy all the way. No lady will take my brothers for a ride. None

AmazonTopaz:
The truth is many of you would not like to emulate your fathers but want women like your mothers.
Why is it that fathers of old were terrible?

My father was amazing o. Leave thrash for lawma. Ladies can't manage success. Small thing na divorce. Cause of small change. Electricians and all what nits would now be greasing the engine. Chai. Men have suffer

ibkayee:
Hi

I go tuck you pencil

ibkayee:
Difference between having a divorce plan and hoping for/giving the best to your marriage but also seeing divorce as an option if need be

That's sick babe. Face it. It's psychotic. Ever heard about been careful about one's thoughts as it has the power to force circumstances to play out as thought

ibkayee:
Average woman of old didn’t have much a choice, times have changed

Ibkayee

AmazonTopaz:
Lol, I agree with you.Life should not be that complicated. We just like complicating things for ourselves
Only frustrated people compare us with women of old.
I wonder when men of today would start comparing themselves with men of old.

Men of old and now haven't changed as much

Bossjakande:
check how dey live now.dey are d ones DAT are not responsible. dey carry DAT stupid lifestyle into marriage.smiles.vu no why am happy? dere are still some girls wit sense who dont do follow follow.dey no wat dey want in life.guy dont just date anyhow girl wit useless mentality. marriage aint about boobs yansh or pretty face. if u no get beta thing for brain den you get out of my life.

Following these ladies is sure heartbreak so I won't use emotions with them. Lai Lai. I'll use their emotions to run the relationship and keep my own


MissJoy29

ibkayee:
Lol not understanding

Guess what. I'm going on a date with this amazing British chick that's got very strong chemistry with me. The family already loves me. So I'm taking her to a sweet place on the island to wine and dine. Guess what I have a divorce and marriage plan in play how sweet. People having divorce plan even before marriage is sickly.

ibkayee:
Lol no time

Once I’ve exhausted every avenue I am personally willing and patient enough to take, I’m out and I really dgaf.

God hates divorce but he’s supposedly ok with abuse and infidelity in Nigeria

That your bum. Smh. Our mothers built their homes