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My mom says that everytime I mean how else am I supposed to turn out biko? Not my problem.

"Long-term-commitment-phobic" ??

People fall in love and cheat when they fall out of love ??

I honestly don't know why??

So let's cut to the chase here ; To go back or not?? Definately

Complicated but this is very simple IMO... One thing I've learnt overtime in marriage is to never fight your parents' fight? This is not her fight.
Her mom has made her stance clear about domestic violence and he's definately a rude & wounded snake with big ego, let him continue though. The mom knows this and they ( mom & him) are both playing silent mind games.

But this shouldn't come between the couple. So to answer your q; NO, I wouldn't leave my matrimonial home for such trivial issue coz this is between two cognitive grown adults.
For all we know, they could be having serious heated convo behind curtains. Hehe , you go fear some no-nonsense parents.

Tell your friend to go back home and bring the kids to their dad. Her mom will understand.

Your girlfriend?? so she's been sleeping with both of you all this while playing mini mini mainimo?? Gosh

There's definately a special fire pit preped and waiting for ALL betrayers and two faced losers in hell .. There has to be ni

OP don't move an inch.. unless you're hungry for party food though

nifeseun:
Smells, slum, ell
Intrique..

7 letter words not 8

Intrigue

Grin, grit, trig,



Patriot

Kindle

Ali-iwo

Immortal God, Invisible God, Immortal God, How Great thou High..

Thank you Lord!

I went to slaughter house to buy meat and saw some akata discarding all the intestines ... What did Ewuro do? Asked them if I could pack the lamb lungs and liver with my own

They could've been cow/iron worshipper for all I care.

OP you did well, I would've lambasted you had you disposed the meat in trash.

Your life .. Your choice.

teeboo:
Most of d times its his family,he'll say dey're my family member nw wots d big deal there,I always insist he put on his cloth and he will ,so I tot am overreacting so I decided to ask here

Why did you leave this out in your initial post.. Some Women sha see as I don roast the man on top nothing na.

Regardless of who the company is, wearing boxers ( tight or loose) whenever you have company sounds ridiculous and uncultured. Boxers short is an underwear period. Well since he's failed to realize what's right from wrong, get him some loose Baggy shorts he can wear around the house. no worries.

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Agrika:
Stingy in-law! some men are just built like that.

He's not stingy. 'thinks it's not that important. Someone has to set him straight - WIFE.

yomi007k:
Learning here...

Hmmm my dear, similar case cause katakata between hubby and I... My man thinks since my parents are well to do and comfortable, they don't need stuff from him atall. He's so scared or should I say paranoid that my parents may see his presents as inferior or small but that's not the case here. Parents ( in-laws) appreciate being acknowledged by their son inlaw especially. It's not that they're starved or needy, it's sends a special message to them that they're not/will never be forgotten.
Ofcourse I'm more than capable to care for my parents . and trust me they know who gives what( esp when you are very close to your parent(s) )


1.Occasional phone calls (birthdays, mother&Father's day,) and not only when there's loss in the family.
2. Christmas / Salah gifts ( even if they don't celebrate as long as someone in the family celebrates this then they must be included too)

You think these are small stuff?.... Try it and see for yourselves.

SAMBARRY:
Eyin ladies and jentumen in the house how una dey. Come and join me as I start to descend on this lonsh

Yum ... Babe you try oh, the fries I mean, looks clean and fresh , as per being homemade. Good job.
Looks like a decent portion to me, how's it different from our 3 course meal we have in restaurants.

I don tok am gbayi ... Your website no fit open o ... More important things to tend to, na Kpata una dey chase.

Only Cabin.

iamrealdeji:
She saw your big gbola and likes to hold it in her hands,so what,if you're interested,go for her but if you ain't,ignore her,but you're interested in phuckin her and that's why you're telling us

OP's twin

helphelp:
Not lust per say, but the look is more or less like a look of "can I at least touch it"

*Shakes head* .... Kai these men en?.. You read her mind ba? We both ( me& you) know what you have up in your sleeves and about to go down in weeks to come, shuo

diaris goduoo, diaris godu oo oga, fear God. Okay na.
Pack your dirty eyes and thots commot for another woman's panties and face front , you have your own. Remain content with her Biko.

These men ehn, chai. "Can I touch wetin"

These is how most of Y'all start your rubish, just take it elsewhere abeg, not her friend. RUBISH

Some women just like stirring up problems for themselves even where & when there's none.

Gosh.

PunkyBrewster:
The times are changing, so well, keep up or shut up.

