ibkayee:

Lol not understanding

essenceplus:



You can imagine the mindset. Not yet married but already planning for divorce I dumped a lady's arse for that nonsense. I won't allow anyone use my life as their rehab

AmazonTopaz:

Lol, I agree with you.Life should not be that complicated. We just like complicating things for ourselves
Only frustrated people compare us with women of old.
I wonder when men of today would start comparing themselves with men of old.

Bossjakande:
check how dey live now.dey are d ones DAT are not responsible. dey carry DAT stupid lifestyle into marriage.smiles.vu no why am happy? dere are still some girls wit sense who dont do follow follow.dey no wat dey want in life.guy dont just date anyhow girl wit useless mentality. marriage aint about boobs yansh or pretty face. if u no get beta thing for brain den you get out of my life.

ibkayee:

Average woman of old didn’t have much a choice, times have changed

AmazonTopaz:

Lol, I agree with you.Life should not be that complicated. We just like complicating things for ourselves
Only frustrated people compare us with women of old.
I wonder when men of today would start comparing themselves with men of old.

ibkayee:

Average woman of old didn’t have much a choice, times have changed

essenceplus:



Guess what. I'm going on a date with this amazing British chick that's got very strong chemistry with me. The family already loves me. So I'm taking her to a sweet place on the island to wine and dine. Guess what I have a divorce and marriage plan in play how sweet. People having divorce plan even before marriage is sickly.

essenceplus:




Ibkayee

ibkayee:

Difference between having a divorce plan and hoping for/giving the best to your marriage but also seeing divorce as an option if need be

ibkayee:

Hi

essenceplus:



Men of old and now haven't changed as much

AmazonTopaz:
The truth is many of you would not like to emulate your fathers but want women like your mothers.
Why is it that fathers of old were terrible?

AmazonTopaz:

Abeg tell them
This is what they fail to understand

essenceplus:



My father was amazing o. Leave thrash for lawma. Ladies can't manage success. Small thing na divorce. Cause of small change. Electricians and all what nits would now be greasing the engine. Chai. Men have suffer

essenceplus:




That's sick babe. Face it. It's psychotic. Ever heard about been careful about one's thoughts as it has the power to force circumstances to play out as thought

AmazonTopaz:

Men treating women like trash when they have made it is your definition of success.
A proud person cannot manage success and many men fall into this category

ibkayee:

To me it’s being realistic

ibkayee:

Average woman of old didn’t have much of a choice, times have changed

essenceplus:



Issa lie. You people no worry. We will deal with you all. Las Las we will all be alrite. Surrogacy all the way. No lady will take my brothers for a ride. None

essenceplus:



Double mindedness. So when king gives you money for upkeep you'll be saving money for divorce abi babe

Bossjakande:
check how dey live now.dey are d ones DAT are not responsible. dey carry DAT stupid lifestyle into marriage.smiles.vu no why am happy? dere are still some girls wit sense who dont do follow follow.dey no wat dey want in life.guy dont just date anyhow girl wit useless mentality. marriage aint about boobs yansh or pretty face. if u no get beta thing for brain den you get out of my life.

AmazonTopaz:

Men can't do without women.
But it is very possible for women to do without men
So las las na una go tire

ibkayee:

Why do I need to be saving his money for upkeep when I have my own career and money to fall back on?

essenceplus:



If I tear you hot slap. I haven't touched couchy in a while. We can do without you. Olosho is there

ahnie:

Boss I honestly think you low-key on the insults ..make this thread conducive for people to comment quit attacking people that has contrary opinions.

Acidosis:


Many women of old were "forced" into marriage yet many of them succeeded to the end (success is relative). But how come people of this generation with so much freedom to sleep around, date multiple spouses, etc. still end up with useless partners (divorce)? Don't you think those making bad decisions in our generation are also useless? Did anyone forced them to choose a useless partner?

Overall, do you consider this trend a progress or retrogression?

ibkayee:

Succeeded to the end or didn’t have any other choice?

People will end up with useless partners no matter the generation, difference is the option to leave

essenceplus:



See why I say you can't handle success. What's your career about again. Taking wrongly parked car numbers . And you find this better than building a home for your kids.

Very soon we'll be booking ladies. Ibkayee I book you for my nephew once you break up with King

Bossjakande:
Modern life kill u dere

essenceplus:



That's the problem. Containment. The ability to be successful yet be grounded emotionally not to have a default flight approach to issues but a fix it approach. You know I was thinking about this deeply tonight and I have a partial solution. Ibkayee you must stop working and depend on me Nothing from me, you can't survive. This way you'll sit upj