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Why has no guy hit on Flora?

The person deserving to win this year bbn is Chimsom, with Abi as a 1st runner up

UniQue84:
Evaress what is handsome to you ..is it money on a man or physical handsome?

both.

12345baba:
u now sound like a guy wey dey form babe

so u think say women no dey like fine boys! Abeg i like man i fit kiss o

kevotek1000:
You might be the problem, why not give them a chance. Feelings grows with time, marriages these days ain't based on love or feelings but on mutual understanding and tolerance. We tend to create unnecessary problems for ourselves... What is Spec, Love, Feelings? Our mother in the olden days were betrothed to men and they live happily. Those guys coming your way are actually your spec, but you're the problem because of your double standards spec and you want more. "Make hay while the sun shines"

i just cant date a man that looking at his appearance irritates me. I want someone i can kiss and happy looking at him

12345baba:
Enjoy ur singlehood o. Please when ur single at 45 dont come and disturb us on the internet space that u want a man and u have money to give the man. As u dey shine naturally now better chose one and gradually package him to ur dream man . No go turn internet nuisance at 45.

some people uGly to the extent that no matter how you package them, they can never turn out to be as handsome as you want

Bendeco2020:
Please let's see your pic first.

Let me know if you worth my opinion.

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I pity guys that waste their time forcing themselves on women.

Madam nothing like spec. Women like handsome clean guys with certain character they admire.

The one you said you like but a womanizer. He is a womanizer because he is handsome and other women like him as well.

The handsome guy don't worship you as others are doing, that's why you pulled out and the guy don't send you too or care.

You want to keep him to yourself alone when both of you are not married. The world don't revolve around you.

We have more women in this country than men. You're just one woman out of millions, so go and take a rest dear.

you sound so cold but you said it right. Yes i like good looks in a guy. Na bad thing? Maybe the ones i like are the wrong ones and the ones i don't like are the right ones.

Meobizy

Hahjascho:
Hi dear.

You see, real love is patient, Kind, and gets subjected to the test of time…and you just discovered a great psychological fact in dating and love.

Tho not always real, there’s a general tendency to want those who don’t want us or give any effort. Those you seem to want don’t give a damn while those who want you are overwhelming you with efforts. That can influence how you view the two parties. However you must grow beyond that psychological trick. You only need to have conversation with some of the ones you wish for to realize it’s not all that.

Am I saying you should settle for less? Absolutely No. However, we sometimes need to question our desires to ensure we are not being delusional.

The grass seems greener on the other side because of the proximity and distance.

So now, be true to yourself on what real lasting-love means. True love sometimes needs effort, discipline and being subjected to the test of time. Give other people a chance…and you may realize what u’ve been longing for is not far from you.


And then, you have the choice to make. It’s a free world. Just be ready to stand by any decision you make.

i love this

Teettyllayho:
Honestly, it's best to get married to someone that likes you than someone you like. A friend of mine got married to someone who chased her for so long even after she told him several times that he's not her spec. At the end, she later gave the man a chance and I tell you sis, I envy her! This man doesn't joke with her o.

She's his life. Over time, she developed love for him and its been more than 10 years of blissful marriage. She keeps thanking God that she gave him a chance. You see men you like, they'll treat you like you're nobody because the love isn't there.

Please don't make that mistake of settling for someone you like but doesn't like you. Life is too short to be spent in an unhappy marriage.

hmm i will think about this

joseph1832:
As a man, lemme give you this advise. Anytime you see a man you're attracted to, be the first to engage him in conversation, pick his brain, just for you to know, if he has value, and to know if he is vain.

If he has value, then you let him know you have value too. Don't be the first to start talking about love or relationships, let him be the first. Trust me, when he sees that value, he will def be interested, it's that simple.

ok i will try

Dating is not just for everyone or why can't God grant me my own heart desire?

Stephen0mozzy:
It's simple. The same way these guys "begging you" are not your spec. The same way all the guys you're giving green lights (liking) also see you as not their spec.

There's nothing wrong with that. Everyone deserves to be with the person they love.

