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Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by essenceplus: 12:05am On Jun 16, 2019 |
ibkayee: Smh. Too much nollywood is affecting you? |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by ibkayee(f): 12:06am On Jun 16, 2019 |
essenceplus:At all |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by essenceplus: 12:07am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by ibkayee(f): 12:08am On Jun 16, 2019 |
essenceplus:Lol odabo |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by Mstick: 12:10am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Please nobody wakes up and decides to divorce, there must have been series of events that led to that. Divorce isn't cheap and easy, staying together when things ain't working is. My mom left my dad after 30 years and we (my siblings and I) wished it had happened earlier. Their marriage was a battlefield and the whole church and family meetings didn't make it easier because no matter what my dad does heck even if he broke my mum's head she still had to beg even when its glaring that she wasn't at fault. My parents divorce was the BEST solution to their wars because now we can relate with them individually unlike before. My point is this; sometimes staying together for the sake of the kids isn't really always what's best for the kids. Bossjakande: 8 Likes |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by ibkayee(f): 12:12am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Mstick:Well said 5 Likes |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by Mstick: 12:15am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Thanks. Nigerians need to understand that there's more to life than marriage. ibkayee: 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by Bossjakande: 12:16am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Mstick:u sound matured am so tired right now well chat later. |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by yeyeosoronga: 12:52am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Bossjakande: With your kind of anger, no woman would want to be with you. Na divorce straight.. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by Nobody: 1:30am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Acidosis: Succeeded is a relative term. I have an aunt who went through an exceedingly difficult marriage. She and her husband had fights all the time. They are still married, she is over 70 and they had five girls. Only one of those girls is married today. The rest are over 40 successful career ladies, but more or less completely uninterested in marriage. That is their parents legacy to them. A lot of us put up with things and at the very end look back and realize we wasted our lives. There's a story 9f a journalist who had a violent wife on fp. They divorced after 5 years. Would you advise the man to stay in a lifetime of domestic violence? Is that an environment in which you want to raise kids? How many of those women of old would marry the same man if given the chance? 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:49am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Bossjakande:Your mentality is so redundant. If na me cheat you go advice my husband make him stay?Yeah I am very selfish when it comes to my wellbeing. If you break the rules I am done children or not.I do not want my kids to grow up in a toxic environment. Don't tell me you do not understand what abuse is Don't worry if your wife does it put up with her. 1 Like |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by JoannaSedley(f): 7:12am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Apparently, women are wining and the men are whining all over town about it. Marriage is becoming a choice not a must nowadays with divorce a viable option. The old newspaper shaming is no longer working again. Now they have resorted to blackmailing women on how divorce is demonic without sparing a thought on their fellow men who most times instigate the divorce proceedings. Men will cry taya. The paradigm shift just started as most women don't give a fvck what society thinks anymore. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by yeyeosoronga: 7:18am On Jun 16, 2019 |
JoannaSedley: Emeka Ike the actor comes to mind. The man can whine for Africa... 1 Like |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by Nobody: 8:46am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Acidosis: Sure, an archaic and misogynistic man like you will want a woman to stay irrespective of what you dish out to her . The kinda words you’ve spoken on this forum are very disheartening and embarrassing. African men need to be excommunicated from this earth ..smh 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by Nobody: 8:51am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Op, stop using redundant texts on this forum . If you can’t make simple sentences in English or Pidgin, start typing in Yoruba ,Igbo or Fulani . You’re gradually becoming a nuisance on this forum 7 Likes |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by miib: 11:41am On Jun 16, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: The OP is a learner!! That he has never seen a happily married divorced woman or man! Op must still be a boy for saying this! Wetin He don see for this life sef!! 1 Like |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by ebonyggurl(f): 12:10pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Bossjakande: when you eventually marry and have kids....then your daughter marries and finds out that her husband has a hidden abusive nature, you'll tell her to remain in the marriage abi...even when he beats her to the point that she faints, you go tell her say every marriage get challenges abi? Sometimes divorce is the ONLY option left, okay. Stop all this nonsense you're saying about counselling 4 Likes |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by ebonyggurl(f): 12:30pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
essenceplus: Oga better park well o @bolded. Who is talking about small misunderstandings here? We are referring to when a man inflicts emotional and physical abuse on his wife. A man that flogs his wife in front of his children. A man who gets his side chick pregnant, parades her in front of his wife and beats her when she quarrels about it. What kind of prayers and counselling will rectify such things. When you have a daughter who finds herself in an abusive marriage, what exactly will you tell her? 2 Likes |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by ebonyggurl(f): 12:43pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Bossjakande: Lmao. Anytime anyone mentions a man that abuses them physically or emotionally, you go quiet. Nothing to say? |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by Acidosis(m): 12:50pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Elder0001: Archaic? Yes, that sounds like a compliment! Misogynistic? Do you mean taking my position as a |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by ebonyggurl(f): 12:55pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Bossjakande: Reading all your comments on this thread is just making me angry I swear. Are you this deluded? . Think of the children? Yes let's take the kids into consideration right here and now. when you were a child, was your dad abusive to your mom? If your answer is no, then pls stop all this NONSENSE you're saying. My dad was and still is abusive to my mom. Both physically and emotionally. Why is she still in the marriage? Cos of her kids. Do you have any idea how that shiit messes with a child's phyche? . The thing I want most right now is to get my degree, start earning money and get her the fvck out of that toxic marriage. Who marriage epp? 2 Likes |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by essenceplus: 1:00pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
ebonyggurl: Better go and take malt to cool down. Whoever you saw I. Supportive of abusive relations here. If I tear you hawt slap |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by essenceplus: 1:01pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
ebonyggurl: It seems you want to be unfortunate sha. I park for inside your toto? Beta carry your stibky thrash off my lane. Perhaps you need help with English. If not show me where I support any kind of abuse physical, psychological or emotional. |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by kelcy1: 1:16pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
God allows divorce when one spouse is guilty of sexual immorality and unwilling to repent. Sometimes is better than be 1 Like |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by ebonyggurl(f): 1:16pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
essenceplus: First of all, my pvssy is cleaner than your mouth . Secondly, you're one of those advocating against divorce With the way society is presently, every woman ought to have an alternative in mind in case their marriage goes south. Even my dad said so. So all this nonsense about how planning for divorce even b4 marriage is sick is exactly that...Nonsense 4 Likes |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by ebonyggurl(f): 1:18pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
essenceplus: Pls shut up. Didn't you read the so-called boss' comments? 1 Like |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by essenceplus: 1:38pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
ebonyggurl: Stay off my lane. Don't mess around with just anybody. Anonymity is decodable. I warned you |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by Nobody: 1:49pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
No one gets married w| the intention of divorcing but sometimes it's the best option, not just for the couple but the children involved. Physical, emotional, verbal or financial abuse; constant and unrepentant infidelity; realizing you married the wrong person are tangible reasons for divorce, to name a few. Kids are sponges who soak up everything and continuing to raise them in an unhappy, toxic environment does them more harm than good. 1 Like |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by ahnie: 3:53pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
As for me ....I support divorce.reasons best known to me.infact I had a first time experience with a mother of one this morning.and she's functioning well Another just left my house now for assistance... she's a mother of 7 kids...that one z still in the 'manage'enduring all the beatings.she said she's staying put because of her kids.i 'm fervently praying she makes it out alive. |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by ahnie: 4:05pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Pls someone shud put me tru on how to copy another topic into this thread. Another domestic violence thread...but the man killed his wife. |
Re: After Divorce Wat Next. by essenceplus: 4:37pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
ahnie: We won't teach you ahnie. Stay off that lane |
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