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[quote author=haywire07 post=66728335]Who would read all this? All that matters is he owns those Mount Zion movies that scares shįt out of us [/quote I sure read everything wiťh pleasur and it is refreshing. Who are us[b][/b] here? Better speak for yourself. |
Ah! When The Arrow of God is No longer at ease, Things fall apart! |
Rest on saint of The Lord. You completed your task on earth, you have fought the good fight of faith. We shall meet at the resurrection morning. I pray for grace to run my race faithfully till the end. Amen |
PearlStreet:Wonder why you should have any problem with those that do not even know you exist. Why don't you face your lane and let those people sort themselves out. Live by your own rules and don't force it on others who also have right to live thiers. If you want to change the statosqu start your own Church and don't ask your members to pay tithe. That way, you will effectively bring your desitred change |
Sirheny007:Speak for yourself, put it that he has enlightened you. I for one need do not need his enlightenment. For the records, no genuine Pastor will preach that paying tithe will earn you heaven. Salvation is the passport to heaven from time immemorial and the price tag has not changed till date. Genuine Pastors preach that you pay tithe to be blessed, it is left for you to decern fake from original and also to decide if you want to be blessed or not. Those of you shouting and hailing this son of baliah are not Christians in the real sense of the word neirher do you pay tithe. You are just happy to have found a save haven to justify yourself which for me is your choice and that should suffice for you all, so let others make thier decisions, dont force your opinion on them. |
Laple0541:And what do You think is the case? Na way for some people |
OP, this your topic is misleading o, an adulterous wife bawo?, e never reach dat level nah. This is online romance and it has eatten you up this deep, you know why? 'Apani kii fe ki won fi Ida koja nipako ohun' meaning someone who kills with the sword will not take kindly to display of a sword behind his skull. You have been there before so you are boiling now that it seems like.... ogbeni tred softly and cool down. Your wife is remorseful which means she regretted and she is willing to retrace her step, i beg free her. I am not making excuse for her but let it pass, work on it with her and keep your family, it will make you two become closer, remember she also forgave before when.....hmmm. Ask yourself, if you don't forgive what will you do? Look for another partner? Don't let your look deceive you o, that step will only complicate issues. Better accept the apology wholeheartedly and concentrate on your studies. My pence tho. |
Obviously the family of the girl did not contact the family of the boy initially when the whole issue started to infom them their boy impregnated thier girl and he is denying responsibility. The boy's family would probably have prevailed on thier son and accepted the pregnancy if aware. I am not a legal person but i am sure the law is in favour of the boy that fathered the child but proving it in the court is however another kettle of fish. As it is now, going thru the legal route will be long and tasking with no guarantee of winning the battle. The best bet is for family of the boy to cool down and represent thier case to the girl's family to settle out of court, appeal softly to them and the husband, also give the family time to process the request while they continue to apeal and press softly. At later years if they dont give up, the husband would surcom to pressure. But wait o, its suprising that the Yoruba husband is hell bent on keeping and claiming a child he knows does not belong to him, that is totally against his culture. Pressing through the husband's family may also help as they will not regard the child as thier own, to them, he will be 'Omo ale' ie a bastard. |
Peeps, can we stick to the issue at hand and help a Lady please!!!!!!!? @lunacol, thanks for the info. OP, make use of these info and lets see how it goes. Nlanders, more advice o o o, please help a sister in need. Tanx |
kocvalour:You have the option of not opening the tred nah. Once you see the headline which you don't fancy, just pass and stop complaining. |
longlong:Not really if you don't like It dat way. It all depends on how YOU want the ceremony to be. Set the pace to suit your spec, pple will naturally follow. |
ElPadrino33:Just love him too. Wishing him blissful marriage Have not sighted Tblis & Tiwa tho, abi dem no come? |
You have bounced the University nah. Why are you still pained to the point of reporting to us? And what are we supposed to do? Call the University out? Nay, its thier job, its thier money and its thier decision. Yoruba adage says, "i soro si, ni i gbesi" (literally meaning you got the right response to whatever you said). I am sure you would have gotten a favourable response if you had said something like " I am based out of Town, Benue pricisely, please let me reschedule the interview for end of the week or anytime next week to give me time for my journey down to the Campus" |
Slaveman343:I don't think anyone has the right to tell another how he/she should spend his/her money, except of course the Mother/Father (even they can only give advice nothing more). I don't understand why some pple are pained that somebody is paying tithe. Is it not their money? They have the right to spend it as they like. Dont use drug for another person's headache! We should be more concerned about the money we are forced to pay (tax) and is not being utilized. Let's hold public office holders accountable!! This affects all Nigerians: male/female, young/old, North/South, Christian/Muslim. Unlike tithe which does not concern everybody and for those concerned (Christians) it is still voluntary! You pay because u want to, it is not deducted from source. I said it before, this issue is of no benefit to the society in any way. |
Can anyone pls help with info on the time and venue of the crusade? |
XXLDICK:Ogbeni, there is no 'good work' he is doing that should be continued! Of what benefit is this his controversial opinion to the society? None as far as I can see. Not everybody pay tithe either because of their believe, their opinion or their pocket! Since he has the energy and means, he could channel this to profitable engagement that others can benefit especially low income earners. He is becoming a nuisance I beg, I for one, I am tire of his unprofitable ranting. |
