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FrancisTony:
You can have your opinion but using alternate moniker to insult people is uncalled for.

She's newlywed? Anybody can claim what she is not.

Let she who the cap fits, wear it.
I haven't sent a PM sef!!

I read this again & again ... Can't make any sense of it.

Girl you're soo fûcked up. I'm outta here. Supper time.

FÛCKED UP LEECH.

Why would I go undercover when I don't give a fûck about anyone to start with? i only have discourse with people I LIKE, that I Ignore some mentions is not cowardice. not that it matters but then just lecturing your paranoid figurehead.

I gotta go. Toodleloo

You're so idle that the first thing you embarked on this early momo is sending emails to trace IP adresses. Your own has finished. Is this the kinda person to associate with?

Okay I've seen you girl and I don't like what I see , now move to the left.

FrancisTony:
I didn't insult you here.

Y'all should check her IP address with the one I'll send to your mail.
BTW, I don't know who's jidegirl..

Ofcourse you don't know who I am. you fûcking paranoid Shait. Are you that useless and idle offline? Gosh is your grandmother owing mine money that mine publicly disgraced yours and you just can't get over it? Bleep OFF ME YOU LEECH. I don't do shît like you. We are worlds APART. Leave me alone dammit!!

Who made you the IP police? Are you mad? You jump on every thread rubbing my moniker in a mess because I refused to join the bandwagon on here. When is it a crime to have a different view & mentality? May thunder fire you a thousand folds.

The same allegation you made about me being one Lola moniker that eventually turned out to be a newlywed.

Why are you stalking my online activities? Why not face 'thetruth' moniker and fight him/her? If you hate me that much then ignore me and go your way.

Go fûck yourself for all I care.

No workers union , nothing! Nobody tries that veto rubish around here, they'll be paying a fat severance after multiple court visits.

Honestly this is not fair.

I'm guessing nobody own a car or a kid offline amongst any above posters ?

Hug wetin? She's def going on a very long timeout for just playing with that tool.

I showed a 4yr old that Pic and all she did was cover her mouth in astonishment, so she knows thats a destructive act. Hug my foot.

Awesome

Mother

Mynd44 I'll take that amala smiley as a gesture of apology & on behalf of Shymex too. Just shake and make up already.

I'm out.

leave Amala out of yall insult jare.

And Awujale too.

kandiikane:
He probably has a fungal infection. Is his pen!s really dry and scaly?

See Question hehe

OP , answer Missus Kandiikane.

Mynd44:
Hey, why is my name in this list?

I don't roll with that crowd anymore biko

My bad buddy. No one updated me. That's how rustic I can be sorry again.

FrancisTony:
Lol


That can't be you because I know how you type.

By the way, if it's a man behind that moniker, I'll be dissapointed because the user seems jobless with peoples personal info.

I have seen you fight with your real moniker - all those NL monikers acting holy should be dreaded.

Okay then.

We shall see.

Moving on...

FrancisTony:
If she deny it, Ishilove, Lalasticlala and Obinoscopy can check her IP address.

Okay

freecocoa:
If you mean ewuro, just say it.

Ewuro you are my friend btw.

Okay.

FrancisTony:
1) She logged out 9.09pm.

2) She referenced babygirl's marriage on what she told me on another thread and I saw when she was viewing.

3) She was on babyosisi case when she wanted to deactivate.

Her moniker is E****.

Now this is getting scarier

Who da fouk is babygirl? I'm always on hoesisi aka First Lady's case so that's no news, I don't like her & whatever the Fûck she represents & her followers so the feeling is mutual , thank you very much

Girl , stop stalking my online activities , it's obvious you're a girl with loaded butthurt from my Jidegirl war era. I must've caused you a lot of pain and heartbreak and you know I'm a lion. I don't fight unless im provoked. So, Leave me the FÛCK alone and stop stalking me. I deliberately ignore your apology post on the other thread because I know how mischievous you are and honestly , You bore me. But if you really want to fight then I'm gonna have to hit the basement & find my gloves.

To ishilove , Royalroy, Seun, Lalasticlala , mynd44, obinoscopy: I have never called , neither ran to you about about anybody except to report an offensive post directed to me. Francistony has repeatedly and deliberately provoked and insulted me on this forum and am positive you ishilove is aware of this but since you're friends I guess it doesn't matter.
This is violation of rule #2. Do the needful & that's all I'm gonna say.

