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TheNaijanBlog:
Very well said!! People are just generalizing on this thread, while some men are projecting their issues, and consoling themselves with “oh women will submit readily to a man with money” who cares? If you like a submissive wife marry one! No need to start acting like others that want different are in denial, SOME men actually don’t care for this submissive bullshit! They just want a partner they can live in peace with. Best comment yet. I always support “do you” mentality.

Shatap. SARS fall on you talk without the thrash

breakerofchains:
This is just BS.

A 30 years old dating an 18 years old girl.. Grooming.

She hasn't even fully known herself!

This kind of relationship is usually abusive. She's still in
the process of building her identity. This kind of relationship leads to her building her identity around this man. Let's not even go into how manipulative this can be.



Parentss please please and please, don't let your teenage daughters date men who are more than 3 years older than they.
When she gets to the age of 25, she can date a man 100 years older than her if she likes.

OP leave her alone. Her life is just beginning.

If at the age of 25 she still likes you,then you can date her.
Period.

But you support Ned nwoko and Regina. Work out the maths

crackhaus:


It wasn't that hard to guess.

Bro you're a serious trouble hunter

Lol

bukatyne:
Interesting.

Outwitted by other posters you say?

I do not create thread to battle wits. If you go through my threads, you would notice they are for educational and discussion purposes.

No amount of discomfort would change the fact that there is nothing like marital rape.

And the earlier intending wives know this, the better for them and the society as a whole.

If they have issues in the marriage that would prevent the wife from joyfully making love to her husband, they should sort it out.

I am not surprised that posters only seem concerned with the wives.

Should we assume that husbands are never 'raped'?

That's their problem. Their prejudices and misconceptions. Outwitted. How childish. Can people with some mindset raise whole kids?

Scatterscatter:
The last time I was on a flight that experienced serious turbulence, I quietly opened the door of the plane and came down before people will rush and follow me.

Me wey get sense, I can't come and die

Na so

Last line is insultive. Since the Op arrogates herself the almighty stance. Let her be the judge and the jury.

Tunmmyzhe:
Assassination Attempt: Save Akanni Segun, his life is in Danger, NGO cries out.

The Global Forum for Human Rights and Sustainable Development has alerted the public of a clandestine attempt by the incumbent Aare Ona Kakanfo, Aare Gani Adams to instigate some members of the Oodua Peoples Congress OPC, to begin a manhunt with the aim to assassinate its Executive Director, Prince Akanni Segun Olalekan and that of his family members.

A press statement made available to newsmen by the Director of Media and Publicity of the Non-Governmental, Non Profit-making Organisation, Dr. Stephen Ayankunle, Akanni who had been on the horns of dilemma moment after his disengagement from the service of the Yoruba generalissimo, Adams, December 2018, escaped yet another assassination attempt Wednesday night in a arranged mob attack, suspected to have been masterminded by the OPC boss.

Ayankunle said Akanni, the former Chief of Staff to Aare Gani Adams and the Chairman of The Prince Genesis Concept Nig Ltd, was again attacked yesterday at the Mobil Filling Station in Gbagada, Lagos by some OPC members on the instruction of Aare Gani Adams.

Akanni was attacked yesterday evening by over ten men of the OPC when he was at Gbagada to visit a friend, Alhaji Hakeem Keshinro.

The attack, we learnt, was masterminded by two of Aare Gani Adams' men, Musa Yusuff, popularly known as Baba Alirat and Ade Bariga, ostensibly on the instruction of the boss.

Akanni has heard about their plans over a month ago. He had already called a popular monarch in Ondo State to inform him that Aare was telling some people that ''OPC are just taking their time before necessary action would be taken against him.

Meanwhile, the monarch assured Akanni that he would step in and that nothing would happen to him.