OH! SO IT'S TRUE! |
Op, you have no case. If you were not to cut him off, will you be communicating with him every day? I believe not, so what is the fuss about? You are not in Nigeria for crying out loud. You already know your father, nothing should come to you as a surprise. One day, you will miss him for these very same questions and attitude. Learn to answer him with diplomacy. Father: Did you go to Church? You: No daddy, though I wanted to but was not feeling fine. please remember me in your prayers. Father: How many times did you go to Church in the last two months? You: I think I miss going to Church just once or twice, please keep praying for us. Father: Did you go to Church last Sunday? You: Haa!!!, thank God you asked Daddy. I just remember what the Pastor mentioned during one of his preaching that I meant to ask you to confirm if the Pastor is right. The Pastor said Paul Apostle is the greatest of all the Apostles, even greater than Peter. Do you agree with the Pastor? Ask him spiritual question that is neither here nor there. By the time he is done explaining, he will feel better that his son is spiritually active. Don't antagonize/fight his person, you cannot change him. Accept him the way he is and you will find it easier to relate with him cordially. Always remember you too will soon grow old, if your son cuts you off because you both don't agree on an issue will you be happy? Be the first to call him, that is what is called tolerance. |
ubaobi:My tought exactly. OP, pls expantiate |
Mikenig:Abo oro l'aaso f'omoluabi, t'oba de'nu e tan, a d'odindi (literarily meaning a word, is enough for the wise) May God open our eyes see beyond the ordinary. and for the Christians amongst those condemning Apostle Suleiman (here on Nairaland or else where) indirectly encouraging the herdsmen to continue killing, "we wish you and your loved ones what the affected Southern Kaduna families are passing through now" Ameeeeeen!!!! |
buchai:OP, the bolded might be the reason she is reluctant. Aside that, the two of you working in the same office is not ideal. There will be too many complications and also your family's financial capability/source/strength is known. Now a male colleague might innocently be playing with your wife in a way you feel offended, you might even be unnecessary suspicious and same applies to her. Both of you should should be on the look out for job. Anyone that get first should leave, you can then embark on your marriage journey. You might also need to compare your salary, the allowances, benefits due to each at what period e.t.c. to determine who should leave for the other to stay. My own pence! Good luck!!! |
TonyeBarcanista:Tonye & mccoy47. May God have mercy on both of you. Somebody advised u to b careful of what you say about the man of God. It happened in the old Testament. Cant remember the particuar place, but the people concerned were talking aginst Moses and God dealt with them and thier familes. For your sake and that of your family, dont dable into what you dont know. My pence. |
Haaa. I also made FTC, bravo!! They look biuriful! |
davidif:Sure you did not get the information from the source that broke the news on the net, otherwise you would have read where it was stated that the two barely knew each other. |
icebird25:This poster and others like him saying the op should be happy the guy returned some of the money, are seeing it this way because they are not at the receiving end. If it were to be their money, they will see it differently. They are indirectly encouraging the guy to continue in his low moral and dishonest ways which is the root cause of the problems we are in today in Nigeria. Mind you, it is easy for these sets of people to criticize those in govt forgetting that it all started like this for them too years ago. If people like these (the rogue and his supporters) get to positions, will they change overnight? of course not, they will even perfect the act of dishonesty more. All in the name of 'things are tight' now, you deliberately take over what is not meant for you whilst depriving the owner of the use. Its alright, let us all continue to do what we know how to do best, one day the reward will come. op, ensure you follow up with the bank, other account(s) he has can be traced too (with the bank through his BVN). Not just because of the money alone now but to also teach the rogue a lesson that honesty is the path to take. |
horlareey: Same here, but its not a waste of time after all. You get to laugh and unwind, invariably u ease stress. ![]() |
Makes me remember the NCCF song. I love this family of God. So closely knitted into one, They have taken me into their hands and I am so glad to be a part of this GREAT FAMILY! |
Op, i read pple's responses and some are not providing any help. Rather they are trying to make u accept d sitiation and manage to live wit it, suggesting the good relationship you enjoh with your husband compesates for this lapses. That is not correct, you can have a good happy christian home! Dont b discouraged, you have a vision,an idea of what you want your family to be. Pursue that vision with all seriousness in a place of prayer, the goodnews is that that vision is achievable. The Bible says "all things are possible to him/her that belives". Don't disturb yourself about the present state, keep the vision of what you want active and alive and just keep praying. Leave the rest for God and He will proof Himself mighty in your family. Please look for this film and watch it "WAR ROOM " it wil be of great help and a blessing to you. Remain blessed. |
rapidclaro:May be not you, but it has helped those who arranged genuine Policies and later suffered a loss. |
That is the spirit! Getting rid of corruption in Nigeria starts from individuals in their little closet, Doing the right thing even when no one sees you. Until everyone understand this, we have not started at all. Had to return excess N10,000.00 to the bank (UBA, Orita Challenge, Ibadan) too some 12/13 years ago. Contentment is key, please let everyone youth be guided/inspired. |
Nawa o. Going through these pictures, the places shown look almost like a desert. Abeg they should look up the meaning of a forest and see whether these places qualify to be called so. |
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