I Ewuro promise to violently shake this place NEXT TIME this girl named Francistony incite any bullish reference or false information against my moniker.

THIRD TIME IS THE CHARM.

Thank you.

keni315:
Good evening guys, another interesting topic i want us to discuss

we all know that we women or let me say ladies are multi-task doers i.e we engage in more than one work at a time and most times we cant split ourselves to two. And most men are easily disgusted and irritated so the question is: As a loving husband or husband to be can you change your baby's diaper or wash your baby's poo for you wife-HONEST OPINOIN PLEASE

Hubby changed our First's diaper at the hospital for the first time in his entire life (awwww) Go figure.

You'll do anything for the ones you GENUINELY LOVE... no need for power tussle.

@Original Post... WHATEVER ROCKS MY/ OTHERS BOAT ... If onlookers have a problem with how I treat my hubby & vice versa, they can look the other way. I don't live to please anyone.

I don't do gender role shait.. We roll differently in my hood.

The F word again?

fem29:
Hi family section mums and dads

My kids are just starting school in September and I'm FINALLY going to start working again by Gods grace. Trying to plan ahead. We all know how expensive childcare is abroad. What do you do with your kids during the hols, especially summer hols. Most people that I've asked use a nanny but I'm really wary of leaving my kids alone with a minder for such long hours whilst they are still so young. Advice is very welcome

Cc babygirlfl, Damiso, ewuro4 and any other parent, gracias

My dear na nanny oh and I claim it on my annual income tax. And hubby helps a lot since we both have flexible schedule. However 4year olds are still pretty young for day camps Fem, I have one too so I know.They still need naps and breaks from that long stretch day camp activities. I remembered I tried day camp with my second daughter at that age and I was called in @11am at work to come get her.

Also, be smart about your work schedule for starters , part time would be your best bet so you don't end up paying half of your wage for childcare. Doesn't make sense.

Another option and the best so far, is to bring your mom/MIL (or another trusted relative) over for the whole school year (10months) and work full time and take all summer off to spend quality time with them, so your mom willtake a break too, you guys are even lucky Naija's a stone throw from there.
N.B .. You can only do the above with older folks.
I'm shipping mine to their grandparents after summer trainning before family Vaca. Miolewaparami.

I'm excited you're about to get your groove back, You go girl!

Miami11:
Don't you think mother in law has been helped when sick, or pregnant
so now family should not help the sick, pregnant, and vulnerable people nonsense

Where in my post did I imply not being helped?

Yall expectation is off the roof. If yall can't handle/tolerate 'her way' then get a maid! Nonsenseee

Write off .... And no insurance in Naija

Lordy why did I open this thread? I am about to have a tongue seizure

Miami11:
Why are some men that have never carried a pregnancy or pushed a baby through there ass cutting this foul mother in law some slack.
The mother in law went there for a specific reason, to help new mother and baby, she is not on vacation for crying out loud, nobody begged her to go there, it is a cultural practice. I am sure if she was at her own daughters house she would be killing herself with work.
I hate when we start treating silly older folks like incumbent babies, Op please ask her politely to help
Why bother go visit this couple. If she cannot help,
Those accusing the Op need to swallow a chill pill smh
Chai, wickedness oo!

'Smh' you too

All of you people should go and hire a maid to care for your wards or use your husbands and stop feeling annoyingly entitiled. Your MILs are doing you a favor and not glorified HOUSEMAIDS.

Omo rere bii IYAN.

tearoses:
LOL
In a normal marriage, without trust issues, then it shouldnt have been a problem, but since one does not know what is going on with the couple behind their closed doors, especially as this is a person one hasnt seen/heard from in such a long time, then its better to err on the side of caution until one knows whats up.

In this circumstance, a fb birthday message would have been sufficient IMO . . .just as all her other old fb friends would have done. He found out about the birthday on FB and He hasnt callled her for 5 years.

There was also the mixup with the name
Sounds like the hubby was confused that the name she had saved the Op's name was different from the name on the message
We dont know what issues are on ground between bro Akpan and that family before now.

One has to be wise jare, especially when stepping into unknown territory .

True yarn.

@bold.., hmmm many mysterious deaths and one begin to wonder why.

I agree one has to thread carefully jare.

Damanturu