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Happy Birthday bud... Wish you many more good years

edwife:
This life has no existence without a strong ally in ‘Woman’ in every stage of life starting from motherhood to wife, from sister and finally a daughter.
Women have strengths that amazes man.. She can handle trouble & carry heavy burdens.. She holds happiness, love & opinions.. And she will always smile when she feels like screaming.


Happy Women's Day to all the ladies in the house!



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Thank you Edwife... Where's my goodie bag, abi na only card we get?

Talkie

Antartica

Thank you baba.

irunoko:
one hediot or shediot moderator arrested sambarry oh that's why she use another Monica bet today na my release day. How you take knowsay na me gan sef

Okay sounds good.
I know everybody's unique writing wella

lofty900:
u heard dat ur teenage daughter is in a man's house , as the mother u rush down in panic to the place only to find the door locked. u try to peep inside, no way ! u try to call her phone but it's switched off. The only proof u have is her shoes that are in front of the guy's house! As a smart parent, how will u handle this delicate issue without embarrassing yourself ?

Who cares if I'm embarrassed? I will tear that door down and get her out from that God forsaken room at instant

veave:
If she's underage, the 3 of us will beat ourselves that day until we are tired. If she's not, I'll pick the shoes, we'll continue at home.

3 fighting

She's a teenager and as long as she still lives & survives off of me, I'm in total control of her life and decisions...Or move out and sign an affidavit of independence. Nonsense.

irunoko:
Gbam jide girl

Kuilye ?? wetin do Sambarry I no fit pronounce this moniker sef bad girl

Relate

Denmark

No worries TV01 , it's a public forum sir

5minsmadness:
1. because you have found something in that person more special than sexual attraction.

2.So as to have children for that special person

3. So as to raise children in a stable environment where they can identify a constant father/mother figure

4. So you can have a constant companion to spend the rest of your days with.

In other words; A Boredom Reliever? Sounds too good to be true. The two involved adults hearts must've been double dipped and fried in cement batter ( funny but ain't kidding). I mean their marriage is already long gone dead and have no feelings left for each other. They're mainly together for Kids and for old age. That's not Marriage, that's A long term roommate. And who told you the said kids will respect them in a long run??

Have you heard of a saying ; you can't eat your cake and still hold it?

P.S.. I like your blood work ATM machine though... Dream on bro, dream on hehe

Rejoin

Open relationships.... Albeit may sound great and easy to you, but Not Everyone's ideal option.

I mean, why marry atall

Lollipop

Elopes

MasterJayJay:
This is just an assignment given to a student that approached me. They are going to use it for debate. So I need some points on why male education is better than female education in the family.

Thank you.

You remember those women their husbands murdered in the States? Yeah, they're mostly breadwinners before their husbands took their lives in cold blood. Their husbands couldn't stand them and one of the reason was because of their success.

And because such debates are still being discussed in our homeland and included in syllabuses up untill 2015 to inculcate the "I'm a man and you're a woman so her life ends in the kitchen and she's a nonentity mentality" in our young lads,Then I'm afraid any amount of effort to make that country liveable (violence free) will always be in vein. And such barbaric acts are far from over.

You wanna be devil's advocate? Be the voice of reason and tell them to go to hell Such prejudice Topic deserve zero reception in our community.

I'm not mad oh just saying noni.

Father I declear that I love you, I declear my ever lasting love for you.

Thank you Lord.

Mac Yes. and Thank God you brought it up.

I hope they learn before it's too late. Most African men will resort to domestic violence (that's what they know best), oyinbo man will serve you divorce papers in the parking lot.

@your last quote; Preach!

Have a great day.

edwife:
Yea you did
But you right,I don't have time for arguments -especially when someone is not bent on listening.i always give up

LOL oh no I didnt Good morning ma'am.

Seriously to what extent? I just can't deal Mehn .

Thanks Mac, that's the reigning mentality, they take meekness for mumuness , I have experienced an embarrassing public argument btw a couple, I just shook my head in disgust ( these ones will still go home and make love oh) even if they're okay with that, what about about their children, what are they teaching them, whose kids will emulate their behaviour because it's the norm in their home .... There're some traits to be adopted (if they arent already instilled in you-Home training) when you get married, If you really want happy marriage, power tussle is none of it.