But yesterday’s attack was so deadly as it was carefully arranged to eliminate our boss, leaving an impression that he died in a mob attack if he had not foreseen the plot and took necessary precaution by taking to his heels to escape being lynched by the rampaging daredevil mob who chased him and was shouting: ‘thief’ thief’, when it was becoming obvious they could not catch up with him.

In the ensuing melee, Akanni had to defy fast speeding vehicles to cross the highway in a blind race before he was rescued by a police patrol team who later took him back to the scene of the incident to recover his car.

Akanni worked with the National Coordinator of the OPC, Adams, for 17 years as his Personal Assistant.

Earlier in his statement, Akanni had narrated how Aare Gani Adams levelled many frivolous and baseless allegations against him. He explained that his former boss lied against him that he was revealing his information and secrets to a frontline political leader in Lagos State, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu as well as instigating his wife against him.

Akanni was further alleged to have collected a sum of two hundred millions from Asiwaju Bola Tinubu alongside a popular Lagos based media practitioner, Chief Femi Davies.

Aare also alleged that Asiwaju Tinubu bought apartments for both Akanni and Davies in Nigeria and abroad.

The National Coordinator of OPC, Aare Gani Adams was also alleged to have accused Akanni of betraying him by conniving with some people who broke away from the OPC some years ago.

But Akanni, who is also the Publisher of The Drum Online, had denied all the allegations.

In his statement, Akanni had stated that the crisis started last year December 3rd, 2018, when he was edged out unceremoniously by Aare Gani Adams over trumped up offences after a seventeen years of painstaking working relationship with him and about twenty years in the Oodua People's Congress as an active and committed member.

Chronicling Akanni’s experience since he was ousted by Adams, Ayankunle stated:

‘’Four days after he was edged out, precisely December 7th, 2018, he went out to see a friend in Ikeja. To his surprise, he met his house being scattered and ransacked by some unknown assailants. Luckily, his son, Ayomide Akanni, has gone out to lesson as at when the assailants came around while his younger brother was not also at home. His door was forcefully opened,’’ he stated.

‘’Akanni went to report the matter at Ibafo police station area of Ogun state, where he was advised not to go back home. The three of them had to stay away from his Magboro house and travelled to Osun State to seek refuge. A day after the ordeal, Akanni started receiving strange calls with unknown numbers - threatening to get rid of him, his son and his younger brothers living with him’’.

Narrating the ordeal further, he stated: that Akanni was in Osun State for some weeks, hoping that the matter when he returned to Lagos. But on January 4th, he suspected some strange movements of people on three motorcycles trailing him. He stopped his car at a petrol filling station to properly study the situation of things and decided to drive on some minutes after.

He put a call across to his son to open the gate of his house. And as he was approaching the gate, four men in Oodua People's Congress' white vests accosted his car , he was dragged out of the car as they descended on him. He was rough handled, threatening to behead him if they see him moving around again. His son had opportunity of taking their pictures.

The following morning, Akanni went to report the matter again in Ibafo police station. The officer in the police station promised to get them arrested through their investigation but all their efforts proved abortive.

Some days after, they started uploading Akanni’s pictures on Facebook - writing negative and fabricated stories against him on different social media platforms while also sending threatening messages into his Facebook inbox’.

From all indications, we are now more than certain that there is a deliberate and calculated plan to smear the character of our leader, Prince Akanni over trumped up allegations as leeway for a plan for to eliminating him.

It is based on this firm believe that we are sending a strong warning out that we know where to trace any untoward thing that happen to Prince Akanni to, as we pledge that we shall stop at nothing to keep being ahead of their evil plans while exposing them the more in their chosen desperate bid to terminate a innocent soul.

We are therefore calling on all the security apparatus in Nigeria to pick interest in this case to save the precious soul of Prince Akanni Segun Olalekan. Already, we have written to some international organizations, such as United Nations, Africa Union, Europe Union, to pick interest in the matter while we also call on our traditional rulers, Yoruba leaders, and all international media organizations to take note of these dastardly acts and do the needful.