Sometimes though, love needs to be given a chance, then it'll grow on us - unless of course you're looking at qualities that the men around you don't have control over i.e looks, height.

sad reality of life indeed

There was this guy that hit on me years ago, i swear i really liked this one but he turned out to be a chronic womanizer so i ended it all. One other one we both liked each other, he turned out to be a thief. I had to end it all. Seems this dating thing doesn't favor me. 😔

Like this guy proposing to me, has been begging to take me out, i just don't feeling anything for him. Not my spec in any way .
Update;
I mean i need a guy i can kiss, a guy that i can share one Spoon with. These guys looking at them even disgusts me, even when they touch me, i feel nothing but disgust. Honestly, you guys don't know how attraction works. Not as easy as you all are saying. I want it mutual not one sided.

It feels like the people who are drawn to me aren’t the ones I’m drawn to. I don’t feel a connection, and I can’t fake it.

Meanwhile, the people I genuinely like don’t seem to feel the same way about me.

Then I get blamed for being single, like I’m the problem for saying no.

But should I force feelings that aren’t there? I’ve tried, and it doesn’t work.

I just wish it was easier to find someone who feels the same way I do.

I want the feelings to be mutual on both sides not one-sided love.

I don't even need the man to be as handsome as brad pitt or as rich as Elon musk. There is this certain type of appeal that i find attractive in a Guy which most guys don't have.

To all those saying only ugly girls full this season. This is the only season i have seen girls in their natural form and statue. You people enjoy seeing fake stuffs a lot and same people will criticize the most.

Hazardfan1:
Aunty Ramota no beautiful abeg

she has a disability thats why she looks like that. Just imagine someone suffering from an illness, will the person still look fine?

Every girl is beautiful. What girls need is good hair, makeup and clothes ..

Oshokhai69:
I think this is the only season in the history of BBN wey dem pack wor wor girls full for house. Even that useless Ultimate Love had a better collection of babes

your sister or your babe fine pass any of the girls in there since you are so beauty conscious? Your type na the type wey go later marry woman wey resemble aunty remota.

Kelvinnchucks:
The point is there's no girl there that's finer than her. If they call 100 guys to pick from the females in that house 70 would go for Goddessa.

wtf, thats a huge lie. Goddessa only has this sexy looks but she is damn ugly. Lot of girls with cute faces better than her. Neche, blue, oyin, bells,sheba, nkem

opeldavid:
She said there was AC yet she was feeling cold. She was definitely not in a good state. She was sick yet huzzling. We need to know when to take a break.

RIP to her.

Many Nigerians do not prioritize their health first. They think money is everything, so how do you enjoy the money you are making now you are gone? Work with wisdom, there should be a time for leisure, don't overwork yourself. If the work is too strenuous, quit it. Your Life first.✅

That money should be used to train her kids.

40milion to bring home her corpse

Mrexcell:
There are a lot of disfigured and abnormal people like this in the US i don't know what's the cause why they are born that way, there's one like that that's born without hands and legs he became a well known international evangelist touring the world later married a very beautiful lady who gave birth to completely normal kids. For abnormal people like that to survive and thrive in the US society shows the US is really a vrry wonderful and unique country.

indeed, that's why i told my friend to move over to the Us. They are free-minded

PerfectStranger:
With all honesty, can you marry a broke man with that look?

if someone like that can still work and make money then why do people with complete body parts are still poor and jobless?

PerfectStranger:
Plot twist: beautiful women end up marrying people like this to secure the bag and life insurance

Read below

what makes you think he is rich?

meobizy:
I already have plenty pens, abeg. I am not interested.

after i cast that thief, have u noticed these days them no dey move my posts to front page again, unlike before i'm always topping Fp

Sad

Cum4me:
How dose he eat foods

through a feeding tube

Im still wondering how he manages to talk without a jaw. Ok that was a voice-over. I actually thought it was him talking

Sonnobax15:

Can that woman stand in front of any ijebu ode shrine and swear she didn't marry that innocent good-looking man because of his money?

white women no dey marry for money. If na Nigeria woman, i fit agree with you