We aren't stûpid, we just cherish Peace over unnecessary Rancour.

*****
I had a long argument with my growing daughter and she just won't take none of it. When I say A she'll reply me with triple B, I was very worried for her because you just can't live like this but thank Goodness for my husband's intervention.
She said, 'no mummy you just don't expect me to be mute when you're talking , I don't want to be a wallpaper'
I was short for words to say the least. Many lines came to mind('this girl can't marry a Nigerian man' was the first line)
My husband said 'baby nobody wants you to be a wallpaper, but it's just disrespectful to talk over your mom's, besides you can pause till she's finished talking then explain your version and she'll listen and reason with you, she's a very quite woman. We want you to be able to express your opinion but nicely and respectfully'

This new instilled behaviour extends to other people in her life, if you don't agree with someone's opinion & rules. Just counter it calmly with common sense. Nobody's gonna listen to your babble because you think you're right. Just shut the hell up and calm down (sorry )

I deal with irrational people everyday in my field of work, resorting to power tussle will only make matters worse and someone will definately get hurt in the end if cares not taken (DV). How much more from a cognitive human being behaving like a rabid dog everytime he/she is not happy with other's decision. Come on Take a chill pill.

Did I talk to much??

maclatunji:
I am more interested in situations where you are totally on the opposite side of your husband's point of view. Do you allow him to move forward based on his judgement without trying to undermine his authority in doing so? Does his moving forward still have to be negotiated?

I transferred some funds into his account and he argued i didn't. I trust him and transferred another fund again right away. But something tells me I did, but because I was lazy and we have a no 'argument pact', I let it go.
Instead of beating the dead horse till we are both blue in the face, I moved on but he didn't. He scrolled through his online bank statements for that month like 50times, ho ho I just continued our convo like it never happened.
Do you believe the dude finally apologized for his oversight and returned my money last week?

I chose PEACE over Winning an Argument.

I think individual temperament has a Great impact in Marriage. How much we can take.

#Patience#

maclatunji:
So, your reaction might depend on the circumstances surrounding you as a couple rather than being a function of trust?

Yes. It's circumstantial i.e Case by case.

I wouldn't call ANYONE a 'function of trust' neither, once the integrity is established pre-Union (foundation) then no problemo, besides like I've stated, we all grow in marriage and develop new skills, knowledge and dynamics to solve problems and make decisions.

That said, like someone funnily earlier stated that most women only marry for comfort and wouldnt care less to study the man they're getting in bed with but to only cry foul when problem arose. 'he's a control freak, blah blah'

Khabuqi:
For his money.

I guess that's a good reason too.

@OP... Life's not white and black. Even a trusted husband still make mistakes over and over again in marriage, so what should we do about that, call him a dumbo to his face, regret marrying him and give up,or the ultimate, kuku divorce him ??

More importantly, Marriage is a continuous learning experience ; we mature in it and our reasonings, decisions & judgement about different situation change as we grow in it. Marriage is full of surprises my friend.

Doomer

They already blasted my phones off 2am today

Parent: hello
Me: Hello ( sleepily)
Parent: oko mi, how are you, just want to say hello
Me: okay , 'we are okay' ( and thot to myself 'but I spoke to you on Sunday '), but I no fit talk it out loud

Lol this Bellong man eh 3hrs kwa ?

dre11:
That is seven letters



Eagles

Oh oh my bad

Wobbly

Today today today ohh today oh, I will lift up my voice in praise, for I know, you're always there for me, Almighty God ehhh, you're my all in all, no matter what they say, when success comes my way I will praise your name...

You are known as worthy lord ehh to be praised and adore
You've been faithful Lord, from the ages past , that is why your name olorukonla is forever more..

Fluid, Flu, Lucid


Ethanol

Otuoke

manoda:
Enlightenment

6 letters

bluehorizo:
damage

Emplore

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