I can't believe that some men are complaining about spending either

The woman of days long gone used to be submissive, docile etc because the man of that time took care of his responsibilities, so there was really no need for her to be bitchy or whatever. Some men today just whine & whine about the same things that their forefathers did without much coaxing. Who can not be bitchy to a bytch ?

Women have taken more responsibility with the years eg.building careers of their own etc, while some of the men have become poor, pathetic nags who groan & moan about every single thing that the gentleman of the past would have done without the extra lip service given by some "men" today.

So deal. Or go find a boyfriend

DAMN !!!

dre11:
A woman decide to build a house without letting her husband know and you think his healthy for the union


What happens to " two has become one"

Who's talking about what is healthy for the union. Your post about the kids paternity provoked my comment.

Oh so you like the idea of 1plus1 equals 2 too , these men and their ogboju sef.

@OP ... No comment. ( you happy now?)

dre11:
Lady...... Am no more a tenant but a landlord
So, if I should stay there, I won't pay any rent but am gonna start looking for another house and that lady is a suicide bomber and terrorist. She decide to hide that from me....... How am I sure am the owner of those children self

Hmm abere

Get a second job and build your own quick abeg and quit jolosing.

edwife:
Thank you damiso and ewuro,at least i know you ladies love being celebrated as Women.

Ewuro na card i get o ,you too like gift!

I do abeg .. Life's too short jare.

delishpot:
She did not cane me till then. she stopped when I was around 10. But tge years of canning made me feel like I could never do anything right. It was like that till I took charge of my head in my 20 s and said hell no. You are a strong and good person, dont let the past spoil your future.

Na wa oh ..

Was never hit through my growing years. Im very very certain I would be dead if I was. I always cover my face, shivering and covered in hot sweat when they flog my classmates in school. I managed to stay out of trouble. I remember when we (whole class) were to cut the grass and we didn't finish our allocated lot and the teacher was going to flog the whole class . I absconded school that day and was a truant for whole week.

God I thank you. I can't survive any form of violence oh.

Stealing No wonder the boy's hungry. He's reaching for the bologna. what in the world is the ice cream doing in the fridge??

That's one broke ass fridge. Empty and dry. Feed your children and stop spending their benefits on rubbish.

Hmmm Ronnie Ronnie you again??

Happy Birthday my dearest Royal Roy of NL, wishing you all the best things in life. May all your heart desires come to pass even this year 2015 , Segun shall tie that teal Gele in my closet in Jesus name Amen.

Enjoy your day dearie

I smell egusi and ogunfe already.. Sniff sniff

Saao:
I believe orphans(no mother and father) can easily fall into d hand of wrong woman expecially no mother around him to guide him, I maybe wrong. Did u share dsame opinion with me?

OP yes... Every man desires their parents input when selecting a partner .. even though when his mind is already made up. It's just a formality.

So in an orphans case.. Siblings, Aunts&uncles, great-aunts/uncles and grandparents.

Rose gold..Complete set

White gold..

free2ryhme:
I know that engagement rings can be either gold or silver, but can weddings rings be silver or only gold? I've never seen a silver wedding ring before, only gold.

It's not silver but white gold

So yes.... It can. There's even rose gold too.

Ask your Bae which (gold&white&rose) she desires

Women are their own worst enemies. Simples.

An older woman is expected to nurture and care for her son's wife like her own daughter. A younger lady is expected to accord same respect as her parents to her mother in-law.

I wonder what and where the competition is between two and entirely different age group? oshisko

Saao:
Hi everyone

1.Quarrelling in marriage is it the sign that the duo are not compartible?
2.How often did husband and wife should quarrel that is permissible?
3.Finally how did u handle it? I need mature answer and expecially from married people.

1.No... Nobody's perfect buddy. A marriage without quarrel is almost impossible. Although I'm talking healthy quarrel (e.g arguments, which I'm not a big fan of coz it's always end up in resentment, cruel words are said and cannot be taken back) not domestic violence kind oh.

2. I wouldn't proffer a dose of quarell per month/year. Infact I'd say avoid it if possible and rather have the Talk .
But. Couples need to realize that constant fight chips off the affection between you two, constant fights and argument is not healthy atall. And if you must fight, please do it with common sense and be rational about other persons feelings.

3.over the years, I've learnt to stay calm and collected, listen to music, take a dip in swimming pool or run/jog around the block to blow off some steam to clear my head. I realized and learnt how it calms the tension btw both of us and our kids are safe and protected from drama. I really don't like the picture of kids watching parents argue, it's not healthy for their overall wellbeing.

Good Topic Saao, I hope young/intended couples can learn from this.
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