A stitch in time may save more than nine



Signed



Dr Stephen Ayankunle

Director of Media

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How can I visit the lekki office?

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Color?

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Generationz

And Jesus did not act out of line despite being equal with God. Its funny people don't know marriage emanates from the God-head identity, and hence marriage draws its source and principles from the union of the trinity deity. That though all equal,yield their will to the God-head


Planet3xi vibes continues
I forgive the mod that banned that moniker

[quote author=Raalsalghul post=79080861][/quote]Planet3xi vibes continues. Respect back Sir

liberalchick:
Who is this one?

This internet make people delusional. What my dead mother-in-law accomplished while she was alive, you will never reach a speck of it in your lifetime. You better put respect on that name, what has my poor dead mother-in-law got to do with this thread If you don’t agree, state why and keep it moving like a matured logical human being instead of involving a dead woman you don’t even know. Don’t let her ghost haunt you o I heard she was a feisty woman when she was alive.

I simply meant tell us what's up since you mentioned her


Thanks for the curses ma

Simply put, submission is yielding

Planet3xi Vibes Continues

Pipu

Ok

Its not plainly a vertifical horizontal relationship. But a side by side . Hence Authority & Submission, that submission can't exist or would be out of concept without Authority, respecting it,yielding to it and embracing it.

Submission is contentment in role playing without feeling worthless. Of what use is abundance without character, plentiful without wisdom. Both roles plays role in sharpening the life of the next generation. So His gains becomes our gains and our gains becomes the next generation's plus. That a mother plays active home front role doesn't reduce her to a loser or a foool cause of she doesn't hold this forte well, whatever gains the family has would be flawed and lost with time. So every good mother is an amazing woman by virtue of role and not even by contribution cause without this role been played actively, the society would be filled with fools. If you think I'm lieing read up Winston Churchill's biography. And imagine if Hitler would be the same if he had the guidance of a mother.


Family life is balance. Wholeness, the intentional desire for both husband and wife to be together and the purposeful pursuit of this desire to achieve its outmost capability. So, marriage is for whole people. The moment its deduced to individuality removing the sight from the couples identity, then individualized concept like Lordship and Boss bar sets in which is the aftermath of not setting out on solid grounds.



Its not a competition, but

Bossjakande:
bros check her age and she is not up to 25.but wen she keep coming here to read wat dese women think her mind will be poison.am not suprised.shout for internet confuse our young girls.den log out, pound yam for hubby and beg him for it at night.

Yes Sir

liberalchick:

So those are your values, I don’t know if you are still
Single but if you are, look for a man that share the same values as you. I know it will be a needle in a hay stack in Nigeria but they are out there lol. Also please and please don’t settle.

As a mother raising a son I am teaching him these values too because I feel our mothers focused on us too much and see what we are going though now. Shout out to my mother-in-law lol.

Your M.I.L shouts back and wants to know what she did wrong

UyaiIncomparabl:
Oh please! I will be patiently waiting for your submission.

Typing is a pariah for me. Call me . hide your digits, call me let's talk

Omg

Kenfil:
Bulk cooking! Saves time and energy

Babe is this home cooking or all this your delicacies is for a restaurant?

Kenfil:
Abacha!!!

This name always make me laugh. Goodness

UyaiIncomparabl:
Do you have a tangible advice to give?

When you have a preconceived narrative, how then can you find different understanding you seek? Is it problem your fixed definition of ideas or the ideas in itself!

UyaiIncomparabl:
You will find it perfect na! Sexists everywhere!

I'm not your enemy. Do you know the attacks a weak man will take over a long time can kill a strong woman in short time? This is just a scenario

Babe submission means being involved even in decision making process while one takes ownership of the decision like he took it all by himself. Marriage is symbiotic where one hand washes the other


Submission isn't being forced or coerced to fit a role. Submission is trusting your good will in the arms of your partner knowing well he has your back good or bad.