₦airaland Forum

bukatyne:
Your village people mean business o!

armyofone:
Look at how you spoiled the thread insulting posters.

Daisy17:
So instead of telling her husband she needs attention, she signs up on a dating website? Is the husband a magician to know what his wife needs? @op from what I can tell your wife is bored and she is looking for fulfillment in the wrong place. Sometimes we are the cause of our headaches. Instead of your wife looking for ways to spice up her marital life she goes looking for excitement outside. What does she mean by you both rushed into marriage? She is an adult and if she was not ready for the commitment of marriage she should have said no to your proposal. I believe that in order for your marriage to move on from this rough patch, she would need to fully recommit herself to the union, apologize sincerely, stay off dating sites, communicate better and maybe keep herself fully occupied so that she doesn't have time for adulterous activities.

truthsayer009:
Yes. So after some few years. She will now start comparing you to the Men that took the Risk & went for a high paying job.

It's an infinite loop, there is no winning in this thing

DukeofNZ:
some of una de like yarn trash. dem never tell you say na only woman wey believe in her husband and marriage de return in multiple folds any good thing wey her husband do foram. from wetin de man talk here so, you supposed to see say her woman no too believe in her marriage again, so unless she makes up her mind to make things better nothing good wey de husband do now she go return not to talk of returning in multiple folds .

djon78:
I am a man and true women need attention from there man.

And op said he has been working his ass off, but he may have started neglecting giving his wife attention. A very bag guy that comes around that knows what women ears want to hear can hijack the situation.

The dude need to balance his game. Improve on his connection with hioman are very different from we men. Most men don't understand that.

Oyindidi:
Your wife needs your attention and you brought the issue to NL. Men are the reason most women cheat

ifyalways:
Im trying to undertand why you called your FIL that same night? To talk to his daughter who is under same roof with you?

Tbh, i hate weak men who cannot find a way to resolve their spouse and marital problems without involving the whole world. Only in serious emergencies do you ring me by 11pm , dont disturb me for petty issues because you cannot control your impulse, think rationally as a man or react to everything you see.

You should have taken a cold beer and gone to bed. Have a long talk with your wife the next morning . . .like adults. 7 years of.marriage i should expect you to do better. Dont act on impulse, have expectations but keep your shock absorbers on 100% always.

armyofone:
How a man can enjoy sex while inflicting pain on someone you claim to be your wife is bothersome!
It's alright for the thread to be taken down - it maybe sending the wrong message to many.
Sex in marriage is to be enjoyed.
If one person is not in the mood, find out why and communicate.

mallerk:
I want to drive traffic to my website and I want to drive traffic for a particular page in my website so am thinking of Facebook ads.

Please do any body know the actual price of Facebook ads in Nigeria especially traffic ads type

AwkaetitiBabe:
Atleast some missed d old moniker

bukatyne:
Your village people mean business o!

bukatyne:
My breed is dying?

Hahahahaha

Sometimes progressiveness of a society isn't positive.

And are you willing to share those rights? Rights to what exactly?

bukatyne:
Sex has truly been weaponized in marriage.

doitforyou:
Number one you are not even making a lot of sense. I doubt English is your first language. Yes! I am teaching my son to respect women and for him not to be entitled! and for him to know that he has NO right to a woman's body, just like his father treats his mother and how I saw My father treat my mother. yes marital sex is a privilege NOT a right, I am sorry that you were taught differently growing up.

Sometimes, I wonder if you people were raised by wolves! talking about raping your wife because she is not momentarily interested in sex, animals!

bukatyne:
Sex has truly been weaponized in marriage.

doitforyou:
Yea, you did "One thing I find consistent in most cases, is one party hordes it weaponizes it which then creates the atmosphere for forceful getting." Sorry marriage is NOT consent. No human being has the right to another human beings body. I actually pity your wife or your future wife if you are not married.There is NO scenario where rape is justified, whether someone hoards sex or not. Sex with your wife is NOT a right but a privilege. How do you even enjoy the sex when one party is not interested? that is sick and twisted.

Toxay:
Your take is quite laughable as you are just looking for irrational excuses to justify rape aside the fact that you are also quite ignorant.
Firstly, rape is not justified punishment for how a woman lived her life before marriage but what you don't even know is the libido is mostly regulated by hormones and their secretion is dependent on many factors such as genetics,age, environmental factors, diseases and many others factors.
Also there are reward centers in the brain for several activities such as sex,drug use etc.......The intensity and extent of how this centers are stimulated differs from person to person.
Also some women have a condition called vaginismus which is characterized by painful intercourse and if such women are not even sexually active before marriage and consequently unaware of their condition before marriage,they should still be raped according to you marital rape supporters because she has a duty.

My points is most women reception to sex is mostly by factors they have no control over and so everything you've been saying is pure fallacy
Hope you learnt a thing or two

luminouz:
U sound pained...
Are u hungry??
Is there anything I can do to help?