Family › Re: What Does 'submission' In Marriage Mean Exactly? by essenceplus: 2:31pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
Note submission isn't doing as you're told as that's totalitarian and not involving of the other party
Submission means considering the other party even if you hold a different view. It means putting the other party into consideration and allowing yourself be led.
Submission is power under control not powerlessness
Submission isn't do as you're told. Submission is involvement but the head taking the lead.
Submission implies powerful but under authority. Its not the absence of oneself but entrusting your will in the total control of the head. |
Family › Re: What Does 'submission' In Marriage Mean Exactly? by essenceplus: 2:29pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: 1] To not object the man's decisions. 2] To remain foolish and smile sheepishly even when I am seething with pain and anger. 3] To always accept that the man is always right. 4] To mop, sweep, cook, clean, still contribute financially and open my legs willingly like the windows of heaven even at my discomfort.
Need I add more? I'm a man. This isn't what submission means. I'll be glad as a fan to speak with you but typing is hard work. I can see the source of all these and would like to help clear the misconceptions but  I hope you lean away from your preconceived notions and prejudices though |
Family › Re: What Does 'submission' In Marriage Mean Exactly? by essenceplus: 2:28pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
Sister Bulky I sight you  |
Family › Re: What Does 'submission' In Marriage Mean Exactly? by essenceplus: 2:27pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
Acidosis: Two captains don't drive a ship. Same with an aircraft, a car, etc. In the workplace, there will always be one superior. You can't have two CEOs managing same business unit. A state can't have two Presidents; Osibanjo with his Ph.D in Law MUST submit to Baba Daura as far as governance is concerned.
Hierarchically, one partner must submit to the order. A man can decide to submit to you if he wants to, but two can't submit to each other.
Submission means allowing an higher authority evaluate a decision that will, or might affect, the entire institution. For any marriage to work, submission is sacrosanct and non-negotiable.
I know my opinion won't go down well with you, but relax, women have estrogen for a reason. Even when the brain doesn't want to submit, your hormone will. Perfect. More oil |
Health › Re: Physicians Come And Help by essenceplus: 2:24pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
Why not wait for the full report then see a doctor. Anxiety is a problem. |
Crime › Re: Can You Identify The Killer? by essenceplus: 2:17pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
bolafez: How ? Give reasons. You can't just accuse the poor woman without having an evidence to back up your claim. The chair has a female bag beside it away from the sitter. The knife was pushed away from her towards the other sitter that has no cutleries. Only a woman can access females toilet. But 4 can also be accused as the deceased is with a piece of cloth in her hand that matches the color of table 4 suggesting a struggle went on and she tore his cloth which viewing closely a part of his short is torn. The chair pulled out means someone was sitting there beforehand. Unlike the other seats that have their seats intact meaning no one else has sat in them So the shirt color in her hand and the table 4 torn shirt projects him as the killer he looks like  |
Politics › Re: President Buhari Ordered Immediate Shutdown Of AIT, Raypower Fm Tonight -dokpesi by essenceplus: 2:15pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
And the tribal hatred continues. Buhari sowing the seeds for the rapid disintegration |
Crime › Re: Can You Identify The Killer? by essenceplus: 2:06pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
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Crime › Re: Can You Identify The Killer? by essenceplus: 2:05pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
blizard44: 4 He left his knife at the crime scene.  |
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Agriculture › Re: Farm Workers Needed by essenceplus: 12:44pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
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Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Photoshop Expert? by essenceplus: 8:11am On Jun 06, 2019 |
clays: Chai. No be small thing o  Na so. |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Photoshop Expert? by essenceplus: 11:20pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
Its just a stipend. I won't die |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Photoshop Expert? by essenceplus: 11:16pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
clays: Exactly, if not some people will exploit your time and effort and give you no dime at all. A serious and good client will always pay upfront even if its 40%. By gones. I'll live |
Sports › Re: Ronaldo Hattrick Against Switzaland.uefa Nations Cup by essenceplus: 10:27pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
cr7lomo: Wherever he goes , he delivers.... The king of football and the pitch is his kingdom You're mouthed |
Family › Re: Is She Cheating Already? by essenceplus: 10:26pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
Oyindidi: why are you pained? I'm not a feminist anyway so free me May you find your way to your once true self  |
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Romance › Re: Ready For Marriage? Ladies only by essenceplus: 8:53pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
czarina: How do you know the op is responsible?
Or you meant "wealthy people"? Small thing. Pastor will pray na. God speaks |
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Romance › Re: Ready For Marriage? Ladies only by essenceplus: 8:45pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
czarina: lol@ one of his daughters.  Yes. You need see beauty queens. Let's get our ladies responsible people abeg |
Romance › Re: Ready For Marriage? Ladies only by essenceplus: 8:41pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Ready For Marriage? Ladies only by essenceplus: 8:38pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
Jaraontop: Working class lady is needed for marriage. Interested woman must be working on the Island, Christian, any tribe (as long as we do have to travel for traditionals). Age below 36. Location: Lekki-Ajah axis
Honeymoon in any country of your choice.
Please do not drop your number here.
Send me SMS or WhatsApp message for more information
2348062080735 Can I recommend a church to visit the pastor? I went there, fine pretty chicks. Just speak to him and hell recommend one of his daughters to you |
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Family › Re: Is She Cheating Already? by essenceplus: 8:35pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
Oyindidi:
 our truth is giving you sleepless night Go manage your marriage. You've ceased to be who you used to be before so I won't engage you. Keep commenting to please you hear, that was the genesis of your fall/drift Go and manage your own home first |
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Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Photoshop Expert? by essenceplus: 8:15pm On Jun 05, 2019*. Modified: 11:22pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
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Family › Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by essenceplus: 7:38pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
bukatyne: Funnily, I am watching a movie where the husbands are rejecting the wives sexually abi not consenting to sex.
Husband A doesn't love his wife, husband B doesn't want kids.
The wives are scheming, seducing, raking.
Let me see where this would end. Title. Don't leave us guessing |
Family › Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by essenceplus: 7:35pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
bukatyne: The summary was that marriage provides consent to both parties so there can be no rape which is sex without consent.
However, in the course of sex, the husband/wife can force the other party who would sustain injuries. For instance, a husband can physically abuse his wife in the quest of sex.
The aggrieved party should seek redress as it shows the marriage has issues. Gbam. They kept attacking you without seeing your point of view clearly. Whoever wants sex from a drained lady or unresponsive sex is sick. Phew, intelligence makes people dull sometimes |
Family › Re: Is She Cheating Already? by essenceplus: 7:33pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
bukatyne: Some things are stranger than fiction. Sister bulky, if a woman needs something in a relationship, why not say I need this or I like this? Why manipulate. Ineffective communication to me in a marital relationship is